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squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
March 02 2012 09:43 GMT
#2201
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
danielrosca
Profile Joined December 2011
Romania123 Posts
March 02 2012 12:22 GMT
#2202
On March 02 2012 11:16 Xiphos wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 02 2012 10:46 scaban84 wrote:
On March 02 2012 09:16 squattincassanova wrote:
On March 02 2012 08:02 hnQ wrote:
I apologize for my post, wasn't mean to offend anyone, however I was being honest, do you guys feel that these "tactics" makes you a real "Pick-up Artist" or just a showoff? again, honest question -.-..



These "tactics" don't work for me. I will be foreveralone.jpg

Like when a girl looks at my Thor like body. She sees right through me that its not purely my genetics... but that I secretly took a whole buncha protein and creatine supplements and cheated! by actually going to the gym in order to create muscular hypertrophy.

When she sees my well fitted dress shirt, True Religion jeans, and Aventus cologne, she knows that I tactically cheated by reading GQ magazine! Shes instantly turned off.

When I touch the girl that turns the girl on, she magically knows that I practiced on thousands of girls before her.

Tactics don't work man..... I guess you are just born with it or you're not.

Why do all of your posts sound like a bathroom mirror pep-talk?


He obviously do not certainly feels ashamed of himself.

No, he just thinks he's a funny troll. But i for one am not amused.
Killscreen
Profile Joined February 2012
188 Posts
March 02 2012 13:52 GMT
#2203
I remember when I did this stuff.
I did get better, and I did get laid, but man I did a lot of stuff I regret today. Stuff ranging from extremely embarassing shit, to just plain being an inconsiderate douche bag. These days I'm in a relationship and have been for 3 years.
I go out occasionally, and some times I decide to approach women just for fun. Had i realized now what I do today I would have had a lot more success and a lot less fucked up memories. My main beef with the community is that it frames the whole thing as work. 'Want to get good? WORK HARD at it!' which for me wasn't true. Want to get good? HAVE FUN with it!

I wish I could have told myself this 5 years ago ( not that I would have listened to some loser with 'oneitits' back then )

Be proud, happy, confident and horny. Its all you need. Thats not to say its not a lot for many of us. For me, having spent the time I did on message boards and other dumb PUA exercises would have been better spent getting my life and career in order, realizing that hapiness is the key to getting laid and not vice versa. Today I have a good job doing what I like, a nice apartment that I own, and friends whom I help as much as I can. I'm proud of that. Consequently I would have an easier time getting laid today. What strange women think of me doesnt factor in to how I view myself any more. If some girl is in a bad mood and gives me shit I no longer jump to the conclusion that I did something wrong and its my fault. You might be proud of different things than me, or need more or less than me to be proud, but do whatever you have to do to be proud of yourself regardless of your success with women.

Remember, correlation is not causation. You may think that that one thing you said or did sealed the deal for you but chances are the chick was just attracted to you and in the right mood. You may even have gotten laid IN SPITE of whatever you did.

And for gods sake, keep your ego in check. If you think you have it in check, then you havent. Acknowledge that you cant, and try to recognize when its influencing you instead. The number of chicks you bang isnt a good metric for measuring your life, and getting laid is not a license to thinking your'e better than everyone who doesnt get laid as much. I was guilty of this, and A LOT of the people who posted in this thread are too.
Kh0rne
Profile Joined June 2011
Australia85 Posts
March 05 2012 05:38 GMT
#2204
On March 02 2012 22:52 Killscreen wrote:

Remember, correlation is not causation. You may think that that one thing you said or did sealed the deal for you but chances are the chick was just attracted to you and in the right mood. You may even have gotten laid IN SPITE of whatever you did.



This rings true.

I'm sure PUA helps with getting conditions right and putting out a sexier vibe or whatever. but basically women are in the drivers seat.

if she is not in the mood, doesnt matter how good your game is. she is going to tell you to go fuck yourself.
If she is looking for a one night stand (ONS - using pickup lingo makes me cooler) then you just have to "not fuck up" and away you go.

