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Makes me feel sorry for all the bad bm i've dropped in the past although I can't imagine ever psychologically hurting someone so deeply that they go to these lengths. Makes me feel sad that people feel so poorly about themselves that they have to try to bring others even lower to make themselves happy. One day I hope that we can all live in a world where people respect others for being exactly as they are.
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On October 13 2012 04:25 adwodon wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 04:10 AngryMag wrote:
kids can be real assholes, wasn't this bad when I went to school, things seem to get much worse. Don't know why though, blaming social media and stuff is just an easy explanation, the real reasons are much deeper I guess. I knew a girl who got thrown in front of a bus (she wasn't hit, but it was close), and another guy who was thrown out a 2nd story window, a girl who threw a friends only party (pre-skins era) in a very large expensive house, over 200 people turned up, someone drove through her electric gates, people wrecked the house and a guy I knew killed a very expensive koi carp, one of my friends broke a metal crutch over a guys head, girls systematically bullied a girl to suicide (pre social media) and another died from anorexia under similar circumstances. Those are just the things that pop into my head immediately, there are tonnes of others. Kids have always been assholes and will continue to be assholes, thankfully most of them grow out of it. This girl was just unfortunate to not realize that there are methods to deal with people like this, and that her self esteem shouldn't be touched by his actions. As a teenager you don't think that though, and unfortunately you are somewhat stuck and your friends / peers will all be especially judgmental. Once you get out the other end you realize its not the end of the world, when you're in though that's not the case, there's not much that can be done about it really, some kids will commit suicide because they're too inexperienced to know alternatives. The overwhelming majority do think that through, which is why the overwhelming majority dont kill themselves...
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sad stuff, i think people need to be more forgiving to themselves in general. people make mistakes, its human nature. have to try and stop thinking about other peoples opinions. RIP
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On October 13 2012 05:34 dannystarcraft wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:23 NEEDZMOAR wrote:On October 13 2012 05:18 dannystarcraft wrote:On October 13 2012 05:05 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:58 FabledIntegral wrote:On October 13 2012 04:53 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
People make mistakes, we have no idea what pushed her into it. Calling her stupid is... well.. stupid, you have no insight in her mind, her thoughts, why she did what she did, how desperately she was looking for respect and friends, warmth and social contact. We have no idea how her life was, yet somehow, so many people think they have a right to judge her.... hows is THAT not fucked up???
To people who share "allhailthedeads" opinion about this, get the f*ck out of here. You have no idea about anything, show some empathy and try to squeeze your fat ass into somebody elses pair of trousers...
....You disgust me. Uh... so you and your friends hated bullies, and you're solution was to "bully the bullies"? And then you felt good about it. And now you're mad at people judging her without knowing her situation in full, yet you feel fine to judge allhailthedead's comments without knowing him in full. Do you see any inconsistency with what you're posting? On topic, I think it's heartbreaking that she thought that suicide was the best option. You would think that her previous actions would have had people close to her reach out and try to help. There is definitely a difference. For example, I once was witnessing a bully constantly pick on a mentally handicapped kid that kept yelling at him "leave me alone." The bully wouldn't leave him alone. I walked up to the bully, shoved him against the locker, picked him up off the ground, and told him that if I ever saw him do that again I would beat the shit out of him. It felt good, I did not feel like a bully, and I have no regrets. In fact, I'm glad I did it. There's also a difference between your stories. In your story you're intervening between a bully and his target. When he refused to back down, you increased measures until he understood you were serious. In my opinion that's a justifiable action, and one to be proud of. However in the other story, it sounded like one day a group of individuals decided that they were going to go around school and beat up all the bullies. To me this seems stupid and just as wrong as the actions a bully takes. Agreed. There is a definite difference between the two stories. On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
Honestly, this is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. So now you are a bully. Great job. Hope you are proud. On topic. It is sad that things come to this. I remember anything bad seeming disproportionately awful in middle/high school. It is important to know how to deal with mistakes once you make them (because we all do). I just am so sad that she took her life... I dont consider myself a bully, I took a stand against injustice, me and my friends accomplished something no adults (or words for that matter) could ever accomplish, I stood up for those who needed it, I'll ask you the same thing I asked the other guy; can u say that u did the same thing? or were u one of those who sat there in silence while people were bullied an dmistreated? Im sorry, I cant stand that kind of apathy, I was one of those who was bullied (things got better as school went on though... so I am not complaining). And I didn't have a group of "friends" to help me go around and beat up all the bullies. I wasn't physically able to stop bullying (not saying I stayed silent about it though). What you described draws some parallels to "mob mentality" which I would consider to be... well bad. I'm glad you want to take a stand against injustice, and I am glad there are people like you to stick up for the little guys. The idea of what you did (preventing bullying) is great, but I think the "mobish" type of way that you went about it in this specific instance was wrong.
