• Log InLog In
  • Register
Liquid`
Team Liquid Liquipedia
EDT 00:21
CEST 06:21
KST 13:21
  • Home
  • Forum
  • Calendar
  • Streams
  • Liquipedia
  • Features
  • Store
  • EPT
  • TL+
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Smash
  • Heroes
  • Counter-Strike
  • Overwatch
  • Liquibet
  • Fantasy StarCraft
  • TLPD
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Blogs
Forum Sidebar
Events/Features
News
Featured News
[ASL20] Ro24 Preview Pt1: Runway132v2 & SC: Evo Complete: Weekend Double Feature3Team Liquid Map Contest #21 - Presented by Monster Energy9uThermal's 2v2 Tour: $15,000 Main Event18Serral wins EWC 202549
Community News
Maestros of The Game—$20k event w/ live finals in Paris18Weekly Cups (Aug 11-17): MaxPax triples again!13Weekly Cups (Aug 4-10): MaxPax wins a triple6SC2's Safe House 2 - October 18 & 195Weekly Cups (Jul 28-Aug 3): herO doubles up6
StarCraft 2
General
What mix of new and old maps do you want in the next 1v1 ladder pool? (SC2) : Geoff 'iNcontroL' Robinson has passed away The GOAT ranking of GOAT rankings RSL Revival patreon money discussion thread Weekly Cups (Aug 11-17): MaxPax triples again!
Tourneys
Maestros of The Game—$20k event w/ live finals in Paris Sparkling Tuna Cup - Weekly Open Tournament Monday Nights Weeklies Master Swan Open (Global Bronze-Master 2) $5,100+ SEL Season 2 Championship (SC: Evo)
Strategy
Custom Maps
External Content
Mutation # 487 Think Fast Mutation # 486 Watch the Skies Mutation # 485 Death from Below Mutation # 484 Magnetic Pull
Brood War
General
Flash Announces (and Retracts) Hiatus From ASL BW General Discussion BW AKA finder tool Maps with Neutral Command Centers Victoria gamers
Tourneys
[ASL20] Ro24 Group C [Megathread] Daily Proleagues [ASL20] Ro24 Group A [ASL20] Ro24 Group B
Strategy
Simple Questions, Simple Answers Fighting Spirit mining rates [G] Mineral Boosting Muta micro map competition
Other Games
General Games
General RTS Discussion Thread Dawn of War IV Path of Exile Stormgate/Frost Giant Megathread Nintendo Switch Thread
Dota 2
Official 'what is Dota anymore' discussion
League of Legends
Heroes of the Storm
Simple Questions, Simple Answers Heroes of the Storm 2.0
Hearthstone
Heroes of StarCraft mini-set
TL Mafia
TL Mafia Community Thread Vanilla Mini Mafia
Community
General
Russo-Ukrainian War Thread US Politics Mega-thread Things Aren’t Peaceful in Palestine The year 2050 European Politico-economics QA Mega-thread
Fan Clubs
INnoVation Fan Club SKT1 Classic Fan Club!
Media & Entertainment
Anime Discussion Thread Movie Discussion! [Manga] One Piece [\m/] Heavy Metal Thread
Sports
2024 - 2026 Football Thread TeamLiquid Health and Fitness Initiative For 2023 Formula 1 Discussion
World Cup 2022
Tech Support
High temperatures on bridge(s) Gtx660 graphics card replacement Installation of Windows 10 suck at "just a moment"
TL Community
"World Leading Blockchain Asset Retrieval" The Automated Ban List TeamLiquid Team Shirt On Sale
Blogs
Breaking the Meta: Non-Stand…
TrAiDoS
INDEPENDIENTE LA CTM
XenOsky
[Girl blog} My fema…
artosisisthebest
Sharpening the Filtration…
frozenclaw
ASL S20 English Commentary…
namkraft
Customize Sidebar...

Website Feedback

Closed Threads



Active: 2745 users

So you want a girlfriend?

Blogs > TheGiz
Post a Reply
Normal
TheGiz
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada708 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-13 19:57:14
December 13 2010 19:33 GMT
#1
This is going to be short and sweet:

My advice to anyone still in high school is to not do anything more with girls other than go on a few dates and mess around. You don't need a girlfriend and it'll only serve to screw you up, especially at the end when your grades should be most important.

For university, getting a girlfriend is your choice. Now you're at a point where I'd say it's better to be alone and get through school (unless you're in an easy program). At the same time, if you acquire a girlfriend and she turns out to be a really great person, stick with it - she may just be the girl who will one day become your wife.

