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Cynry
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Boblion
France8043 Posts
On May 30 2014 22:31 Cynry wrote: One thing for sure, he did achieve attracting a huge amount of attention. Don't know if it's for the better or worse, but he probably changed some people's mind a bit. Hmmm maybe Hollywood will make a movie about him (with non-narcissistic actors and directors and no advertising campaign obviously). | ||
Cynry
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Yoav
United States1874 Posts
On May 30 2014 09:06 Nyxisto wrote: Make a psychiatric assessment the requirement for anyone under the age of 25 who wants to own firearms, outlaw guns completely for any person that has a history of mental illness that could impair his capability of handling guns. In a perfect world of diagnosis, we would brain-scan people buying guns and restrict folks with mass-killer tendencies. But in the real world, the kind of law you propose would have the primary effect of discouraging folks from getting psychiatric care. On May 30 2014 10:12 Nyxisto wrote: The difference is that guns serve absolutely no purpose for the majority of people owning them. This is nonsense. Target shooting is an awful lot of fun. --- But the primary points are that we need to, as a society (1) work toward a better system of restricting dangerous people from owning guns, (2) work toward a better system of helping the mentally ill, (3) work toward a societal understanding that women are not mere sex objects, but are subjects with equal agency to men. We can go in circles forever about which of these 3 is the primary cause of this particular disaster, but everybody does understand that all three are good goals to work toward. There is no need to boil this down to a single cause; real life problems don't usually have simple, single, easily circumscribed causes. | ||
writer22816
United States5775 Posts
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Yoav
United States1874 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:18 writer22816 wrote: Honestly why is it so hard for Americans to part with their guns that they don't even use, in the name of public safety? How many more school shootings will it take before pro-gun activists realize that hey, maybe being able to publicly buy a gun has a factor in how many people get shot? But oh wait, guns dont kill people, people kill people, if they take away our 2nd amendment rights it's only a short step to becoming a complete dictatorship, murica fuck yeah. ![]() Different countries have different models, based on what they regard as the primary goal of government. The U.S. has historically seen the overriding objective as protection from tyranny. Everything in the constitution is aimed at this in one way or another. (The historical context should be remembered: no-one had ever tried an experiment in republican self-rule as large and all-encompassing as the American experiment. At the time, and for a long time after, whether republican self-rule of a large state was even a sustainable system was a very live question; the French Revolution and the 1848 uprisings were taken as evidence of the violence inherent in republicanism. It was a popular opinion at the time of the American Civil War that the war represented the violent self-destruction that was the natural result of such a system of government; this is what the Gettysburg Address is all about.) Europe, on the other hand, has adopted a more classically "socialist" (no derogatory sense intended) system, where the overriding objective of government is the protection of the welfare of the citizen. Having a different philosophy of government means having different results. And there's nothing wrong with having both systems existing in the world. Having both around decreases the chance that democracy fails catastrophically at some point in the distant future, as the systems are different enough that things that might cause one to fail would be rebuffed in another. To fail to plan systems of government with the long view in mind is to fail to plan in any significant way at all. | ||
Acertos
France852 Posts
The difference is simply made when someone is egoist or not, which is showing or not your love for yourself to others, your narcissism be it in words or actions. So that means that someone extremely egoist will for example hurt others just to better his position. And yes the guy was an extreme egoist and that's not rly surprising considering his family participated in a French reality show called the housewives which btw is one the most retarded shit you could ever see in a lifetime. Any parents who were not superficial retards wouldn't participate in a show like that as they have to show their real tardness or act like if they were. In the show everybody acts egoistically and usually has already done aesthetic surgery or wants to. If his whole family favored stupid shit like fame, beauty, outside image, etc... Things that he didn't have then he must have been at least a bit excluded in his family and feel excluded in the outside world (one guy even pointed out that his father told in the show that he only had one son). With that I can totally see him go into depression and think of himself as weak and uncool and inferior because if he wasn't feeling like that he wouldn't have had to tell everyone that he deserved more in every video of his. (That's speculation) | ||
o29
United States220 Posts
