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tika
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
127 Posts
November 12 2008 00:07 GMT
#1
edit: im 90% sure i posted this in General not in blog. apologies if i did and it was moved or something gay.


i dont need or want advice, i just want to hear your stories

you're absolutely in love with a person

he or she does not love you back, nor does he or she barely comprehend how powerful your feelings are, although he or she understand that you have those feelings (since you've let it be known, many times, in many ways abeit most probably unnoticed)

you are close friends with this person and talk about pretty much anything under the sun - and i do mean everything in a deeper sense of the term, from your innermost thoughts to your religion your past and your doubts fears hopes and values, up to the extent of sexual modesty, since that is a precarious subject between you for "obvious" reasons.

you have an understanding between one another that extends far beyond it.

you , for the first time in your life, due to various degrees of enlightenment, are "comfortable" (read: able) to interact with this person closely whilst containing the metaphorically violent expression of your love and desire.

how do you feel? your heart is constantly shattered, rebuilt and shattered again. you are on that fine line between honest friendship and pent up explosiveness, ever controlling it. every so often you have to let slip, at the most appropriate and innocent of times, casual phrases like "love you" or "you're awesome!". and all the while you wonder if she really has any idea of what you feel.

your act is so good. you have never been so strong in your life. a normal person would break down violently and the relationship would be forever gone. but it's not an act. if this person were same-gendered you would love them just as much. your "act" is only so that they don't feel uncomfortable, so that the relationship remains as intact as it can possibly be.

this person says to you...

"if simply being friends is really that difficult for you, perhaps we should just end it altogether. what do you think about that?"

and you answer...

"i don't know. i really don't know."

you're dying inside, you're almost fainting. do you have the strength to rally? how long can you keep this up for? is this the feeling of "hope" that keeps me alive? without this strength i would surely be wallowing in manic depression as i have done so many times before.

but how long can it last. i'm afraid. my only strength is in her own sense of enlightenment and the hope that she can forgive and accept me for what i am. and she seems to be able to do this. and for this i love her all the more.
Folca
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
2235 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-12 00:16:51
November 12 2008 00:09 GMT
#2
You definently fail
vGi-Cow moved it to the blog, and your idiot ass just posted again
:edit:
You're the one who should be growing up
Get over it, start thinking independently
The Leaders of Teamliquid didnt create this website so they can hear you cry about some girl
Dea : one time when he was playing vs the comps he asked me "how do I make that flying unit that makes the other stuff invisible" and I reply "ur playing terran zomg"
tika
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
127 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-12 00:14:35
November 12 2008 00:14 GMT
#3
its too uncommon and significant to be left in blog, if u read it its a unique experience that should b left open for a larger audience . imo

edit oh and grow up jesus
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
November 12 2008 00:18 GMT
#4
Hoho, it is NOT a unique experience on TL.
ModeratorNow I'm distant, dark in this anthrobeat
sushiman
Profile Joined September 2003
Sweden2691 Posts
November 12 2008 00:19 GMT
#5
I'd say it's not a unique experience in life either.
1000 at least.
Folca
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
2235 Posts
November 12 2008 00:20 GMT
#6
Obviously this persons new to the internet, and to reality, haha
Dea : one time when he was playing vs the comps he asked me "how do I make that flying unit that makes the other stuff invisible" and I reply "ur playing terran zomg"
H
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
New Zealand6138 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-12 00:22:01
November 12 2008 00:21 GMT
#7
On November 12 2008 09:14 tika wrote:
its too uncommon and significant to be left in blog, if u read it its a unique experience that should b left open for a larger audience . imo


Holy SHIT lol

hahahaha oh my god how deluded and self-important can you be
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tika
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
127 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-12 00:24:31
November 12 2008 00:21 GMT
#8
jibba i respect a lot of your posts in the past but recently it seems like ur doing very low level of thinking, i dont mean to be aggressive or offensive in any manner, just pointing out how u appear to myself and a couple of others. its so very easy for myself and others to slip into that "instant response" style but we sometimes all need a reminder that things are more than they immediately seem

edit: and this goes for folca who seems to think that the most significant points of our emotional lives are as simplistic as their own first fad loves at the age of 16 and not for example serious relationships between middle-aged adults
Nytefish
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United Kingdom4282 Posts
November 12 2008 00:23 GMT
#9
You sure ask a lot of questions.
No I'm never serious.
TheOvermind77
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States923 Posts
November 12 2008 00:23 GMT
#10
How old are you?