I'm sorry to hear you had a rough time in school.
I'm tired and didn't really elaborate on my story, but needless to say, there's a reason as to why people can bully, others are afraid of them,
they were a gang (5 of them) and one day we've had enough, Yes I understand your way of thinking, but in my opinion, our one-time act of violence was justified because it did prevent a lot of future acts of violence from them. Of course if we had kept beating them up repeatedly, we'd be no better than the bullies themselves, but that's not what happened.
Remember this was in high-school, teachers did nothing, on the school where I went people were horrible towards one another, the only way to survive (as pathetic as this may sound, its true) was to get tough, show people that u didn't take any crap from anyone.
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Where the fuck are the parents? Too many things went on without the parents knowing. I blame them as much as the rest.
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Makes me upset to where I feel vigilantism would have been able to keep things in order better than society did.
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On October 13 2012 05:23 NEEDZMOAR wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:18 dannystarcraft wrote:On October 13 2012 05:05 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:58 FabledIntegral wrote:On October 13 2012 04:53 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
People make mistakes, we have no idea what pushed her into it. Calling her stupid is... well.. stupid, you have no insight in her mind, her thoughts, why she did what she did, how desperately she was looking for respect and friends, warmth and social contact. We have no idea how her life was, yet somehow, so many people think they have a right to judge her.... hows is THAT not fucked up???
To people who share "allhailthedeads" opinion about this, get the f*ck out of here. You have no idea about anything, show some empathy and try to squeeze your fat ass into somebody elses pair of trousers...
....You disgust me. Uh... so you and your friends hated bullies, and you're solution was to "bully the bullies"? And then you felt good about it. And now you're mad at people judging her without knowing her situation in full, yet you feel fine to judge allhailthedead's comments without knowing him in full. Do you see any inconsistency with what you're posting? On topic, I think it's heartbreaking that she thought that suicide was the best option. You would think that her previous actions would have had people close to her reach out and try to help. There is definitely a difference. For example, I once was witnessing a bully constantly pick on a mentally handicapped kid that kept yelling at him "leave me alone." The bully wouldn't leave him alone. I walked up to the bully, shoved him against the locker, picked him up off the ground, and told him that if I ever saw him do that again I would beat the shit out of him. It felt good, I did not feel like a bully, and I have no regrets. In fact, I'm glad I did it. There's also a difference between your stories. In your story you're intervening between a bully and his target. When he refused to back down, you increased measures until he understood you were serious. In my opinion that's a justifiable action, and one to be proud of. However in the other story, it sounded like one day a group of individuals decided that they were going to go around school and beat up all the bullies. To me this seems stupid and just as wrong as the actions a bully takes. Agreed. There is a definite difference between the two stories. On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
Honestly, this is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. So now you are a bully. Great job. Hope you are proud. On topic. It is sad that things come to this. I remember anything bad seeming disproportionately awful in middle/high school. It is important to know how to deal with mistakes once you make them (because we all do). I just am so sad that she took her life... I dont consider myself a bully, I took a stand against injustice, me and my friends accomplished something no adults (or words for that matter) could ever accomplish, I stood up for those who needed it, I'll ask you the same thing I asked the other guy; can u say that u did the same thing? or were u one of those who sat there in silence while people were bullied an dmistreated? Im sorry, I cant stand that kind of apathy,
I understand where you're coming from I think. I also did not stand idly by if I saw bullying occurring in my vicinity.
The problem with what you did, in my opinion, was that you chose people who had a history of bullying and judged and executed them based on your own sense of morality. If you were to witness an act of bullying and took actions to prevent it, then I would be the first to applaud your decisions. However, we're talking about seeking out individuals with a history and exacting revenge on them. That's not justice however you would like to view it. That's revenge. It's petty, and in a lot of cases, it's criminal.