On May 30 2014 22:20 Diks wrote: Hello, I don't know if this video has already been linked; This is a 2 hour analysis by Stefan Molyneux (owner and animator of a popular philosophy show called Freedomain Radio) He goes pretty deep in the relationship beteween Elliot and women. Here is briefly a take on his analysis : Elliot feels like he never connected with women and always got rejected by them. The root of this comes from the fact that he got rejected and failed to connect with his mom and his step mom. The image of women that Elliot forged in his head is based on the lack of love from his mother. This is a pretty deep freudian slip; He saw his mother(s) as being pretty cold bitches. Elliot was always about those pretty cold bitches. He only talks about pretty blonde girls, and fail to have an interest on other women (which is pretty ironic to have high beauty standard for others, and then bitch about those beauty standards when they become applied to you) He only fantasized about the sofisticated ladies and ignore the rest. This kid didn't have a solid bond with any woman, not even his mother. And when his mother(s) represent 99% of his interaction with women, it becomes more possible to understand how he managed to have such a twisted and negative image of women. Now you can go back about talking fire arms ![]() Sounds a bit too Freudian for me. Not aiming this specifically at the video, but guys, if you want to be an armchair psychologist, at least please read beyond an introductory Psychology textbook. | ||
Lockitupv2
United States496 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:18 writer22816 wrote: Honestly why is it so hard for Americans to part with their guns that they don't even use, in the name of public safety? How many more school shootings will it take before pro-gun activists realize that hey, maybe being able to publicly buy a gun has a factor in how many people get shot? But oh wait, guns dont kill people, people kill people, if they take away our 2nd amendment rights it's only a short step to becoming a complete dictatorship, murica fuck yeah. ![]() Do they not teach Chinese History in China? Also, we use them all the time. And no, not just for shooting people. | ||
Nyxisto
Germany6287 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:37 Lockitupv2 wrote: Do they not teach Chinese History in China? Also, we use them all the time. And no, not just for shooting people. But the US isn't China. If I'd be living in the US I would be a little more worried about the 20 different intelligence and security agencies and the patriot act than just screaming "ermahgerd, don't take my guns!" the whole day. Social inequality and a insanely large security apparatus hurt the 'American idea' a million times more than gun laws ever could. All that guns really are is a antiquated symbol for freedom which people seem to cling to instead of trying to get rid of things that actually hurt peoples individual freedom. | ||
plogamer
Canada3132 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:34 Acertos wrote: Idk why everybody says he was a super narcissist, imo talking about narcissism is just hypocrisy. Everybody loves himself and wants to be above others and that's a completely natural feeling, it's just the extension of our own extinct of survival and domination at work. The difference is simply made when someone is egoist or not, which is showing or not your love for yourself to others, your narcissism be it in words or actions. So that means that someone extremely egoist will for example hurt others just to better his position. And yes the guy was an extreme egoist and that's not rly surprising considering his family participated in a French reality show called the housewives which btw is one the most retarded shit you could ever see in a lifetime. Any parents who were not superficial retards wouldn't participate in a show like that as they have to show their real tardness or act like if they were. In the show everybody acts egoistically and usually has already done aesthetic surgery or wants to. If his whole family favored stupid shit like fame, beauty, outside image, etc... Things that he didn't have then he must have been at least a bit excluded in his family and feel excluded in the outside world (one guy even pointed out that his father told in the show that he only had one son). With that I can totally see him go into depression and think of himself as weak and uncool and inferior because if he wasn't feeling like that he wouldn't have had to tell everyone that he deserved more in every video of his. (That's speculation) Everyone is a psychologist, or a mental health advocate or a gun advocate (both for and against). Totally agree with you that he wasn't taught values grounded in reality either. | ||
o29