I say this because girlfriends - not dating - are a lot of work. It is a constant battle with yourself to keep your cool and not push her away with unattractive behavior, while also having to deal with and shut down her BS. In all though if you both make each other happy then little mishaps won't cause damage and you can both just be yourselves. Just understand what you're getting into, and for the love of God do not listen to anyone else when it comes to your relationship.

My girlfriend and I have been going out of 3.5 years and will one day be married. We started going out after 1st year university. We have had many arguments and gone through many rough times together both with each other and in our respective lives. It has been a lot of work, still is, and still will be, but in the end all that matters is that we're with each other.

My point is that if you are not in a relationship stay out for a while, and if you are in one - stay the course, but only if it isn't actually hurting you.

**
Life is not about making due with what you have; it's about finding out just how much you can achieve. Never settle for anything less than the best. - - - Read my blog!
yoonyoon
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Korea (South)1065 Posts
December 13 2010 19:36 GMT
#2
So.... singles, die alone?
CanucksJC
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Canada1241 Posts
December 13 2010 19:38 GMT
#3
Forever alone.
I think hes just saying u shouldn't try too hard to get a gf... cuz that's pathetic anyways.
UBC StarCraft Club is official @ UBC Vancouver campus! Your first eSport community on campus. Welcomes players of all levels at UBC. Follow us on facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/group.php?gid=155630424470014 or IRC @ irc.rizon.net #ubcsc
AcrossFiveJulys
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
United States3612 Posts
December 13 2010 19:42 GMT
#4
I see right through you. You want all the girls besides the ones already taken for yourself, don't you? Don't you, Mr. Giz?
wrestlingfool08
Profile Joined November 2009
United States139 Posts
December 13 2010 19:45 GMT
#5
I agree for the most part. Most people who date in high school get relationship-centered and lose sight of their friends, family, grades, morals, etc in the process. However, sometimes you do need to take advice relating to you relationship. An extreme case being one side is getting beaten by the other, so friends recommend they leave the abusive relationship. I think I understand what you were trying to say, though.
GunSec
Profile Joined February 2010
1095 Posts
December 13 2010 19:46 GMT
#6
I agree, a GF really TAKES a lot of time! It's not easy at all :/
n.DieJokes
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States3443 Posts
December 13 2010 19:48 GMT
#7
I want a girl who will study with me :/, its lonely in the library
MyLove + Your Love= Supa Love
Slithe
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
United States985 Posts
December 13 2010 19:49 GMT
#8
That is quite the devious ploy that TheGiz has enacted.

I think CanucksJC's one-line summary is on the money though. People do often try too hard to get a girlfriend, or it's on their mind so much that they cannot act normally around girls.
alypse
Profile Joined May 2010
2771 Posts
December 13 2010 19:54 GMT
#9
One hundred years of solitude.
KT Violet 1988 - 2012
NoUShutUp
Profile Joined January 2008
United States172 Posts
December 13 2010 19:58 GMT
#10
On December 14 2010 04:46 GunSec wrote:
I agree, a GF really TAKES a lot of time! It's not easy at all :/


I second that.
OpRaider
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States307 Posts
December 13 2010 19:59 GMT
#11
This whole thing was a contradiction. "Do not listen to anyone else when it comes to your relationship" Then why are you giving advice on ...relationships?

"you don't need a girlfriend, it will only screw you up" why do you have a girlfriend, and why are you happy?! girlfriends only screw you up!

"If you're not in a relationship stay out" rofl, wtf is this? Be lonely guys!
it is what it is -day9 airplane story
ReketSomething
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States6012 Posts
December 13 2010 20:03 GMT
#12
On December 14 2010 04:42 AcrossFiveJulys wrote:
I see right through you. You want all the girls besides the ones already taken for yourself, don't you? Don't you, Mr. Giz?


In genius O_O

I'm lonely...
Jaedong :3
Ghostcom
Profile Joined March 2010
Denmark4782 Posts
December 13 2010 20:05 GMT
#13
On December 14 2010 04:36 yoonyoon wrote:
So.... singles, die alone?


