How to you keep talking with chicks, I find it rather difficult. Not because I am shy, I just don't find anything useful to talk about. What happens usually is that I start off making some comments, then she answers back then conversation ends. Then I asked another question or make another comment about something, she talks about about it and conversation ends. So I just can't keep initiating conversation from nothing, and it quickly becomes silent and awkward.

My friends tell me just talk about anything, quite frankly there isn't anything to talk about, it will just sound like it is a boring conversation. Especially in a dating situation, this is not good.

YPang

United States4024 Posts

July 29 2009 00:54 GMT

talk about your tat

Chef

10810 Posts

July 29 2009 00:55 GMT

Start talking about StarCraft and then drift off dreamily when you get to the part of about Lim Yo Hwan.

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Seriously, just try to think of interesting stories/anecdotes. If she isn't repulsed by you, she'll probably share her own and BAM that's a conversation.

HomieZ

45 Posts

July 29 2009 00:55 GMT

On July 29 2009 09:54 YPang wrote:
talk about your tat

decided to not to get it, focus on this topic please.

deathgod6

United States5064 Posts

July 29 2009 00:56 GMT

On July 29 2009 09:55 Chef wrote:
Start talking about StarCraft and then drift off dreamily when you get to the part of about Lim Yo Hwan.

LOL Chef. :3

mrgerry

United States1508 Posts

July 29 2009 00:56 GMT

Skip the whole talking thing and just ask them for sex.

stroggos

New Zealand1543 Posts

July 29 2009 00:57 GMT

talk about life experiences you've had, be really nice, then hit her in the head with a shovel.

popnfreshspk

United States93 Posts

July 29 2009 00:57 GMT

Talk about their fat. Seriously it works.

koOl

Canada254 Posts

July 29 2009 00:57 GMT

read perez hilton every day so your up to date with the latest jonas brothers and miley cyrus news =]

stroggos

New Zealand1543 Posts

July 29 2009 00:58 GMT

#10

On July 29 2009 09:57 koOl wrote:
read perez hilton every day so your up to date with the latest jonas brothers and miley cyrus news =]

now now, he didn't ask for a sex change.

StorrZerg

United States13919 Posts

July 29 2009 01:01 GMT

#11

talk about life / drama. family problems anything that can relate to whats wrong with them or something thats going well. anything you can connect on.

Sigh

Canada2433 Posts

July 29 2009 01:08 GMT

#12

Make something up about something appalling that happened to you that day.

dasanivan

United States532 Posts

July 29 2009 01:16 GMT

#13

girls often like to talk about personal things. they also tend to be listeners at first, so you should say interesting things about yourself. it is especially interesting to them if you talk about yourself + girls.

Manifesto7

Osaka27149 Posts

July 29 2009 01:19 GMT

#14

Ask her for advice on a problem, then sit back and shut up for an hour.

imDerek

United States1944 Posts

July 29 2009 01:19 GMT

#15

Keep asking open ended questions

Loser777

1931 Posts

July 29 2009 01:22 GMT

#16

I have problems with this too... I don't like talking about things for the sake of talking.

McCrank

204 Posts

July 29 2009 01:24 GMT

#17

I think I have this problem as well. Unless I know for certain we have the same interests then it's easy. If not it's like fuck nothing to talk about kthxbai I'm gonna go fap or play video games.

Pioneer

994 Posts

July 29 2009 01:34 GMT

#18

On July 29 2009 09:58 stroggos wrote:

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now now, he didn't ask for a sex change.

did u hear that taylor swift broke up /w joe jonas??

koOl

Canada254 Posts

July 29 2009 01:37 GMT

#19