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Topic about first contact here when I gave her the pie
So basically there was this hot blonde that I saw during dinner one day and I gave her a pie during dinner. She is not in any of my classes, does not live in my dorm, nor do we have mutual friends so that sort of makes it hard to start a conversation. what to do. Do I go up and just start talking to her about the weather? Do I start with my name? I don't even know anything about her, but I wanted to find out more about her but couldn't coz I don't have a solid way of contacting her.
So during dinner today, I was just sitting and eating and enjoying my stir fry wif stiky rice with my friends having a quiet dinner. About the time I am done and just talking and chatting, hot blonde comes in and sits down a couple tables in front of me. Soon after, her friend comes in and sits with her, but just one friend.
At this point I know that I have this one opportunity to talk to her now. I couldn't think of an excuse to go up to her and start saying something though.
Just when I was out of ideas, her friend got up and left to get some more food. My heart might have skipped a beat, but since that is controlled involuntarily I wouldn't know for sure. Just as fast as the opportunity came up, I stalled and ended up not moving. Her friend comes back. Nothing happens.
Just when I was about to give up, I notice that she gets up from the table to get some more food. I watch her as she gets up and walks to the cafeteria area. Not even the slightest eye contact spark here even.
BUT then when she came back from the area, she was walking in a path that was directly behind my chair. As soon as she gets close enough, I say
hey!
she responds with a friendly hey and continues walking away. At this point I have one chance and I make the best of it. I get up from my seat with no explanation to any of my friends and walk off with her.
I told her that she was very pretty and that was distracting my dinner and thus ruining my evening for me. She said she was sorry. I said no you're not.
she didn't say anything but replied with a smile. We had gotten to her table and her friend.
I payed no attention to her friend and asked the blonde what she was doing tonight? She said she was hanging out with her friend that she was eating with for the night so that she couldn't hang out tonight. Then she thanked me for the pie that I gave her again and said it was very delicious.
I told her that since she 'ruined' my dinner that she should repay me in the future. I took out my phone and handed it to her so she could put her number in. She did. :D After she handed my phone back, I told her that she also owes me for the pie that I gave her too.
With that, I departed from the table and she resumed eating with her friend. Back at the table, my friends were getting ready to go. They had witnessed the whole event so when I got back they asked what I was doing. I just told them that I thought she was hot and so I went to get her number.
Honestly I think the part that felt the strangest to me was that my friends were watching me while I was gaming so it was sort of like having a peanut gallery crowd to comment on what you were doing afterwords.
Im just happy though that I got her number  Now I will probably cheese some suckers on ladder and watch GSL for the rest of the night lol
  
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James Bond, get off the forums and go save the world ffs
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Alpha as fuck OP, nicely done, you may have even given me the balls to go try something like that. Thank you, best of luck with your future endeavours with this girl.
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Have you tried the number to see if it is legit? I'm only half joking...
Anyhow, grats on going after what you want. I mean it.
However, the way you relate some of your interactions with girls in these blogs comes off as pretty awkward/creepy. That could be just that it doesn't translate well into a forum post, though.
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"fuck im so pissed" -> cheese people on ladder
"fuck im so happy" -> cheese people on ladder
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Good job dude! I must say with my current girlfriend being my only one ever I am quite inexperienced in the courting (although I'd like to think I'd be better at it now then before I was in a relationship).
Way to have the balls to go talk to her. GL in the future.
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Grats on two stars, quite the feat.
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Yeah sometimes these appear super awkward lol. Hopefully they go better than that in real life.
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That's awesome, I would not do that, especially if I had friends watching. It's impressive you are still blogging, and presenting a honest representation of events, regardless of what people say. Something about it makes me want to encourage you.
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Good job, seems like your fellow TL readers' advice is actually paying off for you. You are welcome.
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Well, it seems like when you do go for it you pull it off in style. Given the way you actually reacted when talking to the gal, I'm a little surprised it took you so long to actually go up and talk to her.
Always nice to read the successful/positive girl blogs.
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Saying 'hi' as she goes past your seat then getting up and following her is creepy. The whole interaction just seems super awkward plus she thought of the easiest excuse off the top of her head.
"Umm yeah i'm hanging out with my friend here, all night, so i can't 'hang out."