I think too many people are overthinking things (and sometimes profiteering off the poor guys who are crap with women)
But i really like that the PUA community exists for the people with very minimal natural talent. The geeks and nerds that are awesome people, but lack confidence / knowledge.
niteReloaded
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Croatia5281 Posts
March 05 2012 22:01 GMT
#2205
On March 02 2012 22:52 Killscreen wrote:
I remember when I did this stuff.
I did get better, and I did get laid, but man I did a lot of stuff I regret today. Stuff ranging from extremely embarassing shit, to just plain being an inconsiderate douche bag. These days I'm in a relationship and have been for 3 years.
I go out occasionally, and some times I decide to approach women just for fun. Had i realized now what I do today I would have had a lot more success and a lot less fucked up memories. My main beef with the community is that it frames the whole thing as work. 'Want to get good? WORK HARD at it!' which for me wasn't true. Want to get good? HAVE FUN with it!

I wish I could have told myself this 5 years ago ( not that I would have listened to some loser with 'oneitits' back then )

Be proud, happy, confident and horny. Its all you need. Thats not to say its not a lot for many of us. For me, having spent the time I did on message boards and other dumb PUA exercises would have been better spent getting my life and career in order, realizing that hapiness is the key to getting laid and not vice versa. Today I have a good job doing what I like, a nice apartment that I own, and friends whom I help as much as I can. I'm proud of that. Consequently I would have an easier time getting laid today. What strange women think of me doesnt factor in to how I view myself any more. If some girl is in a bad mood and gives me shit I no longer jump to the conclusion that I did something wrong and its my fault. You might be proud of different things than me, or need more or less than me to be proud, but do whatever you have to do to be proud of yourself regardless of your success with women.

Remember, correlation is not causation. You may think that that one thing you said or did sealed the deal for you but chances are the chick was just attracted to you and in the right mood. You may even have gotten laid IN SPITE of whatever you did.

And for gods sake, keep your ego in check. If you think you have it in check, then you havent. Acknowledge that you cant, and try to recognize when its influencing you instead. The number of chicks you bang isnt a good metric for measuring your life, and getting laid is not a license to thinking your'e better than everyone who doesnt get laid as much. I was guilty of this, and A LOT of the people who posted in this thread are too.

I like this post
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
March 06 2012 09:47 GMT
#2206
Weekend in Vegas. Finally some actual in field footages!!!

Actually got some video in field footage! Sorry, I had to open a fatty hired gun. Ran out of battery and only a short time for day game. OH WELL

Mostly just screwing around. My wings weren't too happy filming me either....

http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
McNulty
Profile Joined September 2010
Norway184 Posts
March 06 2012 10:22 GMT
#2207
Damn, you're really inconsiderate to women...

What do you think's going to happen to the two poor skanks in the back when you crash at 80 mp/h ? SEAT BELTS?!
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-03-06 10:37:37
March 06 2012 10:37 GMT
#2208
On March 06 2012 19:22 McNulty wrote:
Damn, you're really inconsiderate to women...

What do you think's going to happen to the two poor skanks in the back when you crash at 80 mp/h ? SEAT BELTS?!


LOL. Funny thing is both of them are police officers from Atlanta. They got in anyways!
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NDDseer
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
Australia204 Posts
March 08 2012 05:54 GMT
#2209
slick.

Too many unneccesary "likes" in your conversation during day game, and the audio from the club ones is atrocious, but I'm impressed.
[On balance, and qq about cheese] "Sure some strategies might be easier to execute, but you can do them too - you have the same tools as your opponent, including your race selection." - Pokebunny
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
March 08 2012 10:49 GMT
#2210
On March 08 2012 14:54 NDDseer wrote:
slick.

Too many unneccesary "likes" in your conversation during day game, and the audio from the club ones is atrocious, but I'm impressed.



For sure. I know I say "like" too much when I am stalling. Its something I am working on haha. The day game was literally the 2nd set in Vegas. Not warmed up at all...
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niteReloaded
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Croatia5281 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-03-08 21:42:37
March 08 2012 21:40 GMT
#2211
On March 06 2012 18:47 squattincassanova wrote:
Weekend in Vegas. Finally some actual in field footages!!!

