|
Now that we have a new thread, in order to ensure that this thread continues to meet TL standards and follows the proper guidelines, we will be enforcing the rules in the OP more strictly. Be sure to give them a complete and thorough read before posting! NOTE: When providing a source, please provide a very brief summary on what it's about and what purpose it adds to the discussion. The supporting statement should clearly explain why the subject is relevant and needs to be discussed. Please follow this rule especially for tweets.
Your supporting statement should always come BEFORE you provide the source.If you have any questions, comments, concern, or feedback regarding the USPMT, then please use this thread: http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/website-feedback/510156-us-politics-thread |
I honestly don't understand why this is even a thing, if someone really wants to discriminate against gay people, just do it and don't tell them why and the law will protect you.
This is less about refusing to do gay wedding cakes, and more about being able to rub not doing it because they are gay in the gay couples face.
If you don't want to do the last part you probably won't get in any trouble.
EDIT: Racists and asshole bosses figured this out a long time ago.
|
On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not?
They do always end the same. I for one can't fathom why people bother to reply to him any more. There is nothing to be gained here.
|
On March 25 2018 09:16 Excludos wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? They do always end the same. I for one can't fathom why people bother to reply to him any more. There is nothing to be gained here.
My first try on the merry go round. Wondered if I might get a different result. Once nibbled, twice shy, as they say.
|
On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand.
Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays.
I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place.
|
On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place.
For the record, Danglars isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument.
As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)."
This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here.
You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal.
|
On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglar's isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal.
A lot of Christian sects would consider a wedding without God not a real marriage because it isn't only between the man and woman, but also between them and God. Rejecting God in the equation basically would not make it a Christian marriage.
|
On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglars isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal.
Just to be clear about why your explanation doesn't address (maybe your unsaid points do) why I mentioned the room thing is because an unwed/gay couple sharing a home/bed is something many Christians are strongly against as a result of a closely held religious belief and wouldn't be neutral in their eyes at all.
|
On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. You've yet to demonstrate that I disregard anybody's civil rights. You just say it over and over without a shred of evidence. Apparently you feel that religious people deserve the civil rights to encroach on other people's civil rights. I disagree with that, as I don't think anyone's civil rights should be held above anyone else's. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? Yes, and when I point it out, you say over and over again your assumption of secular marriages should win out. Religious people should not be forced by the state to create expressive art for marriage ceremonies they disagree with on religious grounds. They didn’t leave aside their first amendment protections the second they started a business. Your continued refusal to acknowledge free speech and free expression rights does not mean they do not exist. You closed your eyes to them the last two times, so i don’t expect you to acknowledge them now.
As before, you’re treating your private views on secular marriage as your own religion deserving of being forced on others. You’ve repeatedly taken the example of marriages without ceremony to prove that no religious person should feel differently baking cakes for weddings. It’s false. The ceremony is a distinctly religious event for many religions across the country. No vendor should be forced to provide custom artistic creation for an event of that kind as a requirement for staying in business. Their civil rights are being trod on by a Colorado agency, as well as other states. You think your views of marriage should trump religious peoples views on marriage, and their civil rights do not matter. Really, you should embrace this because you’ve repeatedly declared you’re in the right.
|
On March 25 2018 09:35 Slaughter wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglar's isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. A lot of Christian sects would consider a wedding without God not a real marriage because it isn't only between the man and woman, but also between them and God. Rejecting God in the equation basically would not make it a Christian marriage.
I quibble with "a lot." Nonetheless this is the answer to your question. If you don't believe that it's possible for two gay people to be married then that problem resolves itself. And I think for those who would refuse to service a wedding of two atheists that would also be within their rights. But at least here we are working in a framework not immediately dismissive of the particular Christian's claim, and that's what's missing from the conversation here.
On March 25 2018 09:38 GreenHorizons wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglars isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. Just to be clear about why your explanation doesn't address (maybe your unsaid points do) why I mentioned the room thing is because an unwed/gay couple sharing a home/bed is something many Christians are strongly against as a result of a closely held religious belief and wouldn't be neutral in their eyes at all.
