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On October 13 2012 04:20 AllHailTheDead wrote:
the loss of life is sad and all but......I think this girl is just stupid.....
let me show my boobs to people on the internet(herp derp)
let me give this guy a show so he can make a video(herp derp)
let me go over to this guys house who told me his girlfriend is on vacation(and then she acts like it was his fault "he hooked up with me" no sounds like your just an attention whore......)
also sounds like she has no respect for other people and doesnt give a shit
no smart girl would go have sex with a guy when they have a girlfriend obviously they dont care about you
and if I was the other girl I would prob beat her up at school also for being a hoe
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This.
She did alot of stupid shit and I guess you can say she kinda got what she deserved but she wasnt mentally well after that boob flash which triggered everything. I know using the "mentally unwell" is probably just an excuse but it a possibility to consider. Either way, it quiet sad to see that she had to endure such hardship and no one deserve such but it sadly is all trigger by her action.
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On October 13 2012 04:13 Fallians wrote:
Killing yourself is never the answer to this, despite how bad this girl had it taking her own life was absolutely stupid, juvenile and selfish.
Such a stupid and ignorant thing to say. No, despite what many idiots may say, it's not necessarily selfish to end your own life when you're experiencing unbearable pain and loneliness 24/7. I hate this mentality and it consists of merely idiotic victim blaming.
Really? You're calling her selfish? Did you read up on her story?
Anyone who can call someone this depressed as someone who is selfish because they are a friggin' middle schooler is unable to cope with immense pain and [cyber]bullying regardless of where they move, not to mention a cyberstalker in possession of child pornography, is an idiot.
No, she was not selfish.
I'm utterly amazed at all the people in this thread basically justifying the acts or even stating that "well you don't have to use social media" (because you know it isn't fucking INGRAINED in society now. It's hardly different than posting the damn picture of her on a poster at school. You can't escape social media if social media wants to focus on you).
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A shame really that all this happened because of one mistake. High School is brutal, thats were you separate your real friends from the ones that wont watch your back and subsequently dont talk to after graduation. I guess she was unlucky or her "friends" were really shitty and backed off as soon as they heard this.
But whoever went around stalking her is really even worst picking on a high school girl like this.
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I thought I've been through shit in highschool. This girl literally had it 1000 times worst.
Seriously, when you're that young, you're so easily influenced and will do A LOT stupid things. I wouldn't call what she did "uncommon", I know a lot of girls who found themselves in similar situations. But sadly, she paid for it in the most consequential way.
Such a shame, the kids bullying her feeds on drama and a "mob mentality". I swelled with anger when I saw that she moved away multiple times only to be continually harassed, like seriously WTF? Such a fucking shame.
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Funny thing if this story was about how a girl was bullied normally, not through Internet, it would get almost zero public attention.
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On October 13 2012 04:13 Fallians wrote:
Killing yourself is never the answer to this, despite how bad this girl had it taking her own life was absolutely stupid, juvenile and selfish.
what the post above me said.. You should fucking respect her, if u consider suicide to be selfish, you have NO idea about pain, panic and depression...
if anything, its selfish of people close to her, not to find out how much she was hurting before it was too late. but thats not right to say either...
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On October 13 2012 04:44 Butterednuts wrote:
Funny thing if this story was about how a girl was bullied normally, not through Internet, it would get almost zero public attention.
So in what ways are you helping out by shining lights in cases where people get bulled in real life?
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On October 13 2012 04:44 NEEDZMOAR wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 04:13 Fallians wrote:
Killing yourself is never the answer to this, despite how bad this girl had it taking her own life was absolutely stupid, juvenile and selfish. what the post above me said.. You should fucking respect her, if u consider suicide to be selfish, you have NO idea about pain, panic and depression...
if anything, its selfish of people close to her, not to find out how much she was hurting before it was too late. but thats not right to say either...
Thanks for replying for me.
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People are brutal, the reactions in this topic included.
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She changed schools and found a new group of friends in an effort to leave behind the bullies....
Soon after, the bullying started again and she began to cut herself. Amanda moved to yet another school, where, after a boy began flirting with her, a troupe of girls from her first school came and beat her up. "Kids filmed it," she writes. "I was all alone and left on the ground."
That's the sickest part imo. Even after she changed school twice kids from her first school still didn't give her a break.
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On October 13 2012 04:20 AllHailTheDead wrote:
the loss of life is sad and all but......I think this girl is just stupid.....
let me show my boobs to people on the internet(herp derp)
let me give this guy a show so he can make a video(herp derp)
let me go over to this guys house who told me his girlfriend is on vacation(and then she acts like it was his fault "he hooked up with me" no sounds like your just an attention whore......)
also sounds like she has no respect for other people and doesnt give a shit
no smart girl would go have sex with a guy when they have a girlfriend obviously they dont care about you
and if I was the other girl I would prob beat her up at school also for being a hoe
How does one become so childish as to write something like this in this situation? Especially the last part, you showed how much of a halfwit you really are.
