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Hi guys, you all may remember me from this blog : [Blog that you should read so that you would understand what I will be talking about]
So today, I was on the bus home from school today and I saw the exact same girl. I was really nervous and I just sat very far away from her on the bus. So, when she got off the bus ( I was sitting rows behind her ) she was greeted by some guy [I think of this guy to be her boyfriend] and she hugged him.
That's it I guess, thanks for listening.
Also, I would like to leave you all with an excerpt from the book 'Jane Eyre'.
It is as if I had a string somewhere under my left ribs, tightly and also inextricably knotted to a similar string situated in the corresponding quarter of your slender frame. And if that we were to be separated by a boisterous piece of land, by time, or by age, I'am afraid that this cord of communion will be snapped, and then I would begin to bleed inwardly.
PS; To anyone asking, no, I do not know this girl personally.
  
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On September 27 2011 19:19 SilverSkyLark wrote:
How old are you?
14
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On September 27 2011 19:20 Azera wrote:14
Losing ain't so bad at that age.
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I skimmed over your other blog and really think you should take heed of what Chill said. Primarily how much you think other people judge you. It just seems like you need to chill out a fair bit, you're only 14, you've got your whole life ahead of you!
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On September 27 2011 19:23 SilverSkyLark wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 19:20 Azera wrote:On September 27 2011 19:19 SilverSkyLark wrote:
How old are you? 14 Losing ain't so bad at that age.
On September 27 2011 19:24 Teras wrote:
I skimmed over your other blog and really think you should take heed of what Chill said. Primarily how much you think other people judge you. It just seems like you need to chill out a fair bit, you're only 14, you've got your whole life ahead of you!
Yeah, losing might not be as bad as it is now compared to later on in life. But, I'm sure you guys remember your first heartbreak too. I'm just sad, that's all.
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Yeah, I can hear that it feels pretty sad, but that's not real heartbreak. All you had on this girl was a crush: you didn't know her at all. From my experience, crushes can be intense, but they don't take too long to get over--I'd say a week, tops.
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if shes got a bf, thats only one man you need to fight against. if shes single, you need to fight against everyone
anyways, i read your other blog and id be perfectly happy with my 'balls in her purse.' if my woman earns more money than me, thats fine by me
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u gotta skate
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did you actually know this girl?
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which secondary school do you go to? also, don't be silly. the guy was her brother.
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You know her having a bf doesn't mean she can't ALSO have feelings for you, right ?
And you also know that out of the 4 billions on women, 300 millions are around your age, and you've maybe met 300 of them ? It's just the first 0.0001% ! You still have a long way to go before you can be sure you actually lost anything.
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First heartbreak is always hard to deal with; any heartbreak at any age is hard to deal with. Being older some of us look back at some of these events and think it seems irrelevant, but the fact that we still remember them proves otherwise. Even though it means something, eventually you will move on.
I don't have a great deal of understanding about the culture and interaction of women and men in Singapore but in Canada a hug can be a greeting for just a friend. If you are 14 you should just talk to this girl. I realize that this is a difficult thing to do, it may be one of the hardest things you do at that age but doing it will make you feel better, in both the short and long term. Two different things will probably happen:
The good might be that you talk and become a couple, the bad being she is not interested and you get embarrassed. I understand that this is a difficult thing to do, but doing it will make you feel better. It's easier to get over embarrassment than the feeling of wondering what could have happened.
Also thinking so far into the future may be important for certain aspects of life, but when talking to a girl at 14 years old, do not think about what could happen so far into the future, take a day to day approach, at least until it maybe becomes a serious relationship, so thinking about money and a relationship when you are 25 is not the best idea, anything can happen in 5-10 years.
I hope that helped with your girl problem. As for your difficulties with school, if you need any advice or information about the IB program from a recent graduate I went through the Primary Years Program, Middle Years Program and the Diploma Program for a total of 9 years. I received my IB diploma in 2009 and a scholarship to University even though I had difficulties with my first language(English) and Math. If you have any questions about IB I would be happy to answer them.
