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On May 15 2010 05:03 coltrane wrote:
Many people are being so concerned about it...
Getting an implant is not so different as a tattoo.
She needs to be sure about some change in her body that is suposed to last all of her life. I think that if you can trust your girlfriend's judgement about it, no one here should say a shit about it. Its your girl... and most important, its her body. If she is allright with it, she doesnt need any more, and if she asks you about it, is because you have a good relationship where you both can talk about your fears and wishes.
I want to say you that your blog post made me happy, and I hope that if she made the surgery either of you are going to regret later. Good luck and have fun (with the new boobs)
5/5 for the honesty and because i love TL
edit: if you are really like her, is she whom you find sexy, not her boobs. If she is made up about it, support her and help her to know her new body.
No, it's not the same as taking a tattoo. Tattoo is a tattoo, always, but when it comes to breasts theres natural and fake ones. There is no "fake tattoos".
Most men don't prefer fake tits to smaller real ones btw, or care much of breast size if they're nice shape and feel... So yes, if she takes them she will be doing it mainly for herself, she will look sexier mostly in her own head. :D
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On May 16 2010 01:01 JohannesH wrote:Show nested quote +On May 15 2010 05:03 coltrane wrote:
Many people are being so concerned about it...
Getting an implant is not so different as a tattoo.
She needs to be sure about some change in her body that is suposed to last all of her life. I think that if you can trust your girlfriend's judgement about it, no one here should say a shit about it. Its your girl... and most important, its her body. If she is allright with it, she doesnt need any more, and if she asks you about it, is because you have a good relationship where you both can talk about your fears and wishes.
I want to say you that your blog post made me happy, and I hope that if she made the surgery either of you are going to regret later. Good luck and have fun (with the new boobs)
5/5 for the honesty and because i love TL
edit: if you are really like her, is she whom you find sexy, not her boobs. If she is made up about it, support her and help her to know her new body. No, it's not the same as taking a tattoo. Tattoo is a tattoo, always, but when it comes to breasts theres natural and fake ones. There is no "fake tattoos". Most men don't prefer fake tits to smaller real ones btw, or care much of breast size if they're nice shape and feel... So yes, if she takes them she will be doing it mainly for herself, she will look sexier mostly in her own head. :D
And when she's wearing clothes and nobody can tell that they're not real, which I dare say is probably most of the time.
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that's interesting that a girl would get breast implants just to move up to a B cup, i find this alot better use of something like this than the typical slut who gets DD's, so good for her
random question, do you know how much something like that costs? I've always had some made up figure in my head like 10k, but ive never personally known anyone who has had it done
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Not sure about the fake boobs, but going to korea sounds good to me. Just make sure you check the doctor's credentials wherever you go like others said. also, B cups sound good if she's a small girl, glad she didn't decide on something outrageous.
Oh and I support your decision to support her decision, so many people on TL who just posted don't have GFs and have never even seen another woman irl, so I would just ignore their "I want natural boobs only!" posts.
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On May 16 2010 03:20 Zidane wrote:
Not sure about the fake boobs, but going to korea sounds good to me. Just make sure you check the doctor's credentials wherever you go like others said. also, B cups sound good if she's a small girl, glad she didn't decide on something outrageous.
Oh and I support your decision to support her decision, so many people on TL who just posted don't have GFs and have never even seen another woman irl, so I would just ignore their "I want natural boobs only!" posts.
I smell a profuse masturbator. Guy is the only one with advice who has "seen" a woman "irl". Pitiful post.
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Usually this is a sign of low self-confidence, which unfortunately will not be fixed with surgery. Whatever decision she chooses to make in this particular regard, tread carefully.
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I don't blame her for wanting bigger boobs. It's like guys wanting a bigger penis, except it's not as easy lol. Plus, if you asked any girl if they would have their boobs done for free, almost everyone would prolly take it as long as they were guaranteed to come out alive.
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Unless they're really really small, I wouldn't like it. It looks and feels crap. Your GF would probably be happy if you told her you liked her as she is, then again if you want some big ass tits, congrats 
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Ughhhhh wish it wasn't an issue for girls to have small boobs. Sure, big boobs are fine... but there's much more important things to think about.
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Norway28650 Posts
no offense to your girlfriend (well that's not entirely true I guess)
but if she wants implants then you have other things to worry about than the implants specifically
like her vanity and gross lack of self-esteem
assuming she's not a cancer patient or something, then it's cool
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I agree with Drone..by reading these replies, I get the feeling that boob size matters to us like penis size matters to girls..but who knows im just a random retard.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On May 16 2010 06:31 Liquid`Drone wrote:
no offense to your girlfriend (well that's not entirely true I guess)
but if she wants implants then you have other things to worry about than the implants specifically
like her vanity and gross lack of self-esteem
assuming she's not a cancer patient or something, then it's cool
yaaaaa this would never fly with me unless it was some kinda fake relationship that i didn't really care about
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I agree with those other guys with colored names
but that doesn't mean i think the situations is particularly dire
tons of people have major vanity issues
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On May 16 2010 07:15 travis wrote:
I agree with those other guys with colored names
but that doesn't mean i think the situations is particularly dire
tons of people have major vanity issues
well yeah you're telling me if you had a one inch dick and there was a surgery to increase it to whatever you wanted you wouldnt go for it?
Though that's a bit backwards since it's not visible all the time and entirely a pleasure center as opposed to something people always look at
but i think the self esteem thing would be the same in both
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On May 16 2010 07:15 travis wrote:
I agree with those other guys with colored names
but that doesn't mean i think the situations is particularly dire
tons of people have major vanity issues
ya, on the other hand, sometimes u just gotta let the girl do what she wants
but on the other other hand a. fake boobs make it worse for you and b. what is she trying to accomplish? attract more guys? lol
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On May 15 2010 05:22 Wr3k wrote:Because I respect her wishes and provided she is sure about it and not doing it for anyone but herself I think stopping her would be selfish. It's not my body to decide what to do with.
It's not your body but she might change her mind if you tell her you'll break up if she does those implants. 'Not doing it for anyone but herself' is what you hear often regarding this and it couldn't be more wrong. Everything you modify externally with your body, be it clothes, make-up or implants or tatoo's is FOR OTHER PEOPLE. If she does it then at least have her admit she isn't doing it for herself because she doesn't seem to know the reason behind her insecurity...
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