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Obviously, if you both view it the same way, you'll never message each other, regardless of interest. Everyone always wants to test the other person. You can't be hung up or expectant of them in that regard. If you're interested in talking, send a message; if they reply, great. If they don't, don't assume the worst.
Good words.
Another thing for all you younglings to consider is this.
If a girl likes you and is inexperienced, she will respond amiably and relatively quickly to your tests.
If a girl likes you and is more experienced, she will know how dangerous it is to be completely obvious with her feelings. -> slow // null response
If a girl likes you and is shy, she will not know how to respond to random statements like, 'Just got out of car and made a sandwich ^_^'. --> slow // null response.
Girls are interesting creatures that believe in horoscopes. Thus they expect you to 'get them.'
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Send her really lewd texts and then if she reacts negatively apologize and say it was your friend that sent them from your phone.
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On June 14 2011 08:57 Elegy wrote:
Texting is one of the great failures of the human race.
I long for the days when a real man would pen a letter on yellowed parchment to a fair maiden, speaking of how her flaxen hair and heaving bosom are akin to the moon and the stars, and how the ocean can be seen in her deep blue eyes.
Some girls swoon at that shit, but normal girls, and my girl, vomit at it. Get real bro.
Also Brown eyes win. Shalalalalalallalalalalalalalaladeedah.
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On June 14 2011 09:08 Lemonwalrus wrote:
Don't listen to chef, he once made me a chicken dinner and while quite savory it was a bit dry. Definitely not what I would expect from someone with his moniker. On the whole a disappointing night.
Don't listen to chef! That chicken was my brother 
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What is with this text messaging? Obviously writing a hand written letter and mailing it to her would get a better response. I mean you can buy stamps that have a smiley face on them too.
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On June 14 2011 09:37 stephenkingfan wrote:
Obviously, if you both view it the same way, you'll never message each other, regardless of interest. Everyone always wants to test the other person. You can't be hung up or expectant of them in that regard. If you're interested in talking, send a message; if they reply, great. If they don't, don't assume the worst.
Good words.
Another thing for all you younglings to consider is this.
If a girl likes you and is inexperienced, she will respond amiably and relatively quickly to your tests.
If a girl likes you and is more experienced, she will know how dangerous it is to be completely obvious with her feelings. -> slow // null response
If a girl likes you and is shy, she will not know how to respond to random statements like, 'Just got out of car and made a sandwich ^_^'. --> slow // null response.
Girls are interesting creatures that believe in horoscopes. Thus they expect you to 'get them.'
This is great news since it sounds like there is no chance of the girl not liking you.
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On June 14 2011 09:39 micronesia wrote:
Send her really lewd texts and then if she reacts negatively apologize and say it was your friend that sent them from your phone.
Genius!!
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On June 14 2011 09:53 Chef wrote:Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 09:37 stephenkingfan wrote:
Obviously, if you both view it the same way, you'll never message each other, regardless of interest. Everyone always wants to test the other person. You can't be hung up or expectant of them in that regard. If you're interested in talking, send a message; if they reply, great. If they don't, don't assume the worst.
Good words.
Another thing for all you younglings to consider is this.
If a girl likes you and is inexperienced, she will respond amiably and relatively quickly to your tests.
If a girl likes you and is more experienced, she will know how dangerous it is to be completely obvious with her feelings. -> slow // null response
If a girl likes you and is shy, she will not know how to respond to random statements like, 'Just got out of car and made a sandwich ^_^'. --> slow // null response.
Girls are interesting creatures that believe in horoscopes. Thus they expect you to 'get them.'
This is great news since it sounds like there is no chance of the girl not liking you.
That is how it is for the rest of us. You wouldn't understand.
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On June 14 2011 08:57 Elegy wrote:
Texting is one of the great failures of the human race.
I long for the days when a real man would pen a letter on yellowed parchment to a fair maiden, speaking of how her flaxen hair and heaving bosom are akin to the moon and the stars, and how the ocean can be seen in her deep blue eyes.
On June 14 2011 09:34 noobcakes wrote:
Yeah...you were born in the wrong century bro.
On June 14 2011 09:40 Trufflez wrote:
Some girls swoon at that shit, but normal girls, and my girl, vomit at it. Get real bro.
Also Brown eyes win. Shalalalalalallalalalalalalalaladeedah.
On June 14 2011 09:48 Kralic wrote:
What is with this text messaging? Obviously writing a hand written letter and mailing it to her would get a better response. I mean you can buy stamps that have a smiley face on them too.
Poll: best (written) way to woo women?letters (33) 85% text messages (6) 15% 39 total votes Your vote: best (written) way to woo women? (Vote): text messages
(Vote): letters
i am genuinely curious about that; i've always liked both yet never seen either as optimal, so maybe popular wisdom can help me with that
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^^100% depends on the girl. I know a few girls that would probably go batshit over a guy if he sent them a letter, but most girls I know would at most think it was kinda cute...maybe.