We are all alone when we die...
TheGiz
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada708 Posts
December 13 2010 20:07 GMT
#14
@OpRaider

1. I'm talking about general relationship advice versus targeted advice about YOUR relationship. Don't let people around you influence your relationship. Relationship advice about relationships in general is cool.
2. That sentence was talking about High School. High School is the biggest waste of time of our lives, and everyone gets it wrong thinking about the social aspects of it when schooling is all that matters. Girlfriends have the potential to draw you away from that. Even in university you should be cautious of this. Having a girlfriend itself can be a good thing, but it's like being successful in life - it requires blood, sweat, and tears along the way.
3. Be single, don't be lonely. If you stumble upon someone who turns out to be great then you'll recognize it, but don't think you NEED that.
Life is not about making due with what you have; it's about finding out just how much you can achieve. Never settle for anything less than the best. - - - Read my blog!
distant_voice
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Germany2521 Posts
December 13 2010 20:08 GMT
#15
sure, relationships are a lot of work, but that doesn't mean that you should wait until you think you've found someone you think you can stay together with forever.

you need to learn what you want from a relationship and how relationships work, and being dumped / breaking up a couple of times is part of the process.

if you want to focus on school and your career that's fine, but if that's all you do I'm sure you'll get good grades and feel utterly empty inside.
This is my truth, tell me yours!
dbosworld
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States317 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-13 20:14:11
December 13 2010 20:11 GMT
#16
Just don't do it.
Former CAL-I/CPL CounterStrike Player - Halo1PC CPL/CAL Player
wooozy
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
3813 Posts
December 13 2010 20:11 GMT
#17
i literally had 0 friends in high school (aww yee, internetz) so i think i'm on the right track

..
..

nokz88
Profile Joined October 2010
Brazil1253 Posts
December 13 2010 20:12 GMT
#18
On December 14 2010 04:54 alypse wrote:
One hundred years of solitude.


The funny thing is that that book is all about people boning people. I have no idea as to why Gabriel Garcial Marquez gave his book its name.
in a state of trance
MiniRoman
Profile Blog Joined September 2003
Canada3953 Posts
December 13 2010 20:12 GMT
#19
On December 14 2010 04:48 n.DieJokes wrote:
I want a girl who will study with me :/, its lonely in the library


bitches love the library. i want a girl who will drink at noon with me on campus.
Nak Allstar.
Slivered Skin
Profile Joined September 2010
Canada347 Posts
December 13 2010 20:12 GMT
#20
On December 14 2010 05:07 TheGiz wrote:
@OpRaider

1. I'm talking about general relationship advice versus targeted advice about YOUR relationship. Don't let people around you influence your relationship. Relationship advice about relationships in general is cool.
2. That sentence was talking about High School. High School is the biggest waste of time of our lives, and everyone gets it wrong thinking about the social aspects of it when schooling is all that matters. Girlfriends have the potential to draw you away from that. Even in university you should be cautious of this. Having a girlfriend itself can be a good thing, but it's like being successful in life - it requires blood, sweat, and tears along the way.
3. Be single, don't be lonely. If you stumble upon someone who turns out to be great then you'll recognize it, but don't think you NEED that.


If you're always aiming to get the maximum amount of efficiency out of life you're going to have a rather dull one. You could also argue that you shouldn't have a girlfriend while you're working, because she'll detract from your 16 hour days/7 days a week schedule. How are you going to get promoted if you aren't dedicating everything to your job?!

I know plenty of people who met their wives in high school, and who are incredibly happy and successful now. I went through high school focusing on the social aspects of it, and still got into the program I wanted at the university I wanted. It's all about balance.
Those most oft mated find love’s motive in a word: inebriated - Get well Violet!! And sC!! T_T
hazelynut
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States2195 Posts
December 13 2010 20:52 GMT
#21
It's funny and a little sad when I hear my friends talking about how they have to keep up a cool exterior to keep a girlfriend. That's how I usually predict the length of their relationship -_-;; to me, at least, the point of a relationship is to be able to be yourself (but with someone!), no judgments. For example, hiding the fact that you play SC2 is an insta-sign of relationship failure. Nerds should be proud, and nerd-gfs should be proud of that.
Zerg | life of lively to live to life of full life thx to shield battery | www.cstarleague.com <3
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32066 Posts
December 13 2010 20:52 GMT
#22
not having a gf in hs and getting one in college is the most ass backwards logic ive ever heard
PROFESSIONAL GAMER - SEND ME OFFERS TO JOIN YOUR TEAM - USA USA USA
EffectS
Profile Joined May 2010
Belgium795 Posts
December 13 2010 21:02 GMT
#23
To title: Yes please!
...
I thought this thread would give me girl advice. But it just makes my life even sadder.
Forevere alone...
TEEHEE
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
December 13 2010 21:20 GMT
#24
On December 14 2010 05:52 Hawk wrote:
not having a gf in hs and getting one in college is the most ass backwards logic ive ever heard