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On September 27 2011 20:28 mr_tolkien wrote:
You know her having a bf doesn't mean she can't ALSO have feelings for you, right ?
This. Seriously.
I think this is happening to me right now, I'm the unintentional Third Wheel.
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Well if you really want her, then pretend you never saw that, and erase the fact that she might have a boyfriend and go for it, and if she thinks your more fun, then she will break up with the other guy, or atleast cause some situations that will lead to a break up. Attractive girls are almost always taken, the more you think about the fact that she's taken, the more miserable your life will become. If it works out good, if it doesnt work good, at the worst she's going to say that she's going out with someone else, thats it.
But at the same time you just might want to consider how strong the guy, if he has nasty friends who can "take care" of stuff. :D
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Dude, just don't dwell on mistakes and loses too much, you're too young to worry about those. Reflect, learn from it, and carry on as a better person.
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On September 27 2011 20:19 pangshai wrote:
which secondary school do you go to? also, don't be silly. the guy was her brother.
I go to Clementi Town Secondary =/
On September 27 2011 20:34 TailsPrower wrote:
First heartbreak is always hard to deal with; any heartbreak at any age is hard to deal with. Being older some of us look back at some of these events and think it seems irrelevant, but the fact that we still remember them proves otherwise. Even though it means something, eventually you will move on.
I don't have a great deal of understanding about the culture and interaction of women and men in Singapore but in Canada a hug can be a greeting for just a friend. If you are 14 you should just talk to this girl. I realize that this is a difficult thing to do, it may be one of the hardest things you do at that age but doing it will make you feel better, in both the short and long term. Two different things will probably happen:
The good might be that you talk and become a couple, the bad being she is not interested and you get embarrassed. I understand that this is a difficult thing to do, but doing it will make you feel better. It's easier to get over embarrassment than the feeling of wondering what could have happened.
Also thinking so far into the future may be important for certain aspects of life, but when talking to a girl at 14 years old, do not think about what could happen so far into the future, take a day to day approach, at least until it maybe becomes a serious relationship, so thinking about money and a relationship when you are 25 is not the best idea, anything can happen in 5-10 years.
Thanks for writing this, in Singapore guys don't usually hug girls(implying that they are friends) , even if they are in a relationship.
I will try to talk to her, but it just seems so hard to start the conversation without sounding like a creep ("Hey, your hair looks nice. CAN I TOUCH IT?")
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On September 27 2011 19:11 Azera wrote:Hi guys, you all may remember me from this blog : [Blog that you should read so that you would understand what I will be talking about]So today, I was on the bus home from school today and I saw the exact same girl. I was really nervous and I just sat very far away from her on the bus. So, when she got off the bus ( I was sitting rows behind her ) she was greeted by some guy [I think of this guy to be her boyfriend] and she hugged him. That's it I guess, thanks for listening. Also, I would like to leave you all with an excerpt from the book 'Jane Eyre'. It is as if I had a string somewhere under my left ribs, tightly and also inextricably knotted to a similar string situated in the corresponding quarter of your slender frame. And if that we were to be separated by a boisterous piece of land, by time, or by age, I'am afraid that this cord of communion will be snapped, and then I would begin to bleed inwardly.
You have a very interesting definition of heartbreak considering you've never talked to this girl. You are already being submissive to this chick without having said a word to her. Chicks don't like submissive men, they might say they do, but really they don't know what they want. And another protip: do not make assumptions on a girl's relationship status because she hugs a guy, or she hangs out a lot with a guy.
It's no wonder you think you have nothing to offer -- your thinking process is completely wrong. Having your balls in a woman's purse has nothing to do with money. You can be the richest most successful guy out there and still have your balls firmly nested in your wife's/gf's purse.
TLDR: Take your head out of your ass and change your way of thinking because as the years pass, it gets more and more difficult to change habits and thought patterns.