So many villains in movies and video games have been created with the same premise. Death Wish anyone?
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On October 13 2012 05:32 NEEDZMOAR wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:30 SheaR619 wrote:On October 13 2012 05:02 NEEDZMOAR wrote:On October 13 2012 04:34 SheaR619 wrote:On October 13 2012 04:20 AllHailTheDead wrote:
the loss of life is sad and all but......I think this girl is just stupid.....
let me show my boobs to people on the internet(herp derp)
let me give this guy a show so he can make a video(herp derp)
let me go over to this guys house who told me his girlfriend is on vacation(and then she acts like it was his fault "he hooked up with me" no sounds like your just an attention whore......)
also sounds like she has no respect for other people and doesnt give a shit
no smart girl would go have sex with a guy when they have a girlfriend obviously they dont care about you
and if I was the other girl I would prob beat her up at school also for being a hoe ^ This. She did alot of stupid shit and I guess you can say she kinda got what she deserved but she wasnt mentally well after that boob flash which triggered everything. I know using the "mentally unwell" is probably just an excuse but it a possibility to consider. Either way, it quiet sad to see that she had to endure such hardship and no one deserve such but it sadly is all trigger by her action. Im not sure if I should laugh because of the imaturity, stupidity and the judgment int his post from some teenager who isnt fully grown up yet (a lot of people never gets pass the arrogant attitude that teenagers sport) Or cry because of the bullshit in this post... The part about mentally unwell makes me so angry with you that I would want to physically hurt you. I dont get it? Why are you angry with me? She IS mentally unwell/unstable or sick or w/e. Why are you being mad at me for stating that fact? She admit to drug, cutting, anxiety issues and claimed to be diagnosed with deep depression. Sure the stuff that happen to her is sad but can you truly admit that it wasnt HER fault? I understand that teenager are easily influenced by stuff but she Flash her boobs triggered her depression, anxiety and drugs. Then she hooked up with a guy who she already knew had a girlfriend and yet she just figures that she would sleep with him and nothing will happen. She probably hooked up with the guy due to her depression and was looking for comfort but even if the guy return his love for her and they become a couple, do you seriously think that the girlfriend that got dumped would stop there? The girlfriend would probably beat the living hell out of her even more and her life would be even more hell and she would be called the newest slut in school for stealing boyfriend. Her life does suck more then others and she probably got what she deserved for making the wrong choice but not to this extent. Even this amount of bullying is pretty horrendous. So are you saying that what I said about her being "mentally unwell" is not a fact after she admited to being diagnosed with depression, is suicidal, on drugs, cutting and anxiety disorder? I do not see what I said has been bullshit, please correct me where I am wrong. Im mad at you because u talk of mentally unstable as an "execuse" as if it wasnt a valid reason for her ractions.
What? Okay, by the looks of your name, it look like your from Sweden. Which probably explains your spelling errors.
I said specifically in my first post, "I know using the "mentally unwell" is probably just an excuse but it a possibility to consider."
I said that we must also consider the possibility that she might be mentally unwell. You probably just miss read or I might of just worded it poorly.
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On October 13 2012 05:45 NEEDZMOAR wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:34 dannystarcraft wrote:On October 13 2012 05:23 NEEDZMOAR wrote:On October 13 2012 05:18 dannystarcraft wrote:On October 13 2012 05:05 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:58 FabledIntegral wrote:On October 13 2012 04:53 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
People make mistakes, we have no idea what pushed her into it. Calling her stupid is... well.. stupid, you have no insight in her mind, her thoughts, why she did what she did, how desperately she was looking for respect and friends, warmth and social contact. We have no idea how her life was, yet somehow, so many people think they have a right to judge her.... hows is THAT not fucked up???
To people who share "allhailthedeads" opinion about this, get the f*ck out of here. You have no idea about anything, show some empathy and try to squeeze your fat ass into somebody elses pair of trousers...