United States220 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:34 Acertos wrote: Idk why everybody says he was a super narcissist, imo talking about narcissism is just hypocrisy. Everybody loves himself and wants to be above others and that's a completely natural feeling, it's just the extension of our own extinct of survival and domination at work. The difference is simply made when someone is egoist or not, which is showing or not your love for yourself to others, your narcissism be it in words or actions. So that means that someone extremely egoist will for example hurt others just to better his position. And yes the guy was an extreme egoist and that's not rly surprising considering his family participated in a French reality show called the housewives which btw is one the most retarded shit you could ever see in a lifetime. Any parents who were not superficial retards wouldn't participate in a show like that as they have to show their real tardness or act like if they were. In the show everybody acts egoistically and usually has already done aesthetic surgery or wants to. If his whole family favored stupid shit like fame, beauty, outside image, etc... Things that he didn't have then he must have been at least a bit excluded in his family and feel excluded in the outside world (one guy even pointed out that his father told in the show that he only had one son). With that I can totally see him go into depression and think of himself as weak and uncool and inferior because if he wasn't feeling like that he wouldn't have had to tell everyone that he deserved more in every video of his. (That's speculation) You're arguing semantics so it might be a cultural/language thing, but the dictionary disagrees with you. nar·cis·sism/ˈnɑrsəˌsɪzɛm/ noun 1. inordinate fascination with oneself; excessive self-love; vanity. Synonyms: self-centeredness, smugness, egocentrism. 2. Psychoanalysis . erotic gratification derived from admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, being a normal condition at the infantile level of personality development. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/narcissism You don't think he was "inordinately fascinated" with himself? Narcissism isn't "loving yourself and wanting to be above others," as you put it. | ||
sparkk51
United States137 Posts
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Danglars
United States12133 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:34 Acertos wrote: He gives up hope little by little and cements his own victimhood as the years go by in his revealing manifesto. All these offhand comments about some reality show are way off base. Fast forward to his retrospective on the pre-teen and teenage years (they're grouped by age). The beginning shows foundations of distrust, but its full-blown victim mentality and despondency from un-refuted internalized answers he came up with to life's questions. "He must've felt this" and "been at least a bit excluded" are so out of place with such an easily accessible first-person source. He retreats from real life to WoW, early on decides he will never succeed with girls and is never persuaded otherwise, and lays out the rest of his sad biography.Idk why everybody says he was a super narcissist, imo talking about narcissism is just hypocrisy. Everybody loves himself and wants to be above others and that's a completely natural feeling, it's just the extension of our own extinct of survival and domination at work. The difference is simply made when someone is egoist or not, which is showing or not your love for yourself to others, your narcissism be it in words or actions. So that means that someone extremely egoist will for example hurt others just to better his position. And yes the guy was an extreme egoist and that's not rly surprising considering his family participated in a French reality show called the housewives which btw is one the most retarded shit you could ever see in a lifetime. Any parents who were not superficial retards wouldn't participate in a show like that as they have to show their real tardness or act like if they were. In the show everybody acts egoistically and usually has already done aesthetic surgery or wants to. If his whole family favored stupid shit like fame, beauty, outside image, etc... Things that he didn't have then he must have been at least a bit excluded in his family and feel excluded in the outside world (one guy even pointed out that his father told in the show that he only had one son). With that I can totally see him go into depression and think of himself as weak and uncool and inferior because if he wasn't feeling like that he wouldn't have had to tell everyone that he deserved more in every video of his. (That's speculation) Please, grab the source and skim to find evidence-based conclusions from his own mind and not a rush to conclusions from one's own mind and second-hand reporting. It's like saying what Churchill must've thought and felt and refusing the read the autobiography (And some other posters in this analogy feeling a great amount of satisfaction having figured out Churchill so well from second-hand reporting, and fresh and ready.) Pre-teen can be started ~page 35 and teenage years are in full swing by ~page 45. + Show Spoiler [SNIPPETS] + The boys in my grade talked about sex a lot. Some of them even told me that they had sex with their girlfriends. This was the most devastating and traumatizing thing I’ve ever heard in my life. Boys having sex at my age of Fourteen? I couldn’t fathom it. How is it that they were able to have such intimate and pleasurable experiences with girls while I could only fantasize about it? I frequently started asking myself. This was an all boys school... How in the hell were those boys even able to meet girls to have sex with? I wondered. I hoped they were lying. I hoped against all hope. Hearing that really shook me to the core. Words cannot describe how much hatred and envy I felt for those boys. That hatred would only fester the more I suffer from my sexual starvation. I was too scared to tell anyone about it, and I hid it well... for a time I was completely and utterly alone. No one knew me or extended a hand to help me. I was an innocent, scared little boy trapped in a jungle full of malicious predators, and I was