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On January 31 2010 12:23 lazz wrote:
you need to chill out bro. so your cousin likes you, so what? cousin love actually isnt that bad, you justneed to ignore the social stigma attached to it. i remember when i was 17 my 15 year old 2nd cousin gave me head in a closet, it wasnt such a big deal. as long as youre not having babies i dont really see the problem with it.
WTF?
Hanging out with your 10 year old cousin seems cute. I don't see anything wrong with it. It seems like you are the one being paranoid and having unnecessary thoughts about this.
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On January 31 2010 12:23 lazz wrote:
you need to chill out bro. so your cousin likes you, so what? cousin love actually isnt that bad, you justneed to ignore the social stigma attached to it. i remember when i was 17 my 15 year old 2nd cousin gave me head in a closet, it wasnt such a big deal. as long as youre not having babies i dont really see the problem with it.
wtf... op doesnt have problems... but this is what the fuckkkkk.
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
As long as you are not having an inappropriate relationship, then it shouldn't matter how much time you spend with family. Don't let the ridiculous new generation child & adult witch-hunt scare you from enjoying time with family.
I think it's pretty normal from young cousins to have crushes on older ones, especially with that big age gap. Everything about you probably seems cool to her. Just be vocal about things, if she does something she shouldn't, just tell her.
Also communicate with your aunt/uncle. Tell them you think their daughter might have a little crush on you, so they aren't so surprised if she acts strangely around you. They will probably think it's cute and have a talk with her, like I said - I think that's normal for girls her age.
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On January 31 2010 12:23 lazz wrote:
you need to chill out bro. so your cousin likes you, so what? cousin love actually isnt that bad, you justneed to ignore the social stigma attached to it. i remember when i was 17 my 15 year old 2nd cousin gave me head in a closet, it wasnt such a big deal. as long as youre not having babies i dont really see the problem with it.
what the fuck?
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There's nothing wrong with her being interested in her cool cousin. If she does have a silly little girl crush, it'll pass, shes to shy too make the first move anyway.
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As long as you aren't attracted to her there is nothing wrong with it. Don't be so paranoid. If she likes you, so what? She is 10. Not like she is gonna try to fuck you or something.
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On January 31 2010 12:23 lazz wrote:
you need to chill out bro. so your cousin likes you, so what? cousin love actually isnt that bad, you justneed to ignore the social stigma attached to it. i remember when i was 17 my 15 year old 2nd cousin gave me head in a closet, it wasnt such a big deal. as long as youre not having babies i dont really see the problem with it.
But that can be considered statutory rape.. and you just confessed on the internet!
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If you want you can talk to her father, but I'm not entirely sure why. Unless he thinks you are doing something wrong, there's nothing to explain.
And you're being way too paranoid. She's a pre-teen with a schoolgirl crush that she will almost certainly get over at some point. If she makes a strong come-on or tries to kiss you or something, you'll have to put your foot down, but so long as she's just being friendly, let her be friendly.
Also, I get the impression that you're worried about how people see your relationship with her.... when you're in you're own home? What? If you're worried about what your relatives might think, then just leave the door to your room open whenever she's up there with you. If you're worried about what your neighbors are thinking, she's your cousin and she's perfectly welcome in your home and it's none of their fucking business.
Out in public, just treat her like you would a younger sister. Nobody should bother you.
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On January 31 2010 12:53 illu wrote:Show nested quote +On January 31 2010 12:23 lazz wrote:
you need to chill out bro. so your cousin likes you, so what? cousin love actually isnt that bad, you justneed to ignore the social stigma attached to it. i remember when i was 17 my 15 year old 2nd cousin gave me head in a closet, it wasnt such a big deal. as long as youre not having babies i dont really see the problem with it. But that can be considered statutory rape.. and you just confessed on the internet!
is it? i thought statutory rape didnt count if both were minors?
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imo It's harmless. Have fun and don't hit on her lol.