LOL true
why so 진지해?
TheGiz
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada708 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-13 21:29:46
December 13 2010 21:28 GMT
#25
On December 14 2010 05:52 Hawk wrote:
not having a gf in hs and getting one in college is the most ass backwards logic ive ever heard


Depends how stable they are. Mine wants only for me to be successful in school. Other girls want you to drop out and spend time with them. While one can see that staying in school no matter what is the best course of action (and believe me, it is), women are NOT LOGICAL.

Few people are mature enough for a real relationship in high school. Any super-relationships in my high school didn't last into October as soon as university started. Bang all the sluts you want - I wish I did - but don't think that you're going to find miss perfect.
Life is not about making due with what you have; it's about finding out just how much you can achieve. Never settle for anything less than the best. - - - Read my blog!
emperorchampion
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada9496 Posts
December 13 2010 21:32 GMT
#26
ahahahaa this thread is awesome, it's like having a contest named "Get a million dollars!" then the criteria for winning is working for 30yrs making $33 000 a year.

Thanks man :D
TRUEESPORTS || your days as a respected member of team liquid are over
Shockk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Germany2269 Posts
December 13 2010 21:35 GMT
#27
On December 14 2010 04:33 TheGiz wrote:
My point is that if you are not in a relationship stay out for a while, and if you are in one - stay the course, but only if it isn't actually hurting you.


You seem to have had some bad experiences. A relationship only is "hard work" if things aren't running the way they should be. You're giving bad advice if you recommend avoiding relationships in general, because in the best case, something good may come out of it, and in the worst case, it's a way to learn some lessons for life.
BroOd
Profile Blog Joined April 2003
Austin10831 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-13 21:36:10
December 13 2010 21:35 GMT
#28
On December 14 2010 06:32 emperorchampion wrote:
ahahahaa this thread is awesome, it's like having a contest named "Get a million dollars!" then the criteria for winning is working for 30yrs making $33 000 a year.

It's more like: "Hungry? Eat food! But don't if you're not."
ModeratorSIRL and JLIG.
Moxi
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
708 Posts
December 13 2010 21:43 GMT
#29
On December 14 2010 04:46 GunSec wrote:
I agree, a GF really TAKES a lot of time! It's not easy at all :/


So does gaming
emperorchampion
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada9496 Posts
December 13 2010 21:46 GMT
#30
On December 14 2010 06:35 BroOd wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 14 2010 06:32 emperorchampion wrote:
ahahahaa this thread is awesome, it's like having a contest named "Get a million dollars!" then the criteria for winning is working for 30yrs making $33 000 a year.

It's more like: "Hungry? Eat food! But don't if you're not."


"Wanna bang sluts? Do it! Wanna find Miss Perfect? Hope you're not in High School!"

Hmm, what other topics can we extend this new found logic to?
TRUEESPORTS || your days as a respected member of team liquid are over
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32066 Posts
December 13 2010 21:49 GMT
#31
On December 14 2010 06:28 TheGiz wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 14 2010 05:52 Hawk wrote:
not having a gf in hs and getting one in college is the most ass backwards logic ive ever heard


Depends how stable they are. Mine wants only for me to be successful in school. Other girls want you to drop out and spend time with them. While one can see that staying in school no matter what is the best course of action (and believe me, it is), women are NOT LOGICAL.

Few people are mature enough for a real relationship in high school. Any super-relationships in my high school didn't last into October as soon as university started. Bang all the sluts you want - I wish I did - but don't think that you're going to find miss perfect.


what ever could go wrong with in an environment where there are raging hormones, no inhibitions, thousands of gallons of cheap booze and sorority mixers where the winner is the girl who fills her stomach up with semen the quickest????


PROFESSIONAL GAMER - SEND ME OFFERS TO JOIN YOUR TEAM - USA USA USA
Slivered Skin
Profile Joined September 2010
Canada347 Posts
December 13 2010 22:01 GMT
#32
On December 14 2010 06:46 emperorchampion wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 14 2010 06:35 BroOd wrote:
On December 14 2010 06:32 emperorchampion wrote:
ahahahaa this thread is awesome, it's like having a contest named "Get a million dollars!" then the criteria for winning is working for 30yrs making $33 000 a year.

