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Is it normal for older girls to hit on younger dudes? girl at my school is a year older and I feel like she's playing games but I'm not entirely sure lol.
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On May 03 2013 05:54 Kenpachi wrote:
Is it normal for older girls to hit on younger dudes? girl at my school is a year older and I feel like she's playing games but I'm not entirely sure lol.
A year older isn't that much in high school, at least, not usually enough to produce any major behavioral difference.
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On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited.
Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it.
She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol.
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U have not got a girl, just becouse u can't love somebody. I mean many ppl cry when they don't have it, they just need learning to love. Really. No love, no girl.
And i think many ppl just need some sex and that is. So just jack off and u problem will be off.
Try to love somebody, does not matter boy or girl and u will understand what i m saying.
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On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:Show nested quote +On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol.
Sounds like you bored her.
Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise.
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On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise.
Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other.
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On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other.
I've gone on dates where she was in a conference call until the secondi arrived
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On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other.
I know I bored her. I tried to carry a conversation (my single worst trait by the way) but responces were like dead ends. She left it practiclly impossble to continue on any one subject and eventually I basiclly gave up. I'm also 95% sure she agreed to go out with me because shes too nice to say no.
Food was good at least!
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On May 03 2013 06:41 Orcasgt24 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I know I bored her. I tried to carry a conversation (my single worst trait by the way) but responces were like dead ends. She left it practiclly impossble to continue on any one subject and eventually I basiclly gave up. I'm also 95% sure she agreed to go out with me because shes too nice to say no. Food was good at least!
Practice makes perfect. As you get more experience talking to others, it will improve.
Considering taking a stand-up comedy class if you want some extra help with that.
On May 03 2013 06:32 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I've gone on dates where she was in a conference call until the secondi arrived
I hope you made her make it up to you.
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On May 03 2013 05:58 sunprince wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 05:54 Kenpachi wrote:
Is it normal for older girls to hit on younger dudes? girl at my school is a year older and I feel like she's playing games but I'm not entirely sure lol. A year older isn't that much in high school, at least, not usually enough to produce any major behavioral difference.
Meh. Might be just me when I'm thinking she's playing games but I do realize how silly age can be especially in high school where age is branded on our foreheads by our grade level lol. But it's hard to reason if a senior would want to date a junior so late in the year so I don't know honestly.
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On May 03 2013 06:47 sunprince wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:41 Orcasgt24 wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I know I bored her. I tried to carry a conversation (my single worst trait by the way) but responces were like dead ends. She left it practiclly impossble to continue on any one subject and eventually I basiclly gave up. I'm also 95% sure she agreed to go out with me because shes too nice to say no. Food was good at least! Practice makes perfect. As you get more experience talking to others, it will improve. Considering taking a stand-up comedy class if you want some extra help with that. Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:32 Shady Sands wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I've gone on dates where she was in a conference call until the secondi arrived I hope you made her make it up to you.
When she doesn't make an effort to have an interesting conversation it can get really hard however.
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One very very hardcore thing i learned thru experiece is DO NOT BE NEEDY/CLINGY
Women have an integrated radar for clingy/needy guys,and whenever they smell neediness they become defensive and repulsed by the man.
For instance:
A women doesn't answer a message of some guy,or ignores him for a bit (This is a shit test).
He gets really upset and starts to message her/call her/try to find her super agressively,even saying things like,"Are you dodging me."
Immediately she smells neediness and that guy becomes the typical "another",or someone she can toy around with,or as PUA say it "Emotional Dog",it's just like a dog,she gives him a cookie from time to time(Messaging,Chatting,Seeing)and he thinks of getting into her pants,when he has no chance whatsover once he becomes "Emotional dog",he just responds POSITIVELY to everythign she does,no matter what it is,he NEVER makes her feel bad for what she done,typical "Emotional Dog" attitude.
