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Experience with breast implants?
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Wr3k
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CrownRoyal
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ella_guru
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Like, really. It makes all the difference (or at least, it will to her) on how she feels about herself after (visible scarring , symmetry etc) | ||
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Shrine
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Nothing beats natural's. And not anorexic is a +. | ||
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The6357
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Wr3k
Canada2533 Posts
On May 15 2010 04:42 ella_guru wrote: Find a _good_ surgeon. Like, really. It makes all the difference (or at least, it will to her) on how she feels about herself after (visible scarring , symmetry etc) Yeah, shes had a couple friends who have had breast reduction surgery and have absolutely no scarring, so shes planning on going with a consultation with the same surgeon. Plus some of my family also know the surgeon and hes apparently really good at what he does. | ||
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Wr3k
Canada2533 Posts
On May 15 2010 04:42 CrownRoyal wrote: big boobs are good nomnom Shes planning on getting B cups. Shes a pretty small girl and shes more or less flat, to quote her: "I'm not gonna get huge ones *laugh* I wouldn't be able to stand up". | ||
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ella_guru
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On May 15 2010 04:46 Shrine wrote: Small boobs are good. Nothing beats natural's. And not anorexic is a +. I dont think you understand the reason for some girl's getting them. | ||
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GunSlinger
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Wr3k
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On May 15 2010 04:49 GunSlinger wrote: The first step: Plastic tits. The second? Plastic face. And before you know it you are having sex with a cyborg. Yeah, I had a conversation about this with her like "After this you aren't gonna want more and more surgery right?". I dunno, the whole thing just concerns me. | ||
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coltrane
Chile988 Posts
You will notice the difference, but they are fine, anyway. In health matters, no one can surely knows what could happen in something like 40 years, but yes, saline are (as far as I could know) the safest choice right now. Anyway, I wouldnt be much happy if my girlfriend wanted to get an implant. It would be her decision anyway, but i would let her to know that I dont want that. Anyway, my girflriend has big boobs. Hope everything goes right. Good luck to your gf. | ||
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Try
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o[twist]
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ella_guru
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Wr3k
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On May 15 2010 04:54 o[twist] wrote: loooool my advice is enjoy it lol, I'm just worried about her thats all. | ||
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o[twist]
United States4903 Posts
you can never save women who do shit like this from themselves, just enjoy the perks of the insecurity and play with the tits when she gets em. | ||
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Wr3k
Canada2533 Posts
On May 15 2010 04:55 ella_guru wrote: I think you should make sure to multitple times sit her down and reconsider and assure her how attractive she is to you. You dont want it to be an insecurity issue, because it wont stop. I have, shes made it completely clear that shes only doing it for herself and not me. She explained to me that its the only part of her body that she is insecure about and that she just wants to be able to fill out a bathing suit, and that shes always planned on getting them since her entire family has no boobs. I've told her many times that I find her extremely sexy and that I don't think she needs them at all, and she believes it, I just don't think my opinion on the matter has any sway. I really hope it makes her happy and that is the end of it so to speak. | ||
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coltrane
Chile988 Posts
Getting an implant is not so different as a tattoo. She needs to be sure about some change in her body that is suposed to last all of her life. I think that if you can trust your girlfriend's judgement about it, no one here should say a shit about it. Its your girl... and most important, its her body. If she is allright with it, she doesnt need any more, and if she asks you about it, is because you have a good relationship where you both can talk about your fears and wishes. I want to say you that your blog post made me happy, and I hope that if she made the surgery either of you are going to regret later. Good luck and have fun (with the new boobs) 5/5 for the honesty and because i love TL edit: if you are really like her, is she whom you find sexy, not her boobs. If she is made up about it, support her and help her to know her new body. | ||
disciple
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coltrane
Chile988 Posts
