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NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
On July 29 2009 09:55 Chef wrote:Start talking about StarCraft and then drift off dreamily when you get to the part of about Lim Yo Hwan. + Show Spoiler +Seriously, just try to think of interesting stories/anecdotes. If she isn't repulsed by you, she'll probably share her own and BAM that's a conversation.
This is my problem when talking to guys. (Don't call us 'chicks' it sounds so lame.)
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On July 29 2009 09:52 HomieZ wrote:
How to you keep talking with chicks, I find it rather difficult. Not because I am shy, I just don't find anything useful to talk about. What happens usually is that I start off making some comments, then she answers back then conversation ends. Then I asked another question or make another comment about something, she talks about about it and conversation ends. So I just can't keep initiating conversation from nothing, and it quickly becomes silent and awkward.
My friends tell me just talk about anything, quite frankly there isn't anything to talk about, it will just sound like it is a boring conversation. Especially in a dating situation, this is not good.
Start by treating girls as if they are human...
Seriously they respond to the same basic conversations you have with any other guy. Guys like you and in general tend to think of women as something totally different from guys when frankly...they really aren't.
Slightly more emotional sure but for crying out loud just TALK, what's the worst that could happen.
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Watch Drake & Josh.
Do what Drake does, or you can follow what Josh did "compliment, then leave" (Ask them out on a movie or something)
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Takes two to have a conversation. If she isnt putting as much effort in as you are not worth the time IMO
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On July 29 2009 11:01 Jayme wrote:
Start by treating girls as if they are human...
just talk to the girls as if they are just another person..they wont bite...>_>
given that you dont creep them out or something
like this one guy at a party that just went to girls and asked them "whats your story"
sure creeped everyone out
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
I think he's looking more for topics of interest that people talk about, not ways to pick up girls and witty one liners.
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Katowice25012 Posts
On July 29 2009 09:55 Chef wrote:
Start talking about StarCraft and then drift off dreamily when you get to the part of about Lim Yo Hwan.
I actually did this over the weekend when showing a girl my SKT shirt signed by Bisu LOL
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Depends on where you meet them, for instance, it all depends on whether you're at work, on a bus, at a party, at a bar, etc...
The reason being is, just because they talk with you does not mean they're ready to get it on, could be a friendly conversation of, "Weather's looking such and such today," on the bus, where as..
She walks up to you at a party, smiles briefly at you while making eye contact, then glances away, then back towards you. She's interested. You can talk about cow manure and she'll be like, "Slurp slurp slurp, oh that's interesting, slurp slurp slurp"
Depends what you're looking for. If you're looking just to start a conversation because you're bored, and the situation allows, then talk about whatever you want. "So what's your name? Oh Alicia, nice to meet you, yeah I'm MadBomber69 lol wut" I kid, but really, if your goal is to... get to know her better and see where it leads, it all depends on the situation.
What I'm really saying is provide some specifics - do you know her is she from school party etc... are you hoping to get laid or just make a friend etc...
Then people can help you out better then just "lol check out my tat you know you want a piece!" because that's lame
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I have this problem too =(
I think im a listener at heart
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I'm not good at this, I never have been, and I never will be (which is why I will die a sad and lonely death), however I think you should work on making her laugh. I've never seen this fail. Girls don't have to make guys want to have sex with them so they never need to develop any type of humor to make guys laugh. That's why this is tough - it's on you and not her.
Good luck getting one of them pregnant. 
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On July 29 2009 09:55 Chef wrote:Start talking about StarCraft and then drift off dreamily when you get to the part of about Lim Yo Hwan. + Show Spoiler +Seriously, just try to think of interesting stories/anecdotes. If she isn't repulsed by you, she'll probably share her own and BAM that's a conversation.
haha bring pictures and stuff so she knows who you're talking about.
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Think about how easy a conversation would be if you explained that you watched pro-starcraft, and she was really interersted, asking questions about how it works, how they stop cheaters, how much money the players make etc.
Then just reverse that situation. Every girl will have a topic that they would love to tell you about, your job is simply to find what that topic is and then show interest.
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ask them stuff you want to know... eventually she will say something that is related to your own interests and you can make a good conversation. Find out what kind of interests you both share.
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Say something completely crazy weird and insane, and then follow her lead.
