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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On August 12 2011 21:11 Hassybaby wrote: If she starts using words like fate and destiny after the meet (if you go), RUN Seriously legit advice. You probably know that getting tangled with love-in-first-sight or one-love-a-lifetime mentality girl (or worse, combination of both!) ain't going to end pretty. | ||
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Mogwai
United States13274 Posts
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
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Hassybaby
United Kingdom10823 Posts
http://questionablecontent.net./index.php OR God has a sense of humour with you. blatent answer isn't it? You met a hot girl at a concert, she gives you butterflies. Go with her, and tell your friend you're in a relationship right now | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On August 15 2011 13:19 iamahydralisk wrote: jesus fuck. one of my female friends just told me she wants to be with me. a different one. I'm not even kidding >_> why time to juggle a bit | ||
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Hassybaby
United Kingdom10823 Posts
Option 2. There's a pretty damn good guide on getting a harem ending in the blog section: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=254910 Just avoid getting stabbed in the stomach | ||
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Noximous
United States29 Posts
Anyway onto my dilemma... I met a girl online who lives in NYC (I live in NJ - about 20 minute bus ride away) and we hung out for the first time a week ago. I thought everything went really well, we walked around the city for a little, got something to eat, and then went back to apartment cause I had to go to the bathroom. We hung out in her apartment for awhile (her roommate was out), watched some youtube videos and eventually started making out. She kept stopping and laughing and when I asked her what was so funny she just said "you're really sweet". We left her apartment and went to a park near her for a little and just sat there watching everyone, it was enjoyable. I had to catch a bus so she came with my through the subway all the way up to my bus terminal and we kissed goodbye. I've been trying to text her for the past few days and sometimes she answers and sometimes she doesn't. This past Sunday I texted her with "hey, how's your weekend going" and then I got a text back from here that was a picture of her dog and a caption that said "meet moose!" (the name of her dog) I sent something witty back and then she didn't answer. So I sent her another 1 that said "are you getting my texts =\?" (I sent her a couple texts a few days ago that she didn't answer either) And she said that the last one she got was from when I was on the bus. She then apologized and said you know how shitty my phone is! (It really is though, the thing was barely holding together when I saw it) So we texted back and fourth for maybe 3 texts in which she told me that she was going to get a new phone the next day and then after 1 text she didn't answer so I sent another 1 that said "well hope the rest of your time with your family is nice! When you get back would you want to hang out with me again?" Got no answer. And then after that I sent another 1 that said "Hopefully you're getting these..." No answer. And then yesterday, which was the day she was supposed to get her new phone I texted her "How's your new phone treating you?" No answer. Now the question I've been beating myself up over the past few days is whether or not she is really "not" getting these texts. She seemed really nice when I met her, and honestly, I thought she was into me. I'm thinking about calling her in a few days and leaving a voicemail if she doesn't answer that says something along the lines of ""hey... I've been trying to text you but I'm not sure if you're getting them... Anyway, when you get this could you call me back? Okay bye" Any advice is greatly appreciated! | ||
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zalz
Netherlands3704 Posts
But did they really? Now you are sending a dozen texts and she isn't receiving any due to a bad phone. But is she really? If you are absolutely honest for a moment then you will probably have to admit that she is getting those texts but just not reacting. That or she has a one in a million default wich is filtering your texts out. She doesn't want you on the one hand. Rare mechanical default on the other. All wishfull thinking aside, what is more realistic? People tend to lie to soften the blow, it sounds like she doesn't want to say it to your face and just drags it out till you just stop bothering with it all together. Wich is probably the best option at this point. | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On August 16 2011 22:39 Noximous wrote: + Show Spoiler + I love TL, all types of threads! Anyway onto my dilemma... I met a girl online who lives in NYC (I live in NJ - about 20 minute bus ride away) and we hung out for the first time a week ago. I thought everything went really well, we walked around the city for a little, got something to eat, and then went back to apartment cause I had to go to the bathroom. We hung out in her apartment for awhile (her roommate was out), watched some youtube videos and eventually started making out. She kept stopping and laughing and when I asked her what was so funny she just said "you're really sweet". We left her apartment and went to a park near her for a little and just sat there watching everyone, it was enjoyable. I had to catch a bus so she came with my through the subway all the way up to my bus terminal and we kissed goodbye. I've been trying to text her for the past few days and sometimes she answers and