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ToxNub
Profile Joined June 2010
Canada805 Posts
July 25 2011 17:34 GMT
#441
Yeah, I know this girl from a very small music scene, where I know a lot of people, and she knows a lot of people, and I have to see her and her friends regularly. A lot of the people we know are the same people.

I don't know about oneitis. Is she special, like, my soulmate special? No. Is she special like I find her motherfucking sexy as hell? Special like she's half native half white so she's got these sexy eyes and natural tan? Is she special like she's a science graduate like myself, we both DJ the same style of music, and we both like to dance? So according to PUA, there's like lots of sexy science drum and bass djs around, right? ... Just one in a crowd, eh? I think PUA just assumes you are a typical dude going for generic girls, but that isnt the case. There are no other girls like this one, at least not ones I am going to meet. No, that doesn't mean if this fails I'm going to be destitute. Yes, there are other types of women I like. Yes, I still want to fuck other women. But is she special? Sure, to me she is.
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
July 25 2011 20:49 GMT
#442
I love the game! Its good to be back home with new powers

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Catch
Profile Joined September 2010
United States616 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-25 21:45:35
July 25 2011 21:18 GMT
#443
On July 26 2011 02:34 ToxNub wrote:
Yeah, I know this girl from a very small music scene, where I know a lot of people, and she knows a lot of people, and I have to see her and her friends regularly. A lot of the people we know are the same people.

I don't know about oneitis. Is she special, like, my soulmate special? No. Is she special like I find her motherfucking sexy as hell? Special like she's half native half white so she's got these sexy eyes and natural tan? Is she special like she's a science graduate like myself, we both DJ the same style of music, and we both like to dance? So according to PUA, there's like lots of sexy science drum and bass djs around, right? ... Just one in a crowd, eh? I think PUA just assumes you are a typical dude going for generic girls, but that isnt the case. There are no other girls like this one, at least not ones I am going to meet. No, that doesn't mean if this fails I'm going to be destitute. Yes, there are other types of women I like. Yes, I still want to fuck other women. But is she special? Sure, to me she is.


I'm no expert but here is what I think is up...

First of all, you barely know this chick. You mentioned three things in common, but there a lot of people majoring in science out there. Is that really something that you really dig, or are you just prodding to find common ground? Furthermore, a shit ton of people also like to dance. I'm gonna have a major in science (Physical therapy) and I like to dance. I know tons of people that do man - that really isn't anything special.

I'm just saying that you need to figure out what is important to you - just because you have it in common doesn't mean shit if all it is is something to latch on to. Like I said before, if all of those things are something that you really dig in a chick then by all means go for it. You may be saying that science degree = intelligence, but you don't need to have a science degree to be intelligent. And really science is just concrete intelligence, what about fluid or abstract intelligence? There are all kinds of intellects out there (Like the one who made the spell check app for chrome. Good lord lol), ya know what I mean?

And fuck, I could totally agree with you on so much too. There is instant attraction and maybe she has what you need. But in my opinion you are putting her above you. And I don't give a fuck if you are in PUA or not, putting another person above your own self isn't something you shouldn't be doing. Treating somebody with respect is different than that. You both can give each other value and that's what matters.

What if you find out that she has some shitty dreams, hopes, or personality and the only thing y'all have in common are a science degree, y'all enjoy dancing, and DJing the same music? From what you've said the conversations you've had have lasted ten minutes tops. Maybe she can't make you laugh, maybe you don't enjoy being with her, or maybe you just find her a piece of eye candy. In my opinion, an emotional connection is far more important than nearly anything. Later I plan on writing my own thoughts out on PUA in this thread and I'll expand on it later, but that is all I got for ya.

Finally, when she was making eye contact with you she probably wanted you to come talk to her... Fuck that whole creeper status. The only time you will be a creeper is if you start thinking you are one. She couldn't keep her eyes off of you and was waiting for you to make the move. If she thought you were a creeper, she would have gotten away from you.

... Just my own two cents.