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On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
People make mistakes, we have no idea what pushed her into it. Calling her stupid is... well.. stupid, you have no insight in her mind, her thoughts, why she did what she did, how desperately she was looking for respect and friends, warmth and social contact. We have no idea how her life was, yet somehow, so many people think they have a right to judge her.... hows is THAT not fucked up???
To people who share "allhailthedeads" opinion about this, get the f*ck out of here. You have no idea about anything, show some empathy and try to squeeze your fat ass into somebody elses pair of trousers...
....You disgust me.
Uh... so you and your friends hated bullies, and you're solution was to "bully the bullies"? And then you felt good about it. And now you're mad at people judging her without knowing her situation in full, yet you feel fine to judge allhailthedead's comments without knowing him in full. Do you see any inconsistency with what you're posting?
On topic, I think it's heartbreaking that she thought that suicide was the best option. You would think that her previous actions would have had people close to her reach out and try to help.
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Well this just sucks.. what kind of people would be so mean to someone for such a DUMB reason. It's not like she tortured a kitten what the fuck. This is more than bullying this is fucking harassment. She should have gone to the police or something.
;( meh
Eh lol @ some people. you should beat someone for sleeping around and/or flashing. seriously lol
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God damn it shows how high school is rough as hell.
Parents have such a hard job. You try to control your kids so they don't ruin teir reputation so they don't have bad self confidence or a fucked up life.
But fucking internet and high school are nearly uncontrollable.
Those who bullied her on facebook deserve punishment and im pretty sure it is illegal. What the hell? Where is it okay to say things like this on facebook or in high school? Not in my high school.god damn
Rip
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On October 13 2012 04:53 Fumanchu wrote:Show nested quote +On October 13 2012 04:31 NEEDZMOAR wrote:
I hate bullies... one day in highschool me and a couple of friends decided to beat the shit out of the bullies at our school... I can still very clearly remember the sound of their skulls hitting the wall very hard...shit felt good.
People make mistakes, we have no idea what pushed her into it. Calling her stupid is... well.. stupid, you have no insight in her mind, her thoughts, why she did what she did, how desperately she was looking for respect and friends, warmth and social contact. We have no idea how her life was, yet somehow, so many people think they have a right to judge her.... hows is THAT not fucked up???
To people who share "allhailthedeads" opinion about this, get the f*ck out of here. You have no idea about anything, show some empathy and try to squeeze your fat ass into somebody elses pair of trousers...
....You disgust me. Uh... so you and your friends hated bullies, and you're solution was to "bully the bullies"? And then you felt good about it. And now you're mad at people judging her without knowing her situation in full, yet you feel fine to judge allhailthedead's comments without knowing him in full. Do you see any inconsistency with what you're posting? On topic, I think it's heartbreaking that she thought that suicide was the best option. You would think that her previous actions would have had people close to her reach out and try to help.
There is definitely a difference. For example, I once was witnessing a bully constantly pick on a mentally handicapped kid that kept yelling at him "leave me alone." The bully wouldn't leave him alone. I walked up to the bully, shoved him against the locker, picked him up off the ground, and told him that if I ever saw him do that again I would beat the shit out of him. It felt good, I did not feel like a bully, and I have no regrets. In fact, I'm glad I did it.
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You can call it brutal all you like but if she was 26 instead of 16 nobody would give a fuck. She messed up and killed herself. Sad but from the information I've seen not exactly shocking.
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I can't get over how unbelievably critical people in this thread are about her sleeping with a guy in a relationship.
If you deserve to die for railing a chick who was a boyfriend (especially the meaningless kind you have when your 16 effing years old) I feel like I wouldn't be the only one posting from 6 feet under. It's also crazy how little heat the dude is catching for seducing a broken emo chick like that then totally railroading her (no pun intended) with the broad he's dating. That's dirty.
Guess its just old fashioned M/F double standards. Sometimes we get a good laugh of one of the boys gets lucky with a broad dating some loser. It's not the classiest move but that stuff happens. If a picture of my junk ever went viral however, I'd barely be able to contain myself Id be so excited.
In conclusion I guess all I wanna say is being a dude is pretty sweet. Cherish your penis.
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Coming from a guy I could never fully understand her perspective but I see bullying as just a fact of life, if she couldnt handle school bullying she would have been hard pressed to handle the real world which is full of even worse bullies.
I am however angered that she wasnt given the tools to deal with bullying from her parents and teachers etc
System let her down
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