EPTDating: How's your luck? - Page 889
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
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CosmicSpiral
United States15275 Posts
On November 04 2016 04:50 LemOn wrote: Too bad PUA is dead more or less I feel old whenever people miss a Goodfellas riff. | ||
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RvB
Netherlands6274 Posts
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ragnasaur
United States804 Posts
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evilfatsh1t
Australia8865 Posts
not sure if sarcastic/joke post or legit | ||
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farvacola
United States18857 Posts
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Dark_Chill
Canada3353 Posts
On November 04 2016 11:32 ragnasaur wrote: This girl & I were hanging out and I said something and she laughed, but then she added, "you're funny " after she laughed. Now I don't know what to do. Like does she think I'm funny like how? Like a clown or something? Or maybe she just thinks im there to amuse her. I think i'll blow her off She's insane. It's a sign that she's super clingy and is going to try and control your life. It's funny? It's funny? Jesus chirst, wake up people. | ||
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B.I.G.
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Artisreal
Germany9235 Posts
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Laurens
Belgium4557 Posts
On November 04 2016 16:52 Artisreal wrote: The fuck did I just read on the last two pages? Moderate to bad dating advice, as is the norm in this thread  | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On November 04 2016 11:32 ragnasaur wrote: This girl & I were hanging out and I said something and she laughed, but then she added, "you're funny " after she laughed. Now I don't know what to do. Like does she think I'm funny like how? Like a clown or something? Or maybe she just thinks im there to amuse her. I think i'll blow her off Hahaha | ||
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Mikau
Netherlands1446 Posts
Being this excited can't be healty. | ||
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Titusmaster6
United States5937 Posts
On November 04 2016 22:30 Mikau wrote: I have a first date with a British expat tomorrow. I can't remember having been this excited and hopeful about a first date since the first date with my ex. Conversation online has been amazing and she seems to be looking forward to it a lot too. Being this excited can't be healty. Haha gl bud as always let us know | ||
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RvB
Netherlands6274 Posts
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Mikau
Netherlands1446 Posts
Cliffs: We met up for drinks. We literally talked politics for 3 hours. It's a shame that what I find interesting to talk about and what is good first date talk so rarely match up. Queue Venn diagram. That said, conversation was good and easy. I'm attracted to her, but it felt more like a platonic 'meet up for drinks' than a date. I'm fine with physical contact and intimacy, but terrible at 'escalating'. It didn't help that she was (her word) 'awkward' as well. Despite that, she did say she would like to when I suggested meeting again. Let's see where this goes. | ||
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
If she does meet up with you again all you have to do is pick a date where you aren't sitting down face to face with each other, but moving through space together. | ||
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Mikau
Netherlands1446 Posts
On November 07 2016 01:54 IgnE wrote: Cue venn diagram. If she does meet up with you again all you have to do is pick a date where you aren't sitting down face to face with each other, but moving through space together. Seeing as she's English, you can understand why I accidentally turned cue into queue there. And we touched on queueing as a national sport over there for a second, so I might have actually been talking about Queue Venn diagrams :D. I'm taking your advice to heart and we're going to a museum on Wednesday. I actually got in touch with her to ask her out, and I was still in the 'talking about our days' stage when she beat me to it. That has to be a good sign at least. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
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Mikau
Netherlands1446 Posts
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Laurens
Belgium4557 Posts
On November 07 2016 16:21 Mikau wrote: I'm curious how you can argue that her asking me out for a follow up date is anything but a good sign, regardless of whether it was done over phone or text. It's just a LemOn thing. He advocates never texting/instant messaging but only talking when meeting in person, and the occasional necessary phonecall for setting these dates up. Obviously not all women/relationships are the same, but this is a concept LemOn does not understand. If your girl likes chatting, chat. | ||
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