[Girl Blog] - Page 2

On May 24 2012 01:04 Incze wrote:
Recovering from anything takes time, and the matters of love are no exception. Almost 10 years later and I am still not over it, I blew it, my only chance with that girl went down the drain when some stupid prick thought he would make me a favor and tell everyone, including her what I was all about. If it weren't for that maybe I would've manned up myself and asked her out, but it was all out the window after it.
What I'm saying is, don't wait too much, because people find out. Maybe you stare too much at her, maybe your cheeks get blood red whenever you're close to her (believe me, I know that feeling all too well and it's the root of most of my high school problems). Even a single look may be enough to give it away and after that, unless she also previously liked you, but since you never talked to her, that's very improbable, she will avoid you like the plague.
It's hard man, it always is in the beginning. Get experience, fast, lest you end up 20 years old with no girl experience whatsoever

On May 24 2012 01:13 HardlyNever wrote:
This is probably the creepiest girl blog I've ever seen.

Seriously, just talk to her, in person, with real words. You won't die, she isn't some godess that will turn you into a deer and shoot you, or make your brain explode.

Like an above poster said, you're in full-on stalker territory right now.

On May 24 2012 01:16 TheKefka wrote:
Considering your age I would refrain from calling you a stalker and just say that you are very insecure and have no idea how to approach a girl,which is fairly common at your age.I'm not sure what to tell you,I was very insecure at your age as well and I fucked up 90% of the time when approaching girls that I liked(and that took ages as well,not 2 years but still).
I don't know what to say to you man,your probably going to crash and burn once you talk to her,but its ok.That's how it is for some people at that age and you'll eventually get over it and find another girl.But who knows,if you approach this one right,maybe you won't fuck up and something good will come from it,you'll never know if you don't try.Either way the best thing you can do for yourself is to just talk to her.

On May 24 2012 01:51 Blazinghand wrote:
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On May 24 2012 00:59 intrigue wrote:
you are literally a stalker. but it's okay, you can only improve from here. use your biological communication apparatus and make vocalizations at your next reproductive interest. social etiquette will require a response, and you can go home and treasure it for a whole week, replaying it over and over. and then you'll want more, and talk to her and maybe make her laugh or whatever and smile creepily when she acknowledges you online. you see how everything cascades though, right? any attempt is better than 0 attempt, like what you have been doing.

On May 24 2012 02:38 dGHaiL wrote:
Azera

I'll confess I haven't read many of the other posts people have made on here, so if someone has given similar advice, forgive me.

You don't know this girl. You've never interacted with her, aside from reading her interests online, and figuring out what she likes based on a Facebook page. Despite what people have termed "stalking", I think all of this stuff is really normal nowadays. A lot of people "stalk" people online and call it Facebook Stalking... its not really the same thing.

I've been in your position before. There were two twins in high school, I really liked one of them but was young enough (10th grade) and dumb enough to admit to her best friend that I wanted to date her. It then became a joke, because these girls were part of a huge group of girls that had never had boyfriends, and thought the subject was hilarious. They ostracized me, and eventually I stopped hanging out with them, but I still thought this girl was awesome. The more time I spent away from her, the more I fashioned her in my mind to be perfect. She was beautiful, smart, nice (these were things I had picked up on when I knew her as a friend, but in my mind, I made them all perfect). The more time i spent thinking about it, the more I was upset by the fact that I could never have her. The perfect girl. The one I knew was for me.

When we graduated high school, we met up again after my final hockey game as a senior. We lost in the state finals to a three-year champion team, but I had put up four points in the game and had never played better. Afterwards, she approached me and apologized for the way she and her friends had treated me two years ago. I spent a few weeks hanging out with her after that, and realized that my mind had made her into someone she wasn't. She wasn't very nice, she wasn't all that pretty, and I certainly didn't think she was funny. I stopped hanging out with her and have never had a second though since.

The point of telling you that story? Your mind wants to see the best in people. If you idolize someone, you create a persona for them, even though you don't really know them. In your mind you see yourself cuddling with her on the couch, kissing on the porch, going to see a movie together. She's the perfect girl, but likely only in your head. You'll only ever find true love when you find and meet someone you really mesh with. I hope this helps buddy - don't fret over it. From what I know of you, you're a smart dedicated dude and you'll find someone that you really, truly know that you love.

Cheers.

Edit: Despite what I said, I don't mean give up. Blazinghand's advice is good. If you're going to talk to her, by all means, talk to her! But keep in mind that if things don't work out, something better will always come along. The point to my post was... don't let your mind make her into an unapproachable goddess. Everyone is human.

On May 24 2012 01:14 Azera wrote:


Yeah I'm a pretty fucking creepy stalker.