Dating: How's your luck? - Page 1005

On September 09 2018 02:08 UCD2 wrote:
This is gonna be a long rant and i just decided to do this on the spur. So sry for my broken english.
BTW most of the conversation in the story are in another language so there might be some information that are lost in the translation but i will try my best.

If you guy have any input on this please let me know cause I'm confuse and wasn't sure if i read all the sign correctly.

So there was this girl at work. Originally, she was in another department. However, my department and her was really close(kinda like a neighbor).
We rarely interact with one another, but we know each other. I wasnt really interested in her back then(she also had a bf back then). Due to some circumstance, she was transfer to my department.
So we started to get closer and begin to talk alot more (work and stuff).
She was really cheerful and was really friendly with most people. She would ask me to visit a customer with her etc. She also kinda keep on talking about how she is now single. She also call me alot
At some point I felt like she was flirting with me. She would crack some joke or give me some sign that she was interested in me.

Here are some example, (lot of this is in another language so I will do my best)
we went on a lunch (with other coworker) and there was a couple playing like a dance game at the game center. The girl who was dancing kinda similar to her in term of shape (small).
Then she say to me "you should look at that couple. Incase you have a girlfriend that small. Just like me, you would know how to treat your girlfriend."

Or one day after work she call me. So I ask her why did she call me (in a polite way since at the time I thought it was work related issue since my line of work kinda require me to work at home)
She say "Nothing, just driving home from work and was feeling lonely. Just needed someone to chat."

I brought a new phone. She ask me for my phone then proceed to take a selfie of herself with my phone. Then she try to setup the picture to show up when she call me (which she didnt know how to do).

So of course I begin to flirt back and stuff. Usually i get a little giggle or a smile from her when we do this. After a while, I begin to fall for her now.
The awkward me decide to ask her out for lunch on Saturday and she agree(at first I texted her(Tuesday eve) and ask her on the phone later(wednesday). Later, I know she went to a farewell party with her girlfriend (this friend let call her N which will come back up in the story later).
Later almost midnight Friday she cancel the lunch and mention she need to take her mother somewhere. A little disappointed, but I just say okey. I wasnt too sure if that was a bad sign or not.(Now I felt like that just some sloppy excuse but I was still optimistic)
Now come the next week, the plan was to ask her out again but I have my own stuff to do that week so I didnt.
We continue to flirt and stuff. Then come the next next week she call me we have work related conversation (20%) and a bunch of other stuff of the conversation (80%).
She say something along the line of "wanting someone to takecare* of her" (now the word takecare in my language could also meet treating someone for a meal or takecare as in taking care of the person)
So I repond with "How about me?" and she said "That would be good too" then proceed to do the giggle move. (Fking women and their giggles how am I suppose to transition out of that) I just laugh it off.

Later at night I was planing to ask her out again but was a bit of a puss so I decided to do in the next morning.
Anyway around that time there we have a grouptext on LINE(messenger app).
Another coworker was joking with me and give me a really cheesy pickup line to use. (She was in this group too so she see my converstion with this dude)
So I texted her the exact same pickup line the guy give me to her.

Before the next part I would have to revisit the N girl. At one point I was interested in N but she didnt really play along with my flirting at all. She also right out refuse to go out when I try asking her out. So the sign was clear that she didnt see me as a love interest and I quickly drop it.
We were good coworker tho or at least I think we are.

Then this is where the problem start

The conversation went like this
She: LOL
She: This is me and not N
Me : She gone now isnt she
She: gone as in?
Me : Im interested in you now (dunno how to translate this sentence properly but is was in a joking way)
She: Really?
She: Back then you were chasing after her
Me : Wut u talking bout
Me : You are much smarter and cuter
She: LOL sweet talk
Me : You look great at work today
Me : fall for you (now that I look back this is so cheesy what was I thinking lol)
some other stuff too lazy to try to translate but not that important
She: But you use to like N didnt you
She: That what the rumor said
Me : What rumor?
Me : Who the hell spread those rumor
She: well I know a little bit
Me : You for sure (she like to gossip a lot)

So at this point I begin to panic for no reason and try to steer the convestion back to getting with her. (only a few line of text after this)

She: Waste of time, lets be friend better LOL

Which really threw me off the bus. At this point Im at a lost as what in the actual fk just happen.
After I settle down I kinda told myself that whatever its not like we really went out anyway and if that what she want I should respect it. After all, we are still co-worker and I also dont want to fk that up.

She no longer call me for no reason, I was still texting her about work related stuff and most converstation has been somewhat professional.
We didnt see each other for about a week and a half (work related reason).
Eventually, we meeted up I no longer show any interest in her and so does she until lunch.
I teased her about her nail polish. Its like silver and really polish like galvanize steel which I never understand why would someone pick that color.
So I goes "Did you just galvanized your nail to prevent rust or something? WHy the hell did you make it look like that"
She paused for a bit and then respond
She "So you would ask. So you would pay attention to me."
Inside my head I was thinking "Fk not this again why the hell did you tell me to be your friend then do this sort of shit" of course i didnt say it.
During lunch(with her and another coworker) she ask me to take a picture of her with my phone and then sent it to her. (Why does it have to be my phone?)

Later in the evening she has to go somewhere but she didnt bring her car with her. So I offer to give her a ride and she say ok. I was in a bit of a hurry and have to left while she was a little busy with work. Another person offer her a ride but she say it was ok she will be going with me.
During the ride we have some chat but I didnt have to courage to bring the main topic up was a little uneventful actually. I think she flirt with me a lil but I dont know if Im too full of myself or not.

So come next day. This time she have to go to a meeting somewhere and there was a report that everyone has to turn in. It turn out this fking report that everyone have to do I was to be the sole expert on.
She didnt know how to do it properly ask me to stay back and help her with it. She mention that she will probably be a little late and offer to treat me a meal and it is fine for me to refuse.
Me still hoping for another chance and a free meal, tell her that I will wait for her after work. Eventually, she show up I show her the rope and was joking around the mood seem light.
Afterward, we went out to dinner this time alone. We talk or rather she talk (Im the quiet guy and she the talkative one) alot. She talk about her hobby and family so on and so forth. I think it went pretty well.
That night she texted me to pick her up the next morning since she have to do a check up on her car.
The next day she and another of her friend (also my coworker) was having a chat she did flirt with me a little and we all also have lunch.


Now I have no fking idea what is going on. Is she still interest in me or not? Obviously I still want it to happen, but at the same time I dont what to make the relationship took a bad turn since at the end of the day she is my coworker.
I dont want thing to be completely awkward in the work place. Any advice.

Edit: found some typo but fk it im too lazy now