So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners who would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing. I suspect you are working in the "the unmarried should live apart" belief and going too far with it, which would not surprise me I suppose.
|
On March 25 2018 09:39 Danglars wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. You've yet to demonstrate that I disregard anybody's civil rights. You just say it over and over without a shred of evidence. Apparently you feel that religious people deserve the civil rights to encroach on other people's civil rights. I disagree with that, as I don't think anyone's civil rights should be held above anyone else's. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? Yes, and when I point it out, you say over and over again your assumption of secular marriages should win out. Religious people should not be forced by the state to create expressive art for marriage ceremonies they disagree with on religious grounds. They didn’t leave aside their first amendment protections the second they started a business. Your continued refusal to acknowledge free speech and free expression rights does not mean they do not exist. You closed your eyes to them the last two times, so i don’t expect you to acknowledge them now. As before, you’re treating your private views on secular marriage as your own religion deserving of being forced on others. You’ve repeatedly taken the example of marriages without ceremony to prove that no religious person should feel differently baking cakes for weddings. It’s false. The ceremony is a distinctly religious event for many religions across the country. No vendor should be forced to provide custom artistic creation for an event of that kind as a requirement for staying in business. Their civil rights are being trod on by a Colorado agency, as well as other states. You think your views of marriage should trump religious peoples views on marriage, and their civil rights do not matter. Really, you should embrace this because you’ve repeatedly declared you’re in the right.
Interesting angle;
Would you oppose Christian bakers having to make cakes for civil union ceremonies? Since the whole point of them was that they were not marriages?
So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing
I'm not sure why that's supposed to matter?
suspect you are working in the "the unmarried should live apart" belief and going too far with it, which would not surprise me I suppose.
Not sure the last time you went to church but the whole no sex/sharing a bed (sexually mature adults) before marriage thing being a serious religious belief is still pretty popular. They even call it "sexual education" in several states. Plus these folks love the "thou shall not lay with another man" crap too.
|
On March 25 2018 09:43 GreenHorizons wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:39 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. You've yet to demonstrate that I disregard anybody's civil rights. You just say it over and over without a shred of evidence. Apparently you feel that religious people deserve the civil rights to encroach on other people's civil rights. I disagree with that, as I don't think anyone's civil rights should be held above anyone else's. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? Yes, and when I point it out, you say over and over again your assumption of secular marriages should win out. Religious people should not be forced by the state to create expressive art for marriage ceremonies they disagree with on religious grounds. They didn’t leave aside their first amendment protections the second they started a business. Your continued refusal to acknowledge free speech and free expression rights does not mean they do not exist. You closed your eyes to them the last two times, so i don’t expect you to acknowledge them now. As before, you’re treating your private views on secular marriage as your own religion deserving of being forced on others. You’ve repeatedly taken the example of marriages without ceremony to prove that no religious person should feel differently baking cakes for weddings. It’s false. The ceremony is a distinctly religious event for many religions across the country. No vendor should be forced to provide custom artistic creation for an event of that kind as a requirement for staying in business. Their civil rights are being trod on by a Colorado agency, as well as other states. You think your views of marriage should trump religious peoples views on marriage, and their civil rights do not matter. Really, you should embrace this because you’ve repeatedly declared you’re in the right. Interesting angle; Would you oppose Christian bakers having to make cakes for civil union ceremonies? Since the whole point of them was that they were not marriages? Show nested quote +So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing
I'm not sure why that's supposed to matter?
Because renting a room isn't a religious event? Nor is it an endorsement of an activity. Just like the baker is the current court case was not only willing to service them as customers before, if I recall he was actually willing to allow them to buy a pre-made cake for the occasion. The point is that this isn't an ad hoc reason to discriminate against icky people, it has actual moral grounding in a legitimately held belief. A such we have to reason these things out.
The difference between renting a room to some guys passing through and making a custom wedding cake should be painfully obvious.
Not sure the last time you went to church but the whole no sex/sharing a bed (sexually mature adults) before marriage thing being a serious religious belief is still pretty popular. They even call it "sexual education" in several states.
See above. They simply aren't the same category of thing, except under certain specific circumstances.
|
On March 25 2018 09:39 Danglars wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. You've yet to demonstrate that I disregard anybody's civil rights. You just say it over and over without a shred of evidence. Apparently you feel that religious people deserve the civil rights to encroach on other people's civil rights. I disagree with that, as I don't think anyone's civil rights should be held above anyone else's. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? Religious people should not be forced by the state to create expressive art for marriage ceremonies they disagree with on religious grounds. They didn’t leave aside their first amendment protections the second they started a business. Your continued refusal to acknowledge free speech and free expression rights does not mean they do not exist. You closed your eyes to them the last two times, so i don’t expect you to acknowledge them now. And the gay couple being refused service has rights under the fourteenth amendment. Your continued refusal to ignore equal protection rights and Congress's power to enforce them does not mean they do not exist.