sometimes she doesn't. This past Sunday I texted her with "hey, how's your weekend going" and then I got a text back from here that was a picture of her dog and a caption that said "meet moose!" (the name of her dog) I sent something witty back and then she didn't answer. So I sent her another 1 that said "are you getting my texts =\?" (I sent her a couple texts a few days ago that she didn't answer either) And she said that the last one she got was from when I was on the bus. She then apologized and said you know how shitty my phone is! (It really is though, the thing was barely holding together when I saw it) So we texted back and fourth for maybe 3 texts in which she told me that she was going to get a new phone the next day and then after 1 text she didn't answer so I sent another 1 that said "well hope the rest of your time with your family is nice! When you get back would you want to hang out with me again?" Got no answer. And then after that I sent another 1 that said "Hopefully you're getting these..." No answer. And then yesterday, which was the day she was supposed to get her new phone I texted her "How's your new phone treating you?" No answer. Now the question I've been beating myself up over the past few days is whether or not she is really "not" getting these texts. She seemed really nice when I met her, and honestly, I thought she was into me. I'm thinking about calling her in a few days and leaving a voicemail if she doesn't answer that says something along the lines of ""hey... I've been trying to text you but I'm not sure if you're getting them... Anyway, when you get this could you call me back? Okay bye" Any advice is greatly appreciated! This thread should be helpful: The PUA Community You texted far too often, showing her that you're into her already. If she doesn't reply you after a text or two then you should know that she's not exactly interested in you that much. | ||
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Hassybaby
United Kingdom10823 Posts
On August 16 2011 22:39 Noximous wrote: I love TL, all types of threads! Anyway onto my dilemma... I met a girl online who lives in NYC (I live in NJ - about 20 minute bus ride away) and we hung out for the first time a week ago. I thought everything went really well, we walked around the city for a little, got something to eat, and then went back to apartment cause I had to go to the bathroom. We hung out in her apartment for awhile (her roommate was out), watched some youtube videos and eventually started making out. She kept stopping and laughing and when I asked her what was so funny she just said "you're really sweet". We left her apartment and went to a park near her for a little and just sat there watching everyone, it was enjoyable. I had to catch a bus so she came with my through the subway all the way up to my bus terminal and we kissed goodbye. I've been trying to text her for the past few days and sometimes she answers and sometimes she doesn't. This past Sunday I texted her with "hey, how's your weekend going" and then I got a text back from here that was a picture of her dog and a caption that said "meet moose!" (the name of her dog) I sent something witty back and then she didn't answer. So I sent her another 1 that said "are you getting my texts =\?" (I sent her a couple texts a few days ago that she didn't answer either) And she said that the last one she got was from when I was on the bus. She then apologized and said you know how shitty my phone is! (It really is though, the thing was barely holding together when I saw it) So we texted back and fourth for maybe 3 texts in which she told me that she was going to get a new phone the next day and then after 1 text she didn't answer so I sent another 1 that said "well hope the rest of your time with your family is nice! When you get back would you want to hang out with me again?" Got no answer. And then after that I sent another 1 that said "Hopefully you're getting these..." No answer. And then yesterday, which was the day she was supposed to get her new phone I texted her "How's your new phone treating you?" No answer. Now the question I've been beating myself up over the past few days is whether or not she is really "not" getting these texts. She seemed really nice when I met her, and honestly, I thought she was into me. I'm thinking about calling her in a few days and leaving a voicemail if she doesn't answer that says something along the lines of ""hey... I've been trying to text you but I'm not sure if you're getting them... Anyway, when you get this could you call me back? Okay bye" Any advice is greatly appreciated! Love this thread. I like the message, as long as you don't sent it like straight away. You don't wanna overdo it (you sorta did overdo it with the texts, but that's done now so). The giggling is a but weird, but the rest seems promising. *puts on obvious hat* As to your doubts, there's only one thing I see. You clearly like this girl, and care about what she thinks of you. *takes off obvious hat* You gotta believe dude. Stop wondering if she got your messages or not and focus on how much fun you had, and if you can meet up again. Negative thinking is baaaad, avoid it! | ||
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Hassybaby
United Kingdom10823 Posts
On August 16 2011 23:07 OpticalShot wrote: This thread should be helpful: The PUA Community You texted far too often, showing her that you're into her already. If she doesn't reply you after a text or two then you should know that she's not exactly interested in you that much. Other truth. End of the day, wait a few days, then see where you stand | ||
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Mogwai
United States13274 Posts
