The PUA community - Page 109

On February 29 2012 04:29 squattincassanova wrote:
And what I am saying is you need to work on whats holding you back the most.

Being slightly over weight doesn't make much of a difference on your results.

If you are homeless, you should work on getting a job first
If you are a fat ass, you should work on cardio first
If you are social but can't flirt, you should work on flirting first
If you have mad acne but are normal all around, you should buy some damn accutane.

Its a pretty simple concept. You work on big things that instantly turn off girls. And if you are all around weak, then work everything somewhat equally.

On February 29 2012 06:22 beg wrote:

never heard the story about the homeless dude who survives by being good with women? haha. i read it on the rsd forums.



if you are fat and want to socialize, you should work on socializing, not on your shape, imho. cause you dont want to get in shape, but to socialize. why waste your time then?



i'm rly fat, but still doing fine with girls, as long as i'm not in my insecure nerd mode. and by "doing fine" i mean doing really really good.




ps: sounds like you should work on your limiting beliefs ... i'm being semi-serious here. i have no idea whats holding you back, but if you believe that being fat means being bad with girls, seems like there's a lot of shit going on in your head.

On February 29 2012 06:37 squattincassanova wrote:


Hahaha. There is a difference between been a lazy ass and having a limiting beliefs. Hey man... if you're overweight, lazy, poor, boring... don't work on yourself. Just meditate inner game bro.

lmao.

On February 29 2012 04:29 squattincassanova wrote:
And what I am saying is you need to work on whats holding you back the most.

Being slightly over weight doesn't make much of a difference on your results.

If you are homeless, you should work on getting a job first
If you are a fat ass, you should work on cardio first
If you are social but can't flirt, you should work on flirting first
If you have mad acne but are normal all around, you should buy some damn accutane.

Its a pretty simple concept. You work on big things that instantly turn off girls. And if you are all around weak, then work everything somewhat equally.

On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.

You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.

Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out.

On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:

why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls?




let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D

On February 29 2012 07:26 squattincassanova wrote:



I would do everything within reason. If you had a uni brow. Id shave that shit. If you had acne, I would cure that shit. If you have fucked up teeth, I would get braces. If you have flaky hair, I would get anti dandruff. If you have yellow teeth, beach that shit.

On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:

why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls?




let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D

On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.

Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences.

On February 29 2012 07:28 not jack wrote:


There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces.

On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.

Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences.

On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:

ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight?

On February 29 2012 07:39 squattincassanova wrote:



Clearly you don't get any chicks because you spend all your time making fake accounts and trolling. Sucks brah. I feel you man.

On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:

ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight?





i guess you're right ... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape?

On February 29 2012 07:42 Atyp1cal wrote:


Easy. Become a better version of yourself and stop worrying about getting laid all the time. Whatever you aspire to do...try harder. Challenge yourself in life and put real effort and work in to being succesful (whatever success means to you).

Don't be worried about what other people think. Be yourself and be unapologetic about it.

On February 29 2012 07:43 beg wrote:

but see... advice like "be yourself" are extremely misleading. now please elaborate on that advice... oh look, you just wrote a whole book about it.

On February 29 2012 07:48 Atyp1cal wrote:


If thats a book than Tolstoy wasted an awful lot of time, paper and ink. Ok. I will grant you "Be yourself" is a tad cliche.

On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:

ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight?





i guess you're right ... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape?

On February 29 2012 07:51 not jack wrote:


I don't know how old you are (I'm 20), but settling is something you should only do if you fall in love and then again when you retire. I'm biased because I'm in an environment where everyone tries to be the alpha male, so the competition is more clear to me, but that's what life is like after college as well.

Going back to what I've always said, you should be striving to improve in all of these areas, and probably not focusing on a weird pick-up science that is almost never necessary.

On February 29 2012 07:59 beg wrote:

yea man, improving in all areas. i'd agree. but you shouldnt feel like being fat means your life will be lonely and shitty.