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On June 14 2011 09:57 jlim wrote:Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 08:57 Elegy wrote:
Texting is one of the great failures of the human race.
I long for the days when a real man would pen a letter on yellowed parchment to a fair maiden, speaking of how her flaxen hair and heaving bosom are akin to the moon and the stars, and how the ocean can be seen in her deep blue eyes.
Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 09:34 noobcakes wrote:
Yeah...you were born in the wrong century bro. Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 09:40 Trufflez wrote:
Some girls swoon at that shit, but normal girls, and my girl, vomit at it. Get real bro.
Also Brown eyes win. Shalalalalalallalalalalalalalaladeedah. Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 09:48 Kralic wrote:
What is with this text messaging? Obviously writing a hand written letter and mailing it to her would get a better response. I mean you can buy stamps that have a smiley face on them too. Poll: best (written) way to woo women?letters (33) 85% text messages (6) 15% 39 total votes Your vote: best (written) way to woo women? (Vote): text messages
(Vote): letters
i am genuinely curious about that; i've always liked both yet never seen either as optimal, so maybe popular wisdom can help me with that
yeah i wasnt being serious with my post, in case that wasn't clear.
anyway, gushy romanticism is probably not the best way to go.
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Yeah most girls i know would groan and be like duuuuude you suck at this, just be normal.
Brown eyes win, yet again. Shalalalalalalalalalalalalaladeedah
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On June 14 2011 08:29 andeh wrote:
send that bitch a smiley face
bitches love smiley faces
its all about the winky faces, bitches love winkey faces
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On June 14 2011 09:58 Lemonwalrus wrote:
^^100% depends on the girl. I know a few girls that would probably go batshit over a guy if he sent them a letter, but most girls I know would at most think it was kinda cute...maybe.
I don't think it really does depend on the girl.
From my experience, I would say that most girls would love a handwritten letter from a boyfriend and would find it extremely cute. However, I think that most girls would find a handwritten letter quite weird before the "well-established relationship" stage.
I feel like it's the same thing as buying a present for her out of the blue. Cute if you're already dating, but obsessive if you're courting her.
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On June 14 2011 10:04 Elegy wrote:+ Show Spoiler +On June 14 2011 09:57 jlim wrote:Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 08:57 Elegy wrote:
Texting is one of the great failures of the human race.
I long for the days when a real man would pen a letter on yellowed parchment to a fair maiden, speaking of how her flaxen hair and heaving bosom are akin to the moon and the stars, and how the ocean can be seen in her deep blue eyes.
Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 09:34 noobcakes wrote:
Yeah...you were born in the wrong century bro. Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 09:40 Trufflez wrote:
Some girls swoon at that shit, but normal girls, and my girl, vomit at it. Get real bro.
Also Brown eyes win. Shalalalalalallalalalalalalalaladeedah. Show nested quote +On June 14 2011 09:48 Kralic wrote:
What is with this text messaging? Obviously writing a hand written letter and mailing it to her would get a better response. I mean you can buy stamps that have a smiley face on them too. Poll: best (written) way to woo women?letters (33) 85% text messages (6) 15% 39 total votes Your vote: best (written) way to woo women? (Vote): text messages
(Vote): letters
i am genuinely curious about that; i've always liked both yet never seen either as optimal, so maybe popular wisdom can help me with that yeah i wasnt being serious with my post, in case that wasn't clear. anyway, gushy romanticism is probably not the best way to go.
i guessed so, but i used it anyways as an excuse to expose my existential doubt about written wooing
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On June 14 2011 08:55 Rekrul wrote:
2. calling a girl with a purpose and a plan is usually better than gay texting
This a thousand times.
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On June 14 2011 08:55 Rekrul wrote:
with some girls if u text too much it turns them off, and its better to wait
with some girls if u just wait around they forget you and/or think u don't like them cuz u didn't text
BUT:
1. it's all random and based off variables u can not know
2. calling a girl with a purpose and a plan is usually better than gay texting
and most importantly:
3. if you made a good first impression on her (and no, her giving you her number does not mean you accomplished this) then it does not fucken matter if you text her first or wait for her to text you
truth. I have been noticing lately that girls that I aim or text throughout the day don't really care even though they like the social crap.
You have to just call them, and don't just chat to chat.
I never did that shit with my ex and the relationship lasted 4 years. I was doing everything the opposite with this new girl and it lasted like 2 months.
PS- the main thing about texting is that its weak. It shows more confidence and obviously you can make a better impression talking etc.
Use texting mainly as it was designed. A tool for when you can't make a phone call to say something important. If you are able to make a phone call but it's not worth calling to say 1 simple (useless?) thing then don't text or call.
And I wouldn't write a love letter unless you were already well invested in a relationship.
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Why you gotta over-think it? If you wanna text do it
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Focus on meeting as many people as possible since you are single. This will distract you from texting every day. Also you will go on more dates, get experience etc., and when she texts you asking what you're up to you can tell her you're on a date, if she has any interest in you she will flip out and ask you out.
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