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On February 26 2013 05:09 JieXian wrote: I was about to write this in the other blog but maybe if you don't like money minded people maybe you just shouldn't be a magnet for it and rent a smaller apartmenet or something :D I can't, my brother and I jointly own the apartment I live in (we picked it up at a foreclosure auction)
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On February 26 2013 04:09 Harrad wrote: great, albeit bittersweet read. Thanks!
On February 26 2013 04:49 [UoN]Sentinel wrote: You don't get my 5 until I see some results.
4 for effort I will send you pictures of the earth from 10,000 feet above, with my heart resting on naught but a prayer that the girl floating above me will say yes
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On February 26 2013 07:08 snively wrote:Show nested quote +On February 25 2013 03:17 Shady Sands wrote: I'm just another suited cowboy dual-wielding other people's money and other people's ideas. oh man i really really like that line :D =) Thanks
I got it off a biography of Aristotle Onassis (one of my personal heroes):
Onassis' best invention, however, was the O.P.M. (Other People's Money). This idea wasn't originally created by Ari, even though he was a pioneer in the field. Credit for this innovation goes to Daniel Ludwig, a Michigan businessman. The bank refused a loan that would provide for the conversion of a transport ship into a tanker. However, Daniel had an idea; he could give a guarantee to the bank on an oil tanker that he already possessed, while he could use the profits from his transports as an identity to the bank.
The solution to this problem loan was actually simple and ingenious. Daniel Ludwig by now had perfected this technique, and defined it himself as the O.P.M. He asked the bank for a loan towards the construction of new ships but did not change the way he used the ships he already owned. The loan had to be deferred in different payments in order to permit the banks to be repaid before the new ships were actually built. The loan's guarantee came from the profits of the ships already on the water.
The banks called the operation of O.P.M. "card at double-name," for they possessed a double guarantee on their loans. Ludwig grew rich, but he never became a big ship owner. He invested the money he obtained in different areas, with the notable exception of shipping, and although his fleet was bigger than that of Onassis or Niarhos, did not play an important role in the industry.
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Ugh. Hope. Your blogs and the discussions that ensue are always amazing.
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I hope I can propose to you by printing the words "will you marry me" in Size 50000 font on the back of my parachute before I jump out of a plane ahead of you
Note taken. That is awesome.
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On February 26 2013 08:20 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On February 26 2013 05:09 JieXian wrote: I was about to write this in the other blog but maybe if you don't like money minded people maybe you just shouldn't be a magnet for it and rent a smaller apartmenet or something :D I can't, my brother and I jointly own the apartment I live in (we picked it up at a foreclosure auction)
It depends on how far you agree with me really.
If you were to take it to an extreme you'd rent a shack, drive a Datsun Sunny, and wear singlets with torn jeans.
I hope you get my point even if you don't agree
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On February 26 2013 23:47 JieXian wrote:Show nested quote +On February 26 2013 08:20 Shady Sands wrote:On February 26 2013 05:09 JieXian wrote: I was about to write this in the other blog but maybe if you don't like money minded people maybe you just shouldn't be a magnet for it and rent a smaller apartmenet or something :D I can't, my brother and I jointly own the apartment I live in (we picked it up at a foreclosure auction) It depends on how far you agree with me really. If you were to take it to an extreme you'd rent a shack, drive a Datsun Sunny, and wear singlets with torn jeans. I hope you get my point even if you don't agree I mean yeah, I get it. I think there's a baseline standard of creature comforts most girls aspire to. There's a reason ascetic monks don't get laid.
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Yep, I remember chatting with Paul Gu about this Feb 2012. Glad to see he's pulled it off =)
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On February 26 2013 23:53 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On February 26 2013 23:47 JieXian wrote:On February 26 2013 08:20 Shady Sands wrote:On February 26 2013 05:09 JieXian wrote: I was about to write this in the other blog but maybe if you don't like money minded people maybe you just shouldn't be a magnet for it and rent a smaller apartmenet or something :D I can't, my brother and I jointly own the apartment I live in (we picked it up at a foreclosure auction) It depends on how far you agree with me really. If you were to take it to an extreme you'd rent a shack, drive a Datsun Sunny, and wear singlets with torn jeans. I hope you get my point even if you don't agree I mean yeah, I get it. I think there's a baseline standard of creature comforts most girls aspire to. There's a reason ascetic monks don't get laid.
hahah definitely =D which was why I said "extreme"
Maybe you should try some "normal guy moderation" and slowly push the boundaries and have some fun with experimenting in the opposite direction, that would be really interesting.
Be sure to blog about it if you do :D
omg the comments are hilarious hahaha
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I have no relationship experience myself so in that regard I cannot contribute to the discussion, but I love your writing! I hope. For you. Take care.
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On February 25 2013 06:03 babylon wrote:Show nested quote +On February 25 2013 05:54 Shady Sands wrote:On February 25 2013 05:51 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 25 2013 05:48 babylon wrote:On February 25 2013 05:37 MasterOfPuppets wrote: Somehow though I find that it's usually guys who tend to be more pensive and philosophical in the manner you describe in the OP. I suppose it's a self-fulfilling self-perpetuating social preconception that girls shouldn't care about anything of that sort... I don't know though. There's a tendency nowadays to think that only "We" think in a certain manner, that only "We" are complicated enough or concerned enough to have these problems when, more likely than not, everybody thinks something along these lines at some point in their lives. I definitely understand where you're coming from. But the obvious question is then: why do the actions of so many others do not reflect this pensive, intellectual nature, and instead only the lack thereof? Why? Because it's easier to fake it? I mean, I've faked this sort of devil-may-care attitude towards love and it just works. Trouble is, it's fake. I really want to be romantic, I really do. But every time I let my guard down somebody gets hurt. After a while, I just give up. If they are attracted to you for certain qualities that you purposefully play up, you shouldn't be surprised when they tend to value those "fake" qualities of you more highly than other aspects of yourself. You are advertising yourself as A, B, C. You will attract girls who like A, B, C. Don't bemoan that they don't care about D when D wasn't even in the ad. So just an update: I'm heading out tonight to meet a bohemian actress (the real kind, with her own IMDB page lol). Going off the advice here, hopefully this works. Wish me luck!
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