shown no mercy. Some boys randomly pushed me against the lockers as they walked past me in the hall. One boy who was tall and had blonde hair called me a “loser”, right in front of his girlfriends. Yes, he had girls with him. Pretty girls. And they didn’t seem to mind that he was such an evil bastard. In fact, I bet they liked him for it. This is how girls are, and I was starting to realize it. This was what truly opened my eyes to how brutal the world is. The most meanest and depraved of men come out on top, and women flock to these men. Their evil acts are rewarded by women; while the good, decent men are laughed at. It is sick, twisted, and wrong in every way. I hated the girls even more than the bullies because of this. The sheer cruelty of the world around me was so intense that I will never recover from the mental scars. Any experience I ever had before never traumatized me as much as this. This was the perfect set up for a World of Warcraft addict. After school, every day, I fully indulged myself in my addiction to WoW. My only social interaction was with my online friends and with James, who would occasionally come over to my house to play WoW with me. | ||
[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On May 30 2014 20:55 Xiphos wrote: Elliot Rodger’s family has been part of a reality show the last seven years often recorded in his house. This is significant because his father on the show has always said he has “a” son, as in only one. In this video from the TV show it shows the father at the family table with the son from the second marriage, but not Elliot. Link: Elliot is shown in the show, for example when they met Sylvester Stallone (23:50), but Elliot is never acknowledged or speaks. Imagine a father that has a reality show in the house, keeps talking about “his son” and the “three of us” as in “Mother, Father, and son” as opposed to sons. Elliot mentions the jealousy he has for the other brother. The fact his father says on TV, in the house Elliot lives in, that he has one son, might be enough to push someone over the edge. If you go to 23:50 you can see Elliot in the back ground. The crazy part is if you see them shaking Stallone's hand, Elliot reaches out to shake his hand but the new wife is the target jumps in and Elliot is ignored and he awkwardly puts his hand down. Jumping with excitement to meet a perceived superstar and then being shunned by your own mother. In other words, complete family dysfunction. Holy shit... that's one way to fuck a kid over, actively pretend he doesn't exist. And he and Soumaya had a very frosty relationship, his manifesto says it as well. | ||
sickoota
Canada918 Posts
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xDaunt
United States17988 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:00 Yoav wrote: This is nonsense. Target shooting is an awful lot of fun. Well, it's not just that. There's no dancing around the fact that there's some really shitty areas in the US where people are right to fear for their safety. Hell, I've generally felt less safe in various places in the US than I ever did travelling around Europe or China -- even when I went to some of the "dodgier" areas. | ||
LibertyRises
United States175 Posts
On May 31 2014 01:34 Acertos wrote: Idk why everybody says he was a super narcissist, imo talking about narcissism is just hypocrisy. Everybody loves himself and wants to be above others and that's a completely natural feeling, it's just the extension of our own extinct of survival and domination at work. The difference is simply made when someone is egoist or not, which is showing or not your love for yourself to others, your narcissism be it in words or actions. So that means that someone extremely egoist will for example hurt others just to better his position. And yes the guy was an extreme egoist and that's not rly surprising considering his family participated in a French reality show called the housewives which btw is one the most retarded shit you could ever see in a lifetime. Any parents who were not superficial retards wouldn't participate in a show like that as they have to show their real tardness or act like if they were. In the show everybody acts egoistically and usually has already done aesthetic surgery or wants to. If his whole family favored stupid shit like fame, beauty, outside image, etc... Things that he didn't have then he must have been at least a bit excluded in his family and feel excluded in the outside world (one guy even pointed out that his father told in the show that he only had one son). With that I can totally see him go into depression and think of himself as weak and uncool and inferior because if he wasn't feeling like that he wouldn't have had to tell everyone that he deserved more in every video of his. (That's speculation) They guy called himself fabulous and magnificent and all sorts of other dumb shit. When he went out into the real world and every interaction with society proved his misguided opinion wrong he went ahead, opened up the big book of excuses as to why the world would not recognize his undeniable excellence. See, no one got to this little bastard early enough and talked and/or slapped some sense into him. He would have realized hey, girls do not like me BECAUSE I am an unhappy, anti-social, spoiled brat who never understood the concept of WORKING FOR something. No wonder the kid went crazy if he was sitting there in the corner brooding hoping girls would be all over him. He had no idea he was being that fucking weirdo, never