If you are below 18, then realize that things like this happen, and in retrospect you will find them silly.

But as for advice, keep the friendship. And if you can't keep the friendship and respect her friendship, then YOU need to move on. It is a very difficult line to walk, but do try. Good luck.
Awaken my child, and embrace the glory that is your birthright. Know that I am the Overmind; the eternal will of the Swarm, and that you have been created to serve me.
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-12 00:25:25
November 12 2008 00:24 GMT
#11
My post in the blog is dead serious. She knows that you want to be in a relationship and she's gone as far as to say you should end it if you can't handle just being friends, so you are definitely stuck in the friend zone. You're only going to forget about her by 1) not being friends anymore or 2) start a relationship with someone else. #2 is obviously the better choice if you haven't been intimate before.
ModeratorNow I'm distant, dark in this anthrobeat
LordWeird
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
United States3411 Posts
November 12 2008 00:24 GMT
#12
This thread is now about cereal.

My favorite is Cap'n Crunch.
Chains none
tika
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
127 Posts
November 12 2008 00:26 GMT
#13
On November 12 2008 09:23 TheOvermind77 wrote:
How old are you?

If you are below 18, then realize that things like this happen, and in retrospect you will find them silly.

But as for advice, keep the friendship. And if you can't keep the friendship and respect her friendship, then YOU need to move on. It is a very difficult line to walk, but do try. Good luck.


thanks for some form of encouragement at the least, it almost definately is as simple as what you say. just is some great comfort to hear from others in this lonely, lonely world we live in.
tika
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
127 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-12 00:31:45
November 12 2008 00:30 GMT
#14
On November 12 2008 09:24 Jibba wrote:
My post in the blog is dead serious. She knows that you want to be in a relationship and she's gone as far as to say you should end it if you can't handle just being friends, so you are definitely stuck in the friend zone. You're only going to forget about her by 1) not being friends anymore or 2) start a relationship with someone else. #2 is obviously the better choice if you haven't been intimate before.



no offense but in the "real world", at least between people who "think" as much as myself and my associates do, this is a very very ....unsophisticated, black and white way of thinking. if you are in a relationship with someone who is very thoughtful and intelligent, answers, paths, aren't so clearcut.

edit: this isn't america where relationships sprout and end on a whim. we put real value into our lives and what we do and what we experience.
bioboyAT
Profile Joined July 2004
Austria1763 Posts
November 12 2008 00:31 GMT
#15
oh lawdy what a sick world this is
Milchmann | DeadVessel: Milchmann pwns. I fail.
Nytefish
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United Kingdom4282 Posts
November 12 2008 00:32 GMT
#16
In a way I'm glad I don't "think" like you. My world isn't lonely and most problems have straightforward solutions.
No I'm never serious.
DennizR
Profile Joined May 2007
Sweden653 Posts
November 12 2008 00:32 GMT
#17
There is always more fish in the sea.
Showtime!
Profile Joined November 2007
Canada2938 Posts
November 12 2008 00:32 GMT
#18
You are walking on a thin line.

Stop being so emo.
Mini skirt season is right around the corner. ☻
ShinyGerbil
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Canada519 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-12 00:33:42
November 12 2008 00:33 GMT
#19
On November 12 2008 09:24 LordWeird wrote:
This thread is now about cereal.

My favorite is Cap'n Crunch.


Honey Bunches of Oats, most underrated and best tasting cereal out there.
[s]savior[/s] jaedong fighting! // member of LighT eSports
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
November 12 2008 00:34 GMT
#20
On November 12 2008 09:30 tika wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 12 2008 09:24 Jibba wrote:
My post in the blog is dead serious. She knows that you want to be in a relationship and she's gone as far as to say you should end it if you can't handle just being friends, so you are definitely stuck in the friend zone. You're only going to forget about her by 1) not being friends anymore or 2) start a relationship with someone else. #2 is obviously the better choice if you haven't been intimate before.



no offense but in the "real world", at least between people who "think" as much as myself and my associates do, this is a very very ....unsophisticated, black and white way of thinking. if you are in a relationship with someone who is very thoughtful and intelligent, answers, paths, aren't so clearcut.

edit: this isn't america where relationships sprout and end on a whim. we put real value into our lives and what we do and what we experience.

The Friend Zone is in international waters, sir.
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