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To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary.
The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
If you actually want to get anecdotal, look at the life of Alan Turing, the fucking father of computer science, how much more would the world be positively affected today if he wasn't condemned just for being gay.
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On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary.
First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant.
As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female.
The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of.
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On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about them? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female.
Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose.
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On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. Show nested quote + The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of.
People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority.
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On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority.
oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes?
Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose.
I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers.
I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for.
It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you?
As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. I put this here, not to legitimize hate against a whole population, like you would claim. I put this here, because by your emphasis, you imply that homosexuals, trans, etc, cannot be criminal like heterosexual males. In other words, they lack agency, or hetero males are just so bad, that only they deserve mention in such crimes.
remember that pedophilia (of the homosexual nature) was around in ancient Greece, and they had codes for how to do it. It was seen as teaching men not to rely on women, a bit ironically like that Vagina Monologue part involving a 13 year old female getting drunk by a much older female and forced into sex, recalling it as "if it was a rape, it was a good rape", in later memories.
As to saying "yes but it was a majority oppressing a minority, therefore your argument is invalid", you're stereotyping and skirting the issue. Congrats on your own bigotry towards others. What people did in the past may have been right or wrong, and if we view it as wrong, then who committed it? Those in the past. Not those here. But go ahead and stereotype me.
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On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Show nested quote + Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats.
Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one.
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On November 28 2012 11:26 mcc wrote:Show nested quote +On November 28 2012 09:39 soon.Cloak wrote:On November 28 2012 04:39 mcc wrote:On November 25 2012 12:16 soon.Cloak wrote:On November 25 2012 12:09 mcc wrote:On November 25 2012 12:03 soon.Cloak wrote:On November 25 2012 11:48 mcc wrote:On November 25 2012 11:41 soon.Cloak wrote:On November 25 2012 11:31 mcc wrote:On November 25 2012 11:19 soon.Cloak wrote: [quote]
So if you feel that bestiality, on a fundamental marriage-based level, isn't wrong (the issue is just the cruelty to animals), and you feel that incest isn't wrong, then we are in agreement, as per the second part of my first post.
But I'm assuming that part about incest. Again, I can't argue if you won't say your opinion, when your opinion is relevant (because my whole point is that we have to be consistent). No, my opinion is that bestiality has no fundamental marriage-based level as marriage requires consent and animals cannot give it to you. I was talking about my opinion on bestiality as general practice. As pertaining to marriage it is like talking about flying penguins. Your whole point is complete non-sequitur to the debate. I do not have to talk about human right violations in country A to be able to condemn them in country B. I do not have to talk about issue A to discuss issue B if they can be solved independently. And issues of homosexuality can easily be solved independently from issues of incest or bestiality. So stop acting like there is any need to bring them into the issue. You are trying to define what marriage is, and argue that marriage"requires" certain fundamental aspects, while denying that other aspects of marriage (i.e. heterosexuality) can be considered fundamental. How did you come up with that? My argument is about consistency, which by definition relates to multiple issues. I am arguing that it is inconsistent,and thus illogical, to consider some things marriage, while not other things. That is very related to Uganda, as it is arguing that it is illogical to feel that hetero and homosexual relationships are okay, while others are not, which is what I perceive to be the position of many in this thread. I think you missed my post where I already answered this. I am not trying to define anything. Marriage has some meaning and consent is one of its attributes. I said nothing about homosexuality or heterosexuality, I think you are confusing me with someone else. Also after you read the post I was referring to I would like to stress that you have no point outside of playing semantic games. I am not trying to define anything. Marriage has some meaning and consent is one of its attributes. Do you not see the self-contradiction in that statement? And in the post you are quoting now, I explained why it's not simply semantics, and how it relates to Uganda. Nope, there is no contradiction. Only if you do not know what meaning is you would think so. As I said it seems you did not read a post where I addressed this. It is on this page, look it up. Oh, my bad, skipped that. There's been a lot of posts... "Of course there is objective morality", you say? Can I point you to this thread? 