EPTDating a Stripper? - Page 4
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Golgotha
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TBone-
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phiinix
United States1169 Posts
On February 05 2012 03:58 Railxp wrote: http://www.wtfpod.com/podcast/episodes/episode_234_-_jillian_lauren "Author Jillian Lauren happens to be Marc’s neighbor. Amazingly, that’s not the most harrowing thing she’s ever been through. She discusses the details of her memoir, in which she became a highly paid escort and a concubine in the Prince of Brunei’s harem, as well as her new novel and her life since becoming a mom. " a worthwhile listen if you like podcasts and are interested in the dating strippers topic Just sayin, doesn't start until like 28:00 | ||
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jubil
United States2602 Posts
That was hilarious. On topic, I guess I don't have anything against the profession per se, it's just that I don't think many people who choose stripping as a profession would also have the personality traits I like. | ||
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venage
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QuanticHawk
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nanaoei
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i told her many times throughout our time together that i wouldnt dislike or mind incredibly much it if thats what she really wanted, since i felt very committed and wanted her to be able to explore what she wanted while we were still young. i don't know if i could ever explain why it was like that for me, but i really thought i could learn to handle almost all of what came with that profession | ||
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Sufficiency
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divito
Canada1213 Posts
On February 05 2012 02:09 Xeris wrote: Why do you and other people in this thread assume that being a stripper == having sex with others? It's up to the girl to decide whether she wants to sleep with her customers or not. What one should say the concern is, is what if someone offers her $1,000 for sex or some really high number - would she do it despite being in a relationship with you? That would be the part that'd make me uneasy. Precisely. This is also evident in clubs/bars for servers/bartenders. You have a woman in certain outfits (depending on the establishment), in a serving position where the primary patrons are males. With an attractive, stripper, server, bartender, this woman is bombarded with requests, flirting, advances from all sorts of men. Add in the alcohol that bartenders end up consuming thanks to these men, and there become plenty of issues. A woman that might avoid situations in the general sense, is in a completely different atmosphere, with completely different circumstances and will entertain all sorts of notions. And THEN, you have to now consider that if you have a fight or disagreement, and she has to work that night, how will the next attractive man who tries to flirt be received? Will she have had a few shots? Is she still fuming at you? What is she going to do or consider doing? The state of mind will play a big role. I would never feel comfortable with a woman in these professions (also dependant on the establishment though). All the trust and self-confidence in the world would not be enough to overcome the availability of scenarios that raise doubt. | ||
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Joedaddy
United States1948 Posts
I could personally never "attach" myself to a stripper, like you do in a serious committed relationship. What guy really wants to bring his fiance over to his buddies house for the big game only to find out his fiance has danced naked on all of his buddies laps rubbing up on their junk? Call me old fashioned I guess. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32075 Posts
On February 05 2012 02:09 Xeris wrote: Why do you and other people in this thread assume that being a stripper == having sex with others? It's up to the girl to decide whether she wants to sleep with her customers or not. What one should say the concern is, is what if someone offers her $1,000 for sex or some really high number - would she do it despite being in a relationship with you? That would be the part that'd make me uneasy. . because the 'everyone has a price' threshold is more than likely a lot lower for a someone who thinks nothing of rubbing her ass on dozens and dozens of creepy and horny dudes in a night vs someone who doesn't?? it's pretty common sense | ||
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Sinensis
United States2513 Posts
Well... it isn't actually like that at all... I'm pretty sure everyone who voted "Yes" in that poll has never actually dated a stripper. | ||
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Daray
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On February 05 2012 07:13 Sinensis wrote: "But she just said, it's a job like any other." Well... it isn't actually like that at all... I'm pretty sure everyone who voted "Yes" in that poll has never actually dated a stripper. The question was 'would you date' not 'have you dated'. | ||
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Sinensis
United States2513 Posts
On February 05 2012 07:22 Daray wrote: The question was 'would you date' not 'have you dated'. I thought my stance was pretty clear but since it wasn't, no, no strippers for me thank you. The people that need the kind of money you need from stripping are usually people who do expensive, addicting, drugs. Or they are single mothers who have no other option, which is really sad. I would date neither variety of person. | ||
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Skilledblob
Germany3392 Posts
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Daray
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On February 05 2012 07:26 Sinensis wrote: I thought my stance was pretty clear but since it wasn't, no, no strippers for me thank you. The people that need the kind of money you need from stripping are usually people who do expensive, addicting, drugs. Or they are single mothers who have no other option, which is really sad. I would date neither variety of person. You kiddings me? Im pretty no one here would date a drug addict. I think i'll stop visiting this thread, my head hurts. | ||
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Sinensis
United States2513 Posts
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Jestalt
United States28 Posts
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