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On September 27 2011 21:07 craz3d wrote:
You have a very interesting definition of heartbreak considering you've never talked to this girl. You are already being submissive to this chick without having said a word to her. Chicks don't like submissive men, they might say they do, but really they don't know what they want. And another protip: do not make assumptions on a girl's relationship status because she hugs a guy, or she hangs out a lot with a guy.
It's no wonder you think you have nothing to offer -- your thinking process is completely wrong. Having your balls in a woman's purse has nothing to do with money. You can be the richest most successful guy out there and still have your balls firmly nested in your wife's/gf's purse.
TLDR: Take your head out of your ass and change your way of thinking because as the years pass, it gets more and more difficult to change habits and thought patterns.
Even though you may not have meant for it to be so, after reading this I feel slightly... empowered? Sort of like listening to 'Eye of the Tiger' haha.
*Also, is it creepy, scary, or just plain wrong that I googled her name and has her tumblr and facebook?
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Listen to Idra, you gotta skate. I'm 17 and im not worrying about girls in rl at the moment, just wanna live my youth and play the hell off starcraft 2 instead of spending all of my day being with a girl atm.
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EDIT: No one likes memes nowadays.
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On September 27 2011 21:11 RogerX wrote:
Listen to Idra, you gotta skate. I'm 17 and im not worrying about girls in rl at the moment, just wanna live my youth and play the hell off starcraft 2 instead of spending all of my day being with a girl atm.
Is "you gotta skate" and Idra quote? Did he say it on stream and what does it mean?
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so this girl is from nanyang?
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On September 27 2011 21:15 pangshai wrote:
so this girl is from nanyang?
You're a genius. How did you know?
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On September 27 2011 21:13 Azera wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:11 RogerX wrote:
Listen to Idra, you gotta skate. I'm 17 and im not worrying about girls in rl at the moment, just wanna live my youth and play the hell off starcraft 2 instead of spending all of my day being with a girl atm. Is "you gotta skate" and Idra quote? Did he say it on stream and what does it mean?
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Thank you LunarDestiny
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On September 27 2011 21:17 RogerX wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:13 Azera wrote:On September 27 2011 21:11 RogerX wrote:
Listen to Idra, you gotta skate. I'm 17 and im not worrying about girls in rl at the moment, just wanna live my youth and play the hell off starcraft 2 instead of spending all of my day being with a girl atm. Is "you gotta skate" and Idra quote? Did he say it on stream and what does it mean? + Show Spoiler +Thank you LunarDestiny
I assume the Urban Dictionary definition is correct? U gotta skate
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It's a TL Meme. IIRC, a guy needed to travel interstate to go to an event and one guy said "u gotta skate"
Anyway, back on topic...
Just take a break from all these shit, nothing good will ever come out of staying in sadness and making decisions while in it. Don't take too long in getting yourself back up.
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On September 27 2011 21:24 SilverSkyLark wrote:
It's a TL Meme. IIRC, a guy needed to travel interstate to go to an event and one guy said "u gotta skate"
Anyway, back on topic...
Just take a break from all these shit, nothing good will ever come out of staying in sadness and making decisions while in it. Don't take too long in getting yourself back up.
I ROFL'd. Team Liquid is such an awesome site.
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Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
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You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine!
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On September 27 2011 21:31 Ko1tz wrote:
Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
On September 27 2011 21:49 GlocKomA wrote:
You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine!
Both of you are probably right... but if you were in my position, wouldn't you just try to make things work? I don't have the courage though =(
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On September 27 2011 21:53 Azera wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:31 Ko1tz wrote:
Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:49 GlocKomA wrote:
You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine! Both of you are probably right... but if you were in my position, wouldn't you just try to make things work? I don't have the courage though =(
I would, who wouldn't? The difference is that there is a time and place for everything. If I'm not wrong, it's probably the year-end examinations in Singapore in like a week or so.
Right now you're in a period of life where academics is your top priority. I know I'm most likely sounding like your parents, but it's the truth.