One thing else, DO NOT give out validation to FEMALES unless they give it to you first,no matter how attractive they are never value a girl by her attractiveness,because there are many attractive WOMEN out there,MANY!
By giving no validation she seems confused and scared,because she never had negative attitude towards her(I DONT MEAN CURSING HER/INSULTING HER),i mean when she says "Omg look at my hair its so beautiful today" you can always shit test her with oh well,u have something on your hair lemme remove it(this is a huge neg for women)or just say "I've seen better."
Don't be scared of a response of a girl EVER,she should be scared of YOUR actions,and you should not be scared of ANYTHING she does or says,that makes you beta as fuck.
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On May 03 2013 07:25 Crying wrote:
One very very hardcore thing i learned thru experiece is DO NOT BE NEEDY/CLINGY
Women have an integrated radar for clingy/needy guys,and whenever they smell neediness they become defensive and repulsed by the man.
For instance:
A women doesn't answer a message of some guy,or ignores him for a bit (This is a shit test).
He gets really upset and starts to message her/call her/try to find her super agressively,even saying things like,"Are you dodging me."
Immediately she smells neediness and that guy becomes the typical "another",or someone she can toy around with,or as PUA say it "Emotional Dog",it's just like a dog,she gives him a cookie from time to time(Messaging,Chatting,Seeing)and he thinks of getting into her pants,when he has no chance whatsover once he becomes "Emotional dog",he just responds POSITIVELY to everythign she does,no matter what it is,he NEVER makes her feel bad for what she done,typical "Emotional Dog" attitude.
One thing else, DO NOT give out validation to FEMALES unless they give it to you first,no matter how attractive they are never value a girl by her attractiveness,because there are many attractive WOMEN out there,MANY!
By giving no validation she seems confused and scared,because she never had negative attitude towards her(I DONT MEAN CURSING HER/INSULTING HER),i mean when she says "Omg look at my hair its so beautiful today" you can always shit test her with oh well,u have something on your hair lemme remove it(this is a huge neg for women)or just say "I've seen better."
Don't be scared of a response of a girl EVER,she should be scared of YOUR actions,and you should not be scared of ANYTHING she does or says,that makes you beta as fuck.
I used to pump myself up this way too. After awhile you just want to stop being an asshole.
Don't count it as a win if you can get a girl simply by acting 'cocky/funny'. Count it as a win if you can wake up beside her the next morning having simply spent the entire past 24 hours as yourself.
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On May 03 2013 06:47 sunprince wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:41 Orcasgt24 wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I know I bored her. I tried to carry a conversation (my single worst trait by the way) but responces were like dead ends. She left it practiclly impossble to continue on any one subject and eventually I basiclly gave up. I'm also 95% sure she agreed to go out with me because shes too nice to say no. Food was good at least! Practice makes perfect. As you get more experience talking to others, it will improve. Considering taking a stand-up comedy class if you want some extra help with that. Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:32 Shady Sands wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I've gone on dates where she was in a conference call until the secondi arrived I hope you made her make it up to you.
Nah it was okay, she felt bad and paid for dinner
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On May 03 2013 07:33 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 07:25 Crying wrote:
One very very hardcore thing i learned thru experiece is DO NOT BE NEEDY/CLINGY
Women have an integrated radar for clingy/needy guys,and whenever they smell neediness they become defensive and repulsed by the man.
For instance:
A women doesn't answer a message of some guy,or ignores him for a bit (This is a shit test).
He gets really upset and starts to message her/call her/try to find her super agressively,even saying things like,"Are you dodging me."
Immediately she smells neediness and that guy becomes the typical "another",or someone she can toy around with,or as PUA say it "Emotional Dog",it's just like a dog,she gives him a cookie from time to time(Messaging,Chatting,Seeing)and he thinks of getting into her pants,when he has no chance whatsover once he becomes "Emotional dog",he just responds POSITIVELY to everythign she does,no matter what it is,he NEVER makes her feel bad for what she done,typical "Emotional Dog" attitude.
