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On February 29 2012 04:29 squattincassanova wrote:
And what I am saying is you need to work on whats holding you back the most.
Being slightly over weight doesn't make much of a difference on your results.
If you are homeless, you should work on getting a job first
If you are a fat ass, you should work on cardio first
If you are social but can't flirt, you should work on flirting first
If you have mad acne but are normal all around, you should buy some damn accutane.
Its a pretty simple concept. You work on big things that instantly turn off girls. And if you are all around weak, then work everything somewhat equally.
never heard the story about the homeless dude who survives by being good with women? haha. i read it on the rsd forums.
if you are fat and want to socialize, you should work on socializing, not on your shape, imho. cause you dont want to get in shape, but to socialize. why waste your time then?
i'm rly fat, but still doing fine with girls, as long as i'm not in my insecure nerd mode. and by "doing fine" i mean doing really really good.
ps: sounds like you should work on your limiting beliefs  ... i'm being semi-serious here. i have no idea whats holding you back, but if you believe that being fat means being bad with girls, seems like there's a lot of shit going on in your head.
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On February 29 2012 06:22 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 04:29 squattincassanova wrote:
And what I am saying is you need to work on whats holding you back the most.
Being slightly over weight doesn't make much of a difference on your results.
If you are homeless, you should work on getting a job first
If you are a fat ass, you should work on cardio first
If you are social but can't flirt, you should work on flirting first
If you have mad acne but are normal all around, you should buy some damn accutane.
Its a pretty simple concept. You work on big things that instantly turn off girls. And if you are all around weak, then work everything somewhat equally.
never heard the story about the homeless dude who survives by being good with women? haha. i read it on the rsd forums. if you are fat and want to socialize, you should work on socializing, not on your shape, imho. cause you dont want to get in shape, but to socialize. why waste your time then? i'm rly fat, but still doing fine with girls, as long as i'm not in my insecure nerd mode. and by "doing fine" i mean doing really really good. ps: sounds like you should work on your limiting beliefs ... i'm being semi-serious here. i have no idea whats holding you back, but if you believe that being fat means being bad with girls, seems like there's a lot of shit going on in your head.
Hahaha. There is a difference between been a lazy ass and having a limiting beliefs. Hey man... if you're overweight, lazy, poor, boring... don't work on yourself. Just meditate inner game bro.
lmao.
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On February 29 2012 06:37 squattincassanova wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 06:22 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 04:29 squattincassanova wrote:
And what I am saying is you need to work on whats holding you back the most.
Being slightly over weight doesn't make much of a difference on your results.
If you are homeless, you should work on getting a job first
If you are a fat ass, you should work on cardio first
If you are social but can't flirt, you should work on flirting first
If you have mad acne but are normal all around, you should buy some damn accutane.
Its a pretty simple concept. You work on big things that instantly turn off girls. And if you are all around weak, then work everything somewhat equally.
never heard the story about the homeless dude who survives by being good with women? haha. i read it on the rsd forums. if you are fat and want to socialize, you should work on socializing, not on your shape, imho. cause you dont want to get in shape, but to socialize. why waste your time then? i'm rly fat, but still doing fine with girls, as long as i'm not in my insecure nerd mode. and by "doing fine" i mean doing really really good. ps: sounds like you should work on your limiting beliefs ... i'm being semi-serious here. i have no idea whats holding you back, but if you believe that being fat means being bad with girls, seems like there's a lot of shit going on in your head. Hahaha. There is a difference between been a lazy ass and having a limiting beliefs. Hey man... if you're overweight, lazy, poor, boring... don't work on yourself. Just meditate inner game bro. lmao.
you made it sound like that a fat guy should put priority on getting in shape first. i disagree with this. i'm not talkin about meditating on inner game
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Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out.
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On February 29 2012 04:29 squattincassanova wrote:
And what I am saying is you need to work on whats holding you back the most.
Being slightly over weight doesn't make much of a difference on your results.
