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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Fyodor
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
@bloodwhore Don't be surprised if that girl you made out with at the club doesn't respond to your followup. The thing about drunk game is that you are drunk when you feel like it's going well. We'll see. It's not like I thought it went amazing so I agree there is that possibility, for all I know I could have been given a fake number, but she seemed interested in talking, feels like she could have gone away any time she wanted if she wanted to. Sent "Hey, bloodwhore here. I would to do something with you, when are you free?" (sounds better in Swedish) Update: She'd love to. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
After a drunk make out a phone call a couple days later is like a mini pre-date , then a text if she doesn't pick up (happens a lot apparently - girls can feel embarrassment) is obviously better, but a text's fine too. By the way it's just way better overall. You can always increase contact as you get to know her and like each other and she keeps blowing up your phone(99% girls will do that themselves when they fall for you unless they play games long-term) in-between already set up dates. It's pretty much always better to have low to none contact at first and increase it as her affection grows and you get closer. Because most of the time the opposite happens, guys try like crazy at first and when they "lock her down" they stop trying - What I've found is putting in the effort and going out of your way when things are going great, and giving her space (while using that time to work on yourself as a person) when affection gets lower works best - which is the opposite of what the male brain is trying to tell me most of the time and I assume most guys will be the same  | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
 . Must keep my thoughts to a minimum. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
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LemOn
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On November 09 2015 02:09 bloodwhore~ wrote: Okay. Date in an hour with a girl from tinder. Watching some horror movie at her place. Don't think sex will be on the table but some cuddling/making out hopefully! On the side note, whenever I think of what I want to do with her I get super horny and get a boner . Must keep my thoughts to a minimum.I guess if youre a virgin its to be expected | ||
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B.I.G.
3251 Posts
I thought you would be glad to get a boner Girls generally will not tell you to 'do it' already. You will find that often it is sort of a game where you set the pace and she sets the limits. Don't go in saying to yourself what is or isn't going to happen. Go in and LET it happen. It's good to be assertive about what you want when it comes to these kinds of things. Just don't EVER cross the line to pushy. Respect the other boundaries at all times. Just a little disclaimer. GLHF buddy, that's what it's all supposed to be about anyway | ||
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On November 09 2015 04:25 B.I.G. wrote: Sex is always on the table I thought you would be glad to get a boner Girls generally will not tell you to 'do it' already. You will find that often it is sort of a game where you set the pace and she sets the limits. Don't go in saying to yourself what is or isn't going to happen. Go in and LET it happen. It's good to be assertive about what you want when it comes to these kinds of things. Just don't EVER cross the line to pushy. Respect the other boundaries at all times. Just a little disclaimer. GLHF buddy, that's what it's all supposed to be about anyway Usually you can get a feel for how far she'll let you go just cant ever go past that line if she decides she wants to go farther usually they'll make a move like that | ||
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Artisreal
Germany9235 Posts
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Luepert
United States1934 Posts
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On November 09 2015 05:00 Artisreal wrote: Don't forget protection. I try to tell this to the girls I date, but they seem to get turned off by the armed bodyguard I have standiing in the doorway... On an unrelated note, the girl I was jamming with before seems disinclined to play my favorite instrument of them all. We really did seem like a good match  | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
