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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
Crying
Bulgaria778 Posts
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BigAsia
Canada451 Posts
On July 17 2013 02:37 Crying wrote: "Hahaha suuure" is like saying fuck you.....i mean no one types suuure with so much "u" if he/she doesnt wanna bail away from you Feels bad brah, forever alone | ||
BigAsia
Canada451 Posts
On July 17 2013 02:36 Chemist391 wrote: A+, sir. I met a girl who kept up on a 25 mile bike ride (my normal rides are 30-45, but that's not date-friendly...), only one stop. (Stopped at a beach and made an alligator out of sand. Because...reasons.) So now I just need to figure out how to not mess this one up. I feel like the more u are worried about messing things up, the greater the chance you have to mess things up. I think you just need to chillax and be yourself, if she likes you then good, if she doesn't then find someone else ![]() | ||
aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
On July 17 2013 02:37 Crying wrote: "Hahaha suuure" is like saying fuck you.....i mean no one types suuure with so much "u" if he/she doesnt wanna bail away from you That actually didn't really mean anything other than the fact she didn't tell him to fuck off. | ||
Chemist391
United States364 Posts
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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Feartheguru
Canada1334 Posts
On the bright side, that archaeologist comment killed me. | ||
aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
On July 17 2013 03:03 krndandaman wrote: my dating life is non-existant right now confessed to a girl I liked for a year a few days ago, she didnt even reply until I sent a longass message and said that she just didnt' know how to take it and that shes sorry she reacted that way. I just can't seem to find a girl I like that likes me back. It's either a girl likes me and I have 0 interest or vice versa. It's quite sad really The things are related. Try to apply the attitude you use with the girls that like you to the ones you like, and you will see huge improvement. | ||
krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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Shiori
3815 Posts
On July 17 2013 03:03 krndandaman wrote: my dating life is non-existant right now confessed to a girl I liked for a year a few days ago, she didnt even reply until I sent a longass message and said that she just didnt' know how to take it and that shes sorry she reacted that way. I just can't seem to find a girl I like that likes me back. It's either a girl likes me and I have 0 interest or vice versa. It's quite sad really First mistake was messaging her rather than telling her in person. | ||
Zooper31
United States5710 Posts
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
On July 17 2013 10:11 Najda wrote: This girl and I go to the same martial arts academy and talk briefly between classes sometimes. We also ran into each other once outside of class and she recognized me, we said hello but I had to go since I was on lunch break from work and was already late. I have her added on facebook (along with most other people there), would it be weird for me to message her? I almost never use facebook, so I have no idea what 'rules' go along with it. Alternatively I could wait for Thursday, but it's usually just a brief passing and not at all an environment conducive to socializing. I hooked up the current girl I am seeing the same way. I introduced myself randomly, she told me her name and had to go, I stalked on facebook until I found her, added, talked same night and got a date 2 days later. If she had a good first impression of you then she will like you messaging her. | ||
ROOTFayth
Canada3351 Posts
On July 17 2013 02:42 aTnClouD wrote: That actually didn't really mean anything other than the fact she didn't tell him to fuck off. on the other hand he did sound pretty needy | ||
ROOTFayth
Canada3351 Posts
On July 17 2013 03:03 krndandaman wrote: my dating life is non-existant right now confessed to a girl I liked for a year a few days ago, she didnt even reply until I sent a longass message and said that she just didnt' know how to take it and that shes sorry she reacted that way. I just can't seem to find a girl I like that likes me back. It's either a girl likes me and I have 0 interest or vice versa. It's quite sad really took you AN ENTIRE YEAR? | ||
BigAsia
Canada451 Posts
On July 17 2013 10:20 ROOTFayth wrote: on the other hand he did sound pretty needy lawl love it when gamer nerds try to give me "game" advice | ||
krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
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Shiori
3815 Posts
On July 17 2013 10:38 BigAsia wrote: lawl love it when gamer nerds try to give me "game" advice Your game consists entirely of copypastas/pickup lines/memes from misc. You could pretty much program a computer to have the conversation you had exclusively using phrases from misc. posts. I'm not hating on your style, but I'm not sure why you think you deserve credit for doing things you didn't come up with. | ||
Kenpachi
United States9908 Posts
dont feel too bad tbh. | ||
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