40 pages about people arguing about the topic, and the poll says it's subjective. Don't try to say that everyone agrees with you on this. So now I argue that the "meaning" of marriage is heterosexual, while you argue that the "meaning" is consent. How can you defend the position that you're definitely correct? I never said everyone agrees with me on that topic. All your responses to my posts are full of attributing to me positions I never defended. Could you stop misrepresenting my posts ? I said that most people (including most probably you) by their actions prove me correct. Their words how they do not believe in objective morality are irrelevant as long as they act like there actually is one. Plus since when matter of science are decided by polls  As for the meaning part, you again completely missed the point. Marriage has as part of its meaning consent. If you disagree, you do not speak English and I can easily ignore you. You can argue that marriage has as part of its meaning heterosexuality. And I would not disagree with you. I would state meaning of marriage is in state of flux right now on that topic. Somewhere in-between. But it is pretty clear the meaning will move in the future to include homosexual relationships. But there is no evidence of the meaning of marriage moving anywhere close to losing its consent component. As for how I can defend my position. I do not need to defend my position. Meaning of the words is shared between all speakers of the language. And right now it has consent component. If you disagree, be my guest and once again show that you are just playing semantic games. Or do you expect that majority of English speakers in the world would disagree with me ? lol, thought this thread had died. It's not that "people disagree with you about objective morality, but that it's a fact". You say that of course there is objective morality. That's your opinion. You can believe in it as much as you want, and believe that it exists, but it doesn't take away from the fact that it's your opinion, and no more. And because it's only an opinion, people are more likely to disagree with you (which they do). Your proof from how people act is meaningless. It's like claiming that since most of the world enjoys pizza, pizza is inherently and objectively delicious. There is a significant difference between something that's objective, and something that's subjective, but agreed upon. But I don't want to argue about objective morality. I'm arguing against the people in this thread that are comfortable with defining marriage as hetero and homosexual, and not just heterosexual (as in, not willing to listen to someone that just defines marriage as heterosexual), while they themselves wouldn't be willing (on principle) defining marriage as lacking consent. Ah, the poll was just thrown in their for literary emphasis  . And it's very nice that you defined the Western definition of marriage, which is in flux. But the Ugandese (?) may define it as heterosexual. And since your definition has no more validity than theirs, because it's subjective, who's to say theirs is wrong? My point about consent is that the definition of marriage could be whatever we want it to be. Agreed, it's not moving towards the loss of consent, but that doesn't mean that if it would, there'd be anything wrong with that. Thus, those that are willing to define marriage how they want to should be willing to accept the fact that others may define it differently. So if in a different state, they'd legalize and recognize bestiality as marriage, your reaction should be "Oh, guess they define marriage differently", not "Oh, that could never be marriage". Yes, and in the same vein all scientific facts/theories are also opinions. Good to know. You fail to differentiate something that is agreed upon, because we decided so based on a whim and something agreed upon, because we are so biologically inclined and in fact never had a decision to make. The second one cannot change without our biology changing and is quite objective. Morality falls under the second kind. And that also goes for your pizza example to some degree. It shows that pizza is made in a way that we find (statistically) delicious, which is also biological and objective, in this sense, category. Of course much smaller percentage of people finds pizza delicious than the number of people that agree on core moral principles. Which is not surprising as there are other foods thus no point in evolution forcing us all into one box, whereas without the specific morality humans share, societies could not exist. As for the rest, you again demonstrate that you do not understand what you read. You are talking about definitions being wrong after I repeatedly told you definitions are not wrong or right. They cannot be. Definitions are tautologies/naming conventions. So I never said Ugandan definition is wrong. Your original point was trying to argue there is inconsistency between allowing homosexuality and not allowing incest/bestiality. People explained to you why there is no inconsistency. That is why you changed your argument to include the whole marriage discussion, even though it has no relevance to the topic, because it was the only way how you can salvage your refuted argument. There are only three ways for you to argue your original point. 1) Try to argue that there is only one criteria to judge ethical scenarios. You attempted this first by claiming the supposed inconsistency. That inconsistency of course does not exist if you actually understand that ethical decisions are reached using multiple criteria and so just because two actions share one/few attributes (sex/love/..) they all do not have to fall into the same ethical category. And people pointed out that you are wrong as there is no issue with having multi-criteria to decide ethical considerations. 2) Claim that morality is relative. After that you moved to claim that morality is relative. So please do not lie that you do not want to argue about objective morality. 3) Move the topic from actual ethical calculus, to the murky waters of human language and its meanings. But since the cases of bestiality vs homosexuality was so clear for most people, you moved into this final argument, which is completely irrelevant to original topic. Of course you picked it because it is easier to create confusion and argue whatever nonsense by saying that definitions of the words are arbitrary and so on. It is complete derailing of the thread as your point can easily and clearly be formulated without the whole marriage thing as I have easily shown few paragraphs above. But of course without the marriage thing, you would have to confine yourself to ethical discussion and that does not allow so much bs. So you moved it to semantic games over word marriage. This was the last thing I am going to write about your tangent on marriage. Either argue your original point, where your only option is to claim that morality is relative to extremely big extent. Or continue with your word games, but without me.