I've read your previous blog and I can gather that you do not feel confident of yourself. You feel that you are not attractive enough. Now, ask yourself. Do you want a girl that only goes after you solely because you are 'attractive'? There are many other factors that girls(or at least smart girls) consider when looking for a guy. Being attractive does not wholly mean having good looks. I've met some girls that are attracted to certain attitudes and personalities, it just differs from person. There is no point getting a girl that is merely attracted to you based on looks. What if you've met with an accident and have your face distorted?
The girl you mentioned sounds pretty smart, I highly doubt that she falls in the category of "attractive = handsome". She might be looking for other qualities, you'd never know.
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If you don't have the courage, you'll never have anything.
Watch Gurren Lagann.
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On September 27 2011 21:53 Azera wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:31 Ko1tz wrote:
Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:49 GlocKomA wrote:
You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine! Both of you are probably right... but if you were in my position, wouldn't you just try to make things work? I don't have the courage though =(
I would try to make things work, if I knew her. you might want atleast to get to know her first. It can be tough, but don't think that everything's gonna happen magicly (spelling?).
But hey, as I told you before, just don't worry, enjoy life, relax and concentrate on things that in the long run will make you a better person. There's no need to get all depressed.
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Not to try and diminish your blog, but I don't think it's heartbreak for you if you don't even talk to the girl. Also, you're only in (what Americans call) Middleschool. Plenty of time to worry about girls later on.
I read through, and you have some big test coming up? If that's the case, then I recommend getting your priorities straight and study what you can for it before worrying about this girl. The test will come and go, but she'll be around for much longer.
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konadora
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you'll never forget your first heartbreak ;___;
you seem pretty mature for a 14 year old singaporean anyone, you have a clear plan on what to do. you just gotta put it into action, and really, no choice but to mug :S
i mean, i got freaking A levels in one month plus and that's all i can do but to mug :/
anw, digression aside, your first heartbreak can never be forgotten, but don't do anything ridiculous because of it, ok? even though it's not really a heartbreak as some people pointed out, but oh well, diff people have diff perceptions!
and no, not really. in this internet age, doesn't really seem that creepy. my friends know a lot of other friends that i had no idea they knew via e-stalking lol.
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You need to get some perspective, man. You have no fucking clue what heartbreak is if that's what you're calling this blog. If you've never met the girl personally, it's not heartbreak. When I was 15, my girlfriend of a year ended it with me (after we were spending 5+ hours a day together) and started dating my best friend about a month after.
That was what I think of as a not-too-bad version of heartbreak, as it was the most intense love I've had for someone before or since. It took me about a year to fully recover from the depression because of it. Man up and talk to her before you go declaring your love lost (you saw her HUGGING someone, for god's sake. For all you know, she's writing a blog about how she wishes you would talk to her right now. But you'd never know because you've never even introduced yourself!)
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you gotta skate isn't Idras meme -.-
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wait...i dont get it, how did your heart break over a girl you don't even know?
she was never yours to begin with...i guess you being 14 explains it. I used to think like you too, but you just gotta learn to not dwell on certain things, especially things that you cannot change or influence.
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You are just a kid. You (and nerds in general) have inspired me to write a series of blogs. Stay tuned.
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On September 27 2011 23:44 HeartBreakerr wrote:
wait...i dont get it, how did your heart break over a girl you don't even know?
she was never yours to begin with...i guess you being 14 explains it. I used to think like you too, but you just gotta learn to not dwell on certain things, especially things that you cannot change or influence.
When I was 13-14 I had a mad crush on this girl at school but was too shy to talk to her, and when she started dating this random guy I got really sad. I wouldn't say "heartbroken" (and now I'm noticing your account name lawls) but yeah.
Being young and a bit crazy... good times.
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Blazinghand
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Hey man, feel better. The first heartbreak is always the worst </3 but it makes you stronger and faster (we can rebuild him!) and she won't be dating him forever... keep your head high and your shoulders back. Don't lose that fire in your belly or that marmalade in your jelly.  and if you have trouble, as you can see, TL will be here to support you, in our own schizophrenic disagreeing way.
