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LazyMacro

976 Posts

December 03 2010 21:27 GMT

#41

On December 04 2010 05:27 Kyuukyuu wrote:
i have close female friends too

they don't sit in my lap for 5 hours though

Yeah, I think that's a big thing here. Obviously she feels something towards the OP.

I think it's a situation of basically they're friends, but they want to be more than friends, but the distance would kill the relationship, but both she and he are mature enough to not get into a relationship destined to fail.

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Divinek

Canada4045 Posts

December 03 2010 22:56 GMT

#42

LDR's only work if you are together more than not, OR, failing that have concrete plans where you'll actually be able to be together, like live together etc in the not toooo distant future.

PUPATREE

340 Posts

December 04 2010 02:00 GMT

#43

You're already together. Like, maybe not with the whole boyfriend girlfriend title or making out or any of that, but really now. You've both shown how close you are when together, and you talk to each other regularly enough on skype to the point where it's no longer that just-when-at-home thing. You're probably the only guy she has actual interest in, just like she is for you. The way you two interact, there's no room for interest in other people to develop. As long as you keep talking to her as you do and meeting up over breaks, the feelings won't subside.

How I see it, you can either push the relationship forward, stay where you're at, or withdraw. Given your situation, all of those would suck. u lose haaaaaa

Oh and if she's ever had anything else going on, it's probably either been in the period of time from when she first got to school to that Christmas break, or during a ~3.5 week or longer gap in skype calls. not that it should matter much

Tin_Foil

United States243 Posts

December 04 2010 03:26 GMT

#44

I met my would be wife just before leaving for college, but didn't pursue to avoid a long distance relationship, even though we really liked each other. This resulted in her giving up on me and dating another guy for over a year while I fell for her anyway, as we had become good friends.

Anyway, she dropped the other guy, and I knew better this time. We were long distance for the 1st 6 months and for another 6 months right after we got engaged, long distance relationships aren't too easy, but with a good friend you can talk too, they can work out great.

Also, to many people in this thread, not all girls(or guys) are having sex just because they are in college, or dating, many people still wait fir marriage, or at least a comitted relationship.

My point is that if you guys work and talk well together, all that good stuff, go for it.

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