On August 16 2011 22:39 Noximous wrote: I love TL, all types of threads! Anyway onto my dilemma... I met a girl online who lives in NYC (I live in NJ - about 20 minute bus ride away) and we hung out for the first time a week ago. I thought everything went really well, we walked around the city for a little, got something to eat, and then went back to apartment cause I had to go to the bathroom. We hung out in her apartment for awhile (her roommate was out), watched some youtube videos and eventually started making out. She kept stopping and laughing and when I asked her what was so funny she just said "you're really sweet". We left her apartment and went to a park near her for a little and just sat there watching everyone, it was enjoyable. I had to catch a bus so she came with my through the subway all the way up to my bus terminal and we kissed goodbye. I've been trying to text her for the past few days and sometimes she answers and sometimes she doesn't. This past Sunday I texted her with "hey, how's your weekend going" and then I got a text back from here that was a picture of her dog and a caption that said "meet moose!" (the name of her dog) I sent something witty back and then she didn't answer. So I sent her another 1 that said "are you getting my texts =\?" (I sent her a couple texts a few days ago that she didn't answer either) And she said that the last one she got was from when I was on the bus. She then apologized and said you know how shitty my phone is! (It really is though, the thing was barely holding together when I saw it) So we texted back and fourth for maybe 3 texts in which she told me that she was going to get a new phone the next day and then after 1 text she didn't answer so I sent another 1 that said "well hope the rest of your time with your family is nice! When you get back would you want to hang out with me again?" Got no answer. And then after that I sent another 1 that said "Hopefully you're getting these..." No answer. And then yesterday, which was the day she was supposed to get her new phone I texted her "How's your new phone treating you?" No answer. Now the question I've been beating myself up over the past few days is whether or not she is really "not" getting these texts. She seemed really nice when I met her, and honestly, I thought she was into me. I'm thinking about calling her in a few days and leaving a voicemail if she doesn't answer that says something along the lines of ""hey... I've been trying to text you but I'm not sure if you're getting them... Anyway, when you get this could you call me back? Okay bye" Any advice is greatly appreciated! STOP SPAMMING HER WITH TEXTS. Like, lemme explain how texts work: 1. You send a message. 2. The other person's phone gets it. 3. Other person can now see the message whenever it's convenient to them. 4. They respond when they can/want to. Alternately, their phone doesn't get it, in which case, more texts don't do shit anyway. NO ONE LIKES GETTING A TON OF TEXTS ON A NON-TIME SENSITIVE ISSUE. I have literally never left the gym, seen 7 texts from my girlfriend about a single issue and not been mad about it. It's always infuriating, because like... what did you think I was doing? Ignoring you and now because you're being so fucking annoying I'm going to pay attention to you!? Obviously no response means, again, ONE: SHE DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE CAUSE HER PHONE SUCKS, TWO: SHE'S AWAY FROM HER PHONE, or THREE: SHE'S IGNORING THAT TEXT. Sending another text in all of these situations can only make you more annoying and will do literally no good. Find another way of communicating with the girl and if she's not into that, she doesn't wanna be with you. | ||
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Hassybaby
United Kingdom10823 Posts
Much love | ||
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Cuddle
Sweden1345 Posts
We didn't have texting back in my days so I don't relate to the dilemma. Why don't you stop texting and call her if you have something to say? Fuck texts. | ||
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Kalingingsong
Canada633 Posts
On August 15 2011 13:19 iamahydralisk wrote: jesus fuck. one of my female friends just told me she wants to be with me. a different one. I'm not even kidding >_> why Hi, I am a guy and I also want to be with you iamahydralisk. | ||
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3FFA
United States3931 Posts
On August 19 2011 23:52 Cuddle wrote: You know you can call other's phones, right? We didn't have texting back in my days so I don't relate to the dilemma. Why don't you stop texting and call her if you have something to say? Fuck texts. Lol I know right? I'm only a teenager but I only do calls  . I say to anyone that tries to text me and when I calls them asks me why I didn't just text back that I didn't buy any texting plan, only an unlimited calling plan. They faint/call me an idiot/Ask why in the world I wouldn't get texting... I respond with "Pay $ for stuff sent through typing on the phone that anyone might get by phone fuck up or call and actually talk to the person and get to know them without a ton of possible risks? Yeah I'm taking Option#2 " | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On August 20 2011 04:13 Kalingingsong wrote: Hi, I am a guy and I also want to be with you iamahydralisk. I'd be interested but concert girl is officially my girlfriend now and I'm a one person man. sorry bro :< | ||
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
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Hassybaby
United Kingdom10823 Posts
On August 26 2011 13:48 iamahydralisk wrote: I'd be interested but concert girl is officially my girlfriend now and I'm a one person man. sorry bro :< Good choice, gl hf gg Also, welcome back thread. You were missed | ||
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