On May 15 2010 05:08 disciple wrote: I've met a girl with fake boobs a while back, she was visiting the econometrics lecture so I guess it was kind of natural to talk to her. She was pretty nice and from what I can tell smart as well. The boobs thou were way too big for her, disturbing the proportions of her body. I could help asking myself, why she needed the boobs in first place, and if going for it, why so huge. I think it will be a big problem for her to communicate normally in a typical social environment - its just super difficult not to stare at her boobs and I guess ppl will never take her seriously Maybe she got them because she wants to use them as a weapon... being smart and having such a notorius advantage at a serious talk with average males... I suppose more than one over here have an extremly hot friend that uses her hotness to get things from males she doesnt know/care about. I do. I suppose even more have played a female char on a MMORPG... I have... | ||
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mmp
United States2130 Posts
Women are very insecure about their bodies, I'd say more so than most men. You should be supporting her with reasons to respect herself - otherwise you're admitting that there is some flaw that needs to be corrected, which I think is disgusting and reflects just how much pressure women are under to hate their bodies. | ||
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Wr3k
Canada2533 Posts
On May 15 2010 05:17 mmp wrote: Why don't you try to talk her out of it? Because I respect her wishes and provided she is sure about it and not doing it for anyone but herself I think stopping her would be selfish. It's not my body to decide what to do with. | ||
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mmp
United States2130 Posts
On May 15 2010 05:22 Wr3k wrote: Because I respect her wishes and provided she is sure about it and not doing it for anyone but herself I think stopping her would be selfish. I don't think you can seriously believe that she's doing it "for herself." Of course not, it's to make an impression on a society that judges her first by her looks, second by her confidence, and third by her intellect. Let me ask you this: if you felt that your penis wasn't up to womens' preference in size, would you get surgery? Not as likely, because this information isn't advertised to the world by the shape of your clothing, it doesn't impact your likelihood of getting a job or making new friends, and people need to meet you as a person before they "get to know you better." Women are the victims here, and nodding to this sexism is counterproductive - and how old is your gf? She may very likely regret this decision in 5 or 10 years when she's more mature. | ||
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Biochemist
United States1008 Posts
On May 15 2010 04:42 ella_guru wrote: Find a _good_ surgeon. Like, really. It makes all the difference (or at least, it will to her) on how she feels about herself after (visible scarring , symmetry etc) The challenge in plastic surgery is all in reconstructive. You could train a monkey to do a boob job. | ||
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semantics
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On May 15 2010 04:49 GunSlinger wrote: The first step: Plastic tits. The second? Plastic face. And before you know it you are having sex with a cyborg. I would have gone to becoming a blow up doll imo. | ||
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iMarshall
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goswser
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Wr3k
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On May 15 2010 05:25 mmp wrote: I don't think you can seriously believe that she's doing it "for herself." Of course not, it's to make an impression on a society that judges her first by her looks, second by her confidence, and third by her intellect. Let me ask you this: if you felt that your penis wasn't up to womens' preference in size, would you get surgery? Not as likely, because this information isn't advertised to the world by the shape of your clothing, it doesn't impact your likelihood of getting a job or making new friends, and people need to meet you as a person before they "get to know you better." Women are the victims here, and nodding to this sexism is counterproductive - and how old is your gf? She may very likely regret this decision in 5 or 10 years when she's more mature. When I say "for herself" I mean for her own satisfaction in feeling more attractive to the opposite sex as opposed to doing it for me. If I was going to get penis enlargement surgery I would be doing it for my own satisfaction of knowing I have a large penis. The decision to do so may be a subconscious result of societal pressure, but if it makes me happy then why not. There always has been and always will be a societal perception of what is attractive, and I agree that it is unfortunate when it becomes twisted and inaccurate, but the reality of the matter is that men find women with breasts more attractive on average. I think my girlfriend is beautiful and sexy the way she is, but ultimately its her decision to make, and if it makes her feel better about her body than who am I to argue. She is an intelligent, strong minded woman, and I respect her decision. Also, about the penis issue, if anything its just as much of an issue as breast size. There was an intersting documentary about penis size posted on TL.net a few months ago if you are curious I'm sure you can find it. Also: If you read the OP, I made this blog post to ask about experiences people have had with girlfriends/family getting implants and maybe give me a heads up for what to expect recovery wise. None of these questions have been answered, and I didn't make this thread to discuss whether or not it is right for her to get implants or the societal expectations placed on women. | ||
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Wr3k
Canada2533 Posts
On May 15 2010 06:10 Newguy wrote: How big of implants is she getting? Update thread with pictures please. I suggest Dr. Raul Carceras, from Manhattan, New York, not sure if I spelled the name right, but you live in Canada so he probably wouldn't be your first choice. Shes getting B cups, the Surgeon has a great reputation and is on the board of directors for the Canadian Society of Plastic Surgeons, so I'm not concerned about that. There will be no pictures lol. | ||