It's more like: "Hungry? Eat food! But don't if you're not."


"Wanna bang sluts? Do it! Wanna find Miss Perfect? Hope you're not in High School!"

Hmm, what other topics can we extend this new found logic to?


I would say "Wanna play Starcraft? Get a job, you filthy freeloader!! You can play Starcraft once you're retired!!"
Those most oft mated find love’s motive in a word: inebriated - Get well Violet!! And sC!! T_T
Frobert
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
Canada113 Posts
December 13 2010 22:04 GMT
#33
This is terrible advice. I shouldn't have to explain why, should I?

If you have to spend so much time studying that you don't have time for personal relationships, you are missing out on the most important lessons you can learn at university.

And not learning to balance stress, work, and being in a relationship is a recipe for disaster if you end up wanting to be with someone down the line. The advice in this blog is essentially saying to stay away from a relationship as long as you have work to do, as it is too much of a distraction. You do realize that once you have a career, you will have just as much or more work to do, right? What about people who value friendship and love over getting grades?
FlopTurnReaver
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
Switzerland1980 Posts
December 13 2010 22:08 GMT
#34
Now that's probably the dumbest blog I've read on TL so far. You're just putting everyone in the same pot (dunno if that saying exists like that in english). There are actually people who can manage 2 things at the same time. Only because you couldn't doesn't mean that everyone's like you.

Especially this made me laugh a little inside:
On December 14 2010 04:33 TheGiz wrote:
My point is that if you are not in a relationship stay out for a while, and if you are in one - stay the course, but only if it isn't actually hurting you.


Are you telling people that have never been in a relationship to not even try because it might not be worth it? And I'm not even gonna comment on the second one, that's actually pretty funny imo^^
Check out @MapOfTheMonth on Twitter and under http://bit.ly/motmorg
Future)Breeze
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Croatia88 Posts
December 13 2010 22:12 GMT
#35
Totally misleading blog name. Also, that wasn't very helpful for anyone. You dont tell ppl, hey dont have gf and get into serious relationship if you dont want to work on it, or stay alone if you dont want to commit yet. Most ppl already know that, and if they dont, they should and will learn that soon. I have been in over 40 relationships in last few years, with girls junger 5-6 years than me and girls older 7-8 years than me and i still think every day about relationships and learn something new from every new one. I see kids and even ppl my age (21) getting into "serious" relationships while they are just kids and havent experience anything in life and learned nothing about love or commitment and they are already planning to have a child and are moving in together. Problem is that everyone around them (but they dont) see that that kind of stuff is really wrong and is going to ruin their lives. Ok, grats to those who "make it" and live happily ever after, but most ppl i know that are rushing things up are a total mess now and acting really retarded when they are together becouse they are too young and inexperienced for that kind of life. Im glad about you and yours gf and i value relationships that went trough a lot, but im just saying that you shouldn't give "tips" about gf just because of that. Because, lets say you break up one day, you find new love etc etc and im pretty sure if you are happy with it that you will realize that you can never be too experienced to talk about it and that every new person that you meet can give you whole new perspective on life.
Comeh
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States18918 Posts
December 13 2010 22:13 GMT
#36
On December 14 2010 05:12 Slivered Skin wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 14 2010 05:07 TheGiz wrote:
@OpRaider

1. I'm talking about general relationship advice versus targeted advice about YOUR relationship. Don't let people around you influence your relationship. Relationship advice about relationships in general is cool.
2. That sentence was talking about High School. High School is the biggest waste of time of our lives, and everyone gets it wrong thinking about the social aspects of it when schooling is all that matters. Girlfriends have the potential to draw you away from that. Even in university you should be cautious of this. Having a girlfriend itself can be a good thing, but it's like being successful in life - it requires blood, sweat, and tears along the way.
3. Be single, don't be lonely. If you stumble upon someone who turns out to be great then you'll recognize it, but don't think you NEED that.


If you're always aiming to get the maximum amount of efficiency out of life you're going to have a rather dull one. You could also argue that you shouldn't have a girlfriend while you're working, because she'll detract from your 16 hour days/7 days a week schedule. How are you going to get promoted if you aren't dedicating everything to your job?!

I know plenty of people who met their wives in high school, and who are incredibly happy and successful now. I went through high school focusing on the social aspects of it, and still got into the program I wanted at the university I wanted. It's all about balance.