One thing else, DO NOT give out validation to FEMALES unless they give it to you first,no matter how attractive they are never value a girl by her attractiveness,because there are many attractive WOMEN out there,MANY!
By giving no validation she seems confused and scared,because she never had negative attitude towards her(I DONT MEAN CURSING HER/INSULTING HER),i mean when she says "Omg look at my hair its so beautiful today" you can always shit test her with oh well,u have something on your hair lemme remove it(this is a huge neg for women)or just say "I've seen better."
Don't be scared of a response of a girl EVER,she should be scared of YOUR actions,and you should not be scared of ANYTHING she does or says,that makes you beta as fuck.
I used to pump myself up this way too. After awhile you just want to stop being an asshole. Don't count it as a win if you can get a girl simply by acting 'cocky/funny'. Count it as a win if you can wake up beside her the next morning having simply spent the entire past 24 hours as yourself.
You are still yourself,you just show her that shes not a special snowflake,and make her think shes not the only one,and she shouldnt be messing with you.
"Good Guy" attitude will only send you to the very depths of her friendship circle,and yes its like that,A PRETTY women wants to be entertained with words,actions,speaking,posture,body language.She is HOT and RISKED a lot in her life to be what she is,she doesn't want someone who is not atleast her level to be around her.
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On May 03 2013 06:53 Recognizable wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:47 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:41 Orcasgt24 wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I know I bored her. I tried to carry a conversation (my single worst trait by the way) but responces were like dead ends. She left it practiclly impossble to continue on any one subject and eventually I basiclly gave up. I'm also 95% sure she agreed to go out with me because shes too nice to say no. Food was good at least! Practice makes perfect. As you get more experience talking to others, it will improve. Considering taking a stand-up comedy class if you want some extra help with that. On May 03 2013 06:32 Shady Sands wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I've gone on dates where she was in a conference call until the secondi arrived I hope you made her make it up to you. When she doesn't make an effort to have an interesting conversation it can get really hard however.
She will make an effort if she is attracted to you.
If you are asking her out on a date before she is attracted to you, then your mistake was there. If she stops being attracted to you during the date, then perhaps there are things you could do differently during the date.
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On May 03 2013 07:34 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 06:47 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:41 Orcasgt24 wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I know I bored her. I tried to carry a conversation (my single worst trait by the way) but responces were like dead ends. She left it practiclly impossble to continue on any one subject and eventually I basiclly gave up. I'm also 95% sure she agreed to go out with me because shes too nice to say no. Food was good at least! Practice makes perfect. As you get more experience talking to others, it will improve. Considering taking a stand-up comedy class if you want some extra help with that. On May 03 2013 06:32 Shady Sands wrote:On May 03 2013 06:26 white_horse wrote:On May 03 2013 06:18 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 06:02 Orcasgt24 wrote:On April 24 2013 08:09 Orcasgt24 wrote:
I have a date tonight with a new girl from work. She moved to this city like 2 weeks ago. Very excited. Figured I'd post how it went for the hell of it. She spent most of the time either texting or talking to her friend from the city she moved from. Then quickly asked for the bill when the server came by. Total waste of both of our time. Obviously no second date coming lol. Sounds like you bored her. Consider telling a girl to put her phone away the next time this happens to you on a date, and walking out otherwise. Completely agree. It's not ok to even look at your phone once or twice during a date just because it's "only once or twice". Your attention should be 100% towards the other person, not 99% or 98%. If you're guilty of looking at your phone during a date a few times, good to cut the habit now, else you want to lose points from the other. I've gone on dates where she was in a conference call until the secondi arrived I hope you made her make it up to you. Nah it was okay, she felt bad and paid for dinner
Sounds like a reasonable attempt to make it up to you.