This is really a massive simplification of the matter, if not total ignorance. Sometimes we have to take all the cultural and political context to understand all the mechanics involve in events that happen outside our culture. You can`t just have a cookie cutter formula and shove it in everyone's thraot.
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On November 29 2012 12:53 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one.
So when a majority takes pride in itself, it's a shameful and disgusting thing, and when a minority does, it is empowering? So if you are part of the majority, you should be ashamed of it and hide it?
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On November 29 2012 12:55 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:53 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one. So when a majority takes pride in itself, it's a shameful and disgusting thing, and when a minority does, it is empowering? So if you are part of the majority, you should be ashamed of it and hide it?
Aye caramba you sound so emo. I usually loathe explaining this on the internet because I usually find myself stepping into a pit of ignorance that I could never hope to fill but here goes:
A heterosexual pride parade is silly and redundant because everything about society already celebrates heterosexuality. Everything from chick flicks, to commercials, to frat parties, to mother fucking weddings are celebrations and announcements of heterosexuality. Heterosexuality is the majority and it society already empowers it and takes pride in it. A parade would be a waste of time because everyone already knows heterosexuals can express their sexuality and still find a place in society. It'd be like celebrating having permission to go to the bathroom...no fucking duh you can do it.
A homosexual pride parade is actually important because homosexuals have historically been told to hide, to be ashamed, and that they have no place in society. A gay pride parade is a way of saying that homosexuals don't have to hide anymore, or be ashamed anymore, and that society will let them participate. AND it finally gives them a chance to celebrate their sexuality instead of having to watch chick flicks, or go to frat parties, or play best man at yet another wedding. It gives a voice to an otherwise silent minority.
When a minority FINALLY gets a place in society, they are happy about it and they celebrate it. The majority was never not a part of society and their place in society has NEVER been threatened. Celebrating a heterosexual place in society is a waste of time at best, at worst it comes off as a mockery of what homosexuals have had to endure and what they've finally earned.
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On November 29 2012 13:03 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:55 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:53 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one. So when a majority takes pride in itself, it's a shameful and disgusting thing, and when a minority does, it is empowering? So if you are part of the majority, you should be ashamed of it and hide it? Aye caramba you sound so emo. I usually loathe explaining this on the internet because I usually find myself stepping into a pit of ignorance that I could never hope to fill but here goes: A heterosexual pride parade is silly and redundant because everything about society already celebrates heterosexuality. Everything from chick flicks, to commercials, to frat parties, to mother fucking weddings are celebrations and announcements of heterosexuality. Heterosexuality is the majority and it society already empowers it and takes pride in it. A parade would be a waste of time because everyone already knows heterosexuals can express their sexuality and still find a place in society. It'd be like celebrating having permission to go to the bathroom...no fucking duh you can do it. A homosexual pride parade is actually important because homosexuals have historically been told to hide, to be ashamed, and that they have no place in society. A gay pride parade is a way of saying that homosexuals don't have to hide anymore, or be ashamed anymore, and that society will let them participate. AND it finally gives them a chance to celebrate their sexuality instead of having to watch chick flicks, or go to frat parties, or play best man at yet another wedding. It gives a voice to an otherwise silent minority. When a minority FINALLY gets a place in society, they are happy about it and they celebrate it. The majority was never not a part of society and their place in society has NEVER been threatened. Celebrating a heterosexual place in society is a waste of time at best, at worst it comes off as a mockery of what homosexuals have had to endure and what they've finally earned.
