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Topic about first contact here when I gave her the pie
So basically there was this hot blonde that I saw during dinner one day and I gave her a pie during dinner. She is not in any of my classes, does not live in my dorm, nor do we have mutual friends so that sort of makes it hard to start a conversation. what to do. Do I go up and just start talking to her about the weather? Do I start with my name? I don't even know anything about her, but I wanted to find out more about her but couldn't coz I don't have a solid way of contacting her.
So during dinner today, I was just sitting and eating and enjoying my stir fry wif stiky rice with my friends having a quiet dinner. About the time I am done and just talking and chatting, hot blonde comes in and sits down a couple tables in front of me. Soon after, her friend comes in and sits with her, but just one friend.
At this point I know that I have this one opportunity to talk to her now. I couldn't think of an excuse to go up to her and start saying something though.
Just when I was out of ideas, her friend got up and left to get some more food. My heart might have skipped a beat, but since that is controlled involuntarily I wouldn't know for sure. Just as fast as the opportunity came up, I stalled and ended up not moving. Her friend comes back. Nothing happens.
Just when I was about to give up, I notice that she gets up from the table to get some more food. I watch her as she gets up and walks to the cafeteria area. Not even the slightest eye contact spark here even.
BUT then when she came back from the area, she was walking in a path that was directly behind my chair. As soon as she gets close enough, I say
hey!
she responds with a friendly hey and continues walking away. At this point I have one chance and I make the best of it. I get up from my seat with no explanation to any of my friends and walk off with her.
I told her that she was very pretty and that was distracting my dinner and thus ruining my evening for me. She said she was sorry. I said no you're not.
she didn't say anything but replied with a smile. We had gotten to her table and her friend.
I payed no attention to her friend and asked the blonde what she was doing tonight? She said she was hanging out with her friend that she was eating with for the night so that she couldn't hang out tonight. Then she thanked me for the pie that I gave her again and said it was very delicious.
I told her that since she 'ruined' my dinner that she should repay me in the future. I took out my phone and handed it to her so she could put her number in. She did. :D After she handed my phone back, I told her that she also owes me for the pie that I gave her too.
With that, I departed from the table and she resumed eating with her friend. Back at the table, my friends were getting ready to go. They had witnessed the whole event so when I got back they asked what I was doing. I just told them that I thought she was hot and so I went to get her number.
Honestly I think the part that felt the strangest to me was that my friends were watching me while I was gaming so it was sort of like having a peanut gallery crowd to comment on what you were doing afterwords.
Im just happy though that I got her number  Now I will probably cheese some suckers on ladder and watch GSL for the rest of the night lol
  
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James Bond, get off the forums and go save the world ffs
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Alpha as fuck OP, nicely done, you may have even given me the balls to go try something like that. Thank you, best of luck with your future endeavours with this girl.
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Have you tried the number to see if it is legit? I'm only half joking...
Anyhow, grats on going after what you want. I mean it.
However, the way you relate some of your interactions with girls in these blogs comes off as pretty awkward/creepy. That could be just that it doesn't translate well into a forum post, though.
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"fuck im so pissed" -> cheese people on ladder
"fuck im so happy" -> cheese people on ladder
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Good job dude! I must say with my current girlfriend being my only one ever I am quite inexperienced in the courting (although I'd like to think I'd be better at it now then before I was in a relationship).
Way to have the balls to go talk to her. GL in the future.
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Grats on two stars, quite the feat.
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Yeah sometimes these appear super awkward lol. Hopefully they go better than that in real life.
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That's awesome, I would not do that, especially if I had friends watching. It's impressive you are still blogging, and presenting a honest representation of events, regardless of what people say. Something about it makes me want to encourage you.
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Good job, seems like your fellow TL readers' advice is actually paying off for you. You are welcome.
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Well, it seems like when you do go for it you pull it off in style. Given the way you actually reacted when talking to the gal, I'm a little surprised it took you so long to actually go up and talk to her.
Always nice to read the successful/positive girl blogs.
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Saying 'hi' as she goes past your seat then getting up and following her is creepy. The whole interaction just seems super awkward plus she thought of the easiest excuse off the top of her head.
"Umm yeah i'm hanging out with my friend here, all night, so i can't 'hang out."
She just gave you her number to end the awkwardness imo. Seems fair enough since you're some random guy making her uncomfortable. Do you even know her name?
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good job. who cares if it was slightly awkward or whatever. you got the result - the number.
but just be less awkward nxt time haha
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Yeah he got the result: the number. That's how i get off.
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Katowice25012 Posts
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On October 06 2012 13:23 Scarecrow wrote:
Saying 'hi' as she goes past your seat then getting up and following her is creepy. The whole interaction just seems super awkward plus she thought of the easiest excuse off the top of her head.
"Umm yeah i'm hanging out with my friend here, all night, so i can't 'hang out."
She just gave you her number to end the awkwardness imo. Seems fair enough since you're some random guy making her uncomfortable. Do you even know her name?
I asked her for it. I do know her name yes and I didn't want her to cancel a part of her weekend for me because most people plan ahead what they do for the weekend
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On October 06 2012 13:23 Scarecrow wrote:
Saying 'hi' as she goes past your seat then getting up and following her is creepy. The whole interaction just seems super awkward plus she thought of the easiest excuse off the top of her head.
Saying hi is definitely not awkward. Following her to her seat isn't the best, and could come off as creepy but who cares? Better to talk to her than not. If you follow up well you're fine anyway, and the rest of the interaction won't be awkward. One awkward moment does not doom the entire interaction to awkwardness.
"Umm yeah i'm hanging out with my friend here, all night, so i can't 'hang out."
She just gave you her number to end the awkwardness imo. Seems fair enough since you're some random guy making her uncomfortable. Do you even know her name?
He's met her before, so their was some prior context. As far as the number, it may or may not be hers. If it's a fake number your certainly on track, and if she doesn't really respond when he calls/texts her that will also confirm the situation.
Other than the possible exception of following her back to the table the interaction is fine. While we don't know for sure the OPs demeanor and such what he actually said is fine and done properly comes off as playful teasing and is not remotely awkward or unpleasant for either party.
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These blogs are getting pretty boring, lol.
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