She just gave you her number to end the awkwardness imo. Seems fair enough since you're some random guy making her uncomfortable. Do you even know her name?
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good job. who cares if it was slightly awkward or whatever. you got the result - the number.
but just be less awkward nxt time haha
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Yeah he got the result: the number. That's how i get off.
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Katowice25012 Posts
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On October 06 2012 13:23 Scarecrow wrote:
Saying 'hi' as she goes past your seat then getting up and following her is creepy. The whole interaction just seems super awkward plus she thought of the easiest excuse off the top of her head.
"Umm yeah i'm hanging out with my friend here, all night, so i can't 'hang out."
She just gave you her number to end the awkwardness imo. Seems fair enough since you're some random guy making her uncomfortable. Do you even know her name?
I asked her for it. I do know her name yes and I didn't want her to cancel a part of her weekend for me because most people plan ahead what they do for the weekend
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On October 06 2012 13:23 Scarecrow wrote:
Saying 'hi' as she goes past your seat then getting up and following her is creepy. The whole interaction just seems super awkward plus she thought of the easiest excuse off the top of her head.
Saying hi is definitely not awkward. Following her to her seat isn't the best, and could come off as creepy but who cares? Better to talk to her than not. If you follow up well you're fine anyway, and the rest of the interaction won't be awkward. One awkward moment does not doom the entire interaction to awkwardness.
"Umm yeah i'm hanging out with my friend here, all night, so i can't 'hang out."
She just gave you her number to end the awkwardness imo. Seems fair enough since you're some random guy making her uncomfortable. Do you even know her name?
He's met her before, so their was some prior context. As far as the number, it may or may not be hers. If it's a fake number your certainly on track, and if she doesn't really respond when he calls/texts her that will also confirm the situation.
Other than the possible exception of following her back to the table the interaction is fine. While we don't know for sure the OPs demeanor and such what he actually said is fine and done properly comes off as playful teasing and is not remotely awkward or unpleasant for either party.
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These blogs are getting pretty boring, lol.
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bitches love pillows pies
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Man, if only she had hugged you, then you'd know for sure.
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Ah phone numbers. I wouldn't read too much into it just cause she gave you 'her's'. Could be fake, could be just to get you to stop, could be she's interested. Don't get too excited or set expectations high.
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On October 06 2012 09:20 synapse wrote:
"fuck im so pissed" -> cheese people on ladder
"fuck im so happy" -> cheese people on ladder
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All day errday bro
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Getting the number is easy, the follow up is ten times harder. Good luck, and let us know how it goes. If you manage to pick up a girl with pie that's epic :p
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I actually liked this one, gj bro
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You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
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On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line
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On October 07 2012 00:47 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line
This.
And how do you know if he was creepy? This type of thing can come off really awkward and creepy, or it can come off very playful and fun. You don't have any way of knowing how the interaction actually went.
I get the impression some people think it's going to be creepy if you go up and talk to a random girl that you don't know.
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Have your friends tape it next time. GL OP
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On October 07 2012 03:17 L_Master wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2012 00:47 StateofReverie wrote:On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line This. And how do you know if he was creepy? This type of thing can come off really awkward and creepy, or it can come off very playful and fun. You don't have any way of knowing how the interaction actually went. I get the impression some people think it's going to be creepy if you go up and talk to a random girl that you don't know.
Usually meeting new people involves talking to people you have never talked to before, strangers.
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On October 07 2012 03:22 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2012 03:17 L_Master wrote:On October 07 2012 00:47 StateofReverie wrote:On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line This. And how do you know if he was creepy? This type of thing can come off really awkward and creepy, or it can come off very playful and fun. You don't have any way of knowing how the interaction actually went. I get the impression some people think it's going to be creepy if you go up and talk to a random girl that you don't know. Usually meeting new people involves talking to people you have never talked to before, strangers.
Exactly.
I guess I should rephrase the and clarify that what I mean is that it seems from reading the responses here that many people think it's creepy if your doing it without a "standard" social context (i.e. a classmate, at a club meeting, campus event) which I think is silly. There is nothing inherently "creepy" about going up and talking to someone you don't know if your just out shopping at the mall, walking down the street, or whatever.