Life isn't about maximizing efficiency - rather, life is about maximizing utility. The more utility, ie happiness you get out of life, the better off you will be. If getting you a girlfriend gives you a lot of happiness, then I don't see the big deal.
ヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノDELETE ICEFROGヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(⌐■_■)ノヽ(
Zergneedsfood
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States10671 Posts
December 13 2010 22:35 GMT
#37
This OP:

10% - Advice
90% - I have a girlfriend in College and will marry her.
/人◕ ‿‿ ◕人\ Make a contract with me and join TLADT | Onodera isn't actually a girl, she's just a doormat you walk over to get to the girl. - Numy 2015
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27149 Posts
December 13 2010 23:18 GMT
#38
and for the love of God do not listen to anyone else when it comes to your relationship.


I will take your advice and ignore the rest of what you said in your blog. :p
ModeratorGodfather
Snowbear
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Korea (South)1925 Posts
December 13 2010 23:27 GMT
#39
On December 14 2010 04:33 TheGiz wrote:

My girlfriend and I have been going out of 3.5 years and will one day be married. We started going out after 1st year university. We have had many arguments and gone through many rough times together both with each other and in our respective lives. It has been a lot of work, still is, and still will be, but in the end all that matters is that we're with each other.


I'm in the exact same situation. I met my girl in my first year (law school) and 3 years later we are still together. We also had a lot of arguments and it's damn hard to give her what she deserves. I have so much work and I would like to do those things that I can't do anymore when I'm married, like for example playing starcraft (I don't see myself playing when I have kids). I'm pretty sure that she will become my wife in a few years =)
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
December 13 2010 23:29 GMT
#40
Wish I hadn't started playing Starcraft in high school.

I remember on the morning of my first day at high school, I was playing Starcraft until 3 AM.
Boblion
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
France8043 Posts
December 13 2010 23:33 GMT
#41
Don't worry Moltke you will eventually marry a Western princess.
fuck all those elitists brb watching streams of elite players.
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-13 23:51:12
December 13 2010 23:40 GMT
#42
On December 14 2010 08:33 Boblion wrote:
Don't worry Moltke you will eventually marry a Western princess.


Social ambition doesn't work that way, I'm afraid. Not even for foreigners.

There's something particularly pernicious about men attempting to marry upwards. At the very worst, a man becomes interested in a woman at the top of his own class. Very rarely does he attempt to rise relentlessly beyond that.

The lives of Julien Sorel and Pip are delightful stories about those who attempt to do so.
konadora *
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Singapore66170 Posts
December 14 2010 01:10 GMT
#43
forever alone tt
POGGERS
supernovamaniac
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States3046 Posts
December 14 2010 01:13 GMT
#44
People still taking irl advice from TLers. lol.
ppp
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-14 01:22:44
December 14 2010 01:21 GMT
#45
It's certainly no worse than taking advice from some of my family members. Especially those who suffer fresh epiphanies every six or nine months, and become protean monomaniacs.

It's a rather natural instinct to protect your friends and acquaintances from lagging more than one lesson behind you in the course of life lessons. I understand some of the finest exemplars of our generation plan on making careers in education.
Entropic
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Canada2837 Posts
December 14 2010 02:22 GMT
#46
On December 14 2010 10:10 konadora wrote:
forever alone tt


Forever alone indeed. T_T
THEPPLsELBOW
Profile Joined November 2010
United States190 Posts
December 14 2010 06:43 GMT
#47
If you're single at college, heres my advice, get a UFB.

= understanding fuck buddy

= a girl that likes you, likes sex with you, and has the cognitive skill to understand that you dont want a relationship, but that doesn't mean good sex has to be passed up.

She is the girl who asks you what you're doing each weekend, if she isn't up to anything. She hangs around you and deals with annoying friends. She can talk to her girlfriends about your relationship without feeling slutty, and more importantly, she doesn't need any sort of commitment-work.

So how do you find these girls.

A. get good with meeting people/networking.

B. get good at attracting girls (and laying them obviously). Once a girl lays you, its like forming an archon bond. well maybe not definite, but 99/100 the girl feels way more comfortable/connected with you.

If at any of the points your UFB turns into a dramatic bitch, just find a new one (while trying make the break as casual as possible "we weren't even going out haha")

Most important part: If you ever get to needy with her, she will start ignoring you/leaving you. Give her her space and she will give you yours. While both your idle times will be spent together.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
December 14 2010 06:52 GMT
#48
wow, what a player.
why so 진지해?
Zim23
Profile Joined August 2010
United States1681 Posts
December 14 2010 07:06 GMT
#49
On December 14 2010 15:43 THEPPLsELBOW wrote:
If you're single at college, heres my advice, get a UFB.

