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Whiplash
United States2929 Posts
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Zergneedsfood
United States10671 Posts
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JBright
Vancouver14381 Posts
On April 10 2014 23:53 Zergneedsfood wrote: Boes ilu pls don't be so sad. | ||
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L_Master
United States8017 Posts
I wish I had some insight as far as depression goes, almost never in a bad mood or unhappy...so I'm not sure if what "works" for me is at all applicable to your situation. I really don't even have a clue what depression could be like in all honesty, but best of luck finding what works for you and fighting back up out of that! | ||
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darkscream
Canada2310 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + i know exactly who you are, soshitter | ||
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Ansinjunger
United States2451 Posts
I've heard that being willing to talk about these things is often an important first step, but I've also found it's easy in my mind to find excuses if you fail a little. Hopefully you try to halt the downward spiral wherever it starts. I'm in the middle of one, and I've stopped enough times to feel good about it, I start to wonder if I start and stop just to feel good about quitting. It's pretty shitty. So easy to find excuses to beat yourself up--again good luck. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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Harem
United States11393 Posts
On April 11 2014 04:04 L_Master wrote: I really don't even have a clue what depression could be like in all honesty http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.ca/2011/10/adventures-in-depression.html http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/2013/05/depression-part-two.html That explains far better than you will probably hear elsewhere. If tl;dr then: + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/2MgAe5G.jpg) | ||
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Bebop07
United States291 Posts
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hasuprotoss
United States4654 Posts
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dronebabo
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Jerubaal
United States7684 Posts
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Boonbag
France3318 Posts
On April 11 2014 09:01 Rekrul wrote: i love to hate you i always knew you were erasure fanboy | ||
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Denar
France1633 Posts
Black Metal lets emotions go loose, makes me feel alive, it helped me so much when I was going down, losing my body in the hospital, I hope it can help you as well, pick you back up. | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
Consider learning a little about Buddhism. Not to become a Buddhist (I'm certainly not one myself), but just for some food for thought and some ideas about how to think of life. It is one of the few religions that is really down to earth and deals with how to live this life. I think for people suffering from depression, it also starts from very agreeable ideas. "All is suffering" is the starting point. Then discussion turns to how to reduce suffering in the world both for yourself and for others, and somehow from this very dark starting point turns into a religion with a very positive outlook. Some ideas that I've taken to heart myself: Desire creates dissatisfaction and attachment. [Which I take to mean don't desire things that are completely unfulfillable, like yearning after models ;p] When you hate someone, feel that hate as if it were directed toward yourself. You may begin to pity that person, and realise a little that they are not unaware or conscienceless. Learn to let things go. [Wrongs that have been done to you, frustrations, wrongs you've done to yourself and others... Repentance is better observed by doing good for others than by cyclical thoughts.] I think as humans it is hard to stop our feelings, nor really should we, but it is important to try to see our feelings as ephemeral and ourselves and the world as constantly changing, never the same as it was the moment before (the classic Buddhist image is of the flickering flame of a candle). For me it is not the only piece of the puzzle in dealing with these feelings, but it is an important one. I look back each year and see that my coping mechanisms have improved and become more healthy, and that I'm figuring out how to escape patterns of extreme negativity when I fall into them, to forgive more and live freer. IMO the key is self-reliance and understanding. The self-reliance is the part our culture does not understand  | ||
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Boonbag
France3318 Posts
On April 11 2014 21:57 Chef wrote: Everyone has a few pennies of advice about depression, here is mine: Consider learning a little about Buddhism. Not to become a Buddhist (I'm certainly not one myself), but just for some food for thought and some ideas about how to think of life. It is one of the few religions that is really down to earth and deals with how to live this life. I think for people suffering from depression, it also starts from very agreeable ideas. "All is suffering" is the starting point. Then discussion turns to how to reduce suffering in the world both for yourself and for others, and somehow from this very dark starting point turns into a religion with a very positive outlook. Some ideas that I've taken to heart myself: Desire creates dissatisfaction and attachment. [Which I take to mean don't desire things that are completely unfulfillable, like yearning after models ;p] When you hate someone, feel that hate as if it were directed toward yourself. You may begin to pity that person, and realise a little that they are not unaware or conscienceless. Learn to let things go. [Wrongs that have been done to you, frustrations, wrongs you've done to yourself and others... Repentance is better observed by doing good for others than by cyclical thoughts.] I think as humans it is hard to stop our feelings, nor really should we, but it is important to try to see our feelings as ephemeral and ourselves and the world as constantly changing, never the same as it was the moment before (the classic Buddhist image is of the flickering flame of a candle). For me it is not the only piece of the puzzle in dealing with these feelings, but it is an important one. I look back each year and see that my coping mechanisms have improved and become more healthy, and that I'm figuring out how to escape patterns of extreme negativity when I fall into them, to forgive more and live freer. IMO the key is self-reliance and understanding. The self-reliance is the part our culture does not understand greeks beg to differ they would put desire as the first motive in everything | ||
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Roe
Canada6002 Posts
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jpak
United States5045 Posts
obligatory harmony harmony oh yeah! Kill me... But seriously, feel better. | ||
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Boonbag
France3318 Posts
On April 12 2014 05:51 jpak wrote: obligatory harmony harmony oh yeah! Kill me... But seriously, feel better. =] | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
lololol just kidding. I love you and would give you man sized bear hugs if you weren't worlds away | ||
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