This is bullsh*t

At the uni exams (we had to take 3 exams) I met her again, we talked a bit and that's when I started to have feelings for her. (And it seemed like she also likes me).

On July 13 2009 22:59 Ichigo1234551 wrote:
Sometime you are not gonna be with the girl of your dream. You just have to move on. Its your brain releasing chemical that is making you feel this way. After a few months you will probably be fine.

On July 13 2009 23:34 Gene wrote:
lol yeah but you're talking about chatting a girl up at a party.

he's talking about agirl thats moving far away.
your circumstances are not only drastically different, but pretty much just not comparable.

On July 14 2009 00:29 Gene wrote:
and the best that could happen is he could go out have fun and then she's still going to leave
gotta let some things go. he's not old enough and doesnt know this girl to even think about a long distance relationship. gotta let some things go.

On July 14 2009 00:41 The_Conclave wrote:


No, the best thing that could happen would be some kind of scenario like this... Linky

But that is so so so verrrrryyyy unlikely when he barely knows this girl. Not dismissing his chances though. He should say what he feels because usually people aren't that honest when they could be. Plus even lets say if it did ever eventuate and she left like you said, he has valuable experience.

On July 13 2009 23:17 The_Conclave wrote:


Sorry to be an asshole but I must call this shit advice (please do not take offence) for love (or trying to find love) is absolute. Do what you must. Caring is creepy. Just give yourself every chance or you will probably regret it. I met my current girlfriend 1 year before we dated on a chance meeting. She was with friends at the time and I was with my ex-gf and we were both at a bar meeting a mutual friend. Despite being with my former girlfriend and being quite happy with her I found myself strangely attracted physically to my current gf. It turned out 2 years from that initial meeting I had a devastating fallout with my ex-gf and ended up summoning courage to talk to my current gf at a 21st birthday party two years on and 4 months after that messy breakup. I would not normally do this. I was a very broken man.

It is the best thing to have ever happened to me. I absolutely love her and I shudder to think what could have happened if I had never met her or remained in the previous relationship. The point is, life will surprise you and sometimes you will do things to achieve what you dream of without usual hesitation. You may overcome the moment.

Besides, if it doesn't work out it isn't the end of the world. Once again, I repeat life will surprise you. Just do what you must without regrets. Good Luck.

On July 14 2009 01:19 Ichigo1234551 wrote:


i dont think you understand my advice. Im just telling him to whatever he wants but in the end dont be depressed over it if it doesnt work out. You are really an asshole.

On July 13 2009 20:47 Garnet wrote:
There is this girl who was my classmate at highschool, and she applied for the same university as me.

During 3 years of highschool I never noticed her. At all. She was the total opposite of an attention nerd. But when I got the chance to talk to her, I found out that she was an wonderful person, really humble and charming. At the uni exams (we had to take 3 exams) I met her again, we talked a bit and that's when I started to have feelings for her. (And it seemed like she also likes me).

But shit happened. Today a friend told me that SHE had actually qualified for the RMIT uni, which as you may know is a fucking expensive uni, each course is like 1500$ for 150$/lesson. And the chance of her studying aboard is high. My dream of being in the same university with her is completely destroyed.
She didn't tell me about it at all. And I think she was right, because my family is really poor and if I knew that I would feel devastated and probably wouldn't be able to concentrate on the exams.

Now I feel like shit. Few minutes ago I was crying in bitterness. I think if I had applied for RMIT I could have passed because I was kind of better than her in highschool, but the fees are just too much.

Well I actually still have a chance, if I text her now and ask stuffs about the exams so I can know what she think, but I don't know if it will do anything or will it just bring more despair, because as you may have guessed, I'm kind of a nerd who have trouble communicating with girls.

She is probably the best girl I've met in my life. So close yet so far away.

edit: It's not confirmed that she will move aboard. All I know is she has qualified for the university, so she may have to study here for some times before anything.
But there's a tendency for rich families in my country to send their chidren away, since education here really sucks, and is not accepted anywhere else in the world.

On July 13 2009 22:59 Ichigo1234551 wrote:
Its your brain releasing chemical that is making you feel this way. After a few months you will probably be fine.

On July 14 2009 03:34 MutaDoom wrote:
Thank you for posting that link. Seriously. I don't know how I missed that one trolling, but I needed that. I just got dumped, on Saturday, by the girl I was planning to propose to, and I've pretty well hit rock bottom; alcohol is the only thing keeping me going right now. This gives me a little hope.