Seriously. This is just like last May, when you got really fervent about defending the first amendment rights of people while ignoring those people's desires to remove the rights of others and actions that impinge on those rights.
|
On March 25 2018 09:43 GreenHorizons wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:39 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. You've yet to demonstrate that I disregard anybody's civil rights. You just say it over and over without a shred of evidence. Apparently you feel that religious people deserve the civil rights to encroach on other people's civil rights. I disagree with that, as I don't think anyone's civil rights should be held above anyone else's. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? Yes, and when I point it out, you say over and over again your assumption of secular marriages should win out. Religious people should not be forced by the state to create expressive art for marriage ceremonies they disagree with on religious grounds. They didn’t leave aside their first amendment protections the second they started a business. Your continued refusal to acknowledge free speech and free expression rights does not mean they do not exist. You closed your eyes to them the last two times, so i don’t expect you to acknowledge them now. As before, you’re treating your private views on secular marriage as your own religion deserving of being forced on others. You’ve repeatedly taken the example of marriages without ceremony to prove that no religious person should feel differently baking cakes for weddings. It’s false. The ceremony is a distinctly religious event for many religions across the country. No vendor should be forced to provide custom artistic creation for an event of that kind as a requirement for staying in business. Their civil rights are being trod on by a Colorado agency, as well as other states. You think your views of marriage should trump religious peoples views on marriage, and their civil rights do not matter. Really, you should embrace this because you’ve repeatedly declared you’re in the right. Interesting angle; Would you oppose Christian bakers having to make cakes for civil union ceremonies? Since the whole point of them was that they were not marriages? Show nested quote +So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing
I'm not sure why that's supposed to matter? Show nested quote + suspect you are working in the "the unmarried should live apart" belief and going too far with it, which would not surprise me I suppose. Not sure the last time you went to church but the whole no sex/sharing a bed (sexually mature adults) before marriage thing being a serious religious belief is still pretty popular. They even call it "sexual education" in several states. Plus these folks love the "thou shall not lay with another man" crap too. I wouldn't surprised if some religious groups were trying to get sex ed renamed so that it didn't have the word sex in it, because that might be too tantalizing for delicate teenage minds to resist. But yes, those same groups were also involved with the "men shall not lay with another man" approach to fighting gay marriage.
Sarcasm is underlined for clarity
|
On March 25 2018 09:52 Introvert wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:43 GreenHorizons wrote:On March 25 2018 09:39 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote: [quote]
This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again.
How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate.
HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary.
I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed.
A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King.
It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though.
I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise.
As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna!
Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so.
Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down.
Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. You've yet to demonstrate that I disregard anybody's civil rights. You just say it over and over without a shred of evidence. Apparently you feel that religious people deserve the civil rights to encroach on other people's civil rights. I disagree with that, as I don't think anyone's civil rights should be held above anyone else's. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? Yes, and when I point it out, you say over and over again your assumption of secular marriages should win out. Religious people should not be forced by the state to create expressive art for marriage ceremonies they disagree with on religious grounds. They didn’t leave aside their first amendment protections the second they started a business. Your continued refusal to acknowledge free speech and free expression rights does not mean they do not exist. You closed your eyes to them the last two times, so i don’t expect you to acknowledge them now. As before, you’re treating your private views on secular marriage as your own religion deserving of being forced on others. You’ve repeatedly taken the example of marriages without ceremony to prove that no religious person should feel differently baking cakes for weddings. It’s false. The ceremony is a distinctly religious event for many religions across the country. No vendor should be forced to provide custom artistic creation for an event of that kind as a requirement for staying in business. Their civil rights are being trod on by a Colorado agency, as well as other states. You think your views of marriage should trump religious peoples views on marriage, and their civil rights do not matter. Really, you should embrace this because you’ve repeatedly declared you’re in the right. Interesting angle; Would you oppose Christian bakers having to make cakes for civil union ceremonies? Since the whole point of them was that they were not marriages? So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing
I'm not sure why that's supposed to matter? Because renting a room isn't a religious event? Nor is it an endorsement of an activity. Just like the baker is the current court case was not only willing to service them as customers before, if I recall he was actually willing to allow them to buy a pre-made cake for the occasion. The point is that this isn't an ad hoc reason to discriminate against icky people, it has actual moral grounding in a legitimately held belief. A such we have to reason these things out. The difference between renting a room to some guys passing through and making a custom wedding cake should be painfully obvious. Show nested quote +Not sure the last time you went to church but the whole no sex/sharing a bed (sexually mature adults) before marriage thing being a serious religious belief is still pretty popular. They even call it "sexual education" in several states. See above. They simply aren't the same category of thing, except under certain specific circumstances.