On May 03 2013 07:33 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 07:25 Crying wrote:
One very very hardcore thing i learned thru experiece is DO NOT BE NEEDY/CLINGY
Women have an integrated radar for clingy/needy guys,and whenever they smell neediness they become defensive and repulsed by the man.
For instance:
A women doesn't answer a message of some guy,or ignores him for a bit (This is a shit test).
He gets really upset and starts to message her/call her/try to find her super agressively,even saying things like,"Are you dodging me."
Immediately she smells neediness and that guy becomes the typical "another",or someone she can toy around with,or as PUA say it "Emotional Dog",it's just like a dog,she gives him a cookie from time to time(Messaging,Chatting,Seeing)and he thinks of getting into her pants,when he has no chance whatsover once he becomes "Emotional dog",he just responds POSITIVELY to everythign she does,no matter what it is,he NEVER makes her feel bad for what she done,typical "Emotional Dog" attitude.
One thing else, DO NOT give out validation to FEMALES unless they give it to you first,no matter how attractive they are never value a girl by her attractiveness,because there are many attractive WOMEN out there,MANY!
By giving no validation she seems confused and scared,because she never had negative attitude towards her(I DONT MEAN CURSING HER/INSULTING HER),i mean when she says "Omg look at my hair its so beautiful today" you can always shit test her with oh well,u have something on your hair lemme remove it(this is a huge neg for women)or just say "I've seen better."
Don't be scared of a response of a girl EVER,she should be scared of YOUR actions,and you should not be scared of ANYTHING she does or says,that makes you beta as fuck.
I used to pump myself up this way too. After awhile you just want to stop being an asshole. Don't count it as a win if you can get a girl simply by acting 'cocky/funny'. Count it as a win if you can wake up beside her the next morning having simply spent the entire past 24 hours as yourself.
Count it as a win if you change yourself to become the kind of person who is naturally cocky and funny.
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Fuck. So I've been trying to date this girl at my school who is a foreign exchange student. We went on a few dates and to prom together but now she's been quiet to me which sucks because I had the best conversations of my entire life with her. So today a friend who is also close to her said she would have dated me but since she is going home soon she doesn't want to get involved. Fuck me. I made my move too late and came up short on the only girl I've ever connected with in my entire life. I'm probably going to go and make a complete fool of myself but I have no choice. I could never live with myself if I never at least got a solid rejection, it would haunt me forever. Fuck.
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On May 03 2013 06:50 Kenpachi wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 05:58 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 05:54 Kenpachi wrote:
Is it normal for older girls to hit on younger dudes? girl at my school is a year older and I feel like she's playing games but I'm not entirely sure lol. A year older isn't that much in high school, at least, not usually enough to produce any major behavioral difference. Meh. Might be just me when I'm thinking she's playing games but I do realize how silly age can be especially in high school where age is branded on our foreheads by our grade level lol. But it's hard to reason if a senior would want to date a junior so late in the year so I don't know honestly.
You are way over thinking this just have fun man. Just hit it?
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On May 03 2013 06:50 Kenpachi wrote:Show nested quote +On May 03 2013 05:58 sunprince wrote:On May 03 2013 05:54 Kenpachi wrote:
Is it normal for older girls to hit on younger dudes? girl at my school is a year older and I feel like she's playing games but I'm not entirely sure lol. A year older isn't that much in high school, at least, not usually enough to produce any major behavioral difference. Meh. Might be just me when I'm thinking she's playing games but I do realize how silly age can be especially in high school where age is branded on our foreheads by our grade level lol. But it's hard to reason if a senior would want to date a junior so late in the year so I don't know honestly.
2 reasons, both of which end poorly in the short run but are nice to look back on. 1 she wants to think she is sexy and is playing with you, 2 she actually knows she is sexy and wants to be with you. Either way, if you get led on, she leaves and it's no biggie. If you get hot and heavy with her, then she leaves, but you don't have enough time to get ultra-attached; though I'll admit that it hurts about as much as the first. Those would be the reasons.
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