Also, just as some general advice, check out these two sites.

Kingpin Lifestyle (There ya go cam )
Practical Pickup
There is also a nice community on reddit. Search seduction and you'll find it.

...I'll explain these sites more in detail and how they've helped me when I make that write up I was talking about earlier...
Victory Loves Preparation
ToxNub
Profile Joined June 2010
Canada805 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-25 23:01:32
July 25 2011 22:59 GMT
#444
Well, I don't know about you guys... But when I meet a girl who believes in the law of attraction, horoscopes, ghosts, energy healing, fad diets, homepathic medicine, or other obvious lies, I get limp-dick. I can't see how we are going to be able to have a conversation, let alone solve basic problems together, let alone arguments if they don't have a concept of logic or rational thinking. I could make a joke about the rarity of a rational woman, but fact is that science students are some of your best bets. I'm also kinda a general science geek. A lot of people say they like science, but it's usually because they read some bs crackpot who wrote a book about science, not REAL science.

It's not just dancing in general. Sure, a lot of people dance. But we're culturally compatible (sounds gay, but lets face it, do hip hop heads date country lovers very often?), and when you dance (not like, you think its fun, but you've been doing it for a long time and you're good) you appreciate when somebody else is good because you know what it takes. It also means we'll both want to go to the same shows and etc.

But you're right. None of that stuff is enough, either. I don't know anything about her personality, she might be totally lame. The truth is that I'm sure my trainwrecking is less due to the fact that she's a good match and more due to the fact that everyone else is a worse match. Just the fact that she's #1 on my list is enough to fuck me over.





Discretionary Duck
Profile Joined July 2011
148 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-26 00:40:57
July 26 2011 00:28 GMT
#445
On July 26 2011 05:49 squattincassanova wrote:


There's always a person like you in every Lair - the guy who feels the need to brag so he can appear alpha. You're not in the PUA community to help PUAs who are just starting out or give advice that is supportive, you're just here because you feel the need to show off how great you are by posting the cliched 'pic-with-chick'. Everytime a PUA in this thread is giving advice and support to a newbie all you do is attack them and tell them that their approach to PUA is wrong, whilst putting the newbie down. Congratulations if you are getting laid but I get the feeling you have a small Asian penis complex coupled with a subconscious need to appease your Asian dad who pressured you to get straight As in school or something, hence the desperation to prove that you're successful while not impressing anyone else.

Anyway, I got e-mailed this from a banned user who can't reply to his PM, if any PUAs want to take on this case go ahead:

On July 20 2011 08:03 Blanke wrote:

Shit, sucks that you're currently banned, but I thought I'd go ahead and ask a few questions anyhow.

1. You mentioned this yourself, and I meant to include it in my own post, but the notion of "failure" when hitting on women is not what aggravates me. Rather, it is the utter lack of feedback, the critical component of someone telling you WHY you lost and HOW you go about fixing it. You mentioned that you've learned how to recognize your own mistakes over the years, do you have any advice on gaining the insight to do so myself?

2. It's a bittersweet irony how spending most of my time at the gym has yielded impressive results, but none of which seem to provoke any response from women. (Well, I should say my brother's female friends often flatter me for it, but they're not interested in dating me.) I hope to rejoin wrestling this September at my university - - do you think this will help improve my chances with women?

3. The hindsight realization of my own mortality, that life is too short to be wasted in fear, grants me all the confidence I need to talk to women and never break eye contact. Unfortunately, this only seems to deter them! (I smile at ladies on the street, but they never seem to smile back.) Otherwise I simply get friendzoned. Clearly I must not be saying the right things . . . although I most commonly find women at the gym, they seem to be dead-focused on working out rather than chit-chat. (And how can I blame them?) Any advice on breaking the ice in a gym setting?