= understanding fuck buddy

= a girl that likes you, likes sex with you, and has the cognitive skill to understand that you dont want a relationship, but that doesn't mean good sex has to be passed up.

She is the girl who asks you what you're doing each weekend, if she isn't up to anything. She hangs around you and deals with annoying friends. She can talk to her girlfriends about your relationship without feeling slutty, and more importantly, she doesn't need any sort of commitment-work.

So how do you find these girls.

A. get good with meeting people/networking.

B. get good at attracting girls (and laying them obviously). Once a girl lays you, its like forming an archon bond. well maybe not definite, but 99/100 the girl feels way more comfortable/connected with you.

If at any of the points your UFB turns into a dramatic bitch, just find a new one (while trying make the break as casual as possible "we weren't even going out haha")

Most important part: If you ever get to needy with her, she will start ignoring you/leaving you. Give her her space and she will give you yours. While both your idle times will be spent together.

While you're at it just go out there and find an enormous amount of money. This will be very helpful because you could use that money to buy stuff.

Here's how you find money.

A. Find a treasure map, these almost always lead to some sort of cash (there might be a curse involved).

B. Get the UFB to pay you for sex. This works 99/100 of the time.

Once you get this money I suggest hiding it somewhere safe, but every once in a while put it in a pile and swim through it. This is very important, you must not neglect the money swimming.
Do an arranged marriage if she's not completely minging, and don't worry about dancing, get a go-kart, cheers.
THEPPLsELBOW
Profile Joined November 2010
United States190 Posts
December 14 2010 07:13 GMT
#50
On December 14 2010 16:06 Zim23 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 14 2010 15:43 THEPPLsELBOW wrote:
If you're single at college, heres my advice, get a UFB.

= understanding fuck buddy

= a girl that likes you, likes sex with you, and has the cognitive skill to understand that you dont want a relationship, but that doesn't mean good sex has to be passed up.

She is the girl who asks you what you're doing each weekend, if she isn't up to anything. She hangs around you and deals with annoying friends. She can talk to her girlfriends about your relationship without feeling slutty, and more importantly, she doesn't need any sort of commitment-work.

So how do you find these girls.

A. get good with meeting people/networking.

B. get good at attracting girls (and laying them obviously). Once a girl lays you, its like forming an archon bond. well maybe not definite, but 99/100 the girl feels way more comfortable/connected with you.

If at any of the points your UFB turns into a dramatic bitch, just find a new one (while trying make the break as casual as possible "we weren't even going out haha")

Most important part: If you ever get to needy with her, she will start ignoring you/leaving you. Give her her space and she will give you yours. While both your idle times will be spent together.

While you're at it just go out there and find an enormous amount of money. This will be very helpful because you could use that money to buy stuff.

Here's how you find money.

A. Find a treasure map, these almost always lead to some sort of cash (there might be a curse involved).

B. Get the UFB to pay you for sex. This works 99/100 of the time.

Once you get this money I suggest hiding it somewhere safe, but every once in a while put it in a pile and swim through it. This is very important, you must not neglect the money swimming.


if you're forming the analogy that a girl, who will lay you, and happens to match this personality is as unattainable as a treasure map, then you are mistaken.

if you're not good with women, im not saying having sex with one will be something easy. It takes repetition and failure.

there are plenty of websites that discuss "tactics..." but all in all you form your own strategy. (hint: being real and not trying to play her is always better)

i'm not here to discuss that really tho... just dont be afraid to ask a girl if she wants to come home to watch a movie and cuddle after a night out.
29 fps
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States5724 Posts
December 14 2010 07:28 GMT
#51
less bragging more ideas on how to get a gf, please. lol

OP title is misleading.

and how do you know when to get out of a relationship? some people hang on to dying relationships for too long, wasting both people's time.
4v4 is a battle of who has the better computer.
Servius_Fulvius
Profile Joined August 2009
United States947 Posts
December 14 2010 07:42 GMT
#52
Seriously, OP...Seriously?!

