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Destro
Netherlands1206 Posts
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
On November 27 2012 20:13 Tommie wrote: I agree with the last point you make but I do agree with the OP that proper dating very difficult. It's not difficult to get girls but to find one who is capable of talking about the relationship, who knows what she wants and who isn't fickle/insecure or a total bitch is pretty difficult. I don't like girls, they don't turn me on anymore. Young women, they do. Last point being my reference to marriage not winning the game? I think you're confusing difficult with hard work. You work hard to build a good career/business/product, you work hard at skills to improve, dating isn't any different. I don't find it difficult to meet women who aren't total bitches and everyone has their insecurities, some deal with them better than others. If however you're constantly falling in love with total bitches or extremely insecure women, what does that say about you? | ||
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TsGBruzze
Sweden1190 Posts
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khaydarin9
Australia423 Posts
On November 27 2012 20:13 Tommie wrote: I agree with the last point you make but I do agree with the OP that proper dating very difficult. It's not difficult to get girls but to find one who is capable of talking about the relationship, who knows what she wants and who isn't fickle/insecure or a total bitch is pretty difficult. One could say the equivalent about men. Just sayin' - women aren't the singular factor making relationships "difficult". EDIT: OP's attitude works both ways. Perhaps the reason he has difficulty finding women who are "worth his time" is that those women don't consider him worth their time. | ||
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Thrill
2599 Posts
On November 27 2012 12:42 Clutch8 wrote: Dating is astronomically difficult. Women today have no clue what they want in their early 20's, and guys with a good head on their shoulders focus on career and personal life goals to build a life they eventually want to share. Charming a women is easy. It's all body language and confidence. Finding a women worth my time, my emotional investment, and eventually to share a life with feels, at times, impossible. Wtf is this? Seriously. | ||
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kierpanda
United States757 Posts
On November 27 2012 18:40 FractalsOnFire wrote: I like the sentiment. Don't like the message. Its not astronomically difficult. Its doable but just like everything else in life you have to work for it. Meet girls when you're doing errands, when you hang out with friends or set up an online profile if you want. Turn yourself into an attractive man. But I know the reasons why it seems hard and difficult, I've been there and still are. But you persevere, you keep at it because you know at the end, it will be worth it. Also I don't see why marriage should be 'winning the game of life'. T__T Why is it the woman who has to be worth your time? Why isn't the guy who has to be worth our time too? A relationship is 50/50! I agree with Fractals; marriage does not mean winning. Some marriages will crash and burn -- that doesn't seem like winning to me. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
On November 28 2012 09:03 kierpanda wrote: T__T Why is it the woman who has to be worth your time? Why isn't the guy who has to be worth our time too? A relationship is 50/50! I agree with Fractals; marriage does not mean winning. Some marriages will crash and burn -- that doesn't seem like winning to me. So I was thinking you were a guy for a second, then I realised you weren't ahaahaha. Was going to write something tailored for a male. Well the assumption here is that you're building yourself to be a valuable man, someone who can (potentially) provide, connect and love a woman. Plus all the qualities like being open, honest, secure, confident etc. Horses for courses though, each girl has their own set of expectations and desires. | ||
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