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DisneylandSC
Netherlands435 Posts
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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On August 30 2011 08:28 DisneylandSC wrote: I still think this thread is some really clever and elaborate troll. Like squattincassanova is just making stuff up while posting pictures from some facebook account he hijacked. I'm the real deal  ![[image loading]](http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6071/6094934700_2180b39062_o.jpg) My handle is "Enthalpy" @ Casanovacrew.com | ||
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fearlessparagon
United States104 Posts
how many asian men compared to men of other races attend those pickup classes? seems to be nowadays alot more asians are doing this, whys that? | ||
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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On August 30 2011 08:53 fearlessparagon wrote: squattincasanova, im curious. how many asian men compared to men of other races attend those pickup classes? seems to be nowadays alot more asians are doing this, whys that? There are a lot of Asians learning pickup. Why you ask? Because culturally, Asians aren't very social or alpha or have much dating experience. When I grew up, my parents never talked about dating or sex once. They didn't teach me anything. And since Asians hang out with a lot of Asians, you don't have many friends who help raise your social skills. Also the culture is subservient. I see this in the work place. All the Asians with doctorate degrees work for white guys with just a bachelors or just an MBA. Basically you are 80% defined by the top 6 people you hang out with (its just a quote). Why do you think most black people are cool? Because they hang out with other black people with game and even if they weren't born cool, they pick it up from their friends. But to be honest, there are guys from every race doing this. | ||
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shinosai
United States1577 Posts
But I was wondering, what is your method of creating a funny and effective online profile? Cause I've never had any success in this field, no matter what I tried writing. At this point I've pretty much given up on the online game, but maybe you have something enlightening to say about it. It seems like a person I'd have moderate success with in person I have zero chance with online, lol. | ||
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DisneylandSC
Netherlands435 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:01 shinosai wrote: Squattincasanova, I enjoy your posting, and what you say makes a lot of sense. Lately I've been pushing my social boundaries and talking to a lot of random people on campus, and for the most part the conversations tend to go well. I find what you say is true, that it's more time efficient to do things in person than online. But I was wondering, what is your method of creating a funny and effective online profile? Cause I've never had any success in this field, no matter what I tried writing. At this point I've pretty much given up on the online game, but maybe you have something enlightening to say about it. It seems like a person I'd have moderate success with in person I have zero chance with online, lol. Post ponies on your page. DO IT NOW! | ||
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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:01 shinosai wrote: Squattincasanova, I enjoy your posting, and what you say makes a lot of sense. Lately I've been pushing my social boundaries and talking to a lot of random people on campus, and for the most part the conversations tend to go well. I find what you say is true, that it's more time efficient to do things in person than online. But I was wondering, what is your method of creating a funny and effective online profile? Cause I've never had any success in this field, no matter what I tried writing. At this point I've pretty much given up on the online game, but maybe you have something enlightening to say about it. It seems like a person I'd have moderate success with in person I have zero chance with online, lol. Enjoy ![[image loading]](http://i56.tinypic.com/2lmnf5c.jpg) ![[image loading]](http://i52.tinypic.com/2gvvt39.jpg) | ||
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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
I got a better idea. This weekend when I go out, I will open a group of girls talking about Disneyland. | ||
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DisneylandSC
Netherlands435 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:19 squattincassanova wrote: I got a better idea. This weekend when I go out, I will open a group of girls talking about Disneyland. If you do that I'll promise I'll watch the video. But it has to be 100% only about disneyland and disneyland related topics. | ||
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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:24 DisneylandSC wrote: If you do that I'll promise I'll watch the video. But it has to be 100% only about disneyland and disneyland related topics. Um no. Talking about Disneyland doesn't get you laid. Sorry, 2 minutes max, then I transition. I don't care that much if you don't believe me | ||
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beg
991 Posts
anyone in germany ruhrgebiet wanting to start something? | ||
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DisneylandSC
Netherlands435 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:33 beg wrote: any ideas how to get a procrastinator like me started? i read/watched quite a bit of material already. anyone in germany ruhrgebiet wanting to start something? I could tell you, but you'll just procrastinate... On August 30 2011 09:26 squattincassanova wrote: Um no. Talking about Disneyland doesn't get you laid. Sorry, 2 minutes max, then I transition. I don't care that much if you don't believe me Or you could see it as a challenge :D | ||
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beg