Most of what you're talking about is based on experience both you have had and the people in your life around you. Most of us can look back and say "yeah, I probably could have done without a couple relationships in my past", but hindsight is 20/20. We are the sum of our experiences and you shouldn't try to deny that from someone just because you've got it "figured out" (or, at least you think you do). Good or bad, relationships are something we all need experience in to find the right person.
Normal
Please log in or register to reply.
Live Events Refresh
Korean StarCraft League
03:00
Week 79
CranKy Ducklings123
davetesta40
HKG_Chickenman33
IntoTheiNu 23
Liquipedia
[ Submit Event ]
Live Streams
Refresh
StarCraft 2
Nina 268
RuFF_SC2 153
StarCraft: Brood War
ggaemo 871
Leta 201
Sexy 97
Dota 2
monkeys_forever914
NeuroSwarm116
LuMiX0
League of Legends
JimRising 667
Counter-Strike
C9.Mang0384
Stewie2K335
Super Smash Bros
amsayoshi53
Other Games
tarik_tv12807
summit1g7735
shahzam526
ViBE224
Trikslyr39
Organizations
Other Games
gamesdonequick917
BasetradeTV34
StarCraft 2
Blizzard YouTube
StarCraft: Brood War
BSLTrovo
sctven
[ Show 14 non-featured ]
StarCraft 2
• Berry_CruncH67
• Sammyuel 14
• AfreecaTV YouTube
• intothetv
• Kozan
• IndyKCrew
• LaughNgamezSOOP
• Migwel
• sooper7s
StarCraft: Brood War
• BSLYoutube
• STPLYoutube
• ZZZeroYoutube
League of Legends
• Lourlo697
• Stunt248
Upcoming Events
CranKy Ducklings
5h 39m
SC Evo League
7h 39m
WardiTV Summer Champion…
8h 39m
Classic vs Percival
Spirit vs NightMare
CSO Cup
11h 39m
[BSL 2025] Weekly
13h 39m
Sparkling Tuna Cup
1d 5h
SC Evo League
1d 7h
Replay Cast
1d 19h
Afreeca Starleague
2 days
Queen vs HyuN
EffOrt vs Calm
Wardi Open
2 days
[ Show More ]
RotterdaM Event
2 days
Replay Cast
2 days
Afreeca Starleague
3 days
Rush vs TBD
Jaedong vs Mong
Afreeca Starleague
4 days
herO vs TBD
Royal vs Barracks
Replay Cast
4 days
The PondCast
5 days
Replay Cast
5 days
LiuLi Cup
6 days
Cosmonarchy
6 days
OyAji vs Sziky
Sziky vs WolFix
WolFix vs OyAji
BSL Team Wars
6 days
Team Hawk vs Team Dewalt
BSL Team Wars
6 days
Team Hawk vs Team Bonyth
Liquipedia Results

Completed

Jiahua Invitational
uThermal 2v2 Main Event
HCC Europe

Ongoing

Copa Latinoamericana 4
BSL 20 Team Wars
KCM Race Survival 2025 Season 3
BSL 21 Qualifiers
ASL Season 20
CSL Season 18: Qualifier 1
Acropolis #4 - TS1
CSLAN 3
SEL Season 2 Championship
WardiTV Summer 2025
Esports World Cup 2025
BLAST Bounty Fall 2025
BLAST Bounty Fall Qual
IEM Cologne 2025
FISSURE Playground #1
BLAST.tv Austin Major 2025

Upcoming

CSL Season 18: Qualifier 2
CSL 2025 AUTUMN (S18)
LASL Season 20
BSL Season 21
BSL 21 Team A
Chzzk MurlocKing SC1 vs SC2 Cup #2
RSL Revival: Season 2
Maestros of the Game
EC S1
Sisters' Call Cup
IEM Chengdu 2025
PGL Masters Bucharest 2025
Thunderpick World Champ.
MESA Nomadic Masters Fall
CS Asia Championships 2025
Roobet Cup 2025
ESL Pro League S22
StarSeries Fall 2025
FISSURE Playground #2
BLAST Open Fall 2025
BLAST Open Fall Qual
TLPD

1. ByuN
2. TY
3. Dark
4. Solar
5. Stats
6. Nerchio
7. sOs
8. soO
9. INnoVation
10. Elazer
1. Rain
2. Flash
3. EffOrt
4. Last
5. Bisu
6. Soulkey
7. Mini
8. Sharp
Sidebar Settings...

Advertising | Privacy Policy | Terms Of Use | Contact Us

Original banner artwork: Jim Warren
The contents of this webpage are copyright © 2025 TLnet. All Rights Reserved.