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I've been dating a stripper for 2 years now. She made $750 last night for just dancing on stage. I don't mind it. She comes home to me. I trust her and we have an awesome relationship. I get all the benefits. None of the smoke and mirrors. I always looked at the situation if I was the stripper and she was dating me. Would I think of myself dirty because I took my clothes off? No, I'd just be doing my job. I'd be no dirty than anyone else.
She mentions a lot how a lot of girls do favors for more money in clubs where sex or bj's are not allowed. She could be making 3 grand a night if she was one of those dirty girls. Her bestfriend who is married works with her and they often say they are sisters. Her friend would lay down and she would put her mouth on her panties and pretend she was doing the dirty.
Now that I think about it, it's actually beneficial because meets all these dirty or crappy guys and loves the hell out of me when she gets home because I am not the type to go to a strip club. It's like paying to watch a rack of ribs sit there but you can't eat it.
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On February 05 2012 07:37 Sinensis wrote:
I am trying to say that stripping says "desperation" to me. I think that's reasonable. I can see how that would be attractive, but it isn't to me.
Yeah because making $500 a night doing nothing but dancing around for a few hours requires a real desperate indivudual, right? As if you wouldn't do it if you had the opportunity.
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My last girlfriend was a stripper, was highly recommended unless you are a jealous person in which case I imagine it would be horrible. But if you are not you have a girl you know is obviously hot (unless she works at a trashy place) as people will pay to see her naked, completely open about their sexuality, and often just overall is like a permanent confidence boost even if it ends up not working out.
Also they tend to do very well financially for themselves, very rarely do they call you for $ and often call you to spend money on you. Rare change of pace.
The main downside is the drug and alcohol abuse is crazy, and often girls that just start it because it's good money end up getting on something. Happened with a bunch of my ex's friends that got into it through her.
Edit: I almost forgot. the biggest downside was she watched "The Notebook", every fucking night and dragged me through it, every damn night. Fuck that movie.
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Well... I'd suspect the correlation between a stripper and a hooker is pretty damn high but maybe that's just my prejudice.
The only two strippers I personally knew, though, were also "escorts" on the side. If I were sure the girl is exclusively a stripper I'd have no problems with it at all. Let the suckers fap while I tap 
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On February 05 2012 08:52 Diamond wrote:
The main downside is the drug and alcohol abuse is crazy, and often girls that just start it because it's good money end up getting on something. Happened with a bunch of my ex's friends that got into it through her.
I would think that you would need to be doing favors on the side or be very easily persuaded to actually get hooked on drugs or alcohol...
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United States4796 Posts
Ehhh I might. It is what it is.
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No, not because of what she does, but because of the baggage strippers usually have.
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Those strippers have great retirement plans I hear.
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Im fine with great fucking tits and a great fucking body even if fucking morons need to fucking watch to get a fucking boner so they can feel fucking good about themselves, as long as i get to fuck the fucking stripper.
Also fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck, cuz its a great fucking word.
fuck
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This blog reminds me of one of my girls name Freaky(Martha) ... She would go on tour to strip and do mud/food wrestling and come home loaded. Some of the stories she had were mind blowing, and she ALWAYS wanted some. We never ALL the way committed to each other, I think that's what helped us work. It didn't bother me that she was gone nor did the stigmas of her occupation. I never looked at her as a "stripper" or anything lower than a normal person. You'd be surprised how much you can learn. She did give great head too.
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Dno why you see a problem at all. Been there, done that, liked it. Actually I enjoy stuff like that.
Lots of other men staring at my gf and wanting to fuck her while I'm the one who will end up with her in bed? Yes, please. Also most of the strippers / nude models I came to know so far are REALLY carefull who they go out with and worry about discretion a lot. The word getting out that they're "slutty" is far worse for them than for most people if they're working in any serious business.
Would YOU date a stripper? Not just date but have a long term relationship with.
I'm not gonna lie.. I felt uneasy about the idea at first but.. it'd be hypocritical for me to tell my girlfriend she can't shake her booty around and then I go an act in a film where I make out with other girls.
How is that hypocritical? With my current gf and the two girls before that we had the agreement that both sides can have sex with women alone if the other party knows about it beforehand. Obviously hooking up with a 2nd girl together is more fun, but sometimes you can't arrange that. =P
Both sides can have sex with other women, fair agreement imoimo.
Edit: Basicly anything both sides agree on is completely fine in a relationship imo. No matter what it is. Just need to make your intentions clear early enough and offer something in return.
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On February 05 2012 06:55 Joedaddy wrote:
I remember joking with friends about the 3 different types of girls in the world. The one night stands, the casual relationships, and the ones you take home to mom.
I could personally never "attach" myself to a stripper, like you do in a serious committed relationship. What guy really wants to bring his fiance over to his buddies house for the big game only to find out his fiance has danced naked on all of his buddies laps rubbing up on their junk?
Call me old fashioned I guess.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna–whore_complex
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Totally, In a heartbeat. Gtfo white knights imo.
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i do it in a sec, but only if i planned to not really like her.
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Personally I wouldn't, but if you have a really really really open mindset then it shouldn't matter.
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I could be in a serious relationship with one because, it's not like they are going to be doing it forever (unless that's their only goal in life, in which case it wouldn't be someone I would be interested in being in a relationship with anyway). I totally understand the mindset of, "I'm doing this as a temporary thing because it pays more than working retail or at a crummy campus job, and I have bills and need to pay for school." If someone wants to get an education and go on to have a good career, but ends up stripping for a few years in college to make ends meet, I wouldn't have a huge problem with that.
As long as the relationship is healthy, and you're confident that they won't bone their customers, there's not much wrong with it ~~
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Casual relationship, yes. Something more serious, probably not. It would take an exceptional woman to change my mind on that.
As Hawk said:
because the 'everyone has a price' threshold is more than likely a lot lower for a someone who thinks nothing of rubbing her ass on dozens and dozens of creepy and horny dudes in a night vs someone who doesn't?? it's pretty common sense
Simply by virtue of what they are already doing, I am naturally more concerned about what else they may do...
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On February 05 2012 15:08 Brett wrote:Casual relationship, yes. Something more serious, probably not. It would take an exceptional woman to change my mind on that. As Hawk said: Show nested quote +because the 'everyone has a price' threshold is more than likely a lot lower for a someone who thinks nothing of rubbing her ass on dozens and dozens of creepy and horny dudes in a night vs someone who doesn't?? it's pretty common sense Simply by virtue of what they are already doing, I am naturally more concerned about what else they may do...
As I said above, the strippers/nude models I know have much higher moral standards when it comes to relationships than other women. Why? Because being percevied as "slutty" means they're pretty much done if they work in establishments that are not brothels under the hood. Also if a girl who looks gorgeous as hell commits to a relationship AND has her own income anyway it's highly likely she's in it for the guy.
"Stripper" doesn't mean she's the girl you always see in videos and ends up as a hooker.
Jesus, some guys and their prejudices.
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Now that I think of it, this thread reminds me of what would happen if someone went over to a teen girl forum and posted a topic called "Dating a Gamer?". A lot of girls would vote yes, and all the girls who vote no would say "Ew, all gamers are unwashed, nerdy virgins." Stereotypes don't apply to everybody.
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