And what makes you think heterosexuals are a majority? I know more "bi" girls than straight girls.
And is that all gays want? A few parades to celebrate instead of the whole year, like heteros? Or are they just rubbing our faces in it.
Additionally, you're playing fast and loose with the word "celebrate". Does the existence of something inherently celebrate itself? like the existence of weddings? If gays get wedding rights, then you wouldn't be able to pull that particular straw man out. Its as if you're talking about basic life, attaching "heterosexual" to it, and then saying "so there". On the other hand, if the public acceptance IS equal to celebration as you have determined it is for "heterosexual things", then gays are being celebrated daily just as heterosexuals, and thus, by your logic, pride parades are redundant.
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On November 29 2012 13:09 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 13:03 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:55 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:53 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one. So when a majority takes pride in itself, it's a shameful and disgusting thing, and when a minority does, it is empowering? So if you are part of the majority, you should be ashamed of it and hide it? Aye caramba you sound so emo. I usually loathe explaining this on the internet because I usually find myself stepping into a pit of ignorance that I could never hope to fill but here goes: A heterosexual pride parade is silly and redundant because everything about society already celebrates heterosexuality. Everything from chick flicks, to commercials, to frat parties, to mother fucking weddings are celebrations and announcements of heterosexuality. Heterosexuality is the majority and it society already empowers it and takes pride in it. A parade would be a waste of time because everyone already knows heterosexuals can express their sexuality and still find a place in society. It'd be like celebrating having permission to go to the bathroom...no fucking duh you can do it. A homosexual pride parade is actually important because homosexuals have historically been told to hide, to be ashamed, and that they have no place in society. A gay pride parade is a way of saying that homosexuals don't have to hide anymore, or be ashamed anymore, and that society will let them participate. AND it finally gives them a chance to celebrate their sexuality instead of having to watch chick flicks, or go to frat parties, or play best man at yet another wedding. It gives a voice to an otherwise silent minority. When a minority FINALLY gets a place in society, they are happy about it and they celebrate it. The majority was never not a part of society and their place in society has NEVER been threatened. Celebrating a heterosexual place in society is a waste of time at best, at worst it comes off as a mockery of what homosexuals have had to endure and what they've finally earned. And what makes you think heterosexuals are a majority? I know more "bi" girls than straight girls. And is that all gays want? A few parades to celebrate instead of the whole year, like heteros? Or are they just rubbing our faces in it. Additionally, you're playing fast and loose with the word "celebrate". Does the existence of something inherently celebrate itself? like the existence of weddings? If gays get wedding rights, then you wouldn't be able to pull that particular straw man out. Its as if you're talking about basic life, attaching "heterosexual" to it, and then saying "so there". On the other hand, if the public acceptance IS equal to celebration as you have determined it is for "heterosexual things", then gays are being celebrated daily just as heterosexuals, and thus, by your logic, pride parades are redundant.
You have 7 posts on your account...I don't take you seriously. I knew trying to debate this topic on the internet would be a failure. If someone else wants to tackle your egregious logic then they can beat their head against that wall. I'm going to go play LoL.