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You think thats bad kid?
Back in that age for me, I spent 2 and a half years getting the girl of my dreams to like me. Starting with she didn't know my name, to pretty damn near close to her realllly liking me, and spending time together and such.
Out of the blue, she falls for my BEST FRIEND, and they start dating within 2 weeks, cause I brought her over to his house to hang out.
I spend nearly 3 years getting close to this girl, my buddy didn't even know her pretty much. And boom, headshot.
This has been the story of my life for the past 7 years. It's seriously shitty, but oh well shit happens.
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theres about idk 1.5k million ppl in china/singapore/taiwn area (you get my point) about 50% women and about 50% of those women are younger women, im sure ull find someone else cheer up!
edit: i used 1.5mil as in my native language 1.5thousand*
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On September 27 2011 22:56 konadora wrote:
you'll never forget your first heartbreak ;___;
you seem pretty mature for a 14 year old singaporean anyone, you have a clear plan on what to do. you just gotta put it into action, and really, no choice but to mug :S
i mean, i got freaking A levels in one month plus and that's all i can do but to mug :/
anw, digression aside, your first heartbreak can never be forgotten, but don't do anything ridiculous because of it, ok? even though it's not really a heartbreak as some people pointed out, but oh well, diff people have diff perceptions!
and no, not really. in this internet age, doesn't really seem that creepy. my friends know a lot of other friends that i had no idea they knew via e-stalking lol.
Yeah... many people tell me that the same thing, my friends think I'm weird too. (Because I won't go to LANs with them to play Blackshot or Sudden Attack and just want to go home to play StarCraft and read books.)
On September 28 2011 00:18 Djzapz wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 23:44 HeartBreakerr wrote:
wait...i dont get it, how did your heart break over a girl you don't even know?
she was never yours to begin with...i guess you being 14 explains it. I used to think like you too, but you just gotta learn to not dwell on certain things, especially things that you cannot change or influence. When I was 13-14 I had a mad crush on this girl at school but was too shy to talk to her, and when she started dating this random guy I got really sad. I wouldn't say "heartbroken" (and now I'm noticing your account name lawls) but yeah. Being young and a bit crazy... good times.
It's just that sometimes, when you fall in love, you start to over think things, you think about the future you want to have. Heartbreak in my opinion, comes in many forms, as long as you feel that your heart has been "broken" by either getting rejected, dumped, or knowing that you weren't accepted by your love, it is heartbreak.
On September 28 2011 00:24 Blazinghand wrote:Hey man, feel better. The first heartbreak is always the worst </3 but it makes you stronger and faster (we can rebuild him!) and she won't be dating him forever... keep your head high and your shoulders back. Don't lose that fire in your belly or that marmalade in your jelly. and if you have trouble, as you can see, TL will be here to support you, in our own schizophrenic disagreeing way.
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On September 28 2011 00:39 N3rV[Green] wrote:
You think thats bad kid?
Back in that age for me, I spent 2 and a half years getting the girl of my dreams to like me. Starting with she didn't know my name, to pretty damn near close to her realllly liking me, and spending time together and such.
Out of the blue, she falls for my BEST FRIEND, and they start dating within 2 weeks, cause I brought her over to his house to hang out.
I spend nearly 3 years getting close to this girl, my buddy didn't even know her pretty much. And boom, headshot.
This has been the story of my life for the past 7 years. It's seriously shitty, but oh well shit happens.
Yeah, shit does happen. I guess I just haven't been exposed to the world enough yet. I really do hope that I will never experience what you have though =/
On September 28 2011 00:40 Danika wrote:
theres about idk 1.5k million ppl in china/singapore/taiwn area (you get my point) about 50% women and about 50% of those women are younger women, im sure ull find someone else cheer up!
edit: i used 1.5mil as in my native language 1.5thousand*
Singapore is in Southeast Asia and not in China... I still get what you are trying to say though. Thanks.