Chill
Calgary25980 Posts
I'd suggest you search around http://www.shacknews.com/latestchatty.x since it's a more mature crowd and I remember seeing many personal experiences about implants there. http://www.shacknews.com/search.x?type=comments&terms=implants wife&cs_user=&cs_parentauthor=&s_type=all Try that? Some sample threads: http://www.shacknews.com/laryn.x?id=20965393#itemanchor_20965393 http://www.shacknews.com/laryn.x?id=11278665#itemanchor_11278665 http://www.shacknews.com/laryn.x?id=13052676#itemanchor_13052676 | ||
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Wr3k
Canada2533 Posts
On May 15 2010 06:36 Chill wrote: I think like 10% of TL is above 22. The likelihood of finding advice about implants here is so small. I'd suggest you search around http://www.shacknews.com/latestchatty.x since it's a more mature crowd and I remember seeing many personal experiences about implants there. http://www.shacknews.com/search.x?type=comments&terms=implants wife&cs_user=&cs_parentauthor=&s_type=all Try that? Some sample threads: http://www.shacknews.com/laryn.x?id=20965393#itemanchor_20965393 http://www.shacknews.com/laryn.x?id=11278665#itemanchor_11278665 http://www.shacknews.com/laryn.x?id=13052676#itemanchor_13052676 Thanks chill. | ||
FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
On May 15 2010 05:17 mmp wrote: Why don't you try to talk her out of it? Women are very insecure about their bodies, I'd say more so than most men. You should be supporting her with reasons to respect herself - otherwise you're admitting that there is some flaw that needs to be corrected, which I think is disgusting and reflects just how much pressure women are under to hate their bodies. i hate most women's bodies | ||
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skyeyesattelite
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condoriano
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Kingfisher
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On May 15 2010 04:49 GunSlinger wrote: The first step: Plastic tits. The second? Plastic face. And before you know it you are having sex with a cyborg. Or a Korean. All Koreans are barbies. | ||
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Biochemist
United States1008 Posts
On May 15 2010 07:42 condoriano wrote: I find this repulsive, maybe because I love small breast. Instant turnoff. Same here. Somewhere between an A and a B I think is perfect. Also enhanced breasts tend to have this spherical shape that is totally not attractive at all. | ||
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meteorskunk
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sutureself
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XiaoJoyce-
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It is better to be natural. Natural looks the best, be it big or small.  Surgery cost money, and there is risk. What happens if you spend so much money and then it ended up so ugly. There is no turning back. What if something went wrong, and then ended up with wierd wierd shape. Yea, about the shape. Natural breast is a bun shape. Firm and nice. The breast implant makes breast more like ball shape. Ah, maybe find those breast implant photo, you will understand. It doesn't feel right  . WWE girls are the best example kkkk.I remember I spend alot money buying things I always wanted, but after a few days I felt nothing special about it. Better not spend the money. It doesn't help Ah, maybe I wrote all these because I biased..I like natural.... Never mind, I'll post it anyway. | ||
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condoriano
United States826 Posts
On May 15 2010 14:04 XiaoJoyce- wrote: Noo, it is not good. It is better to be natural. Natural looks the best, be it big or small. Surgery cost money, and there is risk. What happens if you spend so much money and then it ended up so ugly. There is no turning back. What if something went wrong, and then ended up with wierd wierd shape. Yea, about the shape. Natural breast is a bun shape. Firm and nice. The breast implant makes breast more like ball shape. Ah, maybe find those breast implant photo, you will understand. It doesn't feel right . WWE girls are the best example kkkk.I remember I spend alot money buying things I always wanted, but after a few days I felt nothing special about it. Better not spend the money. It doesn't help Ah, maybe I wrote all these because I biased..I like natural.... Never mind, I'll post it anyway. Lol you are too cute OPs girlfriend doesn't understand that the change is permanent, even if she wants her natural perky breast back she will have scars for the rest of her life, no matter how good the surgeon is. Once you've done the surgery you've forever branded yourself with it and joined millions of insecure females that desperately tried plastic surgery. Why won't she ask herself if she is that bad? Unless her breast was deformed or completely ugly I would never want that to happen. | ||
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JohannesH
Finland1364 Posts
