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On July 17 2013 10:18 aTnClouD wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 10:11 Najda wrote:
This girl and I go to the same martial arts academy and talk briefly between classes sometimes. We also ran into each other once outside of class and she recognized me, we said hello but I had to go since I was on lunch break from work and was already late. I have her added on facebook (along with most other people there), would it be weird for me to message her? I almost never use facebook, so I have no idea what 'rules' go along with it. Alternatively I could wait for Thursday, but it's usually just a brief passing and not at all an environment conducive to socializing. I hooked up the current girl I am seeing the same way. I introduced myself randomly, she told me her name and had to go, I stalked on facebook until I found her, added, talked same night and got a date 2 days later. If she had a good first impression of you then she will like you messaging her.
Did you post on her wall or send her an IM?
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On July 17 2013 10:57 Najda wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 10:18 aTnClouD wrote:On July 17 2013 10:11 Najda wrote:
This girl and I go to the same martial arts academy and talk briefly between classes sometimes. We also ran into each other once outside of class and she recognized me, we said hello but I had to go since I was on lunch break from work and was already late. I have her added on facebook (along with most other people there), would it be weird for me to message her? I almost never use facebook, so I have no idea what 'rules' go along with it. Alternatively I could wait for Thursday, but it's usually just a brief passing and not at all an environment conducive to socializing. I hooked up the current girl I am seeing the same way. I introduced myself randomly, she told me her name and had to go, I stalked on facebook until I found her, added, talked same night and got a date 2 days later. If she had a good first impression of you then she will like you messaging her. Did you post on her wall or send her an IM?
Don't post on her walls, don't put any like anywhere.
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On July 17 2013 10:38 BigAsia wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 10:20 ROOTFayth wrote:On July 17 2013 02:42 aTnClouD wrote:On July 17 2013 02:37 Crying wrote:
"Hahaha suuure" is like saying fuck you.....i mean no one types suuure with so much "u" if he/she doesnt wanna bail away from you That actually didn't really mean anything other than the fact she didn't tell him to fuck off. on the other hand he did sound pretty needy lawl love it when gamer nerds try to give me "game" advice
Some "gamer nerds" have game. Just not most people in this thread.
Edit: and stop saying "lawl," it looks stupid. If a girl texted me that, I'd tell her to frig off.
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On July 17 2013 10:38 BigAsia wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 10:20 ROOTFayth wrote:On July 17 2013 02:42 aTnClouD wrote:On July 17 2013 02:37 Crying wrote:
"Hahaha suuure" is like saying fuck you.....i mean no one types suuure with so much "u" if he/she doesnt wanna bail away from you That actually didn't really mean anything other than the fact she didn't tell him to fuck off. on the other hand he did sound pretty needy lawl love it when gamer nerds try to give me "game" advice
lol except you asked them whether 'you dun goofed'.
Also I cringed at that conversation.
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On July 17 2013 10:47 Shiori wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 10:38 BigAsia wrote:On July 17 2013 10:20 ROOTFayth wrote:On July 17 2013 02:42 aTnClouD wrote:On July 17 2013 02:37 Crying wrote:
"Hahaha suuure" is like saying fuck you.....i mean no one types suuure with so much "u" if he/she doesnt wanna bail away from you That actually didn't really mean anything other than the fact she didn't tell him to fuck off. on the other hand he did sound pretty needy lawl love it when gamer nerds try to give me "game" advice Your game consists entirely of copypastas/pickup lines/memes from misc. You could pretty much program a computer to have the conversation you had exclusively using phrases from misc. posts. I'm not hating on your style, but I'm not sure why you think you deserve credit for doing things you didn't come up with.
Hmm maybe because I have the success to back it up? Everyone knows most communication is non verbal so copy and pasting lines doesn't get you anywhere. Also the all the guy posted was some bs like "on the other hand he did sound pretty needy", no other advice given. It was clear he was trying to act like he was some type of big shot - which is why I called him out, but lets look at the facts on how needy I was.