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On September 27 2011 19:11 Azera wrote:Hi guys, you all may remember me from this blog : [Blog that you should read so that you would understand what I will be talking about]So today, I was on the bus home from school today and I saw the exact same girl. I was really nervous and I just sat very far away from her on the bus. So, when she got off the bus ( I was sitting rows behind her ) she was greeted by some guy [I think of this guy to be her boyfriend] and she hugged him. That's it I guess, thanks for listening. Also, I would like to leave you all with an excerpt from the book 'Jane Eyre'. It is as if I had a string somewhere under my left ribs, tightly and also inextricably knotted to a similar string situated in the corresponding quarter of your slender frame. And if that we were to be separated by a boisterous piece of land, by time, or by age, I'am afraid that this cord of communion will be snapped, and then I would begin to bleed inwardly.PS; To anyone asking, no, I do not know this girl personally.
I'm going to be a bit less compassionate than other posters.
So here's my understanding - you see this girl on the bus who goes to a GREAT school, so you obviously know she's smart. You go to an ok school, so you feel inferior. You develop a bit of a crush and feel devastated when you see her get off the bus and hug a guy.
Let's put this into perspective:
1). You like this girl, but you never talked to her and never got to know her
2). She only hugged the guy. This could mean she's dating or could mean she gave a friend a hug. If you had actually talked to her and gotten to know her only then could you say something with certainty. Stop playing the B.S. game of "I'm going to figure you out by overthinking a situation instead of talking to you".
3). Since you're so young you can use this as a learning experience. You can practice getting to know people by being social on the bus. Seriously, what have you got to lose? Worst case scenario is that you learn a bunch of social skills, get to know her, and learn that she's dating someone. At least now you'll have the experience and some confidence to go for the next girl you like.
4). Feeling inferior is all in your head. If you wear your insecurities on your sleeve then no one is going to want to be around you. An open mind is all you need
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On September 28 2011 01:30 Servius_Fulvius wrote:
I'm going to be a bit less compassionate than other posters.
So here's my understanding - you see this girl on the bus who goes to a GREAT school, so you obviously know she's smart. You go to an ok school, so you feel inferior. You develop a bit of a crush and feel devastated when you see her get off the bus and hug a guy.
Let's put this into perspective:
1). You like this girl, but you never talked to her and never got to know her
2). She only hugged the guy. This could mean she's dating or could mean she gave a friend a hug. If you had actually talked to her and gotten to know her only then could you say something with certainty. Stop playing the B.S. game of "I'm going to figure you out by overthinking a situation instead of talking to you".
3). Since you're so young you can use this as a learning experience. You can practice getting to know people by being social on the bus. Seriously, what have you got to lose? Worst case scenario is that you learn a bunch of social skills, get to know her, and learn that she's dating someone. At least now you'll have the experience and some confidence to go for the next girl you like.
Ok, I understand what you're trying to say, but how do I start talking to her? Do I just walk up to her and say "Heh, strange how we always see each other." (This is true, for not only do I see her when I go to school, I see her at a street near my school daily and on the bus home as well.)
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On September 27 2011 20:19 pangshai wrote:
I will try to talk to her, but it just seems so hard to start the conversation without sounding like a creep ("Hey, your hair looks nice. CAN I TOUCH IT?")
Bro, are you kidding me? I don't know what they do in Singapore but in Norway this is standard affair.
In fact, we walk up to girls we like and just stare at them, then we make some guttural, low moaning sounds to imply arousal. Flattery, It's called.
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1) you gotta sk8
2) No one loves a pussy/creeper. You like a girl swallow your balls and make your move. Talk to her, get to know her, then ask her out if you feel that spark.
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On September 28 2011 01:37 Azera wrote:
Ok, I understand what you're trying to say, but how do I start talking to her? Do I just walk up to her and say "Heh, strange how we always see each other." (This is true, for not only do I see her when I go to school, I see her at a street near my school daily and on the bus home as well.)