4. I beginning to suspect that it's unhealthy to spend so much time mulling over the secret of always knowing what to say to women, but when I'm painting for 9.5 hrs 4-5 days a week, and I can't seem to stop my brain from running in circles, cursing myself for not picking up talents like the guitar or dancing, anything superior to writing! These talents seem to be a part of what PUA's coin "inner game," correct? Working out and mastering your hobbies. I try my hardest to stay focused at work, but I can't help but dread the possibility of spending another weekend alone. ( I don't really want to go into a bar by myself, plus I live in a city with only 34 000 ppl, 70% of which are elderly.) Is the key to inner game just practicing improv relentlessly? Humor is the best defense, always prevailing. I just wish there was a place in this cesspool of a city to practice it.

5. As I mentioned in my post, I fear the complacency of my friends (assuring me that "of course you'll meet someone in college, everyone does"), and that if i do not make drastic changes within the few fleeting weeks of summer, I may not be prepared. With my short timeframe outside of work, what area do you think I should focus all my energies on? (As aforementioned, I usually workout, read a bit, and then hit the sack cause I'm up at 5:00 AM the next day.)

6. A friend of mine claims that reading Harry Potter will win you lots of chicks. Is he full of shit, or must I torture myself to read Twilight instead?

7. I came up with an idea recently for hitting on chicks in nightclubs, preferably those sitting at a table. Basically, you'll need a female friend to hang onto your phone, hide somewhere, and pretend to be your girlfriend for 10 minutes. Approach the ladies confidently, and ask politely if you could borrow their cellphone to make a local call. This is what my conversation would go like on the phone:

"Hey, Avary? Yeah, it's me. Listen, I think we should start seeing other people now . . . . I am serious, and don't call me Shirley . . . . Where am I? I'm at the bar. And before you ask, yes, I've met a beautiful woman . . . . Her name? [Looks at girl] it's uh, Amy? Doesn't matter what her name is, she's funny, and friendly, and I can already tell we have lots in common . . . . Yup . . . . Yes, in fact, we WILL play World of Warcraft together . . . . because I'm awesometacular, that's why . . . Of course that's a real word . . . . No, don't make a scene here, please . . . . it wont amount to anything . . . sigh, whatever. [Look at girl] She wants to talk to you!"

And from that point on, it's all improv, lol! Hopefully my friend can come off as angry on the phone without deterring the girl I'm hitting on. Ideally I would follow up the phone call by offering to buy her a drink, but I sense most PUA's wouldn't actually do that for girls they've just met. What do you think?

8. A frustratingly reoccurring theme on dance floors for myself (ever since elementary, really) is that awkward feeling that nobody wants really wants to dance with you. After experiencing the same social stigma in Greece a year ago, I knew something was horribly wrong, I just could never figure out what it was. Today, I suspect talking to girls before you dance/grind with them is an absolute necessity, but more often than not it's impossible to have a conversation with the music being blasted. Of course, learning to break dance would pretty much make me the indisputable Alpha Male of the dance floor, but that's gonna require years of practice which I may not even have time for. Do you always talk to girls before you try dancing with them? What advice do you have for avoiding that cursed awkward feeling that insists on haunting me on the dance floor?

9. After being "lightly" rejected yesterday at some half-assed Latin American festival (the girl kept trolling me by insisting on dancing ONLY after she'd finish drinking, but obviously lacked the courage to tell me off straight up), a female friend of mine, Brittany, insisted that it's in human nature to flirt (meaning everyone is capable of doing so effectively enough), but both sides must be receptive in order to succeed. She explained how you cannot "force" attraction/reception in someone, and that some girls are just complete bitches when guys attempt to hit on them whom they've never met before.

Despite her reassurance, I cannot help but ponder if one CAN in fact, force attraction in a woman, and that I just cannot seem to say the "perfect" lines on the spot like any true PUA, hence why I fail. What's you're take on Brittany's opinion?

9.5 And as for the girl I was hitting on at this festival, I tried coaxing her into dancing, but she kept dodging by saying she didn't know how to dance and that she preferred grass over a cardboard dance floor for her sandals. I remained persistent, joking that my sombrero would hide us both from any embarrassment, but to no avail. If there were any more girls looking for dance partners that night, I wouldn't be writing this now, but alas there were not.