On May 15 2010 05:03 coltrane wrote: Many people are being so concerned about it... Getting an implant is not so different as a tattoo. She needs to be sure about some change in her body that is suposed to last all of her life. I think that if you can trust your girlfriend's judgement about it, no one here should say a shit about it. Its your girl... and most important, its her body. If she is allright with it, she doesnt need any more, and if she asks you about it, is because you have a good relationship where you both can talk about your fears and wishes. I want to say you that your blog post made me happy, and I hope that if she made the surgery either of you are going to regret later. Good luck and have fun (with the new boobs) 5/5 for the honesty and because i love TL edit: if you are really like her, is she whom you find sexy, not her boobs. If she is made up about it, support her and help her to know her new body. No, it's not the same as taking a tattoo. Tattoo is a tattoo, always, but when it comes to breasts theres natural and fake ones. There is no "fake tattoos". Most men don't prefer fake tits to smaller real ones btw, or care much of breast size if they're nice shape and feel... So yes, if she takes them she will be doing it mainly for herself, she will look sexier mostly in her own head. :D | ||
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Biochemist
United States1008 Posts
On May 16 2010 01:01 JohannesH wrote: No, it's not the same as taking a tattoo. Tattoo is a tattoo, always, but when it comes to breasts theres natural and fake ones. There is no "fake tattoos". Most men don't prefer fake tits to smaller real ones btw, or care much of breast size if they're nice shape and feel... So yes, if she takes them she will be doing it mainly for herself, she will look sexier mostly in her own head. :D And when she's wearing clothes and nobody can tell that they're not real, which I dare say is probably most of the time. | ||
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
random question, do you know how much something like that costs? I've always had some made up figure in my head like 10k, but ive never personally known anyone who has had it done | ||
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Zidane
United States1686 Posts
Oh and I support your decision to support her decision, so many people on TL who just posted don't have GFs and have never even seen another woman irl, so I would just ignore their "I want natural boobs only!" posts. | ||
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condoriano
United States826 Posts
On May 16 2010 03:20 Zidane wrote: Not sure about the fake boobs, but going to korea sounds good to me. Just make sure you check the doctor's credentials wherever you go like others said. also, B cups sound good if she's a small girl, glad she didn't decide on something outrageous. Oh and I support your decision to support her decision, so many people on TL who just posted don't have GFs and have never even seen another woman irl, so I would just ignore their "I want natural boobs only!" posts. I smell a profuse masturbator. Guy is the only one with advice who has "seen" a woman "irl". Pitiful post. | ||
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citi.zen
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AyeH
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Epicfailguy
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sLiniss
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Liquid`Drone
Norway28665 Posts
but if she wants implants then you have other things to worry about than the implants specifically like her vanity and gross lack of self-esteem assuming she's not a cancer patient or something, then it's cool | ||
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Epicfailguy
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On May 16 2010 06:31 Liquid`Drone wrote: no offense to your girlfriend (well that's not entirely true I guess) but if she wants implants then you have other things to worry about than the implants specifically like her vanity and gross lack of self-esteem assuming she's not a cancer patient or something, then it's cool yaaaaa this would never fly with me unless it was some kinda fake relationship that i didn't really care about | ||
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but that doesn't mean i think the situations is particularly dire tons of people have major vanity issues | ||
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Divinek
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On May 16 2010 07:15 travis wrote: I agree with those other guys with colored names but that doesn't mean i think the situations is particularly dire tons of people have major vanity issues well yeah you're telling me if you had a one inch dick and there was a surgery to increase it to whatever you wanted you wouldnt go for it? Though that's a bit backwards since it's not visible all the time and entirely a pleasure center as opposed to something people always look at but i think the self esteem thing would be the same in both | ||
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On May 16 2010 07:15 travis wrote: I agree with those other guys with colored names but that doesn't mean i think the situations is particularly dire tons of people have major vanity issues ya, on the other hand, sometimes u just gotta let the girl do what she wants but on the other other hand a. fake boobs make it worse for you and b. what is she trying to accomplish? attract more guys? lol | ||
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Shauni
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On May 15 2010 05:22 Wr3k wrote: Because I respect her wishes and provided she is sure about it and not doing it for anyone but herself I think stopping her would be selfish. It's not my body to decide what to do with. It's not your body but she might change her mind if you tell her you'll break up if she does those implants. 'Not doing it for anyone but herself' is what you hear often regarding this and it couldn't be more wrong. Everything you modify externally with your body, be it clothes, make-up or implants or tatoo's is FOR OTHER PEOPLE. If she does it then at least have her admit she isn't doing it for herself because she doesn't seem to know the reason behind her insecurity... | ||
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