....You disgust me. Uh... so you and your friends hated bullies, and you're solution was to "bully the bullies"? And then you felt good about it. And now you're mad at people judging her without knowing her situation in full, yet you feel fine to judge allhailthedead's comments without knowing him in full. Do you see any inconsistency with what you're posting? On topic, I think it's heartbreaking that she thought that suicide was the best option. You would think that her previous actions would have had people close to her reach out and try to help. There is definitely a difference. For example, I once was witnessing a bully constantly pick on a mentally handicapped kid that kept yelling at him "leave me alone." The bully wouldn't leave him alone. I walked up to the bully, shoved him against the locker, picked him up off the ground, and told him that if I ever saw him do that again I would beat the shit out of him. It felt good, I did not feel like a bully, and I have no regrets. In fact, I'm glad I did it. There's also a difference between your stories. In your story you're intervening between a bully and his target. When he refused to back down, you increased measures until he understood you were serious. In my opinion that's a justifiable action, and one to be proud of. However in the other story, it sounded like one day a group of individuals decided that they were going to go around school and beat up all the bullies. To me this seems stupid and just as wrong as the actions a bully takes. Agreed. There is a definite difference between the two stories. On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
Honestly, this is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. So now you are a bully. Great job. Hope you are proud. On topic. It is sad that things come to this. I remember anything bad seeming disproportionately awful in middle/high school. It is important to know how to deal with mistakes once you make them (because we all do). I just am so sad that she took her life... I dont consider myself a bully, I took a stand against injustice, me and my friends accomplished something no adults (or words for that matter) could ever accomplish, I stood up for those who needed it, I'll ask you the same thing I asked the other guy; can u say that u did the same thing? or were u one of those who sat there in silence while people were bullied an dmistreated? Im sorry, I cant stand that kind of apathy, I was one of those who was bullied (things got better as school went on though... so I am not complaining). And I didn't have a group of "friends" to help me go around and beat up all the bullies. I wasn't physically able to stop bullying (not saying I stayed silent about it though). What you described draws some parallels to "mob mentality" which I would consider to be... well bad. I'm glad you want to take a stand against injustice, and I am glad there are people like you to stick up for the little guys. The idea of what you did (preventing bullying) is great, but I think the "mobish" type of way that you went about it in this specific instance was wrong. I'm sorry to hear you had a rough time in school. I'm tired and didn't really elaborate on my story, but needless to say, there's a reason as to why people can bully, others are afraid of them, they were a gang (5 of them) and one day we've had enough, Yes I understand your way of thinking, but in my opinion, our one-time act of violence was justified because it did prevent a lot of future acts of violence from them. Of course if we had kept beating them up repeatedly, we'd be no better than the bullies themselves, but that's not what happened. Remember this was in high-school, teachers did nothing, on the school where I went people were horrible towards one another, the only way to survive (as pathetic as this may sound, its true) was to get tough, show people that u didn't take any crap from anyone.
I understand now. I was only critical because I thought you were doing (due to my incomplete understanding) the very thing that I loathe so much... bullying. I wanted you to be someone that I could look up to (not a bully). I am glad that you took a stand against bullying, thank you.
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Sad that she killed herself, but she did some rather stupid shit though.
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On October 13 2012 05:05 FabledIntegral wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:01 TheMooseHeed wrote:
Coming from a guy I could never fully understand her perspective but I see bullying as just a fact of life, if she couldnt handle school bullying she would have been hard pressed to handle the real world which is full of even worse bullies.
I am however angered that she wasnt given the tools to deal with bullying from her parents and teachers etc
System let her down Have you entered the "real world"? Is that a joke? The "real world" as you put it has a lot of people that generally speaking are much better at minding their own business and not gossiping about everything. What "real world" do you live in where bullies are worse? It's generally accepted that bullying is at its worse in middle-high school (imo mostly middle school, only time I was ever bullied was ~2 years, and not severely thank god).
I dunno man, pretty much every job I've had there have been some fucking assholes who are working against you behind your back for little to no reason, probably to take the heat off themselves, I remember one of my old workmates calling me when I was in another room and basically telling me to go say something to the boss just so she could see some drama it was fucking weird.
People are just craftier and less conspicuous about it in the "real world".
I can't imagine how bad it is to grow up with the internet now, teenage years are a clusterfuck as it is.
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On October 13 2012 05:45 NoobSkills wrote:
Where the fuck are the parents? Too many things went on without the parents knowing. I blame them as much as the rest.
