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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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puppykiller
United States3137 Posts
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
On July 25 2015 15:50 puppykiller wrote: So when you don't go to school and your coworkers are committed wtf do you do. I've tried getting girls from just chilling at parks or some shit but they always end up being Christians for some reason... Get hobbys! Im into outdoorstuff, and got my last two girlfriends from a lokal hiking group. But every sport/activity you enjoy will do, as long as there are at least some girls there. And don't just hit on every girl you see there. Befriend them (and the men there too), because they have more female friends. That way you can quickly expand your circle. And at that point its just a question of time....... I cant know if that's the case for you. But this binary way of reacting to girls (either hitting on or ignoring them) many guys seem to do is a very big mistake in my experience. | ||
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seom
South Africa491 Posts
On July 25 2015 18:35 Snotling wrote: Get hobbys! Im into outdoorstuff, and got my last two girlfriends from a lokal hiking group. But every sport/activity you enjoy will do, as long as there are at least some girls there. And don't just hit on every girl you see there. Befriend them (and the men there too), because they have more female friends. That way you can quickly expand your circle. And at that point its just a question of time....... I cant know if that's the case for you. But this binary way of reacting to girls (either hitting on or ignoring them) many guys seem to do is a very big mistake in my experience. sage advice. and if that fails there's always tinder | ||
CosmicSpiral
United States15275 Posts
On July 25 2015 15:50 puppykiller wrote: So when you don't go to school and your coworkers are committed wtf do you do. I've tried getting girls from just chilling at parks or some shit but they always end up being Christians for some reason... You can always treat them like people and see where that leads. Girls don't simply exist for your pleasure. | ||
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
On July 25 2015 23:10 CosmicSpiral wrote: You can always treat them like people and see where that leads. Girls don't simply exist for your pleasure. Now you talk like a crazy person.... | ||
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On July 69 2011 04:20 #2ch wrote: Reading this thread reminds me that there are people like this, and reassures me that I’m doing just fine. EDIT: Holy fuck just when I thought the car crash was over, there's a part 2... | ||
ZeromuS
Canada13389 Posts
On July 23 2015 19:45 LemOn wrote: you live together right? I'm assuming diet should be the thing you can influence - cook healthy meals together etc. For exercise I'd recommend attending one of them circuit classes together, going for squash, climbing, table tennis, Running to see the sunset ... Basically make a date out of it, and replace other dates with these. For real, if you are worried about her weight maybe you should be more worried about not being healthy rather than being fat. Me and my long time GF are both trying to get some extra excercise and eat healthier simply for healthiness. I need to lose weight, she doesn't but she's doing this with me to help me. If you want her to excercise you should do it together, and you should both commit equally to it. And if you are worried about selling it as "you are fat" you should instead mention how you want to be healthier as a couple. Of course if the reason is purely physical then I'm not sure about your relationship because your main concern should be her overall health as well as yours, and you should still be happy with her from a non-physical perspective. I mean even if you aren't gaining weight, eating whatever you want and being inactive is unhealthy. You can be skinny but have terrible cholesterol, heart health etc after all. | ||
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Kurumi
Poland6130 Posts
On July 26 2015 01:11 ZeromuS wrote: For real, if you are worried about her weight maybe you should be more worried about not being healthy rather than being fat. Me and my long time GF are both trying to get some extra excercise and eat healthier simply for healthiness. I need to lose weight, she doesn't but she's doing this with me to help me. If you want her to excercise you should do it together, and you should both commit equally to it. And if you are worried about selling it as "you are fat" you should instead mention how you want to be healthier as a couple. Of course if the reason is purely physical then I'm not sure about your relationship because your main concern should be her overall health as well as yours, and you should still be happy with her from a non-physical perspective. I mean even if you aren't gaining weight, eating whatever you want and being inactive is unhealthy. You can be skinny but have terrible cholesterol, heart health etc after all. This is good advice. Don't stress the weight. Do it for health. People nowadays are very sensitive to weight-perception. | ||
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Shiragaku
Hong Kong4308 Posts
The guy I met, we hit it off really well, much better than both of us expected and we just had another date yesterday. We had some sushi and ramen, then ate some very cute and colorful deserts from the nearby bakery in Little Tokyo, and then went to the park where we ended up cuddling for hours. I know this is really fast, and perhaps I am being naive, but this is the first time I have ever had these kinds of feelings for anyone. We also kissed, I do not think I blushed so much in my entire life. And with that happening, maybe it is time to close my OKCupid account. If you guys want, I can put together a hall of fame of the best, worst, and weirdest messages I have gotten :D | ||
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waffelz
Germany711 Posts
On July 26 2015 15:33 Shiragaku wrote: And with that happening, maybe it is time to close my OKCupid account. If you guys want, I can put together a hall of fame of the best, worst, and weirdest messages I have gotten :D Please do it :D | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2520 Posts
On July 26 2015 00:47 [UoN]Sentinel wrote: EDIT: Holy fuck just when I thought the car crash was over, there's a part 2... I read the whole thing (around five pages) and I don't even... It went from funny, to creepy, to surreal to ... I dont' know. Could very well be a creepy pasta. On July 26 2015 15:33 Shiragaku wrote: Update from dating The guy I met, we hit it off really well, much better than both of us expected and we just had another date yesterday. We had some sushi and ramen, then ate some very cute and colorful deserts from the nearby bakery in Little Tokyo, and then went to the park where we ended up cuddling for hours. I know this is really fast, and perhaps I am being naive, but this is the first time I have ever had these kinds of feelings for anyone. We also kissed, I do not think I blushed so much in my entire life. Check out the story about "Denko"  On a serious note, happy to hear some positive news in here. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On July 26 2015 15:33 Shiragaku wrote: I know this is really fast, and perhaps I am being naive, but this is the first time I have ever had these kinds of feelings for anyone. We also kissed, I do not think I blushed so much in my entire life. Nice! I'm not sure how new you are to dating so you maybe have figured this all out. Not sure if this is weird for me to ask either but have you thought about sex anything? Do you think he will want to take it up his butt? Do you want to take it up your butt? I could imagine someone being okay with kissing and making out but sex is a whole other deal. Might be worth thinking about it a bit at least. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On July 24 2015 23:43 LemOn wrote:awesome gesture like this You made me think of this intro. https://vimeo.com/8626264 | ||
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Copymizer
Denmark2095 Posts
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RevolutionX
Netherlands18 Posts
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On July 27 2015 01:45 RevolutionX wrote: u wont last a week haha I started my nofap 8 days ago, I'm wondering if my dick is dead because I feel nothing. | ||
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On July 27 2015 02:01 bloodwhore~ wrote: I started my nofap 8 days ago, I'm wondering if my dick is dead because I feel nothing. Find something arousing enough and it'll jumpstart your balls back up, it's like a defibrillator for your dick | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2520 Posts
On July 27 2015 02:01 bloodwhore~ wrote: I started my nofap 8 days ago, I'm wondering if my dick is dead because I feel nothing. NoFap does nothing but kill your libido and your semen. | ||
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
On July 27 2015 03:07 JoeCool wrote: NoFap does nothing but kill your libido and your semen. at least when all your semen is dead you won't need a condom anymore....because science | ||
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
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