10. I've been told before that I "try too hard" with women, and quite frankly, I find this statement way too fucking vague. Obviously it's a terrible idea to talk to a girl when she's texting or has headphones in, but something tells me my errors run even deeper than that. Somehow, despite being the first to approach her, you must not show any interest in a girl until she shows interest in you. Now I suspect this is the fundamental problem I struggle with so much (perhaps humor is the instant-win solution I need to practice relentlessly until it becomes instinctive), but what exactly does "trying too hard" include? Detailing your hobbies/interests? Telling stories? Flattering her? It's instinctive for me to try my very hardest at every challenge I face in life . . . is this an ironic downfall in the dating scene?

You want to open up a lane in your conversation so it becomes a two-way street (I cannot stress enough how frustrating it is to talk to women whom offer no input, and then you're the one asking all the questions), but how do I go about this without trying so hard?

Thank you again for offering to help. I understand the art of seduction is one helluva steep staircase to climb, but I will remain undaunted as long as I can learn from my mistakes at every opportunity!


You seem to be putting yourself out there which is a good thing. I only wonder if there's anything in your appearance that's affecting your success, if not even a smile is getting any response from women. Try practicing in front of the mirror - ask yourself, do you come across as creepy or dodgy or threatening? Do you lean forward when you speak or do you appear relaxed? Record yourself and ask yourself - do I sound too nasally? Otherwise I'm not quite sure what it could be. Maybe some of the other PUAs can help out here.

Remember, everytime you approach a girl - she already knows you want to fuck her. So that's why they hate most 'nice guys' - because they know the nice guy is acting nice to get into her pants. So the trick is to make her feel 'challenged' by your approach - if you act like a cocky-funny asshole she'll be like: "Ohh, this guy wants to get into my pants, and he knows I know but still has the balls to make me think I'm the one who wants to get into his pants. Game on."
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-26 11:36:57
July 26 2011 11:19 GMT
#446
Duck,

I dont spend hours giving people advice because there are too much literature out there. People ask a lot of hypothetical questions that are not needed to be answered at that time. The lesson is that you need to take the leap of faith and figure it out on the way, not try and map everything before you take the first step. These guys keep fixating on all these questions before they even make their first approach. That's called Mental Masturbation and that's the problem. The only way to help a newb is literally to threaten to kick his ass when hes out in field in order to make him approach. That's what my mentor did to me. He made me do a direct opener on a 14 year old and also on 2 super tall black chicks from the ghetto. From then on, I lost like 99% of my Approach Anxiety. In the meantime, enjoy my latest set of tonight.


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Sotamursu
Profile Joined June 2010
Finland612 Posts
July 26 2011 11:28 GMT
#447
@ discretionary duck
Why are you so hostile? He's just here trying to give advice and maybe get some attention in return. Nothing wrong with that. Everyone loves attention. You might look at him posting pictures as bragging, while someone else can look at it as proof that something he does actually works.

@ Blanke
I'm still pretty new to PUA, but I can give you general advice.

1. I guess you could look at that kind of the way you would look at a starcraft replay. What are you doing everytime you apporoach? There's gotta be something that all your failed approaches have in common. You might want to even consider recording your conversations. If you still can't find out what you're doing wrong, try changing everything in your approach and then see if you still get rejected. That should help it narrow it down.

2. You'll probably make a lot of new friends when you start a new hobby and more friends -> meeting more new people -> meeting new girls. I'm pretty sure it won't hurt your chances with women.

3. This is just a purely theoretical idea, but maybe you could ask them to help you with something. Like spotting, stretching etc.

4. There are no hobbies that stop you from getting pussy. I know people who play WoW 8 hours a day and do nothing else, but still have girlfriends. Playing a guitar or dancing might help you get more chicks, if you already got the basics down, but I'm pretty sure they mostly help with breaking the ice.