1. If you read the original post I stated I clearly have a gf who is twice as hot as this girl I am texting, the whole point of the text was to troll
2. This chick asked me out multiple times before and I declined
3. Refer to point 1 and 2 that I have no intention of asking this girl on a date
So yeah def I came off as totally needy even though I wasn't feeling needy at all - total incongruence with how I feel and act. Also to the guy above "cringing" at my texts, I can accept criticism, that's how I got to where I am, but you're one liner isn't criticism its just hating. Lets see your text game, brah
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On July 17 2013 10:43 krndandaman wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 08:54 Shiori wrote:On July 17 2013 03:03 krndandaman wrote:
my dating life is non-existant right now
confessed to a girl I liked for a year a few days ago, she didnt even reply until I sent a longass message and said that she just didnt' know how to take it and that shes sorry she reacted that way.
I just can't seem to find a girl I like that likes me back. It's either a girl likes me and I have 0 interest or vice versa. It's quite sad really First mistake was messaging her rather than telling her in person. I agree it should be said in person (for my sake) but I have no doubt the reaction would have been the same if not worse. Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 10:23 ROOTFayth wrote:On July 17 2013 03:03 krndandaman wrote:
my dating life is non-existant right now
confessed to a girl I liked for a year a few days ago, she didnt even reply until I sent a longass message and said that she just didnt' know how to take it and that shes sorry she reacted that way.
I just can't seem to find a girl I like that likes me back. It's either a girl likes me and I have 0 interest or vice versa. It's quite sad really took you AN ENTIRE YEAR? Yeah, we were apart for a year and kept in touch.
Again just insulting someone instead of giving them advice. You should never wait to show your attraction to a girl. Some people spout these things like "I wasn't attracted to her at first" and I think is BS. Every girl I've been with I was attracted to from the moment I saw her. You can do this directly or indirectly, I prefer direct because it just states your intentions. Indirectly is a bit more tricky because you have to convey it with your body language and actions.
The fact that she was so surprised tells me you didn't do it correctly. It never works flying under the radar brah, trust me I've tried it. In fact if you think of this way, flying under the radar is such a dishonest way to go about it because at first you're all like "lets just be friends", when secretly you like them. Then all of a sudden you're like "SURPRISE you my oneits", and wonder why lots of them react negatively - its because you deceived them. Done that route before and it doesn't lead anywhere. Hopefully you're the exception and not the rule here but if things don't work out, at least you'll know where you went wrong
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On July 17 2013 19:31 BigAsia wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 10:47 Shiori wrote:On July 17 2013 10:38 BigAsia wrote:On July 17 2013 10:20 ROOTFayth wrote:On July 17 2013 02:42 aTnClouD wrote:On July 17 2013 02:37 Crying wrote:
"Hahaha suuure" is like saying fuck you.....i mean no one types suuure with so much "u" if he/she doesnt wanna bail away from you That actually didn't really mean anything other than the fact she didn't tell him to fuck off. on the other hand he did sound pretty needy lawl love it when gamer nerds try to give me "game" advice Your game consists entirely of copypastas/pickup lines/memes from misc. You could pretty much program a computer to have the conversation you had exclusively using phrases from misc. posts. I'm not hating on your style, but I'm not sure why you think you deserve credit for doing things you didn't come up with. Hmm maybe because I have the success to back it up? Everyone knows most communication is non verbal so copy and pasting lines doesn't get you anywhere. Also the all the guy posted was some bs like "on the other hand he did sound pretty needy", no other advice given. It was clear he was trying to act like he was some type of big shot - which is why I called him out, but lets look at the facts on how needy I was. 1. If you read the original post I stated I clearly have a gf who is twice as hot as this girl I am texting, the whole point of the text was to troll 2. This chick asked me out multiple times before and I declined 3. Refer to point 1 and 2 that I have no intention of asking this girl on a date So yeah def I came off as totally needy even though I wasn't feeling needy at all - total incongruence with how I feel and act. Also to the guy above "cringing" at my texts, I can accept criticism, that's how I got to where I am, but you're one liner isn't criticism its just hating. Lets see your text game, brah
Alright Mystery, I'm glad you decided to grace us with your presence here on the humble TeamLiquid forums. If you're going to be making bragposts constantly and trying to play alpha male all the time why don't you just go back to whatever PUA forum you came from? Maybe you have great success with women, but you clearly lack in the ability to interact with another person in a normal way.
