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I appreciate the responses, especially Endymion and Wrongspeedy.
On September 12 2013 05:49 MarlieChurphy wrote:
6 months is the rule of thumb to date a friend's ex. If you're a good friend you'll ask them if it's ok at that time as well.
OP is pretty vague though, are you guys pretending to be broken up publicly but secretly still dating/fucking? Who's idea was this, and don't say mutual.
Lets just say we had a big misunderstanding and placed some distance. The starting gates lifted and the animals came running.
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On September 12 2013 05:49 MarlieChurphy wrote:
6 months is the rule of thumb to date a friend's ex. If you're a good friend you'll ask them if it's ok at that time as well.
OP is pretty vague though, are you guys pretending to be broken up publicly but secretly still dating/fucking? Who's idea was this, and don't say mutual.
On September 12 2013 09:12 ZenithM wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 05:48 AnachronisticAnarchy wrote:
It's actually kinda hilarious how many people are making posts like they actually know what's going on. Several seem to be completely off-base. I guess that the overly vague and generalized tone of the OP didn't help people's interpretations :D Kinda invited the "Yeah I know whatcha talking about brah".
Well I wish I could be more specific, but I know people IRL read these blogs and I'm just not comfortable doing that. I always post the specific stuff on a smurf.
Edit: Fuck. This is my first double post in all of TL history. The gods have spoken and I shall be smitten.
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Oh no Cecil don't worry, I liked your post, it's just that some misinterpretations are to be expected I guess. I for one will take it as a life lesson rather than a report on a precise story/situation, I think that's the way to go about it.
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On September 12 2013 03:03 CecilSunkure wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 02:56 Dubzex wrote:
Did she go with the guy she met from google that got you guys those interviews? Lol what does "go with" mean?
Did she leave you and start dating him? Because if so, I called that shit~
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On September 12 2013 09:45 Dubzex wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 03:03 CecilSunkure wrote:On September 12 2013 02:56 Dubzex wrote:
Did she go with the guy she met from google that got you guys those interviews? Lol what does "go with" mean? Did she leave you and start dating him? Because if so, I called that shit~
Ha, definitely no  She's not dating anyone else, and has a lot of resentment towards the assholes that hit on her. The Google guy was a Microsoft guy, I really like him myself, is a lot older than both of us and definitely has no interest in her romantically.
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i dont think its fair to think at the end of the movie that they will be able to get past whatever problems that come up, because they couldn't, they didn't etc. which put them in that situation in the first place
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On September 12 2013 14:22 AiurZ wrote:
i dont think its fair to think at the end of the movie that they will be able to get past whatever problems that come up, because they couldn't, they didn't etc. which put them in that situation in the first place
Well you can try again so long as something changes. In the movie the characters expected problems and agreed to deal with them. The first time around they ignored their problems and let them fester.
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On September 12 2013 14:32 CecilSunkure wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 14:22 AiurZ wrote:
i dont think its fair to think at the end of the movie that they will be able to get past whatever problems that come up, because they couldn't, they didn't etc. which put them in that situation in the first place Well you can try again so long as something changes. In the movie the characters expected problems and agreed to deal with them. The first time around they ignored their problems and let them fester.
I agree, it's not like just because a problem arises it must be inevitable. It makes a huge difference if you deal with each problem as it comes rather then letting them all build up such that they seem impossible to deal with.
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Shit, she ain't property. If you fuck up, or leave her, you don't get to set guidelines for her not even when it comes to your friends or mutual friends.
You're being ambiguous and blameless. You care enough to blog to gain sympathy and yet withhold details or incriminating facts.
Whatever it is that's going on, I'm sure it's typical.
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On September 12 2013 03:03 CecilSunkure wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 02:56 Dubzex wrote:
Did she go with the guy she met from google that got you guys those interviews? Lol what does "go with" mean?
I think it's some old way of saying "will you go out with me? will you be my girlfriend/date me?" I think I first heard of this in Donnie Darko as well and it sounded hella weird. Not sure if it really is an old saying or if people in other states do.
On September 12 2013 15:23 MountainDewJunkie wrote:
Shit, she ain't property. If you fuck up, or leave her, you don't get to set guidelines for her not even when it comes to your friends or mutual friends.
You're being ambiguous and blameless. You care enough to blog to gain sympathy and yet withhold details or incriminating facts.
Whatever it is that's going on, I'm sure it's typical.
I'm sure as hell not giving any sympathy when I don't know any information besides him apparently being "neglectful."
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do to others as you want done to yourself.
according to one particular character from Russian jokes, this means you need to do blowjob to everyone
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On September 13 2013 00:15 Sejanus wrote:according to one particular character from Russian jokes, this means you need to do blowjob to everyone
Ahaha, that's why I prefer Confucius's version of the golden rule which is basically "Do not do unto others as you would not have them do to you"
It is presumptuous to assume that you know what other people want you to do to them
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On September 13 2013 01:33 Flakes wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:15 Sejanus wrote: do to others as you want done to yourself. according to one particular character from Russian jokes, this means you need to do blowjob to everyone Ahaha, that's why I prefer Confucius's version of the golden rule which is basically "Do not do unto others as you would not have them do to you" This is not the Golden Rule. It's sometimes called the Silver Rule, and Confucius is not the only one who's propounded it.
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On September 13 2013 01:33 Flakes wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:15 Sejanus wrote: do to others as you want done to yourself. according to one particular character from Russian jokes, this means you need to do blowjob to everyone Ahaha, that's why I prefer Confucius's version of the golden rule which is basically "Do not do unto others as you would not have them do to you" It is presumptuous to assume that you know what other people want you to do to them
do unto others before they do unto you.
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On September 11 2013 09:51 CecilSunkure wrote:
People should be more honest. If you see a problem with someone, maybe there's an obligation to inform them. I personally try not to judge others behind closed doors unless I have some intention of trying to help, or at least offering to do so.
Didn't you write a blog not that long ago about how you realised you thought everyone around you was lazy and because of this you were automatically putting yourself above them in your mind?
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if you want to come with a Girl Blog you need to cut the cryptic stuff that's in the OP and actually ask a question.
this OP so bitter I felt like I downed a lemon
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On September 14 2013 17:43 JWD wrote:
if you want to come with a Girl Blog you need to cut the cryptic stuff that's in the OP and actually ask a question.
this OP so bitter I felt like I downed a lemon
aww I sorry I'll write a cheery one next time ok?
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Lemons are sour not bitter.
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