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make sure you plant a seed of trust and in 4 years she will be good to go
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On January 31 2010 13:14 hifriend wrote:
make sure you plant a seed of trust and in 4 years she will be good to go
that's what I'd do too
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
On January 31 2010 12:23 lazz wrote:
you need to chill out bro. so your cousin likes you, so what? cousin love actually isnt that bad, you justneed to ignore the social stigma attached to it. i remember when i was 17 my 15 year old 2nd cousin gave me head in a closet, it wasnt such a big deal. as long as youre not having babies i dont really see the problem with it.
hahahha
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don't let the japanese loli culture or just general pedo views get to u, she's just a kid and ur cousin that likes to hang out with u, its perfectly normal, unless ur "attracted" anyhow to her then we have a problem...
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On January 31 2010 13:20 Shizuru~ wrote:
don't let the japanese loli culture or just general pedo views get to u, she's just a kid and ur cousin that likes to hang out with u, its perfectly normal, unless ur "attracted" anyhow to her then we have a problem...
Nah what's wrong with that? I mean really, people lust for their mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, pets and his mom. Cousins aint that bad. If they end up having a love baby it will probably even come out in decent shape maybe not college material but consider it money saved
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On January 31 2010 11:47 illu wrote:
I honestly don't see why you are so afraid of this. You got some serious issues on your hand.
Why do you care about this so-called "social stigma" when you have done nothing wrong? Is it because you are afraid that other people might judge you because of this? Are you so afraid of what others think of you that you rather break off with her and scar her feelings as a pre-teenage girl? I think you might need to see a psychiatrist - you are the one that seriously needs help.
The absolutely stupid legal precedents set by countless cases and the current extreme coddling and "nanny-state" society we live in right now begs to differ. His fear are entirely well-founded and many many people have written about how in our culture right now many activities with kids and relationships with kids are basically off-limits now because everyone is paranoid and is out to find sexual predators. This is almost exclusively limited to men and their relationships with children.
What you people seem to be missing is that it is totally irrelevant whether or not he lets it get to him or whether or not he's doing anything wrong. People get in trouble for that kind of shit all the time and there's nothing they're doing wrong, they just get accused by an overzealous parent or guardian and then they are the one who has to prove they're innocent in the eyes of the public. Being accused of being a child molester or a rapist is always damaging no matter how false the accusation is. It's the same as when a female accuses a man of rape - the "power" of the accusation and of first-impressions and etc is in the hands of the accuser.
Safest bet is just to talk to the parents if you really feel uncomfortable and be 100% sure they know nothing is happening.
On January 31 2010 13:04 lazz wrote:Show nested quote +On January 31 2010 12:53 illu wrote:On January 31 2010 12:23 lazz wrote:
you need to chill out bro. so your cousin likes you, so what? cousin love actually isnt that bad, you justneed to ignore the social stigma attached to it. i remember when i was 17 my 15 year old 2nd cousin gave me head in a closet, it wasnt such a big deal. as long as youre not having babies i dont really see the problem with it. But that can be considered statutory rape.. and you just confessed on the internet! is it? i thought statutory rape didnt count if both were minors?
Varies from country to country, state to state, province to province, etc.
On January 31 2010 13:29 DoctorHelvetica wrote:
Dude have you ever been around a little girl before. Little girls look up to older guys all the fucking time, it's normal.
I take care of an 8 year old girl who wants to "marry me", my little 9 year old cousin "thinks im cute" and hangs around me all the time. When I was a little kid I wanted to hang around and impress older girls. Just play along, no one will think you're a pedo, wtf. It's probably weirder to sexualize it by saying it's bad then to just play along.
This one is significantly weirder because we know that this poster has loli-tendencies and posts pics of young (18 -), kinda ugly asian girls all the time.
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Dude have you ever been around a little girl before. Little girls look up to older guys all the fucking time, it's normal.
I take care of an 8 year old girl who wants to "marry me", my little 9 year old cousin "thinks i'm cute" and hangs around me all the time. When I was a little kid I wanted to hang around and impress older girls. It's 9 times out of 10 innocent and perfectly healthy. Just play along, no one will think you're a pedo, wtf. It's probably weirder to sexualize it by saying it's bad then to just play along.
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It's absolutely fine with that.. When she gets older, i suppose she will understand the age gap.. nothing is wrong with getting along with someone who's 10years younger than you are..
At least she's willing to confide and talk to adults..
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What is wrong with OP? -_-
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