EPTHelp the shy quiet antisocial introvert... - Page 11
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TruthBringer
United States578 Posts
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Chibi[OWNS]
United Kingdom10597 Posts
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Chibi[OWNS]
United Kingdom10597 Posts
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22256 Posts
OMG that is awesome. | ||
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brite
United Kingdom253 Posts
On December 13 2005 00:13 nicetoknowyou15 wrote: Here's my challenge to everyone who is (a) shy (b) afraid of meeting women, and/or (c) not getting any women, or (d) not getting enough women. This simple little challenge will (a) eliminate your fear of women, (b) show you that you don't have to play any tricks to get and have them. Ready? Tomorrow, or Saturday, or Sunday, groom and dress yourself real nice. I'm *not* asking anyone to put on any suits, or ties, or jackets (unless that is your comfortable style), but rather dress in your own comfortable, natural way, wearing clean and at least reasonably pressed clothes. Then drive to the nearest shopping mall/center and walk around looking and damn near everything. As you're doing so, say "hi" and give a smile to every woman who passes you by, and who is next to you, and who is in front of you, or whatever. The smile doesn't have to be this big cheesy grin, but whatever is your normal, comfortable way of smiling. {Any kind of smile shows you're not depressed, nor someone to be afraid of.} Doing *nothing* else but giving a simple smile and "hi" to everyone, you come back here on Monday and tell me that not *one* woman stopped dead in her tracks to say some things to you after you did nothing more then smile and say "hi". A simple smile and "hello" to everyone. Cost nothing, takes no time, won't hurt anyone. Yet I'll bet most of you will *rationalize* out some reason(s) why you can't do this, and/or it's not good, and/or all kinds of other things, and then come back here looking for that magical pill advice, that will bring you all the women you want. Guess what? I just gave you the "magical pill" advice. If you can't or won't say "hi" to everyone with a smile (so they quickly see they have nothing to be afraid of), NOTHING anyone can give you will work. Now get out there and prove me wrong. I dare you! well great wtf is it good for if u smile at everyone. i mean ok i don't say hi to every1 i see but to every1 i know, and i smile. but that doesn't help me shit. great i smile at people they smile back, i say hi they say hi and then i talk about some random shit until i don't know what to say anymore and by then it's mostly too late, cuz they're bored as hell. i just can't think of enough rdm bullshit to talk about to people. the other day i was at a party and i was talking to this girl and i just had no idea what to say. i kinda like her and she doesn't exactly hate me, we danced talked, had a drink and talked a bit, it must be said that she's shy, but still that's no reason for me to stop talking. i kept eye-contact all the time and shit like that but after a while we just both sat there silent. i was so deperate i actually thought about fooling around with her just to stop the aukward silence. i am not really attracted to her so that's why i'm saying this. if u talk to a girl wtf do u say?? i mean after like 5 min of talking i was just empty... | ||
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Chibi[OWNS]
United Kingdom10597 Posts
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nicetoknowyou15
Jamaica185 Posts
On December 13 2005 16:01 Liquid`Drone wrote: nicetoknowyou I agree with that but I heard of a guy in new york who got killed cause some boyfriend got pissed cause he perceived him to be flirting with his girlfriend I heard about this guy that died from snowboarding. That didn't stop me from trying it. You only live life once, might as well have some fun! Oh and Brite ... I dont smile and say hi to everyone either, that advice is more like a "mission," not a way to live everyday life, although there's nothing wrong with living like that ... people that do usually have more friends than a prom queen, although it does get exhausting!! Rather, I say hi to people that I want to ... ie fine women  Doing the little mission I described will prepare people to talk to girls ... and turn sexual tension into something an emotion that's exciting rather than makes you nervous. P.S.... if you have no shyness talking to girls, than there's no need for you to do the mission I described, .. PM if you have no trouble saying hi to girls, but have trouble holding conversation. Got some advice for that to >  | ||
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brite
United Kingdom253 Posts
On December 14 2005 18:25 Chibi[OWNS] wrote: "so........do u like the internet?" don't know if u mean me but i'm just posting here for some advice. it's not as so i spend much time on the internet, but i wouldn't say i don't like it. i just came back from jet another party where i was rather bored in the end, inspite being rather drunk, and not talking alot, so i htought i'd post here. | ||
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IronMentality
United States1129 Posts
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Kaotu
United States986 Posts
On December 14 2005 19:27 IronMentality wrote: compliment a women's features and then take her to a $500 dinner ...or just compliment a woman's features and hand her $500. They're called hookers. | ||
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mnm
United States4493 Posts
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IronMentality
United States1129 Posts
On December 14 2005 19:32 Kaotu wrote: ...or just compliment a woman's features and hand her $500. They're called hookers. That's too easy, I prefer the Lobster Tail Challenge | ||
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ahk-gosu
Korea (South)2099 Posts
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IronMentality
United States1129 Posts
On December 14 2005 21:15 ahk-gosu wrote: ignore what people think about you. be yourself. change only for yourself and only change in a way you think is positive. Bingo | ||
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cruel)angel
Philippines253 Posts
I agree.. | ||
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brite
United Kingdom253 Posts
On December 14 2005 21:15 ahk-gosu wrote: ignore what people think about you. be yourself. change only for yourself and only change in a way you think is positive. easier said than done On December 14 2005 18:27 nicetoknowyou15 wrote: .. PM if you have no trouble saying hi to girls, but have trouble holding conversation. Got some advice for that to > so what is that advice ?? | ||
Smurg
Australia3818 Posts
For all this information and more! Add me artoflogan@hotmail.com For all of those who don't know what that refers to, then go and see my thread that's IN THE HALL OF FAME "I need help...very badly." | ||
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mitsy
United States1792 Posts
i agree that probably: A - what you think people think about you B - what you do in response to these thoughts either A or B or both is wrong. but ignoring A altogether to stop the chain is probably stupid too and just a new, more retarded form of B. the issue is _changing_ A or B to something better. | ||
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CoralReefer
Canada2069 Posts
this has changed my life | ||
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mnm
United States4493 Posts
i hope you guys dont think they meant it to be taken seriously.. o.Oa | ||
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