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On July 17 2013 19:31 BigAsia wrote:
1. If you read the original post I stated I clearly have a gf who is twice as hot as this girl I am texting, the whole point of the text was to troll
2. This chick asked me out multiple times before and I declined
3. Refer to point 1 and 2 that I have no intention of asking this girl on a date
So yeah def I came off as totally needy even though I wasn't feeling needy at all - total incongruence with how I feel and act. Also to the guy above "cringing" at my texts, I can accept criticism, that's how I got to where I am, but you're one liner isn't criticism its just hating. Lets see your text game, brah
Proof is everything.
I see no evidence that this "girl" asked you out multiple times. What I do see, however, is a very immature-minded boy attempting to hit on a girl...through texts. Sarcasm doesn't translate on the internet. What you've posted for TL to see is in fact, a rejection. From a girl who isn't even "[half] as hot as this girl [you] are dating."
Now, you adamantly defend your position. You are definitely not needy, you say. So much so that you must defend yourself against...a bunch of "nerds" with no "text game". This leads me to suspect that you, yourself, have very limited "game" yourself. Why do you care? If you have so much "game", why even post in this thread? From earlier comments, it's easy to deduce that your intentions are not to help a bunch of "nerds with no game", but rather to flaunt your so called "game".
Furthermore, you've posted that you've only done this "to troll". A rather mean-spirited troll, is it not? And if this girl did indeed ask you out "multiple times before", she clearly would have jumped at the date chance, and follow up to your final statement that insinuated that you'd like to go on a date with her. This leads me to believe, it is not HER who asked YOU on dates....
BUT YOU WHO ASKED HER ON DATES!!!
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*stands up slowly clapping his hands*
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Where's squattincasanova when you need him. That guy was massive lulz.
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On July 17 2013 22:12 Basic Basic wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 19:31 BigAsia wrote:
1. If you read the original post I stated I clearly have a gf who is twice as hot as this girl I am texting, the whole point of the text was to troll
2. This chick asked me out multiple times before and I declined
3. Refer to point 1 and 2 that I have no intention of asking this girl on a date
So yeah def I came off as totally needy even though I wasn't feeling needy at all - total incongruence with how I feel and act. Also to the guy above "cringing" at my texts, I can accept criticism, that's how I got to where I am, but you're one liner isn't criticism its just hating. Lets see your text game, brah Proof is everything. I see no evidence that this "girl" asked you out multiple times. What I do see, however, is a very immature-minded boy attempting to hit on a girl...through texts. Sarcasm doesn't translate on the internet. What you've posted for TL to see is in fact, a rejection. From a girl who isn't even "twice as hot as this girl [you] are texting." Now, you adamantly defend your position. You are definitely not needy, you say. So much so that you must defend yourself against...a bunch of "nerds" with no "text game". This leads me to suspect that you, yourself, have very limited "game" yourself. Why do you care? If you have so much "game", why even post in this thread? From earlier comments, it's easy to deduce that your intentions are not to help a bunch of "nerds with no game", but rather to flaunt your so called "game". Furthermore, you've posted that you've only done this "to troll". A rather mean-spirited troll, is it not? And if this girl did indeed ask you out "multiple times before", she clearly would have jumped at the date chance, and follow up to your final statement that insinuated that you'd like to go on a date with her. This leads me to believe, it is not HER who asked YOU on dates.... BUT YOU WHO ASKED HER ON DATES!!!