Agreed. This kind of behaviour means that there was not a lot of constructive parenting going on.
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Sad to think that there could be thousands, if not millions of people like her, all over the world. 
Is the bully/stalker/whatever known?
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On October 13 2012 05:47 Fumanchu wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:23 NEEDZMOAR wrote:On October 13 2012 05:18 dannystarcraft wrote:On October 13 2012 05:05 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:58 FabledIntegral wrote:On October 13 2012 04:53 Fumanchu wrote:On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
People make mistakes, we have no idea what pushed her into it. Calling her stupid is... well.. stupid, you have no insight in her mind, her thoughts, why she did what she did, how desperately she was looking for respect and friends, warmth and social contact. We have no idea how her life was, yet somehow, so many people think they have a right to judge her.... hows is THAT not fucked up???
To people who share "allhailthedeads" opinion about this, get the f*ck out of here. You have no idea about anything, show some empathy and try to squeeze your fat ass into somebody elses pair of trousers...
....You disgust me. Uh... so you and your friends hated bullies, and you're solution was to "bully the bullies"? And then you felt good about it. And now you're mad at people judging her without knowing her situation in full, yet you feel fine to judge allhailthedead's comments without knowing him in full. Do you see any inconsistency with what you're posting? On topic, I think it's heartbreaking that she thought that suicide was the best option. You would think that her previous actions would have had people close to her reach out and try to help. There is definitely a difference. For example, I once was witnessing a bully constantly pick on a mentally handicapped kid that kept yelling at him "leave me alone." The bully wouldn't leave him alone. I walked up to the bully, shoved him against the locker, picked him up off the ground, and told him that if I ever saw him do that again I would beat the shit out of him. It felt good, I did not feel like a bully, and I have no regrets. In fact, I'm glad I did it. There's also a difference between your stories. In your story you're intervening between a bully and his target. When he refused to back down, you increased measures until he understood you were serious. In my opinion that's a justifiable action, and one to be proud of. However in the other story, it sounded like one day a group of individuals decided that they were going to go around school and beat up all the bullies. To me this seems stupid and just as wrong as the actions a bully takes. Agreed. There is a definite difference between the two stories. On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
Honestly, this is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. So now you are a bully. Great job. Hope you are proud. On topic. It is sad that things come to this. I remember anything bad seeming disproportionately awful in middle/high school. It is important to know how to deal with mistakes once you make them (because we all do). I just am so sad that she took her life... I dont consider myself a bully, I took a stand against injustice, me and my friends accomplished something no adults (or words for that matter) could ever accomplish, I stood up for those who needed it, I'll ask you the same thing I asked the other guy; can u say that u did the same thing? or were u one of those who sat there in silence while people were bullied an dmistreated? Im sorry, I cant stand that kind of apathy, I understand where you're coming from I think. I also did not stand idly by if I saw bullying occurring in my vicinity. The problem with what you did, in my opinion, was that you chose people who had a history of bullying and judged and executed them based on your own sense of morality. If you were to witness an act of bullying and took actions to prevent it, then I would be the first to applaud your decisions. However, we're talking about seeking out individuals with a history and exacting revenge on them. That's not justice however you would like to view it. That's revenge. It's petty, and in a lot of cases, it's criminal. So many villains in movies and video games have been created with the same premise. Death Wish anyone?
Actually, the time we jumped them they were trying to take money from my friend's little brother so either way, we did prevent bullying in action so to speak. Yes It was actions driven partly by hatred and rage, and we did of course overcommit, but we also knew that no words in the world would have had the same effect as we had on the change of their behavior. Today, i'd not do the same thing, of course, because I am now old and wise (hah... well older and wiser than I was back then!)
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Ah yeah, I live near Vancouver so all of my friends are posting this story on Facebook... Anyways, I'm sure that many people live worse lives than she did and they don't commit suicide. Survival of the fittest, I suppose. It's too bad that some people feel the need to be mean to other people.
