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So uh, yeah I guess this is a real blog, about my life. It's not very exciting. Hmmm, well where to begin. I'm Asian American, a junior in high school, I'm 15 and my birthday is the 18th so I'm pretty damn excited about that.
I'm a pretty huge marching band geek, and we have a competition tomorrow which I will probably blog about then. If we can get a 1 we will go to states, and while I'm sure we eventually WILL get a 1, tomorrow it is fairly certain that we will get a 2.
The real reason I'm making this is because my friend just got arrested for smoking pot, and trespassing. She did not have anything on her, but she'll appear in court and all that jazz. I don't know what to do, what to say to her at all. I mean, I don't want to lecture her or anything, that's what her parents, and teacher's are for, but I'm still very worried about her, and want to say SOMETHING. I want her to have a future, not fuck it up in high school. So of course, I turn to teamliquid to help: what should I say to her? Anything at all?
Also: I went last two weeks without masturbating >_> For me thats a long time. UGH it was terrible
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what's there to say that hasn't been said
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United States22883 Posts
Uh... where was she trespassing? I don't think anyone here considers smoking pot a very big deal, including those of us that don't smoke.
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Doin' time for silly crimes
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Korea (South)11567 Posts
there's nothing to say, if she's ur friend, just stay being her friend and that doesn't mean telling her what to do or what not to do
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If shes your friend, be there for her, if she asks your opinion, you say it honestly, aside from that, cant do much else
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On September 13 2008 12:54 Jibba wrote: Uh... where was she trespassing? I don't think anyone here considers smoking pot a very big deal, including those of us that don't smoke. I don't really know where she was just that she got arrested and it was a real thing, not just pot.
The only reason i care is that she's in a lot of shit for extra curriculars. Trust me I dont care about smoking pot if you do it where you won't get caught, and not on other people's property (who you don't know and are just on property)
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On September 13 2008 13:30 CaucasianAsian wrote: there's nothing to say, if she's ur friend, just stay being her friend and that doesn't mean telling her what to do or what not to do eh, yeah probably, Just most of the time, its me being silly (not illegal just dumb) not the other way around. Sorry for making a bigger deal than it really was just not used to being on this side of the fence ya know?
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On September 13 2008 12:43 DamageControL wrote: what should I say to her? This:
On September 13 2008 12:43 DamageControL wrote: I went last two weeks without masturbating >_> For me thats a long time. UGH it was terrible
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On September 13 2008 15:57 VIB wrote:This: Show nested quote +On September 13 2008 12:43 DamageControL wrote: I went last two weeks without masturbating >_> For me thats a long time. UGH it was terrible
I second this.
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just act how you would normally act to her, if she needs someone to talk to about it, then listen, just don't suddenly change how you act towards her. I can't imagine she's too stressed out over it. it's not like she killed someone.
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i'm in marching band.
which circuit do you guys compete in?
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On September 13 2008 16:23 lazymej wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2008 15:57 VIB wrote:On September 13 2008 12:43 DamageControL wrote: what should I say to her? This: On September 13 2008 12:43 DamageControL wrote: I went last two weeks without masturbating >_> For me thats a long time. UGH it was terrible I second this. She already knows lol, it was a challenge
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On September 13 2008 21:21 allowicious wrote: i'm in marching band.
which circuit do you guys compete in? OMEA Ohio Music Education Association or something EDIT: High school not DCI
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On September 13 2008 17:29 lovelyrose wrote: just act how you would normally act to her, if she needs someone to talk to about it, then listen, just don't suddenly change how you act towards her. I can't imagine she's too stressed out over it. it's not like she killed someone. She is kinda freaking out about it. o_o she's not like arrested every day, and is in a lot of trouble cause she went to court already for shoplifting, and her parents, guard coach etc. are all quite mad.
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Imagine her naked and masturbate.
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On September 13 2008 23:25 DamageControL wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2008 17:29 lovelyrose wrote: just act how you would normally act to her, if she needs someone to talk to about it, then listen, just don't suddenly change how you act towards her. I can't imagine she's too stressed out over it. it's not like she killed someone. She is kinda freaking out about it. o_o she's not like arrested every day, and is in a lot of trouble cause she went to court already for shoplifting, and her parents, guard coach etc. are all quite mad.
sounds like an old friend of mine...
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