I think I'm satisfied at making the progress that this reasoning stops at civil unions. So long as they call it a civil union cake the maker has no legitimate objection.
|
On March 25 2018 09:43 Introvert wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:35 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote: [quote]
This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again.
How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate.
HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary.
I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed.
A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King.
It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though.
I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise.
As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna!
Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so.
Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down.
Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglar's isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. A lot of Christian sects would consider a wedding without God not a real marriage because it isn't only between the man and woman, but also between them and God. Rejecting God in the equation basically would not make it a Christian marriage. I quibble with "a lot." Nonetheless this is the answer to your question. If you don't believe that it's possible for two gay people to be married then that problem resolves itself. And I think for those who would refuse to service a wedding of two atheists that would also be within their rights. But at least here we are working in a framework not immediately dismissive of the particular Christian's claim, and that's what's missing from the conversation here. Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:38 GreenHorizons wrote:On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote: [quote]
This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again.
How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate.
HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary.
I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed.
A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King.
It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though.
I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise.
As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna!
Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so.
Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down.
Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglars isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. Just to be clear about why your explanation doesn't address (maybe your unsaid points do) why I mentioned the room thing is because an unwed/gay couple sharing a home/bed is something many Christians are strongly against as a result of a closely held religious belief and wouldn't be neutral in their eyes at all. So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners who would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing. I suspect you are working in the "the unmarried should live apart" belief and going too far with it, which would not surprise me I suppose.
The problem I have with your argument is that it presumes that there is only one form of Marriage and that is the religious kind. Marriage means two people binding themselves in some form of relationship. Religions have their form of marriage but it is not the only kind that exists. They even acknowledge this to an extent since they don't go around trying to undermine other religions' marriages or those of non believers and they work alongside the legal/state form of marriage. Clearly they are aware that the concept of "marriage" is not exclusive to them but they are trying their best to invoke this when it comes to gay people. Years ago when the debate was more starting to become in the public mind more and some states were voting on it the argument I heard the most from Christians was "just don't call it marriage, let them have their legal relationships that re the same as marriage but just don't call it marriage". In this you can see them going out of their way to claim ownership over the concept and its Bullshit.
|
On March 25 2018 09:39 Danglars wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:25 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 02:32 Danglars wrote:
It's interesting that you think this way. But you're really treating your own thoughts like your private religion. Iamthedave thinks it's secular enough and it's an obsolete institution, so he's going to restrict your civil rights to comport with his particular interpretation. That's very similar to forcing your religion on others ... you ought to believe what I believe, not whatever your beliefs are, leave me to practice according to my conscience.
See this is the slippery slope. You're also making Muslims unable to follow the tenets of their religion and stay in business. Basically, making art is for one religion that the state approves, and you can't create it based on non-state-approved religious beliefs. Because then your religious conscience might not be as liberal as the state conscience. The state doesn't consider it a religious ceremony, therefore you can't have any religious objections. I'm glad there's still nonprofits defending these civil rights from
No. The people that run a business have to leave all their religious liberties under the first amendment at the door. You can advocate for increased restrictions compared to not operating a business, but all this compelled speech just for seeking to earn a living also in accordance to your religion? Ugh. You operate your business containing custom expressive speech, and I'll operate mine. Sell your regular premade products in a listing to all takers, and save the custom art for messages that jive with your beliefs. This is getting pretty insane. This thread is getting to be a pain to chop up so I'm cutting it down again. How am I restricting anyone's civil rights? You can have any sort of marriage you want. But that doesn't make it an actual religious ceremony. It doesn't mean it ever has been. It's just an unjustified assumption that people have run with and never examined. In almost every culture everywhere in the world, churches need to go to the government and say 'may we perform marriages in our establishment?' And