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On June 28 2010 02:14 CheAse wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2010 02:12 Djzapz wrote:On June 28 2010 02:08 Mastermind wrote: Go with option A. Do yourself a big favour and never talk to her again. You are only going to get hurt more if you do.
Really so your exs shouldn't have sex? not with your friend when they want to get back together with you.... Their intentions don't really matter, it's fine to turn that down if they're trying to get back together with you.
But yeah, it's not fine for her to bone your friends but your friends can bone your exs?
I think it's weird.
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They shouldnt have sex when she pretty much tells me she still wants to date? Do you not see the unfairness in this? What's unfair, from my understanding she was honest and put her cards on the table. Doesn't get more fair than that.
I plan on listening to her, letting her tell me her soupy bullshit then telling her to go fuck herself and never talking to her again.
My friend is alright, i dont think he knew about ..anything if he did then ill tell him the same thing and promptly never talk to him again either. That's childish.
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On June 28 2010 02:15 Djzapz wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2010 02:14 CheAse wrote:On June 28 2010 02:12 Djzapz wrote:On June 28 2010 02:08 Mastermind wrote: Go with option A. Do yourself a big favour and never talk to her again. You are only going to get hurt more if you do.
Really so your exs shouldn't have sex? not with your friend when they want to get back together with you.... Their intentions don't really matter, it's fine to turn that down if they're trying to get back together with you. But yeah, it's not fine for her to bone your friends but your friends can bone your exs? I think it's weird. No its def not fine for him to do it to her either, However the only reason i could make an exception here is based on the fact while we were dating i never talked to anyone about it except her friends and all of that. so theres no way that he would know what the fuck she told me all the time, and im highly doubtful that she told him anything.
So i can still have a problem with it but its not as big of a problem as her fucking around with him
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Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with.
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On June 28 2010 02:18 Bash wrote: Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with. Honestly i have the same vibe, because me and my friends do shit like this to piss each other off all the time, her other friend also seemed to be clueless about the matter in a way.
Either way im probably not going to talk to her again.
And yeah it was fairly recent i believe we broke up the 22nd or 27th? of april some time in that range
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I think B is a good option. Your friend could have done something to stop her right?
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On June 28 2010 02:21 TaaiJoeng wrote:I think B is a good option. Your friend could have done something to stop her right? If he had known about it i have no doubt he would have, however like the post a bit above says im still trying to decide whether this is one of those really really bad jokes, or what exactly is going on here.
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On June 28 2010 02:18 Bash wrote: Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with. More likely she can't keep her pants on with other men but is emotionally comfortable with Arb.
Basically, he is screwed.
Although, I wouldn't put it past young females to do even stupider things like make situations up.
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On June 28 2010 02:37 Romantic wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2010 02:18 Bash wrote: Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with. More likely she can't keep her pants on with other men but is emotionally comfortable with Arb. Basically, he is screwed. Although, I wouldn't put it past young females to do even stupider things like make situations up. She basically is insisting atm(talking atm) that she will never see my friend again so its "done and over with"
Though i agree im prolly pretty fucked
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Ask your friend what happened and decide from there.
Also I expected Seakings
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On June 28 2010 02:39 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2010 02:37 Romantic wrote:On June 28 2010 02:18 Bash wrote: Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with. More likely she can't keep her pants on with other men but is emotionally comfortable with Arb. Basically, he is screwed. Although, I wouldn't put it past young females to do even stupider things like make situations up. She basically is insisting atm(talking atm) that she will never see my friend again so its "done and over with" Though i agree im prolly pretty fucked Keep in mind that guys who blindly believe in UFOs being aliens aren't exactly difficult to lie to.
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On June 28 2010 02:40 Djzapz wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2010 02:39 arb wrote:On June 28 2010 02:37 Romantic wrote:On June 28 2010 02:18 Bash wrote: Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with. More likely she can't keep her pants on with other men but is emotionally comfortable with Arb. Basically, he is screwed. Although, I wouldn't put it past young females to do even stupider things like make situations up. She basically is insisting atm(talking atm) that she will never see my friend again so its "done and over with" Though i agree im prolly pretty fucked Keep in mind that guys who blindly believe in UFOs being aliens aren't exactly difficult to lie to. Possibly, however, god damnit youre right. Going to tell her to fuck off and not worry about it anymore
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One hoe said, "Big, why you so hard on us? Why you swear all bitches are so scandalous?" Thug nigga 'til the end, tell a friend bitch 'cause when I like ya, then ya go and fuck my friend bitch And you know that ain't right
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I expected something to do with Pokemon.
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On June 28 2010 02:44 Disregard wrote: I expected something to do with Pokemon. For everyone who expected Seaking there is an asian girl the OP to help you feel better
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On June 28 2010 02:21 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2010 02:18 Bash wrote: Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with. Honestly i have the same vibe, because me and my friends do shit like this to piss each other off all the time, her other friend also seemed to be clueless about the matter in a way. Either way im probably not going to talk to her again. And yeah it was fairly recent i believe we broke up the 22nd or 27th? of april some time in that range
How long were the two of you together?
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On June 28 2010 02:41 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2010 02:40 Djzapz wrote:On June 28 2010 02:39 arb wrote:On June 28 2010 02:37 Romantic wrote:On June 28 2010 02:18 Bash wrote: Not knowing anything except what you have just written, I get a strong vibe of her telling you this just to piss you off or see whether you still have feelings for her or whatever narcissistic pleasure she might be after.
I mean yeah, since you broke up you don't really have a say in who she decides to bang but she has to know that rubbing it in your face like this is going to provoke a reaction, especially if she wants to stay friends with you then this isn't exactly the way to achieve that. From where I'm sitting it's hard to make a judgement whether he's stroking her own ego by setting you off to react this way or whether it's her social ineptitude that makes her not realise this may not be an appropriate topic of discussion with someone you were (I assume) fairly recently still involved with. More likely she can't keep her pants on with other men but is emotionally comfortable with Arb. Basically, he is screwed. Although, I wouldn't put it past young females to do even stupider things like make situations up. She basically is insisting atm(talking atm) that she will never see my friend again so its "done and over with" Though i agree im prolly pretty fucked Keep in mind that guys who blindly believe in UFOs being aliens aren't exactly difficult to lie to. Possibly, however, god damnit youre right. Going to tell her to fuck off and not worry about it anymore I've had an ex I still talked to once in a while. When I was dating her I could tell she would do just about anything to please anyone (except me of course, once someone actually likes a teenage female they quit trying) so I wasn't surprised how she would act when uncommitted. After we broke up she came to me for every slutty or stupid thing she did to... talk about it? It hurts man. Personally I wouldn't advise it in the future. After a week or so it stopped bothering me and I just started fucking with her like telling her the guy she fucked used to go to my school and was rumored to have STDs, etc.
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I thought you caught a shiny Seaking....
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http://www.pointsincase.com/articles/golden_rules_manhood.htm
III. If a girl falls into the following criteria, she is off limits forever until the end of time:
A. Was an ex-girlfriend. B. Your friend specifically told you he wanted her. C. Is you're buddy's sister.
However, if it's your buddy's cousin, well she's up for grabs, and you're welcome to rub it in his face for years to come.
Your friend was totally out of line.
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