You'll atleast come out looking like you have balls.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On July 29 2009 10:19 Manifesto7 wrote:
Ask her for advice on a problem, then sit back and shut up for an hour.
lol
don't listen to this guy
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Find girls you have something in common with that you can talk about.
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On July 29 2009 11:01 Jayme wrote:Show nested quote +On July 29 2009 09:52 HomieZ wrote:
How to you keep talking with chicks, I find it rather difficult. Not because I am shy, I just don't find anything useful to talk about. What happens usually is that I start off making some comments, then she answers back then conversation ends. Then I asked another question or make another comment about something, she talks about about it and conversation ends. So I just can't keep initiating conversation from nothing, and it quickly becomes silent and awkward.
My friends tell me just talk about anything, quite frankly there isn't anything to talk about, it will just sound like it is a boring conversation. Especially in a dating situation, this is not good. Start by treating girls as if they are human... Seriously they respond to the same basic conversations you have with any other guy. Guys like you and in general tend to think of women as something totally different from guys when frankly...they really aren't. Slightly more emotional sure but for crying out loud just TALK, what's the worst that could happen.
I think you have to treat people as individuals, and gender and ethnicity and upbringing and whatever else applies to that. Treating everyone the same makes you a very boring, non-charming person. Maybe I'm psychotic, but everyone I talk to gets a different side of me.
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Become a narcissist and just talk about yourself and what you want to do with your life.
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try language patterning on them man.
get the feelings that you want them to feel and then direct the feeling to you. Girls when we talk to them, they get feelings out of it. If you tell a sexy story, then they going to feel horny.
Lets say you want her to fall in love with you.
So when was the last time you fell in love? Tell me how you felt?
blah blah blah
Oh i get that same feeling when Im near someone I know that is perfect for me. And when that person touch you, you feel so good you just want to ask them to hold you forever? right?
(touch her)
some example.
+ Show Spoiler +
"If you met the guy of your dreams today, would you let him know first
or would you first tell all your girlfriends about this guy you met and
how you think he is THE ONE?"
"I'd know right away but I don't think I could tell him right away."
"But would you tell your girlfriends?"
"I guess."
"Just as I thought. That's interesting because it's a known fact that
guys brag to their friends about the new girl they picked up when they
were rejected yet they never say a word when they really meet a girl
and fall in love. Women on the other hand are the exact opposite. They
get so emotional when they meet their soul mate that they have to share
the news with their girlfriends. The sad thing is that most people fail
to recognize when they meet their soul mates or if they do they don't
have the courage to find out for sure for fear of disappointment.
That's why there are only a few people out there who ever get to
experience true love, because they are not afraid to experienced it. Do
you feel this…(squeeze her hand or at least make some kind of
contact)…is the way it really is?…with me, now…I think most people know
it but still deny it hoping that one day something will just happen out
of the blue, but it will never happen until they just allow it to
happen."
This is Ross Jefferies's pattern.
You need to talk really slow, make her experience the feeling a time she meet someone and too scared to tell them. And then make all that stuff toward you.
Its kinda stupid how guys think they can try and seduce girls with some by trying to connect with them and stuff. Its all about feelings. If you make her feel when she is with her first love, she gonna be with you. And how do you make her feel that way??? by patterning.
When you do patterning, your voice need to be seductive and talk slow. Dont worry girls will listen and they will not think you are weird or something. You can tell that they want to hear more by the way they responding if you are doing its right. Also dont be nervous when you doing your patterning, just be normal.
The most important thing when talking to a girl is your state of mind. The thing that get you nervous is 2 forces in your brain fighting each other.
The first is oh man she is the best, i have to have her. I HAVE TO HAVE HER.
the second is. what happened if she rejects me??? how can i move on?
you have to understand them and let it go.
When i first started doing pick up artist stuff. I didnt know anything about picking up girls. My friend and I were at a festival, and we just walked around for like 4 hours just go up to girls and try to start a conversation and end up getting their phone number.
After a while I realised how easy it is to talk to a girl and get their phone number. But that is not everything. Even if you get a girl's phone number, you still cant get the girl. The thing is that girl feels good about giving out their phone number. It build up their social status. Asking phone number is like asking them what time it is. Even a cave man can do it.
alright ask me if you need more help
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