the government has the right to say 'no you may not'. And if the government does that, no 'marriage' performed in that establishment is legitimate. HOW is that a religious ceremony? That is a secular ceremony that people choose to apply religious overtones to. That's not my opinion, that is the objective facts of what actually happens. If it were a genuinely religious ceremony, the government would not be necessary. I'm guessed you're a Christian from some of your comments, apologies if I'm wrong. But I'll assume you're a church goer. Your church does not need anyone's permission to perform Sunday mass, and it sure as hell doesn't need the government to say 'your sunday mass is legitimate'. Because Mass is a religious ceremony and it's validation comes from all the trappings of its performance within the context in which it is performed. A wedding requires none of that. I could literally take my housemate to the registry office and be married tomorrow evening if I wanted, and that marriage would be as legitimate as a £10,000 marriage that takes place in the cathedral down the road. The trappings are entirely irrelevant, the meat and bones of a marriage is the secular, legal structure that supports and legitimises it, and it has always been so. That is why King Henry the 8th was able to say 'Actually... no,' when the church tried to force him to keep his wife. No amount of excommunications or wars were able to change the fact he had a divorce and then had another marriage and the child of one of his later marriages ended up King. It's also - not coincidentally - why the rich and powerful throughout history conveniently find their way into and out of marriages that are supposed to be unbreakable until death. Ain't no wealth getting someone around Mass, though. I don't care how you practice your faith. But you can't redefine reality with it. Marriage is still secular. Now I appreciate Christians believe that there is a spiritual component to marriage, and that is where much of the issue arises re: teh gayz. But that's your trappings. It's not real. And that is not my opinion, that's the state's opinion. The state doesn't care if you think you've married someone. It cares that you married someone in a place that it considers legitimate, and if the state doesn't think your marriage is legitimate you'll very quickly run into problems when you try to assert otherwise. As to your last point, compelled speech is a thing. It just is. Complaints about compelled speech are a far bigger slippery slope than 'let the public know that you're putting certain elements of your religious beliefs ahead of your business'. I mean, why SHOULD I be forced to let the public know all of my sliced ham includes uranium in it? They're trampling my first amendment rights and making me say things I don't wanna! Yes, it's a silly, extreme example, but compelled speech is a standard part of business. If you want to make your religion part of your business, you're damn skippy you should be expected to say up front that you're doing so. Religions do not deserve the special pleading and status they unduly get, not in your culture or mine (not that we're half as bad as your lot are on that front). 'Good' Christians are far too often content to hide behind the sort of Christians who don't give a fig about civil liberties for anyone but themselves, who believe gay people deserve no rights, who think Muslims should be thrown out of their 'Christian' nation, who would gladly outlaw any beliefs but their own and enforce those beliefs on anyone who disagreed and crush any speech that went against them. You know those people exist and so do I, and unfortunately for you, an awful lot of them get voted for by your good honest religious Christians. It is an utter embarrassment that Roy Moore came so close to being elected, even without the allegations that brought him down. Your lot are not content to keep their religion private. Far too many of you want to enforce it on everyone else, and damn the consequences. That is your slippery slope, and it's a far more dangerous, far more deadly one than being forced to tell people you aren't going to serve them if they're gay. I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Le sigh. Every discussion with you ends the same way. You start ignoring points, then claim the other side is doing it and use that as an excuse to squirm away before your positions can properly be challenged. Expected, but disappointing. You've yet to demonstrate that I disregard anybody's civil rights. You just say it over and over without a shred of evidence. Apparently you feel that religious people deserve the civil rights to encroach on other people's civil rights. I disagree with that, as I don't think anyone's civil rights should be held above anyone else's. Do you or do you not stand by the 'black people have no souls' argument, given it is fundamentally the exact same as the one you do support? And if not, why not? Yes, and when I point it out, you say over and over again your assumption of secular marriages should win out. Religious people should not be forced by the state to create expressive art for marriage ceremonies they disagree with on religious grounds. They didn’t leave aside their first amendment protections the second they started a business. Your continued refusal to acknowledge free speech and free expression rights does not mean they do not exist. You closed your eyes to them the last two times, so i don’t expect you to acknowledge them now. As before, you’re treating your private views on secular marriage as your own religion deserving of being forced on others. You’ve repeatedly taken the example of marriages without ceremony to prove that no religious person should feel differently baking cakes for weddings. It’s false. The ceremony is a distinctly religious event for many religions across the country. No vendor should be forced to provide custom artistic creation for an event of that kind as a requirement for staying in business. Their civil rights are being trod on by a Colorado agency, as well as other states. You think your views of marriage should trump religious peoples views on marriage, and their civil rights do not matter. Really, you should embrace this because you’ve repeatedly declared you’re in the right.
Are those marriages valid without acknowledgement by the state?