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On October 07 2012 03:48 L_Master wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2012 03:22 StateofReverie wrote:On October 07 2012 03:17 L_Master wrote:On October 07 2012 00:47 StateofReverie wrote:On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line This. And how do you know if he was creepy? This type of thing can come off really awkward and creepy, or it can come off very playful and fun. You don't have any way of knowing how the interaction actually went. I get the impression some people think it's going to be creepy if you go up and talk to a random girl that you don't know. Usually meeting new people involves talking to people you have never talked to before, strangers. Exactly. I guess I should rephrase the and clarify that what I mean is that it seems from reading the responses here that many people think it's creepy if your doing it without a "standard" social context (i.e. a classmate, at a club meeting, campus event) which I think is silly. There is nothing inherently "creepy" about going up and talking to someone you don't know if your just out shopping at the mall, walking down the street, or whatever. ya i know. Its just cool how different people will respond differently to the same thing
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no matter what the outcome is i must say
i admire your guts man!
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On October 07 2012 04:10 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2012 03:48 L_Master wrote:On October 07 2012 03:22 StateofReverie wrote:On October 07 2012 03:17 L_Master wrote:On October 07 2012 00:47 StateofReverie wrote:On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line This. And how do you know if he was creepy? This type of thing can come off really awkward and creepy, or it can come off very playful and fun. You don't have any way of knowing how the interaction actually went. I get the impression some people think it's going to be creepy if you go up and talk to a random girl that you don't know. Usually meeting new people involves talking to people you have never talked to before, strangers. Exactly. I guess I should rephrase the and clarify that what I mean is that it seems from reading the responses here that many people think it's creepy if your doing it without a "standard" social context (i.e. a classmate, at a club meeting, campus event) which I think is silly. There is nothing inherently "creepy" about going up and talking to someone you don't know if your just out shopping at the mall, walking down the street, or whatever. ya i know. Its just cool how different people will respond differently to the same thing
Definitely.
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ive been saying hes a troll from the beginning. as he posts more it is clear he is trying harder and harder to get a response and thus ironically, not getting the responses because more people can see through it and are no longer entertained.
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On October 06 2012 16:27 FractalsOnFire wrote:
Ah phone numbers. I wouldn't read too much into it just cause she gave you 'her's'. Could be fake, could be just to get you to stop, could be she's interested. Don't get too excited or set expectations high.
This.
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On October 07 2012 00:47 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line
You actually did use a pick up line. The whole "ruining" your dinner play was in essence a pick line (a terrible and weird play to make but none the less, it was a play). Good job at getting the number but playing a guilt card like that instantly makes the conversation go awkward and with her friend being there I'd say the result is going to be even worse.
Personally, I think she gave you the number out of pity just to end the conversation. I could be wrong and I really hope I am! Good luck and update us please!!!!!
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this is a case where someone is jamming a square peg into a round hole -- but is ramming the thing so damn hard that it might actually work...
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On October 07 2012 14:31 Shelke14 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2012 00:47 StateofReverie wrote:On October 07 2012 00:06 (The Doctor) wrote:
You know, there's this trick that they teach nice girls who don't like being mean to people. For example, say a dude follows a girl to her table, asks what she is doing tonight after using cheesy (and fairly creepy) "pick-up lines", and then asks for her number. What does she do? The girl, not wanting to be mean but wanting to make the guy go away, will give him a fake number. In fact, if the girl is often accosted by males (and if she is hot as you say, then this is likely the case), she probably has a fake number that she routinely uses.
TLDR: don't get your hopes up. You are still creepy, and just because girls don't tell you to F off doesn't mean they are interested. It just means that they don't like being mean to people.
I didnt use a pick up line You actually did use a pick up line. The whole "ruining" your dinner play was in essence a pick line (a terrible and weird play to make but none the less, it was a play). Good job at getting the number but playing a guilt card like that instantly makes the conversation go awkward and with her friend being there I'd say the result is going to be even worse. Personally, I think she gave you the number out of pity just to end the conversation. I could be wrong and I really hope I am! Good luck and update us please!!!!!
gonna text her probably today or tomorrow whenever I have time or feel up to it
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Calgary25996 Posts
So much analysis from the peanut gallery. Jesus.
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Looks like OP attended Swag101.
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