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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Shiori
3815 Posts
On July 18 2013 10:00 farvacola wrote: For a second there, I thought I was back on the Misc at BB.com. I hope it was just a bad dream. I still surf over there once in a blue moon. The nostalgia... Aside from the really awful politics/religion/debate section (which is so incredibly vitriolic I can hardly believe it) Misc. has some really hilarious threads. | ||
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Basic Basic
Tuvalu52 Posts
On July 18 2013 10:00 farvacola wrote: For a second there, I thought I was back on the Misc at BB.com. I hope it was just a bad dream. Shh, shh. No tears now. Only dreams. | ||
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AlphaMan
13 Posts
I'm not really surprised though because he comes from Misc, that is where the low-lives of the world hang out User was banned for this post. | ||
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
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Orcasgt24
Canada3238 Posts
Should I kinda just ignore that as silly fun or make some kind of move. I leaning towards ignore despite the fact shes gorgeous and I would love to try. | ||
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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Basic Basic
Tuvalu52 Posts
On July 18 2013 15:23 krndandaman wrote: Had a similar situation a few years back. Turned out the girl liked me for a while and only got a boyfriend to try to make me jealous. Smack her ass back lol. If you get away with it she probably has something for you. If she reacts badly nvm. Just don't do it in the workplace. That'll get you a sexual harassment suit, and I don't mean a tuxedo. | ||
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TheFish7
United States2824 Posts
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Shiori
3815 Posts
On July 18 2013 22:57 TheFish7 wrote: Ah, I have observed this behaviour in the enigmatic femalus mammalius before. she might be trying to test the waters. I have known girls who knew their relationship with their current bf was at an end, but wouldn't break up with him until she had another one lined up. (Which makes sense if she can't stand the idea of going two weeks without sex, although pretty messed up if you ask me as I have a strong policy of ending relationships I know to be at an end) Yeah, I would never date a girl who did this. You'd just know that the second the two of you break up (since apparently she's cool with setting things up while she's in a relationship to occur after said relationship ergo she practically plans to break up) she'll be with some other guy. No thanks, don't need that shit. I'd rather not wonder how long before the breakup she was looking for other guys and staying with me just for her own insecurity. | ||
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
On July 18 2013 23:07 Shiori wrote: Yeah, I would never date a girl who did this. You'd just know that the second the two of you break up (since apparently she's cool with setting things up while she's in a relationship to occur after said relationship ergo she practically plans to break up) she'll be with some other guy. No thanks, don't need that shit. I'd rather not wonder how long before the breakup she was looking for other guys and staying with me just for her own insecurity. Hf not getting along with the absolute totality of girls | ||
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marvellosity
United Kingdom36161 Posts
On July 18 2013 23:07 Shiori wrote: Yeah, I would never date a girl who did this. You'd just know that the second the two of you break up (since apparently she's cool with setting things up while she's in a relationship to occur after said relationship ergo she practically plans to break up) she'll be with some other guy. No thanks, don't need that shit. I'd rather not wonder how long before the breakup she was looking for other guys and staying with me just for her own insecurity. Pretty defeatist... "how long before the [inevitable] breakup" ... | ||
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pyro19
6575 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32157 Posts
On July 18 2013 23:35 aTnClouD wrote: Hf not getting along with the absolute totality of girls it's like the reddit mra sub suddenly came to life as an angry misogynistic italian dude | ||
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BisuEver
United States247 Posts
On July 18 2013 12:02 AlphaMan wrote: BigAsia if your gf is twice as hot as that other girl, I don't even want to know what the other girl looks like, because honestly mate your gf isn't very attractive, plus she looks like she may be kind of fat. If that what "game" gets you, then I don't want any part of it. I'm not really surprised though because he comes from Misc, that is where the low-lives of the world hang out User was banned for this post. I like fat girls. | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
On July 18 2013 23:43 pyro19 wrote: I have no dating life..Haven't had a Girlfriend since I've been out of High School and the one I did have was Worth the Wait but has now since Moved to London..I did go and visit her and the spark is still there but is it worth holding out for ? Any reason you can't stay with her for at least a little while? | ||
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Godwrath
Spain10165 Posts
On July 18 2013 15:02 Orcasgt24 wrote: So a chick I like decided to sneak up on me and smack my ass (quite hard might I add) and then giggled through a "hey" as we passed by. She has a BF and as far as I can tell, is quite happy. Should I kinda just ignore that as silly fun or make some kind of move. I leaning towards ignore despite the fact shes gorgeous and I would love to try. I am a disaster for those things. One time it resulted that the girl was on a open relationship, so it was awesome, and another i totally missread "as it was just friendly fun" after an embarassing moment of silence (i might have squeezed it instaed of palming, in my defense, it was a crime not to). I would give it a try, and flirt with her, you have nothing to lose. If they have pretty faces and a fun personality, it's hard i could say a girl is a no-go for me aswell. | ||
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Livelovedie
United States492 Posts
Also is there some tendency for every girl to classify themselves as broken goods? | ||
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Godwrath
Spain10165 Posts
On July 19 2013 08:51 Livelovedie wrote: Does anyone else have a problem with all the girls they date classifying themselves and dumping you because you are "too perfect" apparently (I don't agree with there statement in the slightest)... I know that probably sounded conceited and I didn't mean it to be but its been frustrating problem that keeps reoccurring for me. Never heard of that before, but i would guess it's a "nice" way of breaking up, like when you say "it's not you, it's me, i am not...blabla". | ||
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Livelovedie
United States492 Posts
On July 19 2013 08:53 Godwrath wrote: Never heard of that before, but i would guess it's a "nice" way of breaking up, like when you say "it's not you, it's me, i am not...blabla". Makes sense. It just seems like a particularly painful way of saying that. | ||
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Cirqueenflex
499 Posts
On July 18 2013 22:57 TheFish7 wrote: Ah, I have observed this behaviour in the enigmatic femalus mammalius before. she might be trying to test the waters. I have known girls who knew their relationship with their current bf was at an end, but wouldn't break up with him until she had another one lined up. (Which makes sense if she can't stand the idea of going two weeks without sex, although pretty messed up if you ask me as I have a strong policy of ending relationships I know to be at an end) a wise friend of mine once said: "a girl and her boyfriend is like a monkey and a bough/branch. She won't let go until she has the next one firmly in her hand." it is very common behaviour, and seems to stem more from the social need of having a boyfriend then the sex part. After all, most girls seem to mainly talk about relationships (their own and other peoples. That's also the reason why gossip magazines exist at all). Just a couple hours ago I was in a train, near two groups of girls. Both groups talked about all the relationships of all the people they know, and a bit about not remembering a recent event due to drinking too much. And quite some about shopping and clothes. Then one girl started saying "girl talk, girl talk" as she noticed both groups kept circling around all the "girl talk". And then suddenly: "guys must have no problems at all". Made my day. That and her friend shortly after confessing that they spent quite some time in the big city walking in a circle because she messed up holding the map into the right direction multiple times. | ||
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