If you are homeless, you should work on getting a job first
If you are a fat ass, you should work on cardio first
If you are social but can't flirt, you should work on flirting first
If you have mad acne but are normal all around, you should buy some damn accutane.
Its a pretty simple concept. You work on big things that instantly turn off girls. And if you are all around weak, then work everything somewhat equally.
Still missing the point. I know what you're saying, it's really obvious. I'm saying when you have two similiar problems, like a little overweight and a little bad with girls, getting in shape will help with both problems while getting better with girls won't. The problem with this stuff is that it makes a lot of the demographic here think that their problem is not knowing pick up lines and conversation tricks, while it's actually their self-image and insecurities. I guarantee more than half the posts on this thread were motivated by insecurity.
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On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out.
why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls?
let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D
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On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D
I would do everything within reason. If you had a uni brow. Id shave that shit. If you had acne, I would cure that shit. If you have fucked up teeth, I would get braces. If you have flaky hair, I would get anti dandruff. If you have yellow teeth, beach that shit.
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On February 29 2012 07:26 squattincassanova wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D I would do everything within reason. If you had a uni brow. Id shave that shit. If you had acne, I would cure that shit. If you have fucked up teeth, I would get braces. If you have flaky hair, I would get anti dandruff. If you have yellow teeth, beach that shit.
hehe, we'll never agree on this
unibrows can be sexy as hell, when you're a cool guy! i know so goddamn ugly people which are still so awesome persons.... soooo awesome that they have absolutely no problem with women.
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On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D
There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces.
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LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences.
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On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences.
ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight?
On February 29 2012 07:28 not jack wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces.
i guess you're right ... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape?
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On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences.
Clearly you don't get any chicks because you spend all your time making fake accounts and trolling. Sucks brah. I feel you man.
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On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight?
Easy. Become a better version of yourself and stop worrying about getting laid all the time. Whatever you aspire to do...try harder. Challenge yourself in life and put real effort and work in to being succesful (whatever success means to you).
Don't be worried about what other people think. Be yourself and be unapologetic about it.
On February 29 2012 07:39 squattincassanova wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. Clearly you don't get any chicks because you spend all your time making fake accounts and trolling. Sucks brah. I feel you man.
Just getting into SC2. What would lead you to think this is a troll account?
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On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight? Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:28 not jack wrote:On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces. i guess you're right ... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape?
Because you'll be able to live longer to socialize more if you lose weight.
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On February 29 2012 07:42 Atyp1cal wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight? Easy. Become a better version of yourself and stop worrying about getting laid all the time. Whatever you aspire to do...try harder. Challenge yourself in life and put real effort and work in to being succesful (whatever success means to you). Don't be worried about what other people think. Be yourself and be unapologetic about it.
but see... advice like "be yourself" are extremely misleading. now please elaborate on that advice... oh look, you just wrote a whole book about it.
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On February 29 2012 07:43 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:42 Atyp1cal wrote:On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight? Easy. Become a better version of yourself and stop worrying about getting laid all the time. Whatever you aspire to do...try harder. Challenge yourself in life and put real effort and work in to being succesful (whatever success means to you). Don't be worried about what other people think. Be yourself and be unapologetic about it. but see... advice like "be yourself" are extremely misleading. now please elaborate on that advice... oh look, you just wrote a whole book about it.
If thats a book than Tolstoy wasted an awful lot of time, paper and ink. Ok. I will grant you "Be yourself" is a tad cliche.
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On February 29 2012 07:48 Atyp1cal wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:43 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:42 Atyp1cal wrote:On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight? Easy. Become a better version of yourself and stop worrying about getting laid all the time. Whatever you aspire to do...try harder. Challenge yourself in life and put real effort and work in to being succesful (whatever success means to you). Don't be worried about what other people think. Be yourself and be unapologetic about it. but see... advice like "be yourself" are extremely misleading. now please elaborate on that advice... oh look, you just wrote a whole book about it. If thats a book than Tolstoy wasted an awful lot of time, paper and ink. Ok. I will grant you "Be yourself" is a tad cliche.
i dont even think it's clichee. it's a freaking awesome advice ... but so many of my friends start nerd discussions about it... not even funny...