Re: Cake shop arguments... didn't the shop lose that case?
|
On March 25 2018 10:02 Slaughter wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 09:43 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:35 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:[quote] I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglar's isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. A lot of Christian sects would consider a wedding without God not a real marriage because it isn't only between the man and woman, but also between them and God. Rejecting God in the equation basically would not make it a Christian marriage. I quibble with "a lot." Nonetheless this is the answer to your question. If you don't believe that it's possible for two gay people to be married then that problem resolves itself. And I think for those who would refuse to service a wedding of two atheists that would also be within their rights. But at least here we are working in a framework not immediately dismissive of the particular Christian's claim, and that's what's missing from the conversation here. On March 25 2018 09:38 GreenHorizons wrote:On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Danglars wrote:[quote] I covered the trampling of civil in the unquoted part of my last post. You can read it there and respond to what I wrote if you still don't understand. As you haven't responded to it, I don't know what was less than clear. You're still really deep in the hole with a historically acknowledged religious ceremony. Religions all over the world call the union of a man and woman a central God-purposed event. God ordains this union. You act or don't act in accordance to his will in this union. Et cetera. You're taking a historical revisionist route, and frankly an unsupported assertion, that it should be a secular event because you think some people just happen to choose to put religious undertones on the event. It's a religious event that some people adopt secular attitudes towards, and that's precisely why it's a core feature of this case. None of this wordy mash justifies adopting your attitude. It is a religious ceremony for a huge number of Americans, and just because you think it shouldn't be the case does not diminish that it will involve religious objections if they're making you be part of the service. Will you force a pastor to officiate the event on grounds of discrimination, because after all it's just this secular event to you? The folly just stretches on and on. I understand your perspective in the last three paragraphs. I live in a country that recognizes the role religion plays in life and how government intrusion on core beliefs would destroy a society and cause it to trend authoritarian over time. To re-purpose a sentence of yours, you really don't give a damn about civil liberties for people who you don't think deserve them. You simply don't think they should exist, therefore they don't exist, therefore they should be done away with. Therefore, direct your attention to constitutional amendments because I'm definitely talking about interpreting laws on the books by judges ... the proper realm for judicial battles. Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument. If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders? I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong. I don't think I'm rocking the boat there. I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglars isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. Just to be clear about why your explanation doesn't address (maybe your unsaid points do) why I mentioned the room thing is because an unwed/gay couple sharing a home/bed is something many Christians are strongly against as a result of a closely held religious belief and wouldn't be neutral in their eyes at all. So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners who would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing. I suspect you are working in the "the unmarried should live apart" belief and going too far with it, which would not surprise me I suppose. The problem I have with your argument is that it presumes that there is only one form of Marriage and that is the religious kind. Marriage means two people binding themselves in some form of relationship. Religions have their form of marriage but it is not the only kind that exists. They even acknowledge this to an extent since they don't go around trying to undermine other religions' marriages or those of non believers and they work alongside the legal/state form of marriage. Clearly they are aware that the concept of "marriage" is not exclusive to them but they are trying their best to invoke this when it comes to gay people. Years ago when the debate was more starting to become in the public mind more and some states were voting on it the argument I heard the most from Christians was "just don't call it marriage, let them have their legal relationships that re the same as marriage but just don't call it marriage". In this you can see them going out of their way to claim ownership over the concept and its Bullshit.
I don't see the difference between some religious people saying it's the "only kind" or someone else's view that it's "one of many" in this context. I'm not sure it changes the way we evaluate the first amendment claim being made here. The baker isn't demanding the state accept his view of marriage, he tried to refer the couple to another baker and let them be on their way. But perhaps that wasn't your purpose.
|
On March 25 2018 06:41 Danglars wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 04:48 NewSunshine wrote:On March 25 2018 04:46 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 04:38 Kyadytim wrote: I didn't miss that post, I ignored it.
I really want your answer to this question, though, because it really clarifies the issue. If a baker is allowed to refuse to make a cake for a gay couple's wedding for religious reasons, the same protection would apply to a baker refusing to bake a cake for an interracial couple's wedding.
Therefore, do you support allowing discrimination based on sexual orientation race if the person doing the discrimination claims to be doing it because of their religious beliefs? Maybe then you do understand why I'm ignoring your edit until you either delete the rest of your post I responded to, or show an interest in responding to the post. I can't respond to 12 sentences and later discover the entire thing hinged on a future-added last 13th sentence with a question after I spend time responding to what was written. My time posting in this forum is not an unlimited quantity subject to any edits and tangents and side-questions people feel like typing. I don't think I'll need to post this disclaimer again. He's asking you a straightforward question, and would like an answer. This isn't an edit, it's a new post. And most of us are familiar with your attitude towards edits, whether they existed or not. The post where he said he was ignoring my post? I'm showing it the same level of attention that he showed mine. I wasn't talking about that post, and you know that. I'm talking about his question, which is simple and stands on its own, and does what he says on clarifying the issue. As does your pointed insistence on not answering it. And it is significant, because the implication of the question directly contradicts what you're trying to argue, and I think you know that too.
|
On March 25 2018 10:07 Introvert wrote:Show nested quote +On March 25 2018 10:02 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 09:43 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:35 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote: [quote]
Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument.