5. There probably isn't much you can do in such a short timeframe, but as advice for college, go to every single event there is and join clubs etc., but don't appear needy. Try to build a good social network, since it will help you in more ways than just getting girls.

6. I'm pretty sure things don't work that way.

7. Hard to say anything, since I don't know much about pre-made routines. I guess it might work, but if you can't follow up it with something effective, it probably won't get you a number/laid.

8. Depends on the country I guess, but you don't always have to talk to them before you dance. I usually dance with my friends (but not in a closed circle, so it still appears as if I was alone) and usually someone will come dance with me at some point.

You shouldn't be dancing just to get chicks, you should be dancing because it's one of the must fun things you can do. I've noticed that you can't really dance, if you're feeling self-concious, you have to get rid of all your inhibitions and only then will you realise how fun dancing actually is. I haven't taken a single dance lesson in my life (although I'm planning to as I want to be really good dancer), I just move like I feel like moving. Do I look retarded while doing that? Maybe. Has anyone ever given me anything other than positive feedback about my dancing? No.

I was at my friends bday party a few weeks back and I was having so much fun I felt like the dance emperor. I would look at people on the dance floor who looked kind of awkward and alone (shy chicks too) and encourage them to dance and have fun. It ended up being one of the most awesome nights in my life.

9. Obviously it doesn't work every single time. I highly doubt anyone has a 100% close rate. However, if there's a small chance she could be attracted to you, you can take that and make her like you. You would just have to be good enough.

9.5 Everytime someone says that they don't want to dance, I tell them that I'll teach them.

10. Maybe they meant that you're coming off too direct and that you don't give up even when it's obvious that you have been rejected.
Colbert
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Canada148 Posts
July 28 2011 21:45 GMT
#448
I love the pics squattincassanova, haha keep 'em coming.

I wish I knew who Catch was. But thanks for sharing the link.

One question I have:

- How would you teach somebody to be genuine?
Sometimes you win, Sometimes you learn
[GiTM]-Ace
Profile Joined September 2002
United States4935 Posts
July 28 2011 23:32 GMT
#449
Everything seems to be about inner game. Essentially it seems advice is go to the gym/do a sport or something. Accept most social invites and all of a sudden I'm going to be beaming confidence? I want that strong inner confidence but don't know how to go about achieving it.
I may not be the best player right now but I think I can beat any 'best' players. I'll beat all the best players and become the best player. Watch me. - Jju
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
July 29 2011 10:05 GMT
#450
On July 29 2011 08:32 [GiTM]-Ace wrote:
Everything seems to be about inner game. Essentially it seems advice is go to the gym/do a sport or something. Accept most social invites and all of a sudden I'm going to be beaming confidence? I want that strong inner confidence but don't know how to go about achieving it.


Inner confidence is gained by doing bold things. You ain't gonna get inner confidence by reading books. You get it by the actions you perform. Every time you are scared of something and you do it, your inner confidence changes a little bit. You can't hope to change inner game by just thinking. It needs to be done by outer game and changes in habit.
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couches
Profile Joined November 2010
618 Posts
July 29 2011 12:55 GMT
#451
On July 29 2011 08:32 [GiTM]-Ace wrote:
Everything seems to be about inner game. Essentially it seems advice is go to the gym/do a sport or something. Accept most social invites and all of a sudden I'm going to be beaming confidence? I want that strong inner confidence but don't know how to go about achieving it.

DO something with your life. Do it because you fucking want to and because it makes you feel accomplished. Don't give a fuck what others think about it.

This can be a career you really enjoy. A hobby you are super passionate about.

Let's say you're some pro guitar player. When you play the guitar you fucking own. You tear it up. You look at the crowd like Dimebag nodding to the music with an expression that says "you kids are gonna fucking love this riff, watch me now." (watch him play live on youtube real quick, you'll see exactly what I'm talking about) That's confidence. That kind of confidence will spill over into all aspects of your life.
Vul
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
United States685 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-29 13:29:36
July 29 2011 13:28 GMT
#452
I would say that yea, if you do a sport and go to the gym that will build confidence and increase your testosterone. If you accept all your social invites and put some effort into being social, you will notice some improvements and eventually you will get more confident. If you are worried or nervous about being social, then being social in the face of that is an accomplishment in itself and I think it will also slowly build confidence.

