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Well, it started yesterday, my parents left me at home, with no food or money. So obviously I got hungry, and made my stat in messenger "I'm so hungry..." But a week ago, this girl who I like, had the same stat as I had yesterday, since I was bored, I decided to call her a "pig", yah... That's right, I called a girl I like a "pig". Then yesterday, when I had the same stat as she had last week, she called me a "pig", ok so, thats revenge, I understand that, so I just laughed at what she said, then she added mocked me with whatever just came up her mind. So of course, I had some ways to mock her too.
So after like 30mins of mocking each other, laughing and all that, she suddenly called me "gay"! Fuck! So I got angry, then called her "stupid", so we eventually got into another mock fest, but this time, we were completely hurting each others feeling. And now, she's so angry at me.
Sight, I don't know how to apologize. I tried texting her, I even want to visit her at her school sometime just to apologize, but the problem is, when she's angry with someone, it takes like half a year to forgive. And I just don't know what to do. Can anyone help me?
Note: + Show Spoiler +She is not my girlfriend, so I won't post a pic in the girlfriend thread, and second, I still like her even after staying away from her for a year now.
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doubleupgradeobbies!
Australia1187 Posts
On May 16 2009 21:28 ReCharge wrote: she suddenly called me "gay"! Fuck! So I got angry, then called her "stupid
Cos your your not gay and totally secure about your sexuality right?
just curious + Show Spoiler +no gay or anything
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a girl called you gay? FUCK!
grow up. also, get angry at your parents if anyone for leaving you without shit.
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Hong Kong20321 Posts
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Hong Kong20321 Posts
lol how did calling each other pig turn into mocking into really hurting each other's feelings anyway ? how old are you guys? if you're joking why didn't you stay within those limits?
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today i said to myself Im hungry but im to lazy to go shop for food and I have not changed underwear as of yet.
Yesterday i said to my best friend i like sexually (LOL) that she was not cute and.
Edit: Im going to make my own blog entry inteaed dont want to derail tihds
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No im not gay at all, I only act like a gay when she's sad, and needs a laugh, but that happens only when I act like a kid and she still ain't laughing.
EDIT: She's 16, I'm 17, I was still laughing when I called her stupid, but I guess she took it too seriously, and mocked me with whole other stuff that really hurts.
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if you are above 16, this post is an entirely different level of stupid if you are younger, don't take this stuff seriously. you will look back pretty soon and feel silly.
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On May 16 2009 21:36 ReCharge wrote: No im not gay at all, I only act like a gay when she's sad, and needs a laugh, but that happens only when I act like a kid and she still ain't laughing.
you CANNOT be serious
is "acting like a gay" being nice? then get me some make up and call me a faggot because people like me darn it, they really like me!
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I Did say that, I ACT like a gay to make her LAUGH.
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Hong Kong20321 Posts
just try ur best to make up and be friendly again lol explain that you never intended it to be a real insult and clarify that you were still laughing when u said it lol. if shes a super unforgiving person then good luck is all i can say lool
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konadora
Singapore66063 Posts
It must be really sad if you can get your feelings hurt that bad through internet chatting
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'the fuck man, there's a lot of ways to have a good laugh with friends than calling her a pig. Girls are really sensitive to this word for some reason. And I don't really see a reason to actually fight with a girl that isn't your girlfriend.
As you probably found out about now, there is no secret stuff invented by the government that help people get along better. If you really want someone to forgive you, you apologize and act like you're actually sorry.
And what the fuck is texting her all about ? Don't be a fucking vegetable, be a man and go apologize face to face if you really mean it.
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konadora
Singapore66063 Posts
On May 16 2009 21:45 FirstBorn wrote: And what the fuck is texting her all about ? Don't be a fucking vegetable, be a man and go apologize face to face if you really mean it.
Singaporean guys do that a lot rofl
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On May 16 2009 21:45 konadora wrote:It must be really sad if you can get your feelings hurt that bad through internet chatting
it's called being a 16 year old
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Dude wtf, your parent's didn't leave you money to feed yourself? Maybe they saw your previous blog entry and thought that you needed to trim down to get your 6 pack lol.
And yeah, if you know a lot of girls you'll just let time heal this one.
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On May 16 2009 21:46 konadora wrote:Show nested quote +On May 16 2009 21:45 FirstBorn wrote: And what the fuck is texting her all about ? Don't be a fucking vegetable, be a man and go apologize face to face if you really mean it.
Singaporean guys do that a lot rofl
It's more of an universal trend. Kids spend too much time on IM and can't say shit when they're actually talking to the girl. Everyone else doing it doesn't always imply it's the right thing to do.
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On May 16 2009 21:36 ReCharge wrote: No im not gay at all, I only act like a gay when she's sad, and needs a laugh, but that happens only when I act like a kid and she still ain't laughing.
EDIT: She's 16, I'm 17, I was still laughing when I called her stupid, but I guess she took it too seriously, and mocked me with whole other stuff that really hurts. O_o Grow up. How do you act like a gay anyway? Do you start groping other boys? What is "acting gay" to you? And how can you be hurt by someone calling you that? Normally it means you're insecure about your sexuality. Try apologizing, although I really don't think anyone should get hurt by anything like that.
I don't understand how anyone above the age of 11 can do something as childish as starting to insult other people(especially girls) for no reason whatsoever. So grow up, find out about your sexuality, apologize, and stop getting angry for no good reason, it's idiotic. -_-
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:-< Sight, Damn, I guess Im gonna have to court her again, just to say sorry..
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Hong Kong20321 Posts
On May 16 2009 21:45 FirstBorn wrote: 'the fuck man, there's a lot of ways to have a good laugh with friends than calling her a pig. Girls are really sensitive to this word for some reason. And I don't really see a reason to actually fight with a girl that isn't your girlfriend.
As you probably found out about now, there is no secret stuff invented by the government that help people get along better. If you really want someone to forgive you, you apologize and act like you're actually sorry.
And what the fuck is texting her all about ? Don't be a fucking vegetable, be a man and go apologize face to face if you really mean it.
yea at least give her a CALL not just a text lol
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