EPTOn February 29 2012 08:10 not jack wrote:
Not saying that; while I've definitely given guys who are out of shape but pull hot girls shit irl, that's just more reason to believe you.
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On February 29 2012 07:59 beg wrote:
yea man, improving in all areas. i'd agree. but you shouldnt feel like being fat means your life will be lonely and shitty.
On February 29 2012 07:51 not jack wrote:
I don't know how old you are (I'm 20), but settling is something you should only do if you fall in love and then again when you retire. I'm biased because I'm in an environment where everyone tries to be the alpha male, so the competition is more clear to me, but that's what life is like after college as well.
Going back to what I've always said, you should be striving to improve in all of these areas, and probably not focusing on a weird pick-up science that is almost never necessary.
On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:
ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight?
i guess you're right
... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape?
On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences.
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences.
ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight?
On February 29 2012 07:28 not jack wrote:
There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces.
On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:
why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls?
let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D
On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out.
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out.
why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls?
let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D
There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces.
i guess you're right
... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape?I don't know how old you are (I'm 20), but settling is something you should only do if you fall in love and then again when you retire. I'm biased because I'm in an environment where everyone tries to be the alpha male, so the competition is more clear to me, but that's what life is like after college as well.
Going back to what I've always said, you should be striving to improve in all of these areas, and probably not focusing on a weird pick-up science that is almost never necessary.
yea man, improving in all areas. i'd agree. but you shouldnt feel like being fat means your life will be lonely and shitty.
Not saying that; while I've definitely given guys who are out of shape but pull hot girls shit irl, that's just more reason to believe you.
np, i still give them shit despite me being fat myself, haha D::::