991 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:26 squattincassanova wrote: Um no. Talking about Disneyland doesn't get you laid. Sorry, 2 minutes max, then I transition. I don't care that much if you don't believe me limiting beliefs brah! i found them! now you DEFINITELY have to talk about disney only for the next 30 days. | ||
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DisneylandSC
Netherlands435 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:34 beg wrote: limiting beliefs brah! i found them! now you DEFINITELY have to talk about disney only for the next 30 days. ^This. | ||
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beg
991 Posts
<- these two smileys, dude. that's you and me! | ||
Klogon
MURICA15980 Posts
On August 30 2011 08:23 squattincassanova wrote: To be honest, every girl I have had sex with, my value was higher. I am actually pissed off about that. Its not to say that they aren't cute... but their physique is definitely not on par as me but for a woman. Why can't I find a girl who has an engineering degree, with a good personality, has less than 12% body fat, taken improv comedy, and is well traveled? Dammit, almost non existent! Theses girls should learn pick up to pick me up! looool You won't find a girl with 12% body fat, lol. 18% or so sounds good. | ||
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DisneylandSC
Netherlands435 Posts
On August 30 2011 09:38 beg wrote: sup DisneylandSC ... where are you from? coincidentally living near venlo? we could go out together. <- these two smileys, dude. that's you and me!Not living near venlo, unfortunately! But oh does that prospect look tempting ... I can see us now ... being those two smilies ... together ... heterosexual nerd lifepartners for life ... but allas it wasn't meant to be. So here we are,  ................................................................. instead.+ Show Spoiler + ................................................................. not actual scale | ||
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beg
991 Posts
i need to gain some momentum -.- .. i tried going out alone like two times, and every now and then i talk to girls on the train... but it's never fun to me. it always feels like shit. i haven't managed to just keep going until i get some good feelings out of it. so me being a procrastinator + a lot of bad feeling = i neeever keep going... suuuuucks. ideas appreciated. or just flame me really hard until i feel extremely stupid for not keeping it going. | ||
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DisneylandSC
Netherlands435 Posts
On August 30 2011 10:12 beg wrote: what's up with a TL PUA amsterdam meeting? i need to gain some momentum -.- .. i tried going out alone like two times, and every now and then i talk to girls on the train... but it's never fun to me. it always feels like shit. i haven't managed to just keep going until i get some good feelings out of it. so me being a procrastinator + a lot of bad feeling = i neeever keep going... suuuuucks. ideas appreciated. or just flame me really hard until i feel extremely stupid for not keeping it going. I are not PUA. But, I can tell you that talking to people you don't know in the US is considered quite normal. Whereas talking to people you dont know in the Netherlands is considered odd and in some cases even rude or creepy. Mayby it is just a cultural thing >.> | ||
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Catch
United States616 Posts
On August 30 2011 08:23 squattincassanova wrote: To be honest, every girl I have had sex with, my value was higher. I am actually pissed off about that. Its not to say that they aren't cute... but their physique is definitely not on par as me but for a woman. Why can't I find a girl who has an engineering degree, with a good personality, has less than 12% body fat, taken improv comedy, and is well traveled? Dammit, almost non existent! Theses girls should learn pick up to pick me up! looool While I normally agree/don't care what you say, this post and the other about sexing up the girl with a boyfriend of two years are the ones I'mma call ya out on First of all, your value wasn't higher, it is just different. Just because you are well educated in a science field does not put you above them in intelligence in other ways (emotional, fluid, social, ect). You could be in some areas, all, or none. Can't just assume you are. BF on a woman is different than a man; 12% is pretty low for them. You are probably better off in the 15-18% range man. I'm not too sure (since I'm not a woman) though. Here are some random reference pictures I found. Link Here One value you absolutely must have is taken improv comedy...? Kinda extreme don't you think? What's wrong with just a witty woman? (By the way, would you recommend improv comedy in general? I've been skirting around trying it out for a few years now. Nothing serious, just always pops up when I see it) If you want well-traveled women, go somewhere well-traveled women would go. Large cities, friggin' airports. I once read that if you want a fashionable girl, dress like a fashionable guy. The same goes for their interests. They aren't of "lesser value" as you so eloquently put it, they are of different value. Like I said, they bring different values to the table. The reason you are saying they are "below value" is because they don't match your values. You can trade values. I could probably tell you a lot about weight lifting than you could me (or various other topics), while you could do the same to me for say traveling. One isn't below the other, they are just different. Although I do agree with you - people need to focus on developing themselves a lot more. In my opinion, the beliefs your developing from PUA are starting to narrow your focus a little bit much. I saw a post on the seduction subreddit where they talked about gamers vs lifers. I suggest you take a look at it. Finally, sleeping with a chick who had a boyfriend of two years is just being a douche. IF you knew beforehand, otherwise have it. Edit: @Beg - Try this out next time. Getting past small talk | ||
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