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Grumbels
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Netherlands7031 Posts
February 08 2012 18:12 GMT
#1
The nice thing about classic literature is the lack of copyright, so they make inexpensive yet enjoyable gifts. I bought a set of three novels at the university's bookstore the other day and I planned to gift one to a female friend. I haven't read them yet though, since seemingly reading books wrecks their appearance, and I didn't research any of them in particular too much out of fear for spoilers, so it's hard to decide which one to give her.

The books are Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf, To the Lighthouse (by Virginia Woolf, they were next to each other in the store ^^) and The Great Gatsby by Fitzgerald.

The first one has been made into a successful movie (apparently) so I'm worried if I give it to her she'll just watch that and pretend to have read it. >.>

The second one seems more like having a peculiar stream-of-consciousness style, which I imagine you need to have a special affinity for (so it's not so accessible).

About The Great Gatsby, I read a review some months ago which said it was rather brilliant and to the point - so perfect for a gift - but also has a strong undercurrent of bitterness and you can sort of see why the author ended as a drunken wreck later in his life. (says the review) So this sounds all too gloomy for a birthday gift.

Any opinions?

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Well, now I tell you, I never seen good come o' goodness yet. Him as strikes first is my fancy; dead men don't bite; them's my views--amen, so be it.
nbaker
Profile Joined July 2009
United States1341 Posts
February 08 2012 18:16 GMT
#2
Hmm, giving people books as gifts can make them feel guilty and uncomfortable for not reading it. I don't suggest giving them a book unless you know they love to read, in which case any of those books are probably fine. Generally, though, if I give someone a book I like to have read it myself so we can talk about it together.
defenestrate
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States579 Posts
February 08 2012 18:24 GMT
#3
Don't give books unless you know your friend's literary preferences or can vouch for the book from personal experience.
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Mandarinez
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States52 Posts
February 08 2012 18:27 GMT
#4
Is said female friend in some sort of loveless relationship? If not, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf might send her the wrong message...
DarkPlasmaBall
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States45338 Posts
February 08 2012 18:29 GMT
#5
I read The Great Gatsby in tenth grade. For my English class. It was required reading >.>

It was all right.

I usually don't buy books as gifts (or expects books as gifts) unless they're asked for. It's really easy to get it wrong.
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Kipsate
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Netherlands45349 Posts
February 08 2012 18:33 GMT
#6
The Great Gatsby is not really an easy read, you'd have to make sure she's actually like those ''kinds'' of books.
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Grumbels
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Netherlands7031 Posts
February 08 2012 18:35 GMT
#7
1. nobody's forcing her to read a book 2. I won't go ahead and bring it up daily to remind her of it 3. she likes reading 4. she has no literary preferences since she just every few months reads some random book 5. lots of classics are fun independent of your preferences, that's why they're classics 6. I bought her Wuthering Heights last year and she liked that
Well, now I tell you, I never seen good come o' goodness yet. Him as strikes first is my fancy; dead men don't bite; them's my views--amen, so be it.
SOyuncastor
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Mexico40 Posts
February 08 2012 19:08 GMT
#8
the first 2 books are so damn hard to read if you are like me: a male and without patience.

all 3 books are really good but I had to watch the movie (1st book) just in order to get used to that train of thought that Virginia Woolf does on her writing.

I think she would like your gift.
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Fishgle
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
United States2174 Posts
February 08 2012 19:30 GMT
#9
If she enjoyed Wuthering Heights, she's probably fine with the challenge of Woolf, but whether she cares at all for the story is another thing. Great Gatsby is the fucking Great Gatsby. Everyone's gotta love that book.

I would be happy with these gifts.
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DreamChaser
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
1649 Posts
February 08 2012 19:31 GMT
#10
The only book i know of the the three mentioned is the Great Gatsby, if you know a little history about the time (roaring twenties) the book is enjoyable because you are able to connect the dots easily. But i think a lot of high schools make that a required reading so theres a chance she has read it.
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Banteng
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
United States148 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-08 19:33:47
February 08 2012 19:33 GMT
#11
Oh man, oh man, I read To The Lighthouse this past summer for a class. Because I'm bad at budgeting time, I read it all in one sitting, so that may have bothered my interpretation, but I didn't particularly enjoy it. The best scene in it was a dinner party in which one of the females commented that the woman really has to lead an awkward and nerdy guy through conversation because they can't do so themselves, haha ^^. Overall though, it was a pretty arduous read.

I haven't read the book nor seen the movie for Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf, but I've seen some people do scenes from it in forensics competitions-- from these little pieces, it seems pretty interesting.

All my friends love The Great Gatsby though and it's on my to-read shelf; I would go with that one, just on the word of my friends.
endy
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Switzerland8970 Posts
February 08 2012 19:42 GMT
#12
I haven't read any of the books you're going to offer, but to everyone saying that a book can possibly not be a nice gift, I just want to say that my best Christmas gift ever was a 10$ book series and it changed my life.

What's a little bit risky with classics is that she may have had to read it in class a few years back, and in that case that would kinda suck.
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mmp
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States2130 Posts
February 08 2012 22:00 GMT
#13
Just be mindful to pick books that you think the recipient will like, not one that you think you'd like, or that you think the recipient should read (self-help in particular == bad idea, unless you have a right to be paternal). Just give them what they want.
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mmp
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States2130 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-08 22:02:56
February 08 2012 22:02 GMT
#14
Personally, I think candy is a better gift.

Can't she just hit up a library whenever she wants to read "literature".
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Grumbels
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Netherlands7031 Posts
February 08 2012 23:02 GMT
#15
On February 09 2012 07:02 mmp wrote:
Personally, I think candy is a better gift.

Can't she just hit up a library whenever she wants to read "literature".

I bought her candy to package with the book, but I got hungry and ate it.
Well, now I tell you, I never seen good come o' goodness yet. Him as strikes first is my fancy; dead men don't bite; them's my views--amen, so be it.
Forgottenfrog
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
United States1268 Posts
February 08 2012 23:17 GMT
#16
On February 09 2012 08:02 Grumbels wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 09 2012 07:02 mmp wrote:
Personally, I think candy is a better gift.

Can't she just hit up a library whenever she wants to read "literature".

I bought her candy to package with the book, but I got hungry and ate it.


I suggest give her the wrappers. At least its one less obligated thing to read.
zalz
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
Netherlands3704 Posts
February 08 2012 23:18 GMT
#17
On February 09 2012 07:02 mmp wrote:
Personally, I think candy is a better gift.

Can't she just hit up a library whenever she wants to read "literature".


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