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On October 13 2012 05:48 SheaR619 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:32 NEEDZMOAR wrote:On October 13 2012 05:30 SheaR619 wrote:On October 13 2012 05:02 NEEDZMOAR wrote:On October 13 2012 04:34 SheaR619 wrote:On October 13 2012 04:20 AllHailTheDead wrote:
the loss of life is sad and all but......I think this girl is just stupid.....
let me show my boobs to people on the internet(herp derp)
let me give this guy a show so he can make a video(herp derp)
let me go over to this guys house who told me his girlfriend is on vacation(and then she acts like it was his fault "he hooked up with me" no sounds like your just an attention whore......)
also sounds like she has no respect for other people and doesnt give a shit
no smart girl would go have sex with a guy when they have a girlfriend obviously they dont care about you
and if I was the other girl I would prob beat her up at school also for being a hoe ^ This. She did alot of stupid shit and I guess you can say she kinda got what she deserved but she wasnt mentally well after that boob flash which triggered everything. I know using the "mentally unwell" is probably just an excuse but it a possibility to consider. Either way, it quiet sad to see that she had to endure such hardship and no one deserve such but it sadly is all trigger by her action. Im not sure if I should laugh because of the imaturity, stupidity and the judgment int his post from some teenager who isnt fully grown up yet (a lot of people never gets pass the arrogant attitude that teenagers sport) Or cry because of the bullshit in this post... The part about mentally unwell makes me so angry with you that I would want to physically hurt you. I dont get it? Why are you angry with me? She IS mentally unwell/unstable or sick or w/e. Why are you being mad at me for stating that fact? She admit to drug, cutting, anxiety issues and claimed to be diagnosed with deep depression. Sure the stuff that happen to her is sad but can you truly admit that it wasnt HER fault? I understand that teenager are easily influenced by stuff but she Flash her boobs triggered her depression, anxiety and drugs. Then she hooked up with a guy who she already knew had a girlfriend and yet she just figures that she would sleep with him and nothing will happen. She probably hooked up with the guy due to her depression and was looking for comfort but even if the guy return his love for her and they become a couple, do you seriously think that the girlfriend that got dumped would stop there? The girlfriend would probably beat the living hell out of her even more and her life would be even more hell and she would be called the newest slut in school for stealing boyfriend. Her life does suck more then others and she probably got what she deserved for making the wrong choice but not to this extent. Even this amount of bullying is pretty horrendous. So are you saying that what I said about her being "mentally unwell" is not a fact after she admited to being diagnosed with depression, is suicidal, on drugs, cutting and anxiety disorder? I do not see what I said has been bullshit, please correct me where I am wrong. Im mad at you because u talk of mentally unstable as an "execuse" as if it wasnt a valid reason for her ractions. What? Okay, by the looks of your name, it look like your from Sweden. Which probably explains your spelling errors. I said specifically in my first post, "I know using the "mentally unwell" is probably just an excuse but it a possibility to consider." I said that we must also consider the possibility that she might be mentally unwell. You probably just miss read or I might of just worded it poorly.
Im sorry.
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On October 13 2012 05:45 NoobSkills wrote:
Where the fuck are the parents? Too many things went on without the parents knowing. I blame them as much as the rest.
Them not knowing is a terrible thing, but it's not their fault. If she was depressed and shut off from the world, then how could they know? She probably wasn't willing to tell them much, if she had told them and they had ignored her then I would understand your post. But as is, I don't think they are to blame. What I really want to know is why the police did not find and arrest this guy who seemed to know everything about her, that's probably borderline stalking.
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On October 13 2012 05:52 bonifaceviii wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 05:45 NoobSkills wrote:
Where the fuck are the parents? Too many things went on without the parents knowing. I blame them as much as the rest. Agreed. This kind of behaviour means that there was not a lot of constructive parenting going on.
It's getting harder and harder to parent nowadays, people are working more than ever for various economic reasons, you could argue that people shouldn't be allowed to have children or shouldn't have any if they can't afford to look at their kids properly but let's not go down that road, basically both parents have to work full time nowadays and the chances of the parents being together are very slim, so obviously the standard of parenting slips. You can blame the parents but honestly, it's fucking hard to raise a kid while trying to make a decent living.
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She was young, beatiful probably, living in a nice country with probably a nice family and in a few years she would look at this and laugh hard at how everybody called her a whore. What a stupid reason to commit suicide I have no respect for her, there are people starving to death and they still try to do everythin to survive but this dumb girl thinks her life is horrible because of what some people think of her?, what a lack of character she got what she deserved.
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