If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders?
I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong.
I don't think I'm rocking the boat there.
I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglar's isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. A lot of Christian sects would consider a wedding without God not a real marriage because it isn't only between the man and woman, but also between them and God. Rejecting God in the equation basically would not make it a Christian marriage. I quibble with "a lot." Nonetheless this is the answer to your question. If you don't believe that it's possible for two gay people to be married then that problem resolves itself. And I think for those who would refuse to service a wedding of two atheists that would also be within their rights. But at least here we are working in a framework not immediately dismissive of the particular Christian's claim, and that's what's missing from the conversation here. On March 25 2018 09:38 GreenHorizons wrote:On March 25 2018 09:31 Introvert wrote:On March 25 2018 09:21 Slaughter wrote:On March 25 2018 08:59 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 08:47 iamthedave wrote:On March 25 2018 06:19 Danglars wrote:On March 25 2018 06:10 iamthedave wrote: [quote]
Okay. I'd like to get you to directly engage with something you consistently are ignoring, as it seems you don't understand my actual argument.
If religion is required for marriage and it is a God-purposed event, why is the marriage a) not legal unless the state recognises it and why b) can the state annul it irrespective of the wishes of religious leaders?
I have yet to see you concretely point towards a group I think don't deserve civil liberties. I do think that no group has the liberty to oppress another, and I think that the religious hide behind their religion regularly and use it as a shield to permit them to discriminate. And I think that is wrong.
I don't think I'm rocking the boat there.
I think I've already answered the post you're directing me towards. I believe marriage is obsolete personally so I do not intend to get married. I have no issues with other people choosing to do so, or the methods and trappings they use to complete that union. But I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular, and that marriage being secular is the only way to reconcile the vast gulf between what people say marriage is and what it actually is, and which part of that union the state - which is required to legitimise the union in the first place - actually cares about. We entered into this when you thought religious objections shouldn't even be here in the first place: it's asserted to be a secular event in your eyes, case closed. History tells a different tale. It supports the side that says it's very likely for such a ceremony to entangle religious people in conscience objections by its own nature. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... it's not participation in a religious ceremony. Your first problem is showing why your personal view that it is secular should trump the historical reality that it's intimately religious. Your second problem is showing where I said "religion is required for marriage." I said it very easily raises freedom of conscience objections because of its historical religious nature. I do not imply the reverse is true: all marriages must be religious or it's not a marriage. You haven't engaged with my arguments that you require religious persons to engage in forced speech (forced expression) and require them to violate their religious liberties (participate in ceremonies complying with their religious beliefs). I can't really help you. From what I gather, because you declare it secular, then no civil rights are violated, because they're secular ceremonies, and no religious person could object. ("I believe it is objective fact that marriage is secular"). That's the only point you come back to and the only sense I can make of your argument. It's ludicrous. Rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them. Your argument is flawed, because everyone is required to engage in forced speech. Only Christians - and Muslims as well, let's not be unfair - claim special exemptions and start waving books around to say they shouldn't have to do this or that because their beliefs are so precious. Why should religious beliefs be treated differently to other beliefs? Unless you have an incredible argument to demonstrate how fundamentally religious a cake-maker's day to day activities are, you have to acknowledge that it's special pleading for the religious owners to say they shouldn't have to serve customers who are perfectly reasonable save for the fact they are gay (it is of course reasonable to refuse service to rude, abrasive, abusive or unnecessarily awkward customers). Irrespective of how the courts ruled, the one and only exception 'justifying' the behaviour of the staff, is that they have religious objections. Would you have supported them if they refused service to a black couple because they believed the black people have no souls? It's a reasonable objection if their religion says so, is it not? Reminding you that this was an argument made about black folks by religious people once upon a time. Your own logic means you should support this. It's an argument made for religious reasons, by religious people, not to have their amendment rights violated. You raise a final good point, though: rights don't cease to exist because you don't acknowledge them; a fact that has been tripping the religious up where it concerns LGBT folks for an awful long time. And women. And African Americans. And basically every group that religious people have oppressed sequentially until the state decided they weren't allowed to anymore. That's why very sympathetic individuals, such as the baker, will be kind and offer all there wares to gays and transgenders ... I want to