Strong number of posts brah did you make this account just to flame me? Anyways have a good life kid
User was warned for this post
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Edit: ^^^^^ LOL AT RESORTING TO INSULTING SOMEONES POST COUNT
Who asks a girl out anyways? You either connect and tell her you're taking her out or there's no connection and nothing happens...
And BigAsia, if I'm trying to wheel, the only thing I'm texting her is the next time we're hanging out. You're seriously calling out someone's text game? Texting to try to wheel a girl is for someone who is ugly or has no people skills. If I'm texting a girl, I've friend zoned her.
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On July 17 2013 22:59 FractalsOnFire wrote:
Where's squattincasanova when you need him. That guy was massive lulz.
Pretty sure he was bant.
This BigAsia guy seems to be following in his footsteps, though. They are both asian, even. Another year or two of the PUA stuff, and he might be on his level of lulz.
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On July 17 2013 23:31 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 22:59 FractalsOnFire wrote:
Where's squattincasanova when you need him. That guy was massive lulz. Pretty sure he was bant. This BigAsia guy seems to be following in his footsteps, though. They are both asian, even. Another year or two of the PUA stuff, and he might be on his level of lulz.
Yeah he was banned after that PUA thread got closed, god i loved that thread.
BigAsia is definitely following in squattincasanova's footsteps.
On July 17 2013 23:01 BigAsia wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 22:12 Basic Basic wrote:On July 17 2013 19:31 BigAsia wrote:
1. If you read the original post I stated I clearly have a gf who is twice as hot as this girl I am texting, the whole point of the text was to troll
2. This chick asked me out multiple times before and I declined
3. Refer to point 1 and 2 that I have no intention of asking this girl on a date
So yeah def I came off as totally needy even though I wasn't feeling needy at all - total incongruence with how I feel and act. Also to the guy above "cringing" at my texts, I can accept criticism, that's how I got to where I am, but you're one liner isn't criticism its just hating. Lets see your text game, brah Proof is everything. I see no evidence that this "girl" asked you out multiple times. What I do see, however, is a very immature-minded boy attempting to hit on a girl...through texts. Sarcasm doesn't translate on the internet. What you've posted for TL to see is in fact, a rejection. From a girl who isn't even "twice as hot as this girl [you] are texting." Now, you adamantly defend your position. You are definitely not needy, you say. So much so that you must defend yourself against...a bunch of "nerds" with no "text game". This leads me to suspect that you, yourself, have very limited "game" yourself. Why do you care? If you have so much "game", why even post in this thread? From earlier comments, it's easy to deduce that your intentions are not to help a bunch of "nerds with no game", but rather to flaunt your so called "game". Furthermore, you've posted that you've only done this "to troll". A rather mean-spirited troll, is it not? And if this girl did indeed ask you out "multiple times before", she clearly would have jumped at the date chance, and follow up to your final statement that insinuated that you'd like to go on a date with her. This leads me to believe, it is not HER who asked YOU on dates.... BUT YOU WHO ASKED HER ON DATES!!! Strong number of posts brah did you make this account just to flame me? Anyways have a good life kid
He must have hit a nerve eh?
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^^^ Who is that guy, seems pretty cool. But I haven't touched that PUA stuff in years brah, I use to but then I realized it was all junk
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On July 17 2013 23:31 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 22:59 FractalsOnFire wrote:
Where's squattincasanova when you need him. That guy was massive lulz. Pretty sure he was bant. This BigAsia guy seems to be following in his footsteps, though. They are both asian, even. Another year or two of the PUA stuff, and he might be on his level of lulz.
If I hadn't seen BigAsia's picture in that other thread I honestly would have assumed Squattin just made a new TL account.
