EPTInnocent love and adult love - Page 3
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[NyC]HoBbes
United States803 Posts
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Deleted User 55994
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that's love! | ||
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Yggdrasil Leaf
221 Posts
On July 16 2010 07:06 sLiniss wrote: I think you just gotta find the right lady. But are you complaining about sex or having a relationship? Or both. But understand they are not the same. I think I know what you are talking about. But if you have a relationship, you usually have sex. That's natural. But sex is not the same with every girl, obviously. On July 16 2010 08:42 Count9 wrote: God damn it. Without this thread I probably wouldn't have realized it for a few years. Fuck. I hate introspection, now I feel the same /sigh Eerrrr..... ups?... On July 16 2010 13:46 faction123 wrote: ah yes, a post about love followed by you telling us what you mean, which is 100% related to sex that's love! You didn't get my jokes or what I was trying to say. P.S.: Btw, although I only answered a few posts, I do appreciate all. There were some interesting and thoughtful answers. Thanks. | ||
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MrBitter
United States2940 Posts
"... fag." | ||
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Yggdrasil Leaf
221 Posts
On July 16 2010 22:07 MrBitter wrote: I get what you're saying. And I know I'm a douche. But after reading your whole post, my first and only thought: "... fag." And so you reveal yourself. | ||
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sLiniss
United States849 Posts
On July 16 2010 22:03 Yggdrasil Leaf wrote: I think I know what you are talking about. But if you have a relationship, you usually have sex. That's natural. But sex is not the same with every girl, obviously. I don't think this is necessary (for pre-marriage at least), but I wouldn't doubt that most pre-marriage couples have sex in modern day anyways. When I read ur OP, I was quick to judge. It sounded like your relationship revolved around sex, or at least it is a big part of it. The rest of this post will be assuming this is true, please don't take it the wrong way if this assumption is just completely wrong. I think that you maybe you are bored of the same kind of sexual relationships you've been having. Maybe realizing that a sexual relationship is very empty and you are looking for something much more meaningful. Again, I stress that this is based on that one assumption. I've seen you around the forums Ygg, and I respect you dude. Just trying to share words of wisdom ya know?  | ||
Chill
Calgary25980 Posts
On July 16 2010 04:19 SoManyDeadLings wrote: Envy me. *brag* I'm in one of those tender-cant-get-enough-of-each-other-give-and-ask-for-sweet-kisses-soft caresses-and-tender-affection-nonstop relationships that you speak of. But in all seriousness, thanks for the heads up. I'll make sure to savor my time extra carefully now for the next few years (just turned 20). I don't believe anything you say until the end of time. | ||
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Yggdrasil Leaf
221 Posts
On July 16 2010 22:39 sLiniss wrote: I don't think this is necessary (for pre-marriage at least), but I wouldn't doubt that most pre-marriage couples have sex in modern day anyways. When I read ur OP, I was quick to judge. It sounded like your relationship revolved around sex, or at least it is a big part of it. The rest of this post will be assuming this is true, please don't take it the wrong way if this assumption is just completely wrong. I think that you maybe you are bored of the same kind of sexual relationships you've been having. Maybe realizing that a sexual relationship is very empty and you are looking for something much more meaningful. Again, I stress that this is based on that one assumption. I've seen you around the forums Ygg, and I respect you dude. Just trying to share words of wisdom ya know? Alright, I appreciate it. I would still like to say that intercourse is just a natural consequence of getting along with a girl and enjoying each other. I do not get the no pre-marriage sex thing. We no longer live in a society where we have to worry about the legitimacy of our children for various reasons. And we have contraceptives. Also, I'm not focusing on casual sex. I'm not a promiscuous character. Note that when I speak directly about sex in my blog I do it with a joke. I understand that not everyone can understand my sense of humor, but why get so impressed about those parts? Btw, isn't it plain from my blog that I focus more on the interaction of touches than just thrusting? Intercourse is no longer a life-changing experience for me (I'm not a teenager anymore), so I speak about it with no worries and without thinking. It is you that is focused on the topic of sex. But, my friend, this blog is simply about the difficulty of meeting a woman with whom you can actually have a connection that makes you genuinely happy like when you felt the first touch of a girl. Others got it. | ||
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
I do regret one thing though. I had a summer fling a few years ago and I didn't pursue her enough and shit just fizzled out (probably found some other guy to date). This chick wasn't really that special or anything but she was so cool and fun to be around. I felt like she made me a better man and I just let her slip away. I'm 26 now and in a relationship with the next girl who came along since then. And I'm perfectly fine being in this long relationship without having love, passion, or whatever. But then again I associate all the cuddling,foreplay, etc as just part of lust. Never met a girl who didn't like it, maybe you are just doing it wrong? A lot of this relationship is weighted on the sex which is good, but even without it I could still see myself being this girl's friend forever. But I don't know about marriage, if that makes sense. She has this need for me, that I do not reciprocate in the same way, but at least she understands it. It's almost like she's just a placeholder as bad as that sounds. I'm kind of an asshole though if you haven't noticed, so don't mind me. | ||
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