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On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight? Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:28 not jack wrote:On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces. i guess you're right ... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape?
I don't know how old you are (I'm 20), but settling is something you should only do if you fall in love and then again when you retire. I'm biased because I'm in an environment where everyone tries to be the alpha male, so the competition is more clear to me, but that's what life is like after college as well.
Going back to what I've always said, you should be striving to improve in all of these areas, and probably not focusing on a weird pick-up science that is almost never necessary.
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On February 29 2012 07:51 not jack wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight? On February 29 2012 07:28 not jack wrote:On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces. i guess you're right ... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape? I don't know how old you are (I'm 20), but settling is something you should only do if you fall in love and then again when you retire. I'm biased because I'm in an environment where everyone tries to be the alpha male, so the competition is more clear to me, but that's what life is like after college as well. Going back to what I've always said, you should be striving to improve in all of these areas, and probably not focusing on a weird pick-up science that is almost never necessary.
yea man, improving in all areas. i'd agree. but you shouldnt feel like being fat means your life will be lonely and shitty.
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On February 29 2012 07:59 beg wrote:Show nested quote +On February 29 2012 07:51 not jack wrote:On February 29 2012 07:38 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:34 Atyp1cal wrote:
LOL. Sorry, new to these forums. If you have to read a book or be part of a PUA community to learn how to pick up chicks I pity you. Getting a chick to sleep with you is not hard at all, especially if you have no scruples.
Its been said a million times over but all you need is CONFIDENCE! Real confidence is extremely hard to fake and women are programmed to sniff out a fake. You don't need a community or books from so called "experts" to tell you what I just told you in two sentences. ok, then tell us how to get REAL CONFIDENCE! ... oh shit, stuff's getting complicated right now, aight? On February 29 2012 07:28 not jack wrote:On February 29 2012 07:19 beg wrote:On February 29 2012 07:08 squattincassanova wrote:
Yeah, if you are fat, you should def lose weight. Do you think being fat is sexy? Even if there were no girls on earth, I would still work out for my current physique. I do it for the vanity and because its awesome.
You should always imitate what a sexy man does. Think about it. Every time you look in the mirror and you see your self not doing what the sexy man is doing. What makes you think you're going to become one? Every time you are wearing shitty clothes, what are you repeatedly telling yourself inside your head? That you aren't acting and being that sexy man.
Now I'm not saying wait 2 years, get chiseled with 6% body fat before going out ever. You can have multiple priorities going on. You could do 10 hours of cardio a week and still have plenty of time to go out. why should a fat guy want to get in shape? ok, health issues, yea, agree. but if he doesnt care about his health and feels like he's good with girls? let's say you have a good body and ugly face... should you work towards getting a surgery? haha. cmon : D There's a lot of reasons besides health, but to be respectful the bottom line is if you're good with girls now, if you were in shape you'd be a casanova (if you're facey). Guys who aren't facey compensate by being in even better shape; if you're in college you'll notice the difference between tone guys who are attractive, and bulky guys with retard faces. i guess you're right ... but if all you want is to socialize, why should your priority be getting in shape? I don't know how old you are (I'm 20), but settling is something you should only do if you fall in love and then again when you retire. I'm biased because I'm in an environment where everyone tries to be the alpha male, so the competition is more clear to me, but that's what life is like after college as well. Going back to what I've always said, you should be striving to improve in all of these areas, and probably not focusing on a weird pick-up science that is almost never necessary. yea man, improving in all areas. i'd agree. but you shouldnt feel like being fat means your life will be lonely and shitty.
Not saying that; while I've definitely given guys who are out of shape but pull hot girls shit irl, that's just more reason to believe you.
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