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On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Show nested quote + Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. I put this here, not to legitimize hate against a whole population, like you would claim. I put this here, because by your emphasis, you imply that homosexuals, trans, etc, cannot be criminal like heterosexual males. In other words, they lack agency, or hetero males are just so bad, that only they deserve mention in such crimes. remember that pedophilia (of the homosexual nature) was around in ancient Greece, and they had codes for how to do it. It was seen as teaching men not to rely on women, a bit ironically like that Vagina Monologue part involving a 13 year old female getting drunk by a much older female and forced into sex, recalling it as "if it was a rape, it was a good rape", in later memories. As to saying "yes but it was a majority oppressing a minority, therefore your argument is invalid", you're stereotyping and skirting the issue. Congrats on your own bigotry towards others. What people did in the past may have been right or wrong, and if we view it as wrong, then who committed it? Those in the past. Not those here. But go ahead and stereotype me.
I guess I will use this as an opportunity to maybe shed some light since this argument about pride parades has somehow dominated this thread about institutionalized murder.
The pride element of the parade is about overcoming civil rights challenges. It follows the same vein as black history month or other such traditions to remember the struggles of our past with a flare that is unique to the community. Feel free to critique the style but the actual expression should be reasonable to all but the most biased observer.
The second point I would like to make is about why it is important to have such a flashy celebration. This is something that never really registered for me as a kid but seems so obvious in hindsight that I feel silly about my doubts today. The big thing to remember is that gays do not function like a traditional minority. Gays form communities but with every generation the ten percent gets randomly redistributed around the globe. Pride parades are like a beacon for desperate disenfranchised gays everywhere.
Every single day is straight pride all over America. I would see my parents kissing, see boys and girls walking hand in hand on the street and even some serious macking by people on dates when I was a kid. My parents were catholic and hated gays but you better believe my ears perked up when I heard about these kinds of celebrations on the news or even when spoken of derisively. It is a small light in a dark time that saves many lives.
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This thread has gone wayyy off course. The crux of it is homosexuals aren't equals in the current situation of most countries. All this bullshit some of you are spewing about parades and feminism is so irrelevant I don't know why people are still discussing it with you.
It's really fucking simple, do you support gays having equal right or do you not? All this dancing around the real issue is stupid. If you think gays shouldn't have all the privileges you as a straight male do just be a man and say it. No need for mental gymnastics to avoid admitting you're bigoted against gay people.
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On November 29 2012 13:20 heliusx wrote: This thread has gone wayyy off course. The crux of it is homosexuals aren't equals in the current situation of most countries. All this bullshit some of you are spewing about parades and feminism is so irrelevant I don't know why people are still discussing it with you.
It's really fucking simple, do you support gays having equal right or do you not? All this dancing around the real issue is stupid. If you think gays shouldn't have all the privileges you as a straight male do just be a man and say it. No need for mental gymnastics to avoid admitting you're bigoted against gay people.
Do you believe in democracy? If the majority of Uganda signs the idea into law, will you still complain? After all, it was democratically decided for. If you think it's gone way off course, you've read half of the last page. I covered both the content and the ad hominems of "homophobia and fear" directed at myself. Others kept driving those points, and I responded solely to those, as they ignored my OT points.
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On November 29 2012 13:23 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 13:20 heliusx wrote: This thread has gone wayyy off course. The crux of it is homosexuals aren't equals in the current situation of most countries. All this bullshit some of you are spewing about parades and feminism is so irrelevant I don't know why people are still discussing it with you.
It's really fucking simple, do you support gays having equal right or do you not? All this dancing around the real issue is stupid. If you think gays shouldn't have all the privileges you as a straight male do just be a man and say it. No need for mental gymnastics to avoid admitting you're bigoted against gay people. Do you believe in democracy? If the majority of Uganda signs the idea into law, will you still complain? After all, it was democratically decided for.
Do you believe in democracy? If the majority of america signs a law sentencing all religious people to death will you still complain? After all, it was democratically decided for. What a weak ass argument.
Yeah I get it, you're not homophobic and you're not a bigot. You just don't think they should enjoy the same privileges you do just because.