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On July 17 2013 23:01 BigAsia wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 22:12 Basic Basic wrote:On July 17 2013 19:31 BigAsia wrote:
1. If you read the original post I stated I clearly have a gf who is twice as hot as this girl I am texting, the whole point of the text was to troll
2. This chick asked me out multiple times before and I declined
3. Refer to point 1 and 2 that I have no intention of asking this girl on a date
So yeah def I came off as totally needy even though I wasn't feeling needy at all - total incongruence with how I feel and act. Also to the guy above "cringing" at my texts, I can accept criticism, that's how I got to where I am, but you're one liner isn't criticism its just hating. Lets see your text game, brah Proof is everything. I see no evidence that this "girl" asked you out multiple times. What I do see, however, is a very immature-minded boy attempting to hit on a girl...through texts. Sarcasm doesn't translate on the internet. What you've posted for TL to see is in fact, a rejection. From a girl who isn't even "twice as hot as this girl [you] are texting." Now, you adamantly defend your position. You are definitely not needy, you say. So much so that you must defend yourself against...a bunch of "nerds" with no "text game". This leads me to suspect that you, yourself, have very limited "game" yourself. Why do you care? If you have so much "game", why even post in this thread? From earlier comments, it's easy to deduce that your intentions are not to help a bunch of "nerds with no game", but rather to flaunt your so called "game". Furthermore, you've posted that you've only done this "to troll". A rather mean-spirited troll, is it not? And if this girl did indeed ask you out "multiple times before", she clearly would have jumped at the date chance, and follow up to your final statement that insinuated that you'd like to go on a date with her. This leads me to believe, it is not HER who asked YOU on dates.... BUT YOU WHO ASKED HER ON DATES!!! Strong number of posts brah did you make this account just to flame me? Anyways have a good life kid User was warned for this post
From your lack of a response, it's easy to deduce that I have hit my target, spot on! You aren't everything you claim to be.... but a LIAR ON THE INTERNET!
Hmm, back on topic!
Dudes! Don't get so down! Just hang in there, and work on making yourself a better person. Currently, most people 16-25 are very, very, immature. There are many of these people, even in this thread. However, when said people begin to truly have to fend for themselves...it's almost like an enlightening period. Don't worry about it. Be happy. And soon you'll find someone you enjoy being happy with!
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On July 17 2013 22:12 Basic Basic wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2013 19:31 BigAsia wrote:
1. If you read the original post I stated I clearly have a gf who is twice as hot as this girl I am texting, the whole point of the text was to troll
2. This chick asked me out multiple times before and I declined
3. Refer to point 1 and 2 that I have no intention of asking this girl on a date
So yeah def I came off as totally needy even though I wasn't feeling needy at all - total incongruence with how I feel and act. Also to the guy above "cringing" at my texts, I can accept criticism, that's how I got to where I am, but you're one liner isn't criticism its just hating. Lets see your text game, brah Proof is everything. I see no evidence that this "girl" asked you out multiple times. What I do see, however, is a very immature-minded boy attempting to hit on a girl...through texts. Sarcasm doesn't translate on the internet. What you've posted for TL to see is in fact, a rejection. From a girl who isn't even "twice as hot as this girl [you] are texting." Now, you adamantly defend your position. You are definitely not needy, you say. So much so that you must defend yourself against...a bunch of "nerds" with no "text game". This leads me to suspect that you, yourself, have very limited "game" yourself. Why do you care? If you have so much "game", why even post in this thread? From earlier comments, it's easy to deduce that your intentions are not to help a bunch of "nerds with no game", but rather to flaunt your so called "game". Furthermore, you've posted that you've only done this "to troll". A rather mean-spirited troll, is it not? And if this girl did indeed ask you out "multiple times before", she clearly would have jumped at the date chance, and follow up to your final statement that insinuated that you'd like to go on a date with her. This leads me to believe, it is not HER who asked YOU on dates.... BUT YOU WHO ASKED HER ON DATES!!!
ahhahahahahahahahahahahahah
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For a second there, I thought I was back on the Misc at BB.com. I hope it was just a bad dream.
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