So, I think all of those things will work, but it will take time. You just have to keep in mind that when you're talking to a new girl, you're talking to her because YOU want to see if she's interesting and someone that you would want to keep seeing. Don't worry about trying to prove yourself. Do your best to look past the physical. Sure, she's attractive, but you're probably not going to talk about that with her and getting hung up on it will make you more nervous. She's just a person, have fun.

ed: clarity

insaneMicro
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
Germany761 Posts
July 29 2011 13:47 GMT
#453
Yo cassanova nice pics, you're a handsome dude (no homo) :D

Also, I agree that to build inner game you need to do things you're scared of or that are hard to accomplish. Approaching girls works pretty well, but so does lifting weights. Hell, if you look at IdrA even being good at Starcraft seem to work. It's all about confidence, really.


ToxNub, I think you need to stop giving a fuck. All this emotional overanalysing and and obsessing over a single girl won't do you any good. Go out and conquer son <3
"Damn I played some fine Zerg right there". -Fruitdealer
Nausea
Profile Joined October 2010
Sweden807 Posts
July 29 2011 13:48 GMT
#454
People just build up too much fear. Yes it's a woman, yes she's a human. Talk to her. Problem solved.
And by talking I actually mean having a conversation, not reading lines from a script in your head.
Set it ablaze!
AZN)Boy
Profile Joined September 2004
United States57 Posts
July 29 2011 14:03 GMT
#455
There is no secret formula; just like everything else in life it takes time and experience. Someone can show you the door but you have to walk through it.

By being yourself you promote confidence in your approach towards women. The best advice I can give anyone is don't try to be someone who you're not.
~~[For every minutes you spend angry, you lose 60 seconds of happiness]
Tachyon
Profile Joined July 2010
Denmark146 Posts
July 29 2011 15:22 GMT
#456
I can recommend reading "The Evolution of Desire" and "The Dangerous Passion" by David Buss, "Mystery Method" by Erik von Markovik and finally "The Game" by Neil Strauss.

Those four will teach you the very basics of human emotions, and how to use that knowledge to your advantage. The good thing is, everyone that makes you good at picking up women makes you better at life in general, both socially, physically, and mentally. Good luck AFC's
I shall be telling this with a sigh somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.
Colbert
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Canada148 Posts
July 29 2011 22:57 GMT
#457
The Way of the Superior Man by David Deita is also a must read. The Alchemist is awesome for helping find your path (which in turn helps your inner game tremendously).
Sometimes you win, Sometimes you learn
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-30 21:49:45
July 30 2011 11:53 GMT
#458
Read em all!.

Btw, Oh shit, this lay report is gonna be fucking epic. 1 hour of plowing in the fucking car. blue balls. Finally got her horny enough to agree to go to a hotel. F***ing 20 year old knows how to tease god damn mother F***er. Funny ass dialogue in the hotel. I ended up trolling the Starbucks and McDonalds drive thru. I get pulled over by cop but used my PUA skills to get out of speeding and swerving. LOL epic fucking night. Dont worry, every word in the interaction will be posted. I am on my laptop, will edit audio when I get home in Cali.
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
sunprince
Profile Joined January 2011
United States2258 Posts
July 30 2011 12:41 GMT
#459
On July 30 2011 20:53 squattincassanova wrote:
I get pulled over by cop but used my PUA skills to get out of speeding and swerving. LOL epic fucking night.


Strangely, this is the part of the lay report I want to read the most. Possibly because I might want an apparently field-tested idea the next time I get pulled over.
Colbert
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Canada148 Posts
July 31 2011 01:14 GMT
#460
On July 30 2011 20:53 squattincassanova wrote:
I get pulled over by cop but used my PUA skills to get out of speeding and swerving.


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