EPTHope you can get over it... (I don't i would've been able to were i in that position)
Anyways congratz on getting accepted into Oxford. Hope it makes you feel better
Broke up with GF *cry* - Page 2
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o3.power91
Bahrain5288 Posts
Hope you can get over it... (I don't i would've been able to were i in that position) Anyways congratz on getting accepted into Oxford. Hope it makes you feel better | ||
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
On August 04 2008 23:57 Hawk wrote: Sucks man, sorry. If it's any consolation, it could be worse. You could have come home to your girlfriend blowing your German Sheppard. Fuck man I was just thinking that! | ||
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KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
On August 04 2008 23:37 Orome wrote: This is probably way too early to try to shove a message down your throat, but abandoning your friends for a girl's never a good idea. Oh trust me I know, I knew before I met her, I felt it during our time together and God knows I feel it now. But like with all things in life (as well as bw = p) it is rarely knowing what to do that is the problem but rather actually doing it. On August 04 2008 23:57 Hawk wrote: Sucks man, sorry. If it's any consolation, it could be worse. You could have come home to your girlfriend blowing your German Sheppard. Haha I remember that story… it was funny  I can’t really laugh right now though = pOn August 04 2008 23:58 REDBLUEGREEN wrote: Well I was in a similar situation once although not that hard. It was also my gf cheating on me with one of my best friends but they didn't have sex and I have not caught them in flagranti. When I found out I wanted to smack his face so badly, but I decided not to do so since I practice Kung Fu and I know my teacher would be very disappointed. So I ended of pissing on his car at night 3 times HAHA, it was fun and satisfaction and thats what u need right now :D I was actually quite proud of myself that I didn’t even want to hit him, I sorta regret it now though. As for other means of “vengeance” I doubt it would make me feel better. But maybe I should try it anyway =p And yea, I know I should try to keep myself busy etc but I can’t really think of anything I would be able to concentrate on atm. I suppose I could dig up my old SA songs and go emo for a couple of days. By the way, if anyone else here has been through anything remotely similar, how the “#” did you ever learn to trust anyone again afterwards? And thanks everyone for being optimistic about meeting new people. At least a few of those I met while there for interviews where nice so I guess it could end up ok. | ||
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REDBLUEGREEN
Germany1903 Posts
On August 05 2008 00:48 KlaCkoN wrote: By the way, if anyone else here has been through anything remotely similar, how the “#” did you ever learn to trust anyone again afterwards? grobo just asked the same think. Just believe me it's easy and time alone will help. Given that ur experience was a bit worse i would say 2-3 month. You probably can't imagine that right now, but don't worry man, will be everything cool again soon! | ||
GHOSTCLAW
United States17042 Posts
On August 05 2008 00:48 KlaCkoN wrote: And yea, I know I should try to keep myself busy etc but I can’t really think of anything I would be able to concentrate on atm. I suppose I could dig up my old SA songs and go emo for a couple of days. By the way, if anyone else here has been through anything remotely similar, how the “#” did you ever learn to trust anyone again afterwards? It might seem to obvious seeing where you are, but at least for me- to keep busy I play sc. Something mechanical, and i'm not too worried about losing or getting better. (And then you end up playing ~40 games in a day and realizing that your apm increased from 120 to 150 -_-) For trust...at least for me, my friends took me back afterwards. I found mine to be forgiving, especially since a lot of people have done what you did before. It'll get better. Congrats on going to oxford, and you'll be able to make many many more friends there if you so choose. Getting to a new environment always helps. | ||
jkillashark
United States5262 Posts
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
Your situation is terrible but look at it another way. You have leverage in the situation as a guilt machine. She will feel horrible and as soon as you can forgive her she will *most likely* come back to you. girls are bitches dude. btw how old are you? | ||
alffla
Hong Kong20321 Posts
On August 05 2008 01:15 jkillashark wrote: You'll make new friendships in college. Probably genuine ones you'll keep longer because in high school your friendships only came out because of your proximity to those people. You saw them very frequently. In college you'll meet so many people that you can literally weed out the people who have nothing in common with you/jerks. wtf for me its like the reverse cuz i feel that friends i've made from years7-13 were like true friends people that actualyl spent nearly every fuckin minute together from just procrastinating to gaming to school drama classes art studio essay writing all nighters parties proms w/e uni friends are just there for the 3-4 years of uni. and in between every year everyone goes home for whatever months and its not much real contact again. then back to the uni city then its all just a temporary thing to keep everyone entertained until they get back home and to the op sorry to hear that shit it must be hard. go emo then pick urself back up agian :D. and come on man OXFORD WTF!!! damn congratulations man | ||
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
Try to see the good in the bad. There are those people who rail at the injustice they see in the universe, and those who celebrate existence itself, the good and the bad. Try to see that what appears awful on the surface is a doorway to something else. This may be a key event that sets you on the path to finding the woman who is really perfect for you. Or maybe no woman is perfect for you, and you'll be better off with serial monogamy, polygamy, or perhaps singlehood. But this is a stepping stone to something else. Remember that pain and struggle can make us stronger and wiser, if we allow it to. It is possible to spend large amounts of time in a state of loneliness. I spent years in loneliness. I still do not have a large amount of friends, and only a couple close friends. Two things about this: 1) you can meet new people and make close friends, but it takes time and patience. Don't make friends just for the sake of making friends. Those friendships are shallow and won't last and won't be meaningful. 2) You may come to realize, as I have, that you aren't a particularly social person, and that you can be as well off in solitude (as opposed to loneliness). This is a shift in perception and goals, realizing that there is pressure to be social, but you are not naturally social and do not need to be social to be happy. Life is in part the process of figuring out what works for you. Last of all, in dealing with painful situations like your girlfriend's betrayal and your breakup with her, it can be helpful to immerse yourself in something demanding and structured. Discipline can be very useful at times like this. But you also have to feel the pain, so face it directly and bravely. | ||
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Terranesque
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Dazed.
Canada3301 Posts
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calgar
United States1277 Posts
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thedeadhaji
39489 Posts
time to stream that sextape with her ooh yeaaa  | ||
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MeriaDoKk
Chile1726 Posts
You should have told them that you had AIDS and that they are pretty much fucked up | ||
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
On August 05 2008 03:47 Jathin wrote: Don't worry you're still young. You'll look back on that shit and say, "Wow, I got screwed. But I am 300% more of a man now thanks to it." At least that's what happened to me and now I feel like I can handle just about anything. Maybe I'll look back and see it as the reason why I feel so emotionally detached, but I very much doubt it will make me feel manly :/ But good for you if you got over it | ||
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thoraxe
United States1449 Posts
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
On August 05 2008 03:30 thedeadhaji wrote: you know what time it is? time to stream that sextape with her ooh yeaaa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | ||
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