highlight this as well. I know that you mean this sincerely, but you don't appreciate how appalling it actually sounds. They are 'very sympathetic' and are willing to treat gays and transgenders almost like they're real people. They're oh so sorry about their condition. So terribly sorry. You do a very bad job bringing evidence in to support your assertions. What is forced speech for you? Are you an artist that has recently been required to produce artwork with which you disagree? Maybe then you’d understand why 500 artists brought a friend of the court brief worried that a defeat for artistic expression for a cake maker would mean other works of art would similarly be on the chopping block. I still have not seen one iota of an argument defending your assertion that it’s entirely secular and nobody should pay attention. It’s again your assertions that secular marriages are all that should matter to religious people, and your profound disregard for the civil rights of groups you think have no business demanding rights. I was waiting for a response on my last posts’s points, but I see it’s just asides and chatter all the way through. And finally, you still haven’t come to terms with businesses that serve gay patrons but not their wedding ceremonies. I see no reason to continue such disregard for the situation at hand. Gay marriages are basically purely secular because religious groups refuse to perform their marriage ceremony for them (even if they wished for it because the couple was religious). Gays are in effect celebrating the recognition from the State of their binding relationship. Marriage from the state is something entirely different from the religious ritual and no one is stopping religions from refusing to perform those for gays. I also haven't heard of any religious person making noise about Atheist weddings, where they entirely shun the concept of God being involved. Or perhaps you can blame the State for intertwining religion with the State's recognition of marriage in the first place. For the record, Danglars isn't the one ignoring anything or failing to acknowledge an argument. As to this post, I'll just clear up the second paragraph. A simple answer for why a religious person may object to a gay wedding vs an atheist wedding has to do with what marriage is. If you beilve that it is a sacred union between a man and a woman, it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not, and one might even say that "even if you don't recognize God, he recognizes you (and your marriage)." This is also why the argument about hotels refusing to rent a room doesn't make sense (well, it's one reason). Renting a room is a pretty neutral act. Now if you wanted someone to rent you their land to perform their marriage ceremony, that would be similar to the baker's situation. I think this basic misunderstanding should demonstrate that Danglars is not the one with the problem of understanding here. You can claim that's "just an excuse" to discriminate wherever possible but that line won't get you anywhere in an argument. Given the internal consistency of the position, making that claim isn't a rebuttal. Just to be clear about why your explanation doesn't address (maybe your unsaid points do) why I mentioned the room thing is because an unwed/gay couple sharing a home/bed is something many Christians are strongly against as a result of a closely held religious belief and wouldn't be neutral in their eyes at all. So far as I know the number of small, Christian hotel owners who would refuse to rent a room to a gay couple passing through is quite small, and smaller still is the number of hotel owners who would ask such about such a thing. I suspect you are working in the "the unmarried should live apart" belief and going too far with it, which would not surprise me I suppose. The problem I have with your argument is that it presumes that there is only one form of Marriage and that is the religious kind. Marriage means two people binding themselves in some form of relationship. Religions have their form of marriage but it is not the only kind that exists. They even acknowledge this to an extent since they don't go around trying to undermine other religions' marriages or those of non believers and they work alongside the legal/state form of marriage. Clearly they are aware that the concept of "marriage" is not exclusive to them but they are trying their best to invoke this when it comes to gay people. Years ago when the debate was more starting to become in the public mind more and some states were voting on it the argument I heard the most from Christians was "just don't call it marriage, let them have their legal relationships that re the same as marriage but just don't call it marriage". In this you can see them going out of their way to claim ownership over the concept and its Bullshit. I don't see the difference between some religious people saying it's the "only kind" or someone else's view that it's "one of many" in this context. I'm not sure it changes the way we evaluate the first amendment claim being made here. The baker isn't demanding the state accept his view of marriage, he tried to refer the couple to another baker and let them be on their way. But perhaps that wasn't your purpose.
Its to show that they are selectively applying their beliefs only to Gay people. If they were truly sincerely held beliefs they shouldn't bake for other religions' marriages or secular marriages either. But no they really don't give a shit unless its gay people.
|
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I feel like the whole "you're denying me my right to deny others their right so you're the bigot here by not accepting my bigotry" defense is about as mature and nuanced as going "I know you are but what am I?" Denying someone the right to deny other people their rights is not ultimately depriving a person of their rights, it's merely upholding equality.
|
|
|
|