integrated into society, never grew up. The kid was ass backwards, and was a giant coward, and it was first and foremost a complete failure on the part of his parents and family to curtail this before he became a lost cause. But I guess they were almost as dumb as he was thinking their money could pay someone to fix all this kids emotional issues. No one is going to care about your child like you should. And if you are a parent and your child is not at the top of your list, whatever happens to that child is on you. Because no one should be having children unless theyre willing to make them the number one priority. This should be about parenting, not about gun rights. The rest of us should not have our freedoms hinged upon because people dont instill the correct values on their children. God forbid the next time the child drowns at the beach because no one taught their kid how to swim and gives him carte blanche to ride the waves how long before we ban the beach? Or fuck it, ban people from coming outside period because parents dont know how to handle their kids? Stop being shortsighted people. | ||
Clbull
United Kingdom1439 Posts
I was alerted to this case after reading a Facebook post pretty much blaming 'rape culture' and the idea that men feel entitled to sex simply because of one mentally ill 22 year old virgin's behaviour. I hate the MRA and Feminist responses to Elliot Rodger's crimes. With the scaremongering coming from both groups in regards to their skewed gender stereotypes (i.e. 'women are sluts who crave alpha males', 'don't trust men because they will rape you'), the only thing they've accomplished is make each gender distrust each other even more. This quote from Rodger (page 84 of his 140 page 'autobiography') is one of the main things that fuelled this argument. Females truly have something mentally wrong with them. Their minds are flawed, and at this point in my life I was beginning to see it. The more I explored my college town of Isla Vista, the more ridiculousness I witnessed. All of the hot, beautiful girls walked around with obnoxious, tough jock-type men who partied all the time and acted crazy. They should be going for intelligent gentlemen such as myself. Women are sexually attracted to the wrong type of man. This is a major flaw in the very foundation of humanity. It is completely and utterly wrong, in every sense of the word. As these truths fully dawned on me, I became deeply disturbed by them. Deeply disturbed, offended, and traumatized. As a guy in a similar situation to him (22 years old, unsuccessful with ladies,still a virgin) this quote terrifies me. There is one thing I will say though; society has taught us that friendliness, respect, placing somebody on a pedestal and showering them with material gifts is the key to winning a person's heart. Is it not surprising that his failures pissed him off in the same way a rather bad loss would make a SC2 player mad? But back to what I think of this incident? After reading quite a bit of his autobiography to see what made him tick, I'm under the conclusion that it could have been a parenting or schooling issue. He was bullied by both boys and girls rather harshly while at school and even summer camp since the age of 12. From the sound of it, it also seemed like his family was more concerned with his MMORPG gaming habits rather than his situation at school or helping him socialize better and it seemed like teaching staff didn't help him in terms of actually stopping his bullying. | ||
Xiphos
Canada7507 Posts
On May 31 2014 09:22 Clbull wrote: I literally spent 40 minutes rewriting this post because I'm worried I'm going to say something ban-worthy. I was alerted to this case after reading a Facebook post pretty much blaming 'rape culture' and the idea that men feel entitled to sex simply because of one mentally ill 22 year old virgin's behaviour. I hate the MRA and Feminist responses to Elliot Rodger's crimes. With the scaremongering coming from both groups in regards to their skewed gender stereotypes (i.e. 'women are sluts', 'men will rape you'), the only thing they've accomplished is make each gender distrust each other even more. This quote from Rodger (page 84 of his 140 page 'autobiography') is one of the main things that fuelled this argument. As a guy in a similar situation to him (22 years old, unsuccessful with ladies, still a virgin,) this quote disgusts me. There is one thing I will say though; society has taught us that friendliness, respect, placing somebody on a pedestal and showering them with material gifts is the key to winning a person's heart. But back to what I think of this incident? After reading quite a bit of his autobiography to see what made him tick, I'm under the conclusion that it could have been a parenting or schooling issue. He was bullied by both boys and girls rather harshly while at school and even summer camp since the age of 12. From the sound of it, it also seemed like his family was more concerned with his MMORPG gaming habits rather than his situation at school and it seemed like teaching staff didn't help him. When does a person deserves unconditional respect, friendliness, being placed on pedestal and free gifts anyways? If you want these things, you better be some god of a religion, my parents, a very close friends of mine that we've being through thick and thin. If you are ANYWAYS else, its all fair game. So only give someone the appropriate amount of respect that they deserve. | ||
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