That's one way. "Hi! I see you on the bus every day, but then noticed you on a street near my school. Do you have friends in the area?". It's important to ask a question that warrants participation. The question I posed isn't that great either because it's a yes or no question that she could answer with a yes or no. A simple transition is "Sorry if that sounds a little creepy. I'm Azera, I go to school the school nearby. What's your name?". Go from there. Great questions to ask are "Where are you from", "Where do you go to school", "How is school going", "How do you spend your free time"....stuff like that. Personally I think it's a lot easier to meet people through social groups since the ice is so much easier to break, but when it comes to talking to someone you've never really met this is the way to go.
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Just cause she hugged a guy doesn't mean that he is her boyfriend. All the girls that I'm friends with always hug me when we meet and when we say goodbye, so don't worry about it. Why don't you just start talking to her, maybe get her name and through that you can find her on facebook and check if she really does have a boyfriend and if she doesn't it's your move. GL
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On September 27 2011 22:05 SilverSkyLark wrote:
Watch Gurren Lagann.
"Don't believe in the you who believes in me. Don't believe in the me who believes in you. Believe in the you who believes in yourself."
Awesome anime. You can stream it on youtube (MANGAentertainment) :D
Cheer up and be yourself! There's someone else out there for you :p
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Sorry guys, didn't get to talk to her this morning. Scumbag traffic light didn't turn red. I hope I see her on the bus hone though. Wish me luck T.T
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On September 27 2011 21:16 Azera wrote:You're a genius. How did you know?
On September 27 2011 20:19 pangshai wrote:
which secondary school do you go to? also, don't be silly. the guy was her brother.
CAN IT BE!?
On topic, just talk to her to find out. Unless you're scared and have a ton of free time follow her ;D
+ Show Spoiler +PS. I suck with girls they all tend to hate me.
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Argh, I didn't see her on the bus back home, anyway guys, my end of year examinations start tomorrow so I guess I'll have to start focusing on the for now.
On September 28 2011 08:14 RezChi wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:16 Azera wrote:On September 27 2011 21:15 pangshai wrote:
so this girl is from nanyang? You're a genius. How did you know? Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 20:19 pangshai wrote:
which secondary school do you go to? also, don't be silly. the guy was her brother. CAN IT BE!? On topic, just talk to her to find out. Unless you're scared and have a ton of free time follow her ;D + Show Spoiler +PS. I suck with girls they all tend to hate me.
Haha, are you saying that pangshai is related to the girl? ^^
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On September 28 2011 00:39 N3rV[Green] wrote:
You think thats bad kid?
Back in that age for me, I spent 2 and a half years getting the girl of my dreams to like me. Starting with she didn't know my name, to pretty damn near close to her realllly liking me, and spending time together and such.
Out of the blue, she falls for my BEST FRIEND, and they start dating within 2 weeks, cause I brought her over to his house to hang out.
I spend nearly 3 years getting close to this girl, my buddy didn't even know her pretty much. And boom, headshot.
This has been the story of my life for the past 7 years. It's seriously shitty, but oh well shit happens.
Maybe you should get uglier friends.
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in a few years you will look back at this moment and LAUGH :D
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Dude I kinda know how u feel (Back when I was 14 I would fall in love with random chicks I never knew).
BUT DW. YOU SERIOUSLY HAVE LIKE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU, AND ALOT MORE OF YOUR CHILDHOOD!
Seriously man, your gunna have more chances in life, provided you can interact socially. Just dont overthink shit and try and act normal. If you wanna become friends with chicks, just do outside activities that involve groups and girls enjoy doing (Like, drama, ect)
Edit: Seriously, dont take this seriously. Dont even follow any of my advice if you dont feel you need to. But Glhf with life because you may aswell.
Edit2: If your afraid of talking to strangers, do outside (School) activities with people you dont know! You wont just randomly be able to talk to people, but over time it will help.
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