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On July 23 2015 16:34 Yoz wrote:Show nested quote +On July 23 2015 16:10 unsaeglich wrote:gl gal  I prefer a girl who does not much sports, coz I am so lazy myself It depends how you look at it I guess. I'm quite lazy but I want to be fitter so having a girlfriend who enjoys (or at least sees the benefits of) jogging and exercising is nice. It helps me achieve my goals of being fitter.
I dont mind a girl who doesnt do much sports as long as she has the same kind of body i have. Which means she doesnt get fat at all and stays skinny or slim (or whatever is the correct term for not being fat :D ) no matter what she eats. But seeing how my GF keeps gaining weight and tries to find excuses for it even though its just laziness grinds my gears.
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On July 23 2015 15:02 Shiragaku wrote:
I'm back!
I got a date with this cute half-Japanese guy. We are going to grab some ramen tomorrow. I am so excited right now!
Good luck!
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On July 23 2015 18:14 FanaticCZ wrote:Show nested quote +On July 23 2015 16:34 Yoz wrote:On July 23 2015 16:10 unsaeglich wrote:gl gal I prefer a girl who does not much sports, coz I am so lazy myself It depends how you look at it I guess. I'm quite lazy but I want to be fitter so having a girlfriend who enjoys (or at least sees the benefits of) jogging and exercising is nice. It helps me achieve my goals of being fitter. I dont mind a girl who doesnt do much sports as long as she has the same kind of body i have. Which means she doesnt get fat at all and stays skinny or slim (or whatever is the correct term for not being fat :D ) no matter what she eats. But seeing how my GF keeps gaining weight and tries to find excuses for it even though its just laziness grinds my gears.
you live together right?
I'm assuming diet should be the thing you can influence - cook healthy meals together etc.
For exercise I'd recommend attending one of them circuit classes together, going for squash, climbing, table tennis, Running to see the sunset ... Basically make a date out of it, and replace other dates with these.
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Anyone else got any sort of goals in regards to dating?
I myself will try to ask out a few girls in real this semester. My new years promise was to ask our 3 girls, I'm up to... like 7-8 now already although most have been on tinder.
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No, no goals. Won't work out well for me anyways, like the past 10 years have proven.I mentioned it before, I gave up. Fed up & frustraded from my previous experience with dating:
"Oh, I do not want a boyfriend right now",
"Oh, it would not work out well",
"Oh, sorry I'm back together with my ex",
"Oh, I met someone last saturday and we are already a couple".
bla bla bla
Plus I'm about to hand in my masterthesis in about five weeks, then I'll spend some time in Norway and when I'm back, I'm moving away from the city I'm living in right now for a very lucrative job.
So things apart from dating are going pretty well right now. Now that I'm thinking of it, they have always been going very well. Things only went downhill when I started dating women.
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On July 23 2015 20:06 bloodwhore~ wrote:
Anyone else got any sort of goals in regards to dating?
I myself will try to ask out a few girls in real this semester. My new years promise was to ask our 3 girls, I'm up to... like 7-8 now already although most have been on tinder.
Right now my goal is just to throw all my cares out the window and see what goes right and what doesn't. Using 9/11-themed innuendo ended up being more successful than I anticipated.
10 nos, 1 yes, is great success.
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Mind sharing the innuendo? 
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On July 23 2015 23:35 Laurens wrote:Mind sharing the innuendo?
Turns out she lived in New York while I'm in NJ, so I offered to play a game of 9/11 - "I fly over there, explode inside you, then you go down on me and we lay there and smoke for the rest of the night."
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I like it. Not for the innuendo itself, but for being higly inappropriate
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Haha yeah that's pretty great.
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Rofl :D :D thats one of the best things ive heard in a while
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Just got back from my date with the guy. This was probably the best first date I ever had, we hit it off really well and he was perfectly comfortable with me being trans and carried himself like there was nothing out of place. There is already a second date planned out and I could not be any happier right now :D
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I am happy for u, relax that's great, enjoy the time
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Last week I told a girl I know that we should go hangout and maybe drink a coffe or something. She hasn't answered yet, but that's alright. Surely her cellphone ran out of battery and she's taking a vactaion on those no electricity jungle hotels right? I mean, what else could it be
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On July 24 2015 16:12 [Phantom] wrote:
his cellphone
she's taking
Which is it... ?
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On July 24 2015 18:03 bloodwhore~ wrote:Which is it... ?
[Phantom] dating Shiragaku confirmed  .
But for real, congratz to Shiragaku. I hope things continue going well for you! Keep updating us, I am really curious since I dont know a lot of guys that dont care if you transgender. The fact that he doesnt mind itself makes him pretty awesome.
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On July 24 2015 16:12 [Phantom] wrote:
Last week I told a girl I know that we should go hangout and maybe drink a coffe or something. She hasn't answered yet, but that's alright. Surely his cellphone ran out of battery and she's taking a vactaion on those no electricity jungle hotels right? I mean, what else could it be
So you asked a girl on a first date and she said no (well, didn't answer, which is effectively the same). Move on. Plenty more girls out there.
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On July 24 2015 16:12 [Phantom] wrote:
Last week I told a girl I know that we should go hangout and maybe drink a coffe or something. She hasn't answered yet, but that's alright. Surely his cellphone ran out of battery and she's taking a vactaion on those no electricity jungle hotels right? I mean, what else could it be
Someone else is texting her! You should definetely call her a couple of times and/or send her messages just to make sure.
If shes responding, ask her what took her so long. And if she doesn't, call again and again and again... until she responds. And then ask why she's ignoring you.
Or you listen to Acrofales...
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On July 24 2015 21:39 JoeCool wrote:Show nested quote +On July 24 2015 16:12 [Phantom] wrote:
Last week I told a girl I know that we should go hangout and maybe drink a coffe or something. She hasn't answered yet, but that's alright. Surely his cellphone ran out of battery and she's taking a vactaion on those no electricity jungle hotels right? I mean, what else could it be Someone else is texting her! You should definetely call her a couple of times and/or send her messages just to make sure. If shes responding, ask her what took her so long. And if she doesn't, call again and again and again... until she responds. And then ask why she's ignoring you. Or you listen to Acrofales...
+1, you've seen it in all the romantic movies, you need to fight for your love, you're not gonna give up are you?!
Just find her address using your friend calling her pretending to be a government official and then turn up in her place with an awesome gesture like this:
![[image loading]](http://www.juliebuxbaum.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/cusack2.jpg)
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On July 24 2015 21:39 JoeCool wrote:Show nested quote +On July 24 2015 16:12 [Phantom] wrote:
Last week I told a girl I know that we should go hangout and maybe drink a coffe or something. She hasn't answered yet, but that's alright. Surely his cellphone ran out of battery and she's taking a vactaion on those no electricity jungle hotels right? I mean, what else could it be Someone else is texting her! You should definetely call her a couple of times and/or send her messages just to make sure. If shes responding, ask her what took her so long. And if she doesn't, call again and again and again... until she responds. And then ask why she's ignoring you. Or you listen to Acrofales...
I think about 600 messages should do (´･ω･`)
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