I'm spoilering this shit so I don't have to read it ever again. + Show Spoiler + Okay so I get there. Not even nervous, good sign. I knock on the door she opens, her face looks amazing, however her body is not what I imagined. She must have something like 30 kg on me. We proceed to put on a movie, during the first 70% of the movie I'm debating whether I should go for it or not. I think I might as well go for it, it's pretty dark and I'm getting horny. Second movie starts, she asks if she can kiss me, we start making out. Attempt to have sex begins. Not really an enjoyable experience. She lays on her back there is SO MUCH WOMAN! She tries to touch my donger by sliding her hand from my lats to the donger. I'm apparently ticklish as fuck there. I'm starting to get hard, am hard, I have blown my load preemptively. The fucking irony. I couldn't even get hard before and now my boxers were not even off. I go to the bathroom clean my shit up. Come back tell her and tell my whole virgin as fuck story. We finish the movie and then I go home. I am truly not cut out for this casual sex shit, at least not now. She was really cool about it so that's good, she even said she would still be around. I don't want to try again with her though. I'm just going to date for a relationship, at least for a while. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On November 09 2015 06:08 Luepert wrote:made out a lot and it was awesome. I can't even kiss effectively Did you forget? Do you mean you don't know how to give a good peck on the lips? I just follow what they are doing, usually works out good, nobody has complained. Although I've only made out with two girls. | ||
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Skynx
Turkey7150 Posts
On November 09 2015 07:00 bloodwhore~ wrote: What an horrible experience. I am truly worthy of the title of the virgin mascot I'm spoilering this shit so I don't have to read it ever again. + Show Spoiler + Okay so I get there. Not even nervous, good sign. I knock on the door she opens, her face looks amazing, however her body is not what I imagined. She must have something like 30 kg on me. We proceed to put on a movie, during the first 70% of the movie I'm debating whether I should go for it or not. I think I might as well go for it, it's pretty dark and I'm getting horny. Second movie starts, she asks if she can kiss me, we start making out. Attempt to have sex begins. Not really an enjoyable experience. She lays on her back there is SO MUCH WOMAN! She tries to touch my donger by sliding her hand from my lats to the donger. I'm apparently ticklish as fuck there. I'm starting to get hard, am hard, I have blown my load preemptively. The fucking irony. I couldn't even get hard before and now my boxers were not even off. I go to the bathroom clean my shit up. Come back tell her and tell my whole virgin as fuck story. We finish the movie and then I go home. I am truly not cut out for this casual sex shit, at least not now. She was really cool about it so that's good, she even said she would still be around. I don't want to try again with her though. I'm just going to date for a relationship, at least for a while. Goddamit bw so close | ||
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On November 09 2015 07:00 bloodwhore~ wrote: What an horrible experience. I am truly worthy of the title of the virgin mascot I'm spoilering this shit so I don't have to read it ever again. + Show Spoiler + Okay so I get there. Not even nervous, good sign. I knock on the door she opens, her face looks amazing, however her body is not what I imagined. She must have something like 30 kg on me. We proceed to put on a movie, during the first 70% of the movie I'm debating whether I should go for it or not. I think I might as well go for it, it's pretty dark and I'm getting horny. Second movie starts, she asks if she can kiss me, we start making out. Attempt to have sex begins. Not really an enjoyable experience. She lays on her back there is SO MUCH WOMAN! She tries to touch my donger by sliding her hand from my lats to the donger. I'm apparently ticklish as fuck there. I'm starting to get hard, am hard, I have blown my load preemptively. The fucking irony. I couldn't even get hard before and now my boxers were not even off. I go to the bathroom clean my shit up. Come back tell her and tell my whole virgin as fuck story. We finish the movie and then I go home. I am truly not cut out for this casual sex shit, at least not now. She was really cool about it so that's good, she even said she would still be around. I don't want to try again with her though. I'm just going to date for a relationship, at least for a while. the first time sucks anyway just gotta not make it such a big deal if you want to just get it over with just fuck her | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On November 09 2015 07:14 Skynx wrote: Goddamit bw so close Yep. On November 09 2015 07:20 arb wrote: the first time sucks anyway just gotta not make it such a big deal if you want to just get it over with just fuck her Well I don't really care that I'm a virgin, however I didn't really want to have another fuck up regarding sex... | ||
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
once you get past the first time its like a natural thing | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On November 09 2015 07:27 arb wrote: then you should just do it once you get past the first time its like a natural thing If she wasn't so big I probably would, but this is a bit too much for me. I wouldn't mind going down on her after I had failed my part if she was thinner (because that is kinda hot). | ||
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