Actually got some video in field footage! Sorry, I had to open a fatty hired gun. Ran out of battery and only a short time for day game. OH WELL

Mostly just screwing around. My wings weren't too happy filming me either....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HK-8OiQRMPU

Ok, I'm curious about something in this video.

Your footwork! lol .. You are doing a lot of backward steping and end up in a position where you're on the girl's side, rather than facing her more frontally (even tho in the beginning SHE makes a step to face you more frontally, and then you make a step like you're making sure she can't escape or something). I would say you're not doing it deliberately, but with PUAs you never know, are you?

That kind of backpeddleing looks weak imo, is there a chance you're doing it to be less threatening or something?
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
March 09 2012 00:28 GMT
#2212
On March 09 2012 06:40 niteReloaded wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 06 2012 18:47 squattincassanova wrote:
Weekend in Vegas. Finally some actual in field footages!!!

Actually got some video in field footage! Sorry, I had to open a fatty hired gun. Ran out of battery and only a short time for day game. OH WELL

Mostly just screwing around. My wings weren't too happy filming me either....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HK-8OiQRMPU

Ok, I'm curious about something in this video.

Your footwork! lol .. You are doing a lot of backward steping and end up in a position where you're on the girl's side, rather than facing her more frontally (even tho in the beginning SHE makes a step to face you more frontally, and then you make a step like you're making sure she can't escape or something). I would say you're not doing it deliberately, but with PUAs you never know, are you?

That kind of backpeddleing looks weak imo, is there a chance you're doing it to be less threatening or something?


I was looking at my footwork too. I in general chase with my body language a lot…. which is usually bad in most scenario. If she takes a step back, do not continue to take a step forward. Its best to mirror her. If she shows disinterest, mirror that disinterest even more. If she faces you more directly because she likes you, then you face her more as well.

I think in the video, she took a step back and I took a step closer. Then I think I realized it and took a step back to mirror her lol.

But yeah, the more direct you are facing her, the more tension it gets. So obviously during day game, you don't want to approach and then boom face her directly 6 inches from her nose. Its too intense.
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
March 09 2012 01:14 GMT
#2213
You can also tell by the direction of her foot, where she wants to go. Shes late with a client and you can tell from her body language shes rushing back to work. I got her to face me a bit at the end but yeah, most of the time girls out and about usually have a target destination.
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
Yenticha
Profile Joined July 2010
257 Posts
March 09 2012 08:22 GMT
#2214
omg, is xkcd reading this forum?

http://xkcd.com/1027/
Meself
Profile Joined February 2011
Estonia552 Posts
March 09 2012 10:18 GMT
#2215
On March 09 2012 17:22 Yenticha wrote:
omg, is xkcd reading this forum?

http://xkcd.com/1027/

Argh you got me. Came here to post it.
danielrosca
Profile Joined December 2011
Romania123 Posts
March 09 2012 10:22 GMT
#2216
On March 09 2012 17:22 Yenticha wrote:
omg, is xkcd reading this forum?

http://xkcd.com/1027/

so good
Spiffeh
Profile Joined May 2010
United States830 Posts
March 09 2012 10:36 GMT
#2217
pretty good. even better if it actually happened irl
uLysSeS1
Profile Joined March 2010
Germany210 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-03-09 16:11:48
March 09 2012 16:08 GMT
#2218
oops, xkcd link has already been posted, great stuff :D
derp.
Wohmfg
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United Kingdom1292 Posts
March 09 2012 17:35 GMT
#2219
I always saw negs as a way to show that you aren't afraid of teasing, and are therefore a valuable man.
BW4Life!
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
March 09 2012 18:01 GMT
#2220
Negs are outdated. Stop talking about them. Back when Mystery was around, they didn't even have direct openers. Cuz back in 2006, telling a girl you like her right off the bat was out of their realm.
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
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