EPTSo you want a girlfriend? - Page 2
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hazelynut
United States2196 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32102 Posts
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EffectS
Belgium795 Posts
... I thought this thread would give me girl advice. But it just makes my life even sadder. Forevere alone...  | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On December 14 2010 05:52 Hawk wrote: not having a gf in hs and getting one in college is the most ass backwards logic ive ever heard LOL true | ||
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
On December 14 2010 05:52 Hawk wrote: not having a gf in hs and getting one in college is the most ass backwards logic ive ever heard Depends how stable they are. Mine wants only for me to be successful in school. Other girls want you to drop out and spend time with them. While one can see that staying in school no matter what is the best course of action (and believe me, it is), women are NOT LOGICAL. Few people are mature enough for a real relationship in high school. Any super-relationships in my high school didn't last into October as soon as university started. Bang all the sluts you want - I wish I did - but don't think that you're going to find miss perfect. | ||
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
Thanks man :D | ||
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Shockk
Germany2269 Posts
On December 14 2010 04:33 TheGiz wrote: My point is that if you are not in a relationship stay out for a while, and if you are in one - stay the course, but only if it isn't actually hurting you. You seem to have had some bad experiences. A relationship only is "hard work" if things aren't running the way they should be. You're giving bad advice if you recommend avoiding relationships in general, because in the best case, something good may come out of it, and in the worst case, it's a way to learn some lessons for life. | ||
BroOd
Austin10833 Posts
On December 14 2010 06:32 emperorchampion wrote: ahahahaa this thread is awesome, it's like having a contest named "Get a million dollars!" then the criteria for winning is working for 30yrs making $33 000 a year. It's more like: "Hungry? Eat food! But don't if you're not." | ||
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Moxi
708 Posts
On December 14 2010 04:46 GunSec wrote: I agree, a GF really TAKES a lot of time! It's not easy at all :/ So does gaming | ||
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
On December 14 2010 06:35 BroOd wrote: It's more like: "Hungry? Eat food! But don't if you're not." "Wanna bang sluts? Do it! Wanna find Miss Perfect? Hope you're not in High School!" Hmm, what other topics can we extend this new found logic to? | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32102 Posts
On December 14 2010 06:28 TheGiz wrote: Depends how stable they are. Mine wants only for me to be successful in school. Other girls want you to drop out and spend time with them. While one can see that staying in school no matter what is the best course of action (and believe me, it is), women are NOT LOGICAL. Few people are mature enough for a real relationship in high school. Any super-relationships in my high school didn't last into October as soon as university started. Bang all the sluts you want - I wish I did - but don't think that you're going to find miss perfect. what ever could go wrong with in an environment where there are raging hormones, no inhibitions, thousands of gallons of cheap booze and sorority mixers where the winner is the girl who fills her stomach up with semen the quickest???? | ||
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Slivered Skin
Canada347 Posts
On December 14 2010 06:46 emperorchampion wrote: "Wanna bang sluts? Do it! Wanna find Miss Perfect? Hope you're not in High School!" Hmm, what other topics can we extend this new found logic to? I would say "Wanna play Starcraft? Get a job, you filthy freeloader!! You can play Starcraft once you're retired!!" | ||
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Frobert
Canada113 Posts
If you have to spend so much time studying that you don't have time for personal relationships, you are missing out on the most important lessons you can learn at university. And not learning to balance stress, work, and being in a relationship is a recipe for disaster if you end up wanting to be with someone down the line. The advice in this blog is essentially saying to stay away from a relationship as long as you have work to do, as it is too much of a distraction. You do realize that once you have a career, you will have just as much or more work to do, right? What about people who value friendship and love over getting grades? | ||
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FlopTurnReaver
Switzerland1980 Posts
Especially this made me laugh a little inside: On December 14 2010 04:33 TheGiz wrote: My point is that if you are not in a relationship stay out for a while, and if you are in one - stay the course, but only if it isn't actually hurting you. Are you telling people that have never been in a relationship to not even try because it might not be worth it? And I'm not even gonna comment on the second one, that's actually pretty funny imo^^ | ||
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Future)Breeze
Croatia88 Posts
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Comeh
United States18919 Posts
On December 14 2010 05:12 Slivered Skin wrote: If you're always aiming to get the maximum amount of efficiency out of life you're going to have a rather dull one. You could also argue that you shouldn't have a girlfriend while you're working, because she'll detract from your 16 hour days/7 days a week schedule. How are you going to get promoted if you aren't dedicating everything to your job?! I know plenty of people who met their wives in high school, and who are incredibly happy and successful now. I went through high school focusing on the social aspects of it, and still got into the program I wanted at the university I wanted. It's all about balance. Life isn't about maximizing efficiency - rather, life is about maximizing utility. The more utility, ie happiness you get out of life, the better off you will be. If getting you a girlfriend gives you a lot of happiness, then I don't see the big deal. | ||
Zergneedsfood
United States10671 Posts
10% - Advice 90% - I have a girlfriend in College and will marry her.  | ||
Manifesto7
Osaka27156 Posts
and for the love of God do not listen to anyone else when it comes to your relationship. I will take your advice and ignore the rest of what you said in your blog. :p | ||
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Snowbear
Korea (South)1925 Posts
On December 14 2010 04:33 TheGiz wrote: My girlfriend and I have been going out of 3.5 years and will one day be married. We started going out after 1st year university. We have had many arguments and gone through many rough times together both with each other and in our respective lives. It has been a lot of work, still is, and still will be, but in the end all that matters is that we're with each other. I'm in the exact same situation. I met my girl in my first year (law school) and 3 years later we are still together. We also had a lot of arguments and it's damn hard to give her what she deserves. I have so much work and I would like to do those things that I can't do anymore when I'm married, like for example playing starcraft (I don't see myself playing when I have kids). I'm pretty sure that she will become my wife in a few years =) | ||
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MoltkeWarding
5195 Posts
I remember on the morning of my first day at high school, I was playing Starcraft until 3 AM. | ||
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