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dRaW
Canada5744 Posts
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qzmpwxno
Papua New Guinea152 Posts
Focus on meeting as many people as possible since you are single. This will distract you from texting every day. Also you will go on more dates, get experience etc., and when she texts you asking what you're up to you can tell her you're on a date, if she has any interest in you she will flip out and ask you out. lol thats absolutely hilarious advice. yeah she might be into the whole "hard to get" thing or might like a jerk, but this is slightly over the top. 99% of the time if you do something like this its going to get really ugly haha | ||
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raja91
Canada28 Posts
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Tegin
United States840 Posts
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SpoR
United States1542 Posts
On June 14 2011 11:46 qzmpwxno wrote: lol thats absolutely hilarious advice. yeah she might be into the whole "hard to get" thing or might like a jerk, but this is slightly over the top. 99% of the time if you do something like this its going to get really ugly haha well 50% of the time this will work, the other half she will just drop you. So it doesn't really work if you're really into a particular person. raja91, I know exactly what you mean. I always feel like I'm the one calling or texting first. Even if she has invited me somewhere previously. Its pretty lame because I feel clingy or needy because of it. | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On June 14 2011 08:26 raja91 wrote: I been on 1 double date with a girl. I always initate the text messages like once a day, but i sort of feel like i m trying to hard to make this work. She responds to all my text in few minutes positively. Tell me your experience with initiating text messages with girls  i need some help lolSo...you went on a double date and now you text every day?! I know I'm not the only one who feels this is a tad bit creepy... If you seriously want to see if something will work ask her on a one-on-one date. If that's too much then ask her to hang out. In the very least be doing SOMETHING in person. You have to do more than text message to cultivate any kind of meaningful relationship. Text messaging, while an effective means of communication, removes another level of intamacy (face-to-face dialogue) and leaves you more likely to build up some alternate reality that only exists in your head... On June 14 2011 11:22 dRaW wrote: You gotta do the door test bro, it's all about the door test... + Show Spoiler + http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HAJdqzRM6Dw Awesome movie! 3 points!!! | ||
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itachisan
Canada109 Posts
On June 14 2011 11:57 Tegin wrote: If you like her id stop texting her for a few days. If she doesn't text you within a few days you now know how much she really wants to talk to you. If that's the case then move on and just be friends. This man speaks the truth. | ||
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BenKen
United States860 Posts
On June 14 2011 08:55 Rekrul wrote: with some girls if u text too much it turns them off, and its better to wait with some girls if u just wait around they forget you and/or think u don't like them cuz u didn't text BUT: 1. it's all random and based off variables u can not know 2. calling a girl with a purpose and a plan is usually better than gay texting and most importantly: 3. if you made a good first impression on her (and no, her giving you her number does not mean you accomplished this) then it does not fucken matter if you text her first or wait for her to text you Listen to Rekrul. | ||
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Razith
Canada431 Posts
There's a fine line between too much attention and not enough, as Rekrul stated above quite nicely. So I just call her up / text her when I want to do something, but other than that, I usually keep it pretty quiet. If its been a day or so without any communication I often get something like "I miss you!" from her. So as far as initiating texting, it doesn't matter, but probably the guy more often because girls like a guy who can make decisions and show them a good time. | ||
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~ava
Canada379 Posts
On June 14 2011 12:00 SpoR wrote: well 50% of the time this will work, the other half she will just drop you. So it doesn't really work if you're really into a particular person. raja91, I know exactly what you mean. I always feel like I'm the one calling or texting first. Even if she has invited me somewhere previously. Its pretty lame because I feel clingy or needy because of it. | ||
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Sc1pio
United States823 Posts
On June 14 2011 09:57 jlim wrote: Poll: best (written) way to woo women? letters (33) text messages (6) 39 total votes Your vote: best (written) way to woo women? i am genuinely curious about that; i've always liked both yet never seen either as optimal, so maybe popular wisdom can help me with that I once asked a girl out via letter. + Show Spoiler + It didn't work | ||
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Ryuu314
United States12679 Posts
On June 14 2011 11:57 Tegin wrote: If you like her id stop texting her for a few days. If she doesn't text you within a few days you now know how much she really wants to talk to you. If that's the case then move on and just be friends. Do this. And/or listen to Rekrul. You don't want to seem too clingy. Let her initiate texts sometimes. It's okay to initiate to show u have interest, but you don't want to overdo it. | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9056 Posts
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VIB
Brazil3567 Posts
Just ask her if her dad is alive. If he is, then move to the next girl. I know it because I saw it on family guy. | ||
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ShoCkeyy
7815 Posts
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fenner
United Kingdom163 Posts
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deathly rat
United Kingdom911 Posts
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Ephemerality
United States203 Posts
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Endymion
United States3701 Posts
Also, all of these chumps are newbies. You have to 1. not text her first, 2. not text her second.. If you get a double text, you know you're in the gold. | ||
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