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I'm 21 and shes fucking 10.
First of all, I know it's wrong and I don't want idiotic advice about fucking my cousin when she gets older.
Here's the thing, my third cousin has become really attached to me for some strange reason, I don't want to reject her outright and hurt her feelings because she doesn't yet understand the social stigma that comes with a grown man hanging around too much with a young girl. Whenever she's over at our house, the little brat keeps coming to my room ande starts chatting me up.
It's weird enough to have her on my room alone. Her father and I are cool but I think he suspects that she likes me a bit too much.
Do I explain it to her that it's wrong for me to stay around her too much? It's really awkward for me to be seen with her. Am I too paranoid? Is society forcing too many men to detach themselves from their female relatives?
I just feel that shows like to catch a predator and the insane laws about men and kids got me so scared that I can't enjoy a normal relationship with my little cousin.
 
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When they come over, you talk to their family a bit then leave? That's what I would do in your situation.
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is awesome32277 Posts
Are you sure she's like that and not just looking up to you? Maybe she takes you as a role model or something.
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Baltimore, USA22258 Posts
Haha, wow.
Talk with her father about it asap.
Anyways, it sounds like just a phase. Teenage girls go through like twenty thousand "phases".
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
Your probably being a bit to paranoid, why not talk to her father?
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On January 31 2010 11:39 Rev0lution wrote:
I just feel that shows like to catch a predator and the insane laws about men and kids got me so scared that I can't enjoy a normal relationship with my little cousin.
Yeah, it definitely sounds like it. O_O
There's absolutely nothing wrong with your cousin liking you and spending time with you. Even if it's possible that she has a 10-year-old-crush on you, that's completely normal for girls her age and she'll grow out of it.
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I honestly don't see why you are so afraid of this. You got some serious issues on your hand.
Why do you care about this so-called "social stigma" when you have done nothing wrong? Is it because you are afraid that other people might judge you because of this? Are you so afraid of what others think of you that you rather break off with her and scar her feelings as a pre-teenage girl? I think you might need to see a psychiatrist - you are the one that seriously needs help.
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Korea (South)11586 Posts
what's wrong with hanging out with ur cousin? are you saying there's signs of her being sexually attracted to you? She's 10... I'm sure she's not thinking of anything besides "wow your so cool!"
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You're being too paranoid. I doubt your family would even think that way about you unless you have some kind of messed up childhood.
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she probably just does it because hanging around parents usually isnt that fun, my cousin hangs out in my room also when she comes over because i have games and stuff she likes to play.
but if its getting (illegal) weird then yes, tell her father.
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^^^^^^^^^^^ Do people really suggest psychiatrists and shit for such small things? TL is his psychiatrist. If he was to do that it would just be him losing money. & young girls have this weird shit were they even like their family members, I know its fucking weird but w/e
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Freud would probably say your fear of being seen with her was a deep and secretive desire to have sex with your mother, cousin, and every female that you've seen.
Freud was full of bullshit anyway xP
Don't hurt her feelings, I'm sure she just has a crush on you. As Orome said, a lot of girls have a thousand trillion crushes at that age.
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On January 31 2010 11:52 writer22816 wrote:Just  Chill, seriously
ahaha wow..
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She's a kid and she's your cousin. Do you really think that everyone is going to think you're a pedo because you chat with her? If so then you're a big insecure dumbass.
ps. you're an asshole and a dumbass.
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She's 10, I don't think she knows what you're thinking. Why not just be a good cousin to her?
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From your description I see nothing wrong at all.
You have to give us more details to convince us that you're not just being paranoid.
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On January 31 2010 11:57 Cloud wrote:
ps. you're an asshole and a dumbass.
lol why are you so angry?
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I see nothing wrong with it. If your a good influence, it will benefit her.
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On January 31 2010 11:58 Orome wrote:lol why are you so angry?
Appearantly this happened to Could when he was 10.
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