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On November 29 2012 13:09 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 13:03 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:55 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:53 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one. So when a majority takes pride in itself, it's a shameful and disgusting thing, and when a minority does, it is empowering? So if you are part of the majority, you should be ashamed of it and hide it? Aye caramba you sound so emo. I usually loathe explaining this on the internet because I usually find myself stepping into a pit of ignorance that I could never hope to fill but here goes: A heterosexual pride parade is silly and redundant because everything about society already celebrates heterosexuality. Everything from chick flicks, to commercials, to frat parties, to mother fucking weddings are celebrations and announcements of heterosexuality. Heterosexuality is the majority and it society already empowers it and takes pride in it. A parade would be a waste of time because everyone already knows heterosexuals can express their sexuality and still find a place in society. It'd be like celebrating having permission to go to the bathroom...no fucking duh you can do it. A homosexual pride parade is actually important because homosexuals have historically been told to hide, to be ashamed, and that they have no place in society. A gay pride parade is a way of saying that homosexuals don't have to hide anymore, or be ashamed anymore, and that society will let them participate. AND it finally gives them a chance to celebrate their sexuality instead of having to watch chick flicks, or go to frat parties, or play best man at yet another wedding. It gives a voice to an otherwise silent minority. When a minority FINALLY gets a place in society, they are happy about it and they celebrate it. The majority was never not a part of society and their place in society has NEVER been threatened. Celebrating a heterosexual place in society is a waste of time at best, at worst it comes off as a mockery of what homosexuals have had to endure and what they've finally earned. And what makes you think heterosexuals are a majority? I know more "bi" girls than straight girls.
If only we had a magical place where we could go when we don't know something. This place would have a huge amount of information categorized, cataloged and ready to search. If we typed "sexual orientation statistics" into such a database, we might find....
TADA!!!!~~~~
The gallup poll for 2012 so far shows that 3.4% of the US population consider themselves LGBT. this will not translate directly to ugandan data, but I think that it will certainly be close enough.
So what makes me think heterosexuals are a majority? 96.6% is a pretty big majority.
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On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. Show nested quote + The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of.
I don't know where to place anyone I've met into what you've mentioned. I am left asking if maybe you have ran into people who do not understand the concept of respect. I don't think anyone with respect for others would we well described by what you're saying. Regardless if they are feminists, gay, or straight.
I can understand that there are some very extreme people, but I fail to see how they should have any hold over anyone. And in the end, you cannot cry over people who perceive you differently or incorrectly. Such is life. But once they act on their incorrect perception and try to "get you" in any way, is when things should be "handled". So girls falsely accusing men of rape, just like anyone accusing anyone falsely of anything, is indeed problematic, but a completely separate issue to homosexuality.
And no, you are not close minded for being heterosexual. Who/what ever made you feel that way has too much of a hold on you. You should see the unwarranted snide remarks for what they are, and not mistake them for personal flaws.
It can be very noble to point out issues. But don't think these issues dilute other issues, because they do not.
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On November 29 2012 13:09 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 13:03 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:55 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:53 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one. So when a majority takes pride in itself, it's a shameful and disgusting thing, and when a minority does, it is empowering? So if you are part of the majority, you should be ashamed of it and hide it? Aye caramba you sound so emo. I usually loathe explaining this on the internet because I usually find myself stepping into a pit of ignorance that I could never hope to fill but here goes: A heterosexual pride parade is silly and redundant because everything about society already celebrates heterosexuality. Everything from chick flicks, to commercials, to frat parties, to mother fucking weddings are celebrations and announcements of heterosexuality. Heterosexuality is the majority and it society already empowers it and takes pride in it. A parade would be a waste of time because everyone already knows heterosexuals can express their sexuality and still find a place in society. It'd be like celebrating having permission to go to the bathroom...no fucking duh you can do it. A homosexual pride parade is actually important because homosexuals have historically been told to hide, to be ashamed, and that they have no place in society. A gay pride parade is a way of saying that homosexuals don't have to hide anymore, or be ashamed anymore, and that society will let them participate. AND it finally gives them a chance to celebrate their sexuality instead of having to watch chick flicks, or go to frat parties, or play best man at yet another wedding. It gives a voice to an otherwise silent minority. When a minority FINALLY gets a place in society, they are happy about it and they celebrate it. The majority was never not a part of society and their place in society has NEVER been threatened. Celebrating a heterosexual place in society is a waste of time at best, at worst it comes off as a mockery of what homosexuals have had to endure and what they've finally earned. And what makes you think heterosexuals are a majority? I know more "bi" girls than straight girls. This, right there, shows that you are either trolling or desperately trying to find something to reply at all costs, just out of spite. No sane person would have any doubt that a majority of the population is heterosexual.
On November 29 2012 13:09 Arighttomorals wrote: And is that all gays want? A few parades to celebrate instead of the whole year, like heteros? Or are they just rubbing our faces in it. Klondikebar explains in the post you just replied to what the gay pride is about. I suggest you read it before replying. This applies to the rest of your post.
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On November 29 2012 13:23 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 13:20 heliusx wrote: This thread has gone wayyy off course. The crux of it is homosexuals aren't equals in the current situation of most countries. All this bullshit some of you are spewing about parades and feminism is so irrelevant I don't know why people are still discussing it with you.
It's really fucking simple, do you support gays having equal right or do you not? All this dancing around the real issue is stupid. If you think gays shouldn't have all the privileges you as a straight male do just be a man and say it. No need for mental gymnastics to avoid admitting you're bigoted against gay people. Do you believe in democracy? If the majority of Uganda signs the idea into law, will you still complain? After all, it was democratically decided for. If you think it's gone way off course, you've read half of the last page. I covered both the content and the ad hominems of "homophobia and fear" directed at myself. Others kept driving those points, and I responded solely to those, as they ignored my OT points.
This is simultaneously a good, and a very bad, point. Yes, if the majority of Uganda decides to sign this into law, then it is a democratically decided upon law. This makes it legally legitimate. This does not make it right. Democracy allows the masses of people who would otherwise be forced to live with the implications of the decisions of their leadership to hide behind a curtain of voting. They just cast a ballot, how can they be responsible for the slaughter or removal of rights of an entire demographic?
They are just as responsible. They still need to look in the mirror, look at their friends and family who are being systematically persecuted for a permanent and inextricable part of their being, just as much as me being a white male, I am also gay. This is a part of me as real and as important as any other fact of my humanity or biology. This law wants to tell these people that who they are, what they are and the things they cannot control about themselves are inherently wrong and worthy of at best contempt, at worst slaughter. This is a part of them. Democracy does not make persecution okay, it makes the inhumane doable by assigning it to non-human entities.
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On November 29 2012 13:09 Arighttomorals wrote:Show nested quote +On November 29 2012 13:03 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:55 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:53 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:46 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:15 Klondikebar wrote:On November 29 2012 12:06 Arighttomorals wrote:On November 29 2012 12:00 Caihead wrote: To above spam post: Every point you are making stems from a straw man argument against extremist factions with in the feminism movement which is usually denounced by actual feminists. Nor does it even contribute to the discussion about homosexuals, by your definition is it fine for you to watch a gay pride parade consisting entirely of women because you are physically attracted to women? That's completely arbitrary. First one, no. If you are a male in our culture, Im sure you've experienced mysandry and sexism against you. I know I have. A lot. It doesn't matter where the ideas come from, what matters is that they permeate the culture, whether consciously or not. Do you know that we Ignore rape statistics for women when we want to talk about rapists? You should watch those videos is you don't want to remain ignorant. As to gay pride, it doesnt matter what sex marches in it. For males, it's pride in male on male, for females, it's pride for female on female. Both of these are more acceptable to women in general than male on female. The "think like us" categorization of the gay pride movement is god damn retarded. Do gays force heterosexuals to be homosexual through traumatizing medical / social / psychological experiments? Because the opposite has been true for as long as civilization has existed. Now homosexuals / transexuals / bisexuals finally see the light of day in some areas and you are complaining?
You're the one straw manning. What you just described is a fallacy of logical reason. Simply because they had it done to them, any repression of heterosexuality is okay so long as it's just snide remarks, or low opinions and even hate speech, and not medical or social experiments? Because thats what's happening, and you just call it "seeing the light of day", a phrase you wont even quality the meaning of. People like you who don't understand the difference between a minority and a majority have nothing to contribute to any sociological discussion. I will give you a quick starter though: An action by the majority will have difference consequences than that same action done by the minority. oh, so you resort to stereotyping and tropes? Why is this even relevant, I've already said that you are aiming your argument at a straw man instead of having an actual discussion about the legality of homosexuality. This isn't a thread about extreme feminism which I also take personal issue with because it devalues the entire feminist movement.
Nvm I give up. Good bye. I can't be bothered so I automatically lose. I suppose you do lose, but not because of what you think. I responded to another person claiming that no heterosexual should be uncomfortable about gay pride parades, and I illustrated WHY heterosexual MALES should be uncomfortable. The implications of our society. Prove me wrong, if you feel like. Start a Hetero Pride parade in San Francisco. Let's see if people start calling your hate crime mongers. I bolded what I think is the most telling part. You have issue with it, not because it is incredibly hate filled and bigoted like KKK pages or some sort of "hang sluts" website, but because it devalues the feminist movement. So even here, you still do not directly attack the message that's being spread as hate speech, because she's a woman. You instead say that it is devaluing a movement. You won't even criticize her directly for doing the same things that males do, and are directly and harshly criticized for. It's like a deflection shield made of mental barriers. Even if the woman is totally and utterly in the wrong, spewing the worst stereotypes, generalizations, and sometimes even death threats towards males in general, you won't dare treat her like you would a man. What does that tell you? As to being forced into homosexual acts; does prison ring a bell? And even among "free" citizens, there have been many rape crimes committed by one sex on someone of the same sex. Remember, rape is about power, not about lust or desire for sexual release. You think there haven't been gays/trans picking up straight guys to drug and rape them? Women also drug and rape guys. google the stats. Again, the actions of a majority have different consequences than the actions of a minority. A heterosexual pride parade is not the same as a homosexual one. So when a majority takes pride in itself, it's a shameful and disgusting thing, and when a minority does, it is empowering? So if you are part of the majority, you should be ashamed of it and hide it? Aye caramba you sound so emo. I usually loathe explaining this on the internet because I usually find myself stepping into a pit of ignorance that I could never hope to fill but here goes: A heterosexual pride parade is silly and redundant because everything about society already celebrates heterosexuality. Everything from chick flicks, to commercials, to frat parties, to mother fucking weddings are celebrations and announcements of heterosexuality. Heterosexuality is the majority and it society already empowers it and takes pride in it. A parade would be a waste of time because everyone already knows heterosexuals can express their sexuality and still find a place in society. It'd be like celebrating having permission to go to the bathroom...no fucking duh you can do it. A homosexual pride parade is actually important because homosexuals have historically been told to hide, to be ashamed, and that they have no place in society. A gay pride parade is a way of saying that homosexuals don't have to hide anymore, or be ashamed anymore, and that society will let them participate. AND it finally gives them a chance to celebrate their sexuality instead of having to watch chick flicks, or go to frat parties, or play best man at yet another wedding. It gives a voice to an otherwise silent minority. When a minority FINALLY gets a place in society, they are happy about it and they celebrate it. The majority was never not a part of society and their place in society has NEVER been threatened. Celebrating a heterosexual place in society is a waste of time at best, at worst it comes off as a mockery of what homosexuals have had to endure and what they've finally earned. And what makes you think heterosexuals are a majority? I know more "bi" girls than straight girls. And is that all gays want? A few parades to celebrate instead of the whole year, like heteros? Or are they just rubbing our faces in it. Additionally, you're playing fast and loose with the word "celebrate". Does the existence of something inherently celebrate itself? like the existence of weddings? If gays get wedding rights, then you wouldn't be able to pull that particular straw man out. Its as if you're talking about basic life, attaching "heterosexual" to it, and then saying "so there". On the other hand, if the public acceptance IS equal to celebration as you have determined it is for "heterosexual things", then gays are being celebrated daily just as heterosexuals, and thus, by your logic